The Dating Den

Introduction: In this episode, Sarah Walton, a dynamic business coach and sales expert, unpacks the powerful connection between money mindset and personal growth. Raised in a low-income household, Sarah knows the unspoken rules and financial beliefs that shape our lives. She brings her signature no-nonsense coaching strategies to reveal how women in business can break free from scarcity, embrace abundance, and cultivate confidence in sales and life. This conversation dives into how mindset shifts around time, money, and self-worth can transform your business and personal development journey.     Main Takeaways: Unspoken Rules Shape Financial Beliefs: Identifying inherited beliefs can help dismantle the scarcity mentality. Money is Infinite; Time is Finite: Recognizing this truth can revolutionize decision-making and time management. Confidence Drives Perceived Value: Abundance flows when you confidently own your worth and offerings.     Main Topics with Timestamps: Unspoken Rules and Scarcity Ment

Guest Introduction In today’s powerful episode, we’re joined by Marisa Peters, founder of BCM and an advocate for colorectal cancer awareness, and David Thau, a dedicated fundraiser and speaker for young-onset cancer initiatives. Both Marisa and David are cancer survivors who are transforming their experiences into a mission for change, focusing on the importance of early detection, health conversations, and self-advocacy. They share insights on managing health risks, knowing the symptoms, and taking proactive steps to protect yourself and your loved ones. Episode Topic The Life-Saving Impact of Early Detection and Family Health Advocacy in Preventing Colorectal Cancer Top Three Takeaways Early detection through screening is essential; colonoscopy remains the gold standard. Knowing your family health history can help in taking preventive actions. Self-advocacy is vital—trust your symptoms and push for answers.     Main Topics with Timestamps & Explanations 1. The Importance of Early Detection and

Guest Introduction In today’s episode, we’re joined by Joanna Kleinman, a transformative psychotherapist, leadership coach, and the founder of the MIND Method. Joanna is passionate about helping people silence the inner critic and unlock their potential through self-awareness and personal growth. Her unique approach, blending coaching with neuroscience and spirituality, empowers individuals to move beyond self-doubt and thrive in their lives. Episode Topic Dethroning the Inner Critic: How Self-Compassion and the MIND Method Lead to Lasting Transformation Top Three Takeaways Recognizing and understanding the inner critic is the first step toward change. Self-compassion is essential for breaking free from the cycle of self-criticism. The MIND Method provides a structured approach to building mental resilience and emotional strength.     Main Topics with Timestamps & Explanations 1. Identifying the Inner Critic and Its Role in Self-Sabotage (Timestamp: 7:10) Joanna explains that the inner critic is

Guest IntroductionOn today’s episode, we’re thrilled to have Thais Gibson, a leading expert in attachment theory and emotional healing with an impressive background in psychology and personal development. Thais has transformed the lives of thousands by helping people understand and heal their core wounds, leading them towards secure, fulfilling relationships. She’s here to share invaluable insights into self-awareness, relationship advice, and effective communication and boundaries.   Top Three Takeaways Attachment styles are learned, not fixed, and can be reprogrammed. Core wounds drive most of our fears in relationships, but they can be healed. Healthy boundaries and communication are essential for creating secure connections. 1. Reprogramming Attachment Styles (Timestamp: 8:15) Thais explains how attachment styles, often considered fixed, are actually learned patterns developed through childhood experiences. She emphasizes that by understanding and rewiring these patterns, one can cultivate a secur

Summary   In this episode of Life Check Yourself, Marni Battista engages in a profound conversation with Jamal Javangi, exploring the depths of human experience, the quest for survival, and the journey towards thriving. They discuss the cultural influences that shape our understanding of loneliness and suffering, the four core survival drivers that motivate human behavior, and the illusion of happiness tied to material possessions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present and finding peace within oneself to create a fulfilling life. Jamal shares insights on how to navigate internal conflicts and the significance of starting with being rather than doing to achieve true abundance and happiness.   Takeaways   Everyone wants to survive, but ultimately, we all want to thrive. The four core survival drivers are safety, freedom, significance, and love. Material possessions do not equate to happiness; it's about the feelings they represent. To achieve peace, we must confront our internal co

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Chris Gillis to the Life Check Yourself studio where they dive into the essential components that make a man fall deeply in love. Chris Gillis is a professional dating coach with a unique approach to understanding the psychology of dating. Chris brings practical insights and experience from his work with men who are actively seeking meaningful relationships. The duo discussed the importance of maintaining a balanced approach in dating—one that fosters curiosity, preserves mystery, and builds lasting self-assurance. Get ready to explore how confidence, clear intentions, and self-love play crucial roles in creating lasting connections. Key Takeaways: Creating healthy space in a relationship can amplify attraction. Meaningful dating happens through focused interaction rather than endless texting. Building a strong inner foundation leads to genuine, lasting relationships.   Creating Attraction Through Intentional Scarcity [00:15]  Scarcity in a relationship is a

