Earn Your Happy Podcast | Motivation | Self-love | Entrepreneurship | Confidence | Fitness And Life Coaching With Lori Harder

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Old default responses that lead to negotiating with yourself The 80/20 rule The need for perfection Discipline habits Stopping the internal arguments   Show Notes Today I want to take some time to talk about something really important: the space between where you are and where you want to go. Each step of the process within this space is so different; from thinking about what you want, to planning what you want, creating a habit, and beyond. A lot of people, myself included, tend to get caught in this space and find themselves negotiating with their goals rather than working towards them. This episode intention is to help you recognize where you are negotiating with yourself, and inspire you to continue to push the needle in the direction of your goals. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Our favorite quotes of the moment How Snacks, our resident squirrell, is doing Keeping your mind and heart positive + peaceful Ways to deal with negativity in your business Misconceptions that others have of us   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about how we keep our minds and hearts peaceful, ways to deal with negativity, and misconceptions that others have of us.   Review of the Week: 1love444: “I love Lori’s podcasts for so many reasons. Not only does she pop on to share stories of success and failure, she reminds us constantly that there’s always time to be made for yourself (self-care) – which is so important in our technology obsessed, fast paced world. Thank you for all you do, Lor

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Moving to Hawaii and discovering new things How manual therapy with Aaron works Changes in his mentality he’s seen + shame The topical layers we have and confront on our paths Looking back at our journey to see how it’s all connected What Aaron thinks pain actually is Working with the beliefs of today Making space in your day with things of value + noticing subconscious thoughts Listening to the whispers + interrupting patterns What’s most exciting for Aaron right now   Resources: Instagram: @alignpodcast Listen: Align Podcast Youtube: Align Therapy   Show Notes I am so happy to introduce today’s guest, Aaron Alexander! Aaron is a movement coach, manual therapist, fellow podcastor, and is the founder of the Align Method. The Align Method is a integrated approach to functional movement and self-care, and has helped THOUSANDS of people heal from pain and find health. I’ve been wanting to connect with Aaron for a while now, and in today’s conversat

In This Episode You Will Learn About: A time where I was feeling disconnected Equal energy exchange connection Where we think our value comes from   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes So many of us are confusing what connection actually means, leaving us feeling unfulfilled but not really understanding why. We crave connections... but are we confusing connection with coaching? In today’s quickie, I share my own personal journey through this feeling, and ways that I have worked through it. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Exciting news from Evans What gives us hope in difficult times The first team member I hired + the lesson I learned Turning self-sabotage off + forgiving procrastination Wisdom that has come through for us this week   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Read: Procrastinate On Purpose   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans is sharing some exciting news! The two of us also talk about what gives us hope in difficult times, the lesson I learned with my first hire, and turning off self-sabotage.   Review of the Week: Desert-mama “Yesterday I had a Lori-a-thon and probably listened to like 5 podcasts. It was my soul food for the day, I laughed out loud to you and Evans (like I do every time!), I cried with Tracy O’Malley. She is such an amazing woma

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How Olivia and I connected Where the name, VINA, came from + why it was created How Hey! VINA works Standing up for herself The importance of human connection The obstacle that Olivia is currently facing Fears around loneliness Turning envy into admiration Seeking out specific friend groups Lady bragging + why it’s important The problems of privilege project that Olivia uses Olivia and I share our lady brags   Resources: Learn more: heyvina.com ; ladybrag.com ; vinazine.com Instagram: @heyoliviajune ; @vinazine Download: Hey! VINA Read: 4,000 Questions For Getting To Know Anyone ; 36 Questions For Falling In Love Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes If my message and book had a sister, she would absolutely be today’s guest! I am thrilled to share today’s episode with guest Olivia June, the founder and CEO of fried-finding app, Hey! VINA. Olivia is also the editor in chief of VINAZINE, and the bra

