Earn Your Happy Podcast | Motivation | Self-love | Entrepreneurship | Confidence | Fitness And Life Coaching With Lori Harder

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Fun questions Evans and I have for each other Struggles as an entrepreneur Finding your own style My fashion journey + self expression   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes It’s time for another Q&A Day with Evans and I. Today you’ll hear our favorite quote for this moment, and we are flipping the script and have questions for one another to answer. We have both created a challenging question, and a fun question for each other to answer. Don’t worry! I am also answering some incredible questions that you have sent in to me.   Question Highlights: What is something you wish you could avoid in your life right now, but also know it’s what you need? If there was only one style of pizza you could order for the rest of your life, what would it be? What are you resisting right now? What was your worst haircut? “What have some of your biggest challenges been as a female entrepreneur, also, have you always known that you wanted t

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How she started her path Holiday evolution for Caty Preparing your energy for the holidays Planning the days ahead of time Gift-giving Letting go of people-pleasing Feeling resistance Tips for navigating what you want Making perspective shifts Creating new traditions Food, booze, and triggers Post-holiday self-love work   Resources: Learn more: catypasternak.com Instagram: @catypasternak Listen: Sexy Soul Radio Watch: Caty’s Youtube    Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Today Caty Pasternak, a Women’s Leadership coach + content creator, joins me on the podcast. Caty helps leaders embody new levels of evolution so that they can create lives that turn their soul ON. By providing support and strategy, Caty helps women stretch out of their comfort zone so that they can earn more, love deeper, and experience magic everyday. I just love how real and open Caty is, and her total authenticity. This is a super timely episode becaus

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Grace during the holiday season Expectations put upon us Why you should stop trying to be enough Teaching people how to treat you   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Today I felt it really necessary to talk about expectations and not being enough. We are going to flip the script a bit today though, and rather than talk about our own expectations, we are going to chat about the expectations that people have on us. On the book tour, I noticed that there were so many people who felt this nagging expectation from people in their past to keep showing up how they used to show up. We’ve all heard it, “Oh, you aren’t the same person.” Well today, I’m going to free you from that–I’m giving you the permission to disappoint other people. I also wanted to remind you to get your tickets to The Bliss Project, coming to Newport Beach, CA this March. It is going to be an incredible weekend of complete life transformation & immersion!   Quo

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How the Tribe Called Bliss book tour went Asking for help Expectations + grace Books + Podcasts Lori loves Going from an idea to reality Body image and self-worth   Resources: Read: A Return To Love by Marianne Williamson Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Welcome to another Q&A Day with my Q&A co-host and assistant, Evans! These episodes are always fun because I get to answer questions from all of you, and it helps me feel even more connected to this incredible community. Evans and I also share great quotes that are really speaking to us–and a few laughs, too! Today we are also sharing our experience from the Tribe Called Bliss book tour.   Question Highlights: @sheryl_scranton: “What is your most life-changing book? What are you currently reading? What’s your favorite podcast?” @empowermentwithelizabeth: “I’m planning a retreat and I’m curious about the process of Bliss Project–how you went from the idea to executing it. How di

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How Niyc found positive psychology The day of Niyc’s own awakening How Kundalini yoga has been a game changer Niyc’s way of creating an event How she found her value Her book writing journey Giving and receiving permission Happiness pie   Resources: Learn more: niycpidgeon.com Instagram: @niycpidge Read: Now Is Your Chance Facebook: Now Is Your Chance Group Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Today I am joined by the amazing Niyc Pidgeon, a positive psychologist, success coach, international speaker, and author of Now Is Your Time. Niyc is obsessed with empowering women to create more joy, and unstoppable success within themselves and their businesses. Yes please! We talk all about her awakening, what sparked her interest in positive psychology, and how she found her own value. The conversation we have is epic, and I can’t wait for you all to benefit from all we talk about.   Question Highlights: Did you notice that you h

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to care + make an impact We all have superpowers Releasing our energetic cords Forgiving yourself + others   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019 Instagram: @earnyourhappy   Show Notes Today, I want to talk about focus. So many of us believe that we have to care about every little thing, and that our value is determined by just how caring we are. This causes so much scattered focus, leading to us actually not doing anything for what we truly care about. We are going to talk about our superpowers and energetic cords, and how to release them in order to move forward.   Quotes "If you’re aiming at nothing, you’re certain to hit it.” “When we forgive someone, it’s not for them, it is for us.” “Your thoughts are energy.”   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Hear About: The upcoming Bliss Project Reevaluating your habits Quotes we are loving How to know what your next goal is Preparing yourself to be an epic human   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project March 2019 Check out: Farmgirl Flowers     Show Notes We are having another Q&A day today, so I’m joined by my lovely assistant, Evans, to answer questions sent in by you! I also wanted to remind you to get your tickets to The Bliss Project, coming to Newport Beach, CA this March. It is going to be an incredible weekend of complete life transformation & immersion. Tickets are over half sold out– I want to make sure you can get yours before they are gone!   Questions: “How do you train your brain to be productive even when you’re not feeling it?” From: _angela_jones “How do you know what your next goal is? How do you prepare yourself for the day to be an epic human being?” From: kathleenparent.ca   Quotes "I only hang around people who feed my vision now