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Stephanie Hessler to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Stephanie is a seasoned career coach with a rich history on Wall Street, she specializes in helping high-achieving leaders, especially women, break through career roadblocks and reach the next level of success. Today, we’re exploring how to reframe self-imposed limitations and create strategies for growth.We discussed common roadblocks many women face, such as undervaluing their achievements, not advocating for themselves, and failing to leverage important relationships. Stephanie offers actionable advice on how to shift mindset, become more strategic, and define a clear path to their desired professional future. Key Takeaways: You won’t be promoted just by doing good work. Speak up for your accomplishments. Build connections and don’t be afraid to ask for doors to be opened for you. Get crystal clear on who you want to become and start embodying that now.   1. Advocating for Yourself (4:20) Women often fall i

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Matthew Sinkovitz to the Life Check Yourself studio. Matthew is the founder of the Porn to Purpose Community, which he started in 2019 after battling pornography addiction. With years of coaching, therapy, and 12-step recovery work, Matthew is on a mission to help men transform their lives. His focus on personal and spiritual development, mindfulness, and recovery offers a powerful path for those seeking freedom from addiction. They dive deep into the complex topic of pornography addiction, its impact on relationships, and the journey to reclaim purpose. Matthew shares insights from his own recovery and discusses strategies to overcome this pervasive issue. Key Takeaways: Awareness of the Addiction Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability Purpose as a Solution to Addiction    Awareness and Denial of Addiction (12:35) Pornography addiction often thrives in secrecy and denial. Many individuals fail to recognize the extent of the problem until it severely impacts

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Heather Wiese to the Life Check Yourself studio. Heather is the founder of Bell'INVITO, a responsible luxury brand specializing in stationery and leather goods. Heather shares her journey from art direction to establishing a company that marries beauty with etiquette, and her passion for teaching the importance of thoughtful communication in our everyday interactions. Their conversation dives deep into the relevance of etiquette in today’s fast-paced world, showing that it’s not just about table manners or formal occasions—it’s about everyday respect, emotional intelligence, and intentional living. Heather breaks down how etiquette impacts our relationships, our businesses, and even our self-confidence. Her insights reveal how the smallest gestures, when done thoughtfully, can transform how we communicate and connect. Key Takeaways: Etiquette is Everywhere Intentional Living is Key Empowerment through Knowledge   Modern Etiquette (10:23) Etiquette is not abou

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Christina McMahon, PhD, a love coach and certified somatic counselor who has been empowering individuals to overcome their inner barriers to love and life through the power of somatic healing. With a background in academia, Christina made the bold decision to leave a tenured university position to follow her passion, now helping hundreds of singles embrace love in a transformative way. She’ll take us through how listening to our bodies, especially in times of change, can lead us to our most authentic selves. This episode dives deep into the concept of somatic healing and how listening to our bodies can catalyze massive life shifts. They’ll explore the idea of breaking down barriers by connecting with bodily sensations and understanding how trauma can lead to profound transformation.   Key Takeaways: Listening to Your Body Can Lead to Breakthroughs Trauma as a Pathway to Transformation Shift Happens When We Accept Our Emotions Somatics and the Body’s Signals (

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Kristal De Santis to the Life Check Yourself studio. Kristal is a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, she shares insights on masculinity, partnership dynamics, and how men can thrive in today’s shifting societal expectations. They explore the complexities of modern relationships, particularly focusing on the evolving roles of men and women. Together, the duo uncover actionable strategies to build stronger, healthier relationships based on mutual understanding and growth.   Redefining Masculinity in Modern Relationships The Importance of Emotional Safety in Love Effective Conflict Resolution and Repair Strategies   The Evolution of Masculine and Feminine Roles in Relationships [00:08:35]   In today's relationships, both men and women are navigating an unprecedented level of freedom. With traditional gender roles evolving, the challenge becomes making intentional choices that benefit both p

In this week's episode, Marni welcomes Nancy Hurley to the Life Check Yourself studio. Nancy is a seasoned marketing executive and a client of Marni. She shares her incredible journey of transforming her life, moving from a state of work overload and self-doubt to a balanced life filled with purpose and joy. Her story is a testament to the power of intentional life design, where she took bold steps to redefine her future, embrace retirement, and open new doors, all while working through the profound internal and external changes with Marni’s guidance.   The Journey of Overcoming Work Overload and Finding Balance Confronting the Fear of Retirement and Financial Insecurity Redesigning Life and Career on Your Own Terms Letting Go of Perfectionism and Delegating for Success The Importance of Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Self-Care Recognizing When Overwork Leads to Burnout – [00:10:35]   Constant overworking can drain energy and overshadow personal life. It’s important to recognize the sig

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Mary McMonagle to the Life Check Yourself studio. Mary is an intuitive healer and feminine energy coach who helps high-achieving women break free from limitations and unlock their true potential. She is also the founder of True Vibe, a spiritual lifestyle brand dedicated to guiding others toward embracing their true selves. In this episode, the duo dives into the concept of feminine energy, exploring how it manifests uniquely in each of us and why it's important to balance both masculine and feminine energy. They'll unpack why some women find it hard to access their emotional side and how society and upbringing play a role in this. They also talk about the power of vulnerability and how embracing your feminine energy can lead to deeper connections, personal growth, and a more fulfilling life. What is Feminine Energy and How Do We Overthink It? Accessing Emotions and Vulnerability Balancing Giving and Receiving in Feminine Energy What is Feminine Energy and Ho