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why it’s so important to validate ourselves first How I searched for outside validation Powerful quotes on validation Where to go when the answer is NO Keeping your energy clean + checking in with yourself Mantras to say that will help   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Where Do We Go by Lindsey Stirling   Show Notes In today’s quickie, I really wanted to talk about validation. I have been thinking SO much about validation and what it means lately, so I knew I had to share. The word validation tends to get a bad reputation because it drives us to gain approval from others– we still have to remember that we need to validate ourselves. Seeking the validation from others and then getting it doesn’t actually make us happy if we don’t love and approve ourselves. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Our take on expectations How I push the needle + how you can too Pivots in life, and my pivot from fitness to changing lives The Bliss Project Our love of Jeni’s Ice Cream     Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Jeni’s Splendid Ice Cream   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about expectations, pushing the needle in your life, sensing a pivot and leaning into it, and how excited we are for the Bliss Project!   Review of the Week: @tracilinSC “Oh my gosh! Lori, you and Evans need to take the Q&A sessions on the road. I get so tickled listening to the two of you! I definitely think together you could solve a lot of worldly problems, or at least offer an amazing dose of laughter while trying. Thanks for sharing all things bliss-f

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Tracy’s story of growing up + addiction The work she did for herself The story she kept hearing as a child + the belief system it created Speaking to her younger self Navigating the in-between Taking 11 months of silence Knowing the fear and understanding it Finding the “root” Healing her relationship with women   Resources: Learn more: tracyomalley.com Instagram: @tracy_omalley Read: Grace, Grit, Guts Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I am SO excited for today’s episode because I am joined by Tracy O’Malley! Tracy is a recovery coach helping women heal their relationship to alcohol, food and drugs. She dedicated to helping women heal their internal wounds– is that not just incredible? Tracy has been in my life for a while, and she always offers so much wisdom each time we’re together. Her comeback story is BEAUTIFUL. Being able to sit down with Tracy and get deep was SO necessary and I can’t wait

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How we apply our own meaning to things A quote I’ve been loving right now How to view the season you may be in The season I’ve been in   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I have this theory that whenever I’m not in the place or headspace I want to be in, I try and find someone else that is in that place. It’s super important to me to find someone to speak that life back into me, and honestly, sometimes it isn’t even about the words– it’s about the vibration. Nothing is out there actually making us feel a certain way, it’s actually us taking it in and applying our own meaning to it. If we could all really look at ourselves and the season that we’re in, it’s important to remember that space is truly just a visitor– some stay longer than others, but they will leave. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The importance of detaching Finding balance between privacy and self-disclosure Transitioning into who you want to be + finding the value in the journey Becoming okay with letting go What we do when we are STRESSED + how we sort it out   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Ted Talk with Esther Perel   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about finding balance in privacy, finding value in your journey, being okay with letting go, and what we do when we’re stressed out and how we recover from it.   Review of the Week: acadiachampagne “The Earn Your Happy podcast has everything one could need to harness their inner potential. I’ve been moved to laughter and tears listening to this podcast over this past year. Every episode adds val

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Who Alyssa is + how she entered the line of work she’s in Being raised as a conscious child Advice for stepping into your truest self What Alyssa does when fears come up Remembering your self-worth Manifesting money + an exercise to help break free of the fear Ways that Alyssa stays on her path Calling in the relationship you want Upleveling + reaching your highest goals The importance of community   Resources: Learn more: alyssanobriga.com Instagram: @alyssanobriga Read: Getting the Love You Want Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I am so excited for today’s episode because I am joined by Alyssa Nobriga, founder and creator of Mastery for Coaches, an online business course for conscious entrepreneurs globally. Alyssa is DEDICATED to helping women transform themselves and live more fulfilling lives– don’t you just love that? Alyssa works with so many incredible clients, and has been featured in all

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why a front row mindset is so important My personal turmoil with being in the front row How you can show up for yourself + others   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I’ve been thinking at this topic for quite a bit; today we are talking about getting to that next level. This episode is all about getting you to be in your front row mentality in order for you to level up in your life! When it comes down to it, it’s not just the belief that you belong in the front row– it’s about creating your own accountability to SHOW THE HECK UP. Sometimes, it’s not only about showing up for yourself, but showing up for others as well. Listen in to today’s quickie as I share my own struggles with front row mindset + what I do to work through them! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The law of attraction + explaining it to skeptics Saying something that your tribe may not agree with My top suggestions for living a fulfilled and authentic life Things we really want to learn right now   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Read: The Secret   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about the law of attraction, if it’s placebo effect, and why that doesn’t matter. We also talk about speaking your truth to your tribe, and the top three disciplines we try to live our life by that help us live our best life.   Review of the Week: DarianAleacee Literally this podcast is amazing!! Lori is so motivating and real! Even on my hardest days, listening to this podcast helps my soul. If you want to change your life, start from