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The current Tribe Called Bliss book tour Why “the messy stuff” is good for you   Show Notes Messy is a part of everything. It’s vital to be messy in the beginning. We don’t get the good ideas if it’s NOT messy. A lot of times we stop ourselves from doing things because we think about the things that we DON’T want to happen; the worst case scenario parts.  But we need to focus and change our perspective around this. So many of us are stuck in those thoughts that you’re literally it won’t even allow yourself to move forward.  START! Start Googling, take the next action to make the path less scary. Your mantra for this time is: “I’m going to leap, it’s going to be messy, and that is going to be perfect.”   Quotes "I’m going to leap, it’s going to be messy, and that is going to be perfect."   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook  

In this episode we talk about: Evans and I reminisce about our Oprah Cruise last week and talk about some of the things we learned while traveling. Answers to a bunch of questions from YOU. Back-up plans for your life How to change the story you feel about how OTHERS view you. How to deal with setbacks   Questions Answered in This Episode: “Please talk about back-up plans. I feel like having one is telling the universe that it’s ok for me to NOT live out my passion.  I am super conflicted with this and would love to hear your thoughts!” - Holly Dorfman “I’ve been gossiped about, not cheered on, etc by other women so I have a bad story about women in my life. How did you change the story about how women see you?” -Amy Burnes “How can you sustain self-motivation when you constantly suffer from a lot of setbacks?”  -@NRQuotes94   Favorite Quotes: “If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit.” “Forget your troubles and dance.” -Bob Marley “Stay focused on whatever you want to do and don’t dou

In This Episode We Talk about: The need for tests in order to realize our dreams Fear of tests Supporting yourself   Resources: FINAL CALL! Round 2 of the book tour is taking place in November! Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest stops on Lori’s book tour! A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/   Show Notes I just returned from being on an Oprah Magazine Cruise with Holland America and am still sitting in the experience. I met so many amazing people and got to speak to and coach a different demographic than I’m used to. And while having lunch and random conversations with so many of these people throughout the week, I realized that we’re all the same, and we’re all tested at one time or another.  Never be ashamed of your dreams or the thing you want to do the most. There will always be tests along the way that

Review of the week: "Earn your Happy is one of my FAVORITE podcasts! Lori truly speaks from her heart and experience and wants everyone she reaches to ‘earn their happy’! From amazing speakers to a quick 5-minute quote, this podcasts fuels my creativity and grit to do more work with my life! THANK YOU Lori for all this amazing content! If you have not listened, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!?!   Questions: Ally M. "My question for you is, have you ever faced problems with jealousy, and if you have, do you have any tips on how to overcome those feelings?"   Genevieve L. "I am a UK-based listener and have been really inspired to become part of a business that has a positive impact on the world like yours and a lot of the guests on the podcast. Do you know of any UK-based entrepreneurs or businesses for people like me to check out?"   Amy W. @amywilford15 "It was so awesome to finally meet you randomly in the courtyard at The Summit of Greatness through our mutual friend Linda! I

Questions answered in this episode: @stellalunaevents "What was the biggest challenge you had to face to live out your true purpose?"   @Mistyyynnhaar "How do you confidently juggle work and personal life?"   @julie_ann_davey "What's the most pivotal decision you've made in your life that changed everything?"   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In this episode we talk about: Navigating the success of Rachel’s book, Girl, Wash Your Face How Rachel confronts her insecurity with knowledge Self-sabotaging when you’ve surpassed your dream Anxiety Why Rachel is grateful to be overwhelmed at times with her book’s success The stories and lies we tell ourselves (that aren’t true) Achieving in order to receive attention and love Playing small Showing up as yourself Women stereotypes   Resources: Instagram: @msrachelhollis @theholliscompany Book: Girl, Wash Your Face | Get it on Amazon!   Show Notes Oh my goodness, I am geeking-out excited to share my conversation with today’s guest, Rachel Hollis. Author, CCO of The Hollis Company, motivational speaker, podcast host and let’s not forget, a mother of FOUR, she is so incredibly amazing and authentic to her core. And if you don’t already know and love her, you will after our conversation. After watching Rachel speak at events and reading her most recent book, Girl, Wash Your Face, I kn

