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In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations Why sometimes we need to end friendships Why everyone in our life is there to teach us something How we must give up the idea that we are always right Resources: The Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today I want to chat with you about toxic friendships and breaking up with friends. I know some of you are like, yes, please give me the goods. I need to break up with friends right now. It's absolutely true. Some relationships have an expiration date and when they pass it, the friendship can go south. Not everyone is supposed to be with you for your entire journey. People who we attract in our lives that cause problems from the get-go can also teach us something - how to treat everyone with compassion and set boundaries in the most loving way possible. To move through life with more flow and ease, we must give up the idea that we are always right and in fact assume that everything i

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Not putting too many expectations on our friends How holding space for people allows them to figure out their own problems How investing in friendships doesn’t mean they’re going to work out How to move beyond superficial friendships   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes:   Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about friendship - how to be there for a friend without trying to be their coach and how to take relationships beyond the superficial.     Review of the week: Diggitybop Don’t miss this podcast!Lori, you’re my freakin hero! Every single podcast blows me away with some lightbulb blast of inspiration...I always feel more grounded

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s course, Become Aligned How Ashley began to heal from an eating disorder Why Ashley co-founded the first no Photoshop fashion magazine  How Ashley takes daily action to rewire her brain How we are more than our bodies How Ashley views fashion as an expression of self and a chance to make an impact How we all have a message to share How to craft your unique headline    Resources: Appleseedcommunications.co bloomlovely.co   Read: Unknown To Unforgettable: How To Stop Playing Small, Land National Media Attention, And Position Yourself As A Power Player   Instagram: @speaktoinspire Facebook: @appleseedcommunications becomealigned.com   Show Notes:From a small town in Arkansas to the magazine industry of New York. In this conversation Ashley Crouch and I chat about fashion, how she healed from an eating disorder and how much her concept of beauty has changed along the way. She also shares amazing tips on how to hone in on your

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations How being afraid of failure is really about being afraid of what other people will think How to add value to people you want to learn from How it doesn’t matter what people think of you as long as you are living your purpose How you have to forgive other people’s petty actions How having something to prove can make you unstoppable How if something’s not working, it’s probably because you’re not taking enough action   Resources: The Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: There's some new energy coming through for me. And I'm absolutely loving it. What I've been experiencing is realizing that my life is giving me everything that I need right now in order to get to the next level. And it's up to me to take notice and to put myself in situations in order to make these next things happen. Also I'm speaking to a lot of people who are messaging me right now talking about how they are really

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to know when it’s time to move on from a friendship How to sustain a long-distance friendship How to find your tribe   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes:   Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about friendship - when to move on from a friendship, how to sustain important friendships and how to find your tribe.   Review of the week: Evans and Lori are hilarious. Amazing and growth based content partnered with joy and silliness makes it so much fun to tune in. Love you guys. Question 1: @themindfuldream Tips on sustaining a long-distance friendship the best way? Think 5530 miles apart.   Question 2:  @ashjnems How do you tru

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How Alexa got into wrestling How Alexa recovered from eating disorders How Alexa creates safe boundaries for herself and deals with online bullying Alexa’s plans for her future   Resources: Instagram: @alexa_bliss_wwe_ Twitter: @AlexaBliss_WWE The Bliss Project 2020 Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course   Show Notes: Today my guest on the show is professional wrestler Alexa Bliss. Alexa watched wrestling growing up, then competed as a bodybuilder while she was recovering from eating disorders. Although she got a lucky break to become a wrestler she says really she was training for it her whole life because she’s been in athletics since she was five. In this conversation we talk about online bullying, handling out of control situations and pushing yourself to achieve your goals. What I learnt from interviewing Alexa is that the basic mindset and principles are the same exact across the board, no matter what your dream is. I don't care if you want to sta

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations How to “plant” the right feelings so you reap the benefits later How to dismiss negative thoughts and excuses How failures can help you to succeed How dreams come with problems that you need to solve How you need to take your pain and transform it into your purpose   Resources: The Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: I get so many questions and messages from aspiring or beginning entrepreneurs and people who want to start living their purpose. The truth is we're all in different places and it really is just about falling in love with the process. I’m starting a new business right now and even if it doesn’t succeed, I know I was meant to do it. In this episode I talk about how to stop feeding negativity and “plant” positive thoughts so you nourish your ideas and your gifts and can reap the benefits later. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get b