In This Episode You Will Learn About: A little backstory on who Todd is and where he came from Stepping into his alter ego and what that did for him How to create your own anchor to bridge who you are and who you see yourself becoming An amazing research test The difference between the extraordinary world and the ordinary world Recognizing the deep root and working through it Todd’s letter writing practice The struggles that Todd worked through Who his book is for   Resources: Learn more: toddherman.me ; alteregoeffect.com Instagram: @todd_herman Read: The Alter Ego Effect Watch: 5 Secrets to Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Todd Herman joins me on today’s show! Todd is a High Performance Coach and Strategist for ambitious entrepreneurs, athletes and leaders that want to reach wildly outrageous goals. His signature system, The 90 Day Year, has been named the World’s Top Leadership & Skill Development Program—twice!

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What are you pretending not to know? Why don’t you do the things you know you should be doing? What don’t you know that you don’t know? If you achieved all of your life’s goals, how would you feel? How can you feel that along the way? What did I learn today, who did I love, and what made me laugh?   Resources: 35 Questions That Will Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes While searching for inspiration for this quickie episode, I came across this incredible article from Forbes that has 35 life-changing questions, and knew we had to talk about it! In today’s episode, I’m going to share a few of the questions that really spoke to me, and I’ll share my answers with you on the spot. Be sure to take some time today for yourself to look through the questions– they may just change your life like they’ve sparked change in mine! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Fac

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Keeping high vibe while you’re wait to hear back for something Tips on putting on events and workshops Getting your creative juices flowing What we are resisting + fearing   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Read: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about being high vibe no matter where you are in life, hosting events, and tips for getting your creative juices flowing!   Review of the Week: Jessib1981 I have followed Lori’s podcast for over 2 years and a few months ago moved across the country and lost my self-development groove. In turn, I recently found myself in a rut, feeling alone & unworthy. While I knew deep down I would find a way back, I had to think of what I needed. On my drive back to VA from WI, I listened to over 2

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Rachel’s childhood + her experience growing up The real fears we hold + how to release them Being criticised by family Understanding that you do not need to dilute your message Actions Rachel took in order to shift her mindset Rachel’s journaling tips Giving yourself permission to offend   Resources: Learn more: rachelluna.biz Instagram: @girlconfident Listen: Real Talk Podcast Read: Faith Activated ; Girl Confident Galley Check out: ThinkUp app Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Today I am joined by the incredible Rachel Luna! Rachel is a best selling author, international speaker, Sales Confidence Strategist + Master Coach, podcast host, mindset master. Rachel is one of those people who truly made an impact on me. What she practices and speaks about has given me so much freedom and clarity! This conversation with Rachel was SO fantastic– I know it’s going to cause you all to take total inspired action in manifesting the life and busi

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The first step of finding clarity Asking better questions What clarity is + why it’s important What I’m currently struggling with What do you need more of? What do you need less of?   Resources: Fast Foundations Mastermind Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes   For today’s quickie episode, I want to talk about clarity! There is nothing more important than having clarity in your life around what you do, and around your vision for yourself and your future. I’m currently seeking clarity, and I’m coming to the realization that feeling stuck, confused, and uncertain are all the first steps to finding my own clarity. I today’s episode, I’m sharing what I’m currently struggling with, and how I’m working through it. I know that this episode with help you feel okay sitting with your uncertainty, and ultimately help you to find your clarity. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Shifting your victim mentality   Advice for putting yourself out there What I would be doing if I weren’t doing this What we do for facing fears   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about what to do to get out of victim mentality, advice for putting yourself out there, what I’m pulling forward in my life, and what to do in the face of fear.   Review of the Week: Victoriaaplummer: “I absolutely love all of the wisdom and laughs that Lori imparts to her listeners! It literally brightens my day listening to her Questionably Awesome Days with her assistant Evans. I laugh the entire time. I stopped my workout and wrote this review because I couldn’t stop laughing at her and her husband’s podcast together. Besides being really funny the show has so much value for grow