In This Episode We Talk about: Releasing expectations Being yourself Lori’s newest spoken word poem   Resources: Round 2 of the book tour is taking place in November! Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest stops on Lori’s book tour! Go here for details: https://www.hollandamerica.com/en_US/cruise-ships/ms-nieuw-statendam/oprah-caribbean-adventure-of-your-life.html A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder - Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/   Show Notes I have been on a major rollercoaster this year (an awesome, but scary one), and I think it is so vital that I share with all of you why stepping into and becoming the your highest self is the hardest thing you’ll ever do.  I’ve been tackling some really big things lately – lots of speaking gigs, book tour events etc., and not gonna lie, they’re all freaking me out. But here’s my trick to getting through t

Questions answered in this episode: @sarahitfit "If you only had 4 months to live, would you continue on your journey or stop?" @chefdarkcocoa "When walking away from situations that no longer serve you, why does it feel so effinecrappy?" @llindseyschwartz "What has been the most influential thing you've done to elevate your financial mindset"   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

I’m so excited for you all to hear my conversation with the magical trifecta that is Betches Media – Samantha Fishbein, Jordana Abraham and Aleen Kuperman. With a following of more than 6 million followers on Instagram, their presence has taken social media by storm with their funny and light-hearted approach to wellness, dating, careers, pop culture, politics and more. If you haven’t heard of them, I highly recommend traveling down their entertaining Instagram rabbit hole (I did and it was incredible). In an effort to offer the missing female counterpart to the “bro” culture, these three college friends decided to share their voice and opinions with the masses. With an obvious need fulfilled, their website at the time took off and has since morphed into podcasts, an eCommerce store, books and so much more. With two books already under their belts, a third book, “When’s Happy Hour,” which focuses on careers is set to release Oct. 23. Whether you’re in college, unfulfilled by your job or fulfilled but driven

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The power of cleaning up your thoughts What it means to be in your “light body” How different fears hold us back Creating your own dream landscapes Using dreams to connect The importance of a morning ritual The Choice Point How to pull yourself out of a “neutral” state How being more you unlocks new levels Why we’re all one Drew’s new book, “You Be You” and the book-writing journey Why we need to invest in ourselves   Resources: Instagram: @drewcanole YouBeYouBook.com Grab a copy of Drew’s new book (plus bonuses), You Be You at YouBeYouBook.com or on Amazon at: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401955762/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1401955762&linkCode=as2&tag=youbeyoubook-20&linkId=b5929580a6eb60db55ddb717ce6e4415 Previous EYH episode with Drew Canole: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/149-how-to-slow-down-time-with-drew-canole/id1087926635?i=1000389969205&mt=2   Show Notes My friend, founder of Organifi and n

Fair warning to you before you start listening to today’s episode – I am en fuego! Having just attended Lewis Howes’ Summit of Greatness and being surrounded by 1,500+ big thinkers, there’s no way I couldn’t be. It’s events like these that force me to take chances and go for the things that scare the living crap out of me!   “Fear is your invite for growth.”   The purpose of life is growth and progress. We are all meant to find what makes us fulfilled and happy, but sometimes that’s the thing we fear the most.   As an exercise, I want you to write down the 10 things you’re most afraid of – they can be big or small. These are your next steps. From here, circle the least scary step – or perhaps the scariest step. Whichever you choose, act on it, no matter how uncomfortable or scared you are. Rejection or failure is inevitable, but the biggest gifts are on the other side.   No, I’m not super human, but I will say after receiving 21 rejections on my books, I am grateful for them because they helped me lan

Today I’m talking about the vital topic of taking action and curing those moments where you’re just sitting in pain thinking. The last week (typically in the mornings is when I struggle the most), I’ve been overthinking – everything. Have you ever caught yourself in a downward spiral like this? And it’s during moments like these that I’m really trying to work on shortening the amount of time they last.   “Pain is inevitable, but suffering is a choice.”   Here’s my hack – even though I drag my feet sometimes. TAKE ACTION!   “Action cures anxiety.”   Here’s the thing, even something infinitesimally small and new leads to new results. Plus, when your mood is more neutral, and less in a place of suffering, you’re in a better place to welcome new ideas and opportunities. I’m not saying you need to take action all the time…far from it. After all, we need time to relax and connect with other people, but please do not choose suffering! Take the action that will make you feel better. (Trust me, I wouldn’t tell

I’m fresh off a mastermind call with my closest sister friends and I’ve come to the realization that it’s OK to be a walking, breathing contradiction. Typically, when it comes to being in alignment, we’ve always talked about lining it up with our true purpose or highest potential. While I still believe this is a part of it, I also think a bigger part of it is being aligned with your truth in the present moment.   In order to feel this “truth” though you have to sometimes be out of alignment and feel those feelings, too. Sometimes this means feelings of darkness and ugliness or worry and insecurity. It’s super important though that we not stay in these feelings too long. Acknowledge them and that you feel out of alignment, and make the conscious choice to leave that dark place (or whatever emotion you’re feeling) when the time is right. Remember that this is all a part of the human experience and determine if there is something you could do to make yourself feel better.   Admittedly, I’m in a bit of a dark