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Mahwish Syed to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Mahwish is an award-winning fashion and interior designer, cancer survivor, and author. She shares her incredible journey of turning adversity into a powerful source of transformation. Her new book, Purgatory to Paradise: How Cancer Helped Me Design an Authentic Life, highlights how she navigated the dark times of her illness to emerge as a stronger, more authentic version of herself. In this episode, the duo dives deep into the concepts of self-love, healing, and the transformative power of our environments. Whether you're battling illness, overcoming a challenging relationship, or simply seeking more peace and joy in your daily life, Mahwish’s insights will inspire you to create beauty and harmony from the inside out. Using Adversity as a Catalyst for Change The Power of Healing Environments Reconnecting with the Inner Child and Authentic Self Using Adversity as a Catalyst for Change (08:15) Adversity often

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Katie Horwitch to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Katie is an author, speaker, mindset coach, and self-talk activist. She is the founder of WANT: Women Against Negative Talk, a platform that gives women tips, tools, motivation, and inspiration to live fearlessly by shifting their negative self-talk patterns. Her first book, Want Your Self: Shift Your Self-Talk and Unearth The Strength In Who You Were All Along, (10/3/23 Sounds True), guides you to change your self-talk at the deepest level—so you can move forward fearlessly into the life you were meant to live. The duo dive deep into the concept of self-talk—how the stories we tell ourselves shape our reality and how we can transform that narrative to live more authentically and fearlessly. They explore the challenges of overcoming negative self-talk, the importance of being honest with ourselves, and practical strategies for shifting our mindset to move forward in life. Understanding Self-Talk and Its Impact Overcom

In this week’s episode, I welcome Ashley Radzat to the Life Check Yourself studio.Ashley is a seasoned educator and certified life coach from The World Coaching Institute (WCI). She has dedicated over 20 years to helping parents and teens navigate this critical stage of life. We dive deep into the challenges and complexities of parenting teenagers in today's fast-paced world. Together, we explore the unique pressures facing today’s teenagers and how parents can effectively support their development while fostering independence.   The Impact of Over-Parenting on Teenagers The Role of Technology and Social Media in Teen Development Strategies for Empowering Teens to Face Real-World Challenges   The Impact of Over-Parenting on Teenagers [00:05:30]  Over-parenting can unintentionally send a message to teens that they are not capable of handling life’s challenges, which can lead to anxiety and dependency. "The pendulum always swings from one generation to the next...we're overcompensating for the fear

In this week's episode, I welcome Robert MacPhee to the Life Check Yourself studio.Robert MacPhee is the creator of the “Excellent Decisions” values-based leadership program and the author of “Living a Values Based Life”.He is an expert in experiential learning, peak performance, values clarification and leadership. In this episode, we’ll explore the importance of clarity, confidence, and inspired action in achieving personal and professional success. Robert shares his insights on how making excellent decisions can transform your life by aligning your actions with your core values. Whether you're striving to advance in your career, build better relationships, or simply lead a more fulfilling life, this conversation is packed with actionable advice that will help you unlock your true potential.   The Power of Clarity and Core Values Building Unshakeable Confidence Taking Inspired Action   The Power of Clarity and Core Values (08:15) Understanding and defining your core values is crucial for making

In this week’s episode, I welcome Sureya Leonara to the Life Check Yourself studio. Sureya is a holistic sex and relationship coach dedicated to healing and liberating sexuality in a way that permeates every area of our lives. In this episode, we'll explore how to cultivate sexual energy, address common sexual dysfunctions, and understand the broader impact of a healthy sex life on our overall well-being. We will dive deep into a topic that is often overlooked but crucial for living a fully expressed life: sexual vitality.     The Importance of Sexual Energy     Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Cultural Misconceptions    Practical Steps to Enhance Sexual Vitality   The Importance of Sexual Energy (00:03:40) Sexual energy is our life force, a creative vitality that permeates everything we do. Its significance is beyond just the act of sex and it affects our overall health and longevity. "Our sexual energy is our life force. It's our vitality. It's the energy that we were made out of." Addressing

In this week's episode, I welcome Tammy Mastroberte to the Life Check Yourself studio. Tammy is a bestselling and award-winning author, spiritual teacher, and wellness expert. Her mission is to empower people with simple and practical tools to thrive in everyday life and create positive change. We’ll dive into her latest book, "The Higher Help Method: Stop Trying to Manifest and Let the Universe Guide You," and explore the transformative power of connecting with a higher power. In this episode, Tammy shares insights from her new book and discusses how we can tap into higher help to navigate life's challenges and manifest our desires. We break down her approach into actionable steps, providing listeners with practical tools to enhance their spiritual journey. Defining Higher Help How to Set Intentions and Clarity How to Shift Your Energy   Defining Higher Help (00:05:01) Tammy explains the concept of higher help and how it can be personalized based on individual beliefs and practices. The Higher He