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How fear and pain are a necessary part of uplevelling Making the mundane magical Overcoming self-doubt The need to be around people who are striving for similar things Listening to your inner guide Minding your mental space Overcoming judgement of others Not downsizing your dreams   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about overcoming self-doubt and judgement of others plus how to embrace being in your 30s. Your assignment for this week is to make up a fantasy in your mind - what if your dreams came true in the best and biggest way possible? What would that look like?    Review of the Week:Tayneub: Lori and Evans, y'all are my

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations Why Christina, Cassie and Jim joined Fast Foundations Fears people experience when they’re starting out Lessons we can learn from wall-kicking moments Playing the long game The true value of masterminds   Resources: Fastfoundations.com becomealigned.com decideitsyourturn.com Instagram: @bechristina wanderlustskulls.com Instagram: @wanderlustskulls Jimcarter.me Instagram: @causehacker   Show Notes: In this episode my husband Chris joins me to interview three amazing humans from the first round of our mastermind, Fast Foundations. Listen in to find out how Christina, Cassie and Jim have used the mastermind to grow, both personally and in a business sense. What’s fascinating to me is that all our mastermind participants have completely diverse businesses, but they support each other so much and have created such amazing relationships. We are currently filling our second round of fast foundation so if you

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Fast Foundations Mastermind How confidence is formed through taking action How confidence is at odds with people pleasing  How confidence goes against our survival instincts  How scheduling time to take action is so important How you do not have time for drama It’s okay for people not to like you as long as you speak and act with love   Resources: Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes:   Today’s episode is all about confidence. When you move forward with the attitude of “I am that bitch”, it doesn't mean that you're full of yourself, it doesn't mean that you don’t like other people or that you think you're better than someone, it means that you realize that you are literally made of God energy, you are made of what the universe is made of and you cannot die with the thing you’re meant to do trapped inside of you. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-cent

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting past fear and taking action Why being nice will get you further being mean What you should do when you feel your boss doesn’t respect you If you are attracting the same type of jerky boss over and over, there is a lesson in that for you How to tell if your goals are authentically yours How pain is a driver for change Not overanalyzing your goals How to stay out of your own head when meeting new people Giving yourself grace to screw up and say stupid things when you’re nervous How being sad is part of being human   Resources:   Read: The Execution Factor: The One Skill that Drives Success   Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What scientific studies are revealing about spirituality How to find fulfillment Asking for guidance The power of surrender Using a God box to solve your problems Keeping your vibe high Finding your soul correction and soul contribution   Resources: Learn more: annayusim.com Learn more: successiblelife.com Read: Fulfilled Instagram: @annayusim Learn more: becomealigned.com Learn more: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today my guest on the podcast is Anna Yusim. Anna is a nationally recognized psychiatrist, speaker and author with a private practice in New York City. After spending so much time studying and working with science, Anna felt there was something missing in her life so she set out to find it. She traveled, lived and worked in over 50 countries while studying Kabbalah, learning Buddhist meditation and working with South American shamans and Indian gurus. Her life goal for many years now has been to figure out how science and sp

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why you should come to The Bliss Project in March 2020 Pain is the way we learn and expand We experience pain when we are not living our purpose If we don’t transform our suffering, we transmit it to our families, our neighbours and our communities   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project 2020 Read: The Path Made Clear   Show Notes:   Today's podcast is inspired by the idea that pain is a valuable lesson. We experience a lot of pain when we don’t know the things we're put on the earth to do or we don’t know how to do them. If we don’t transform our suffering, we transmit your suffering to our families, our neighbors and even to our communities. So we have to start taking action on the things that we know we are meant to do. Also The Bliss Project is coming up in March 2020. I would love to see you all there. It is one of the most amazing things that I've ever gotten to do and participate in and it's your opportunity to meet some of the most epic women

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to reframe things that are causing us pain in life so we can see them as an opportunity for growth How to communicate effectively with your partner How to be a great leader by doing what you’re amazing at and letting other people shine in what they are amazing at   Resources:   Read: Start Where You Are   Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about acknowledging pain as an opportunity for growth, maintaining healthy romantic relationships and being in business with your romantic partner.   Review of the Week:RafSchObsessed with this podcastSo much love for Lori and Evans. I can't stop listening

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Erica’s new book You Deserve The Truth Her goals for writing and marketing the book  Integrating faith, spirituality and development into all areas of your life Questioning the values you grow up with and changing your story Finding your purpose and life’s work Finding support when you’re not sure what you’re doing Measuring success by impact, not popularity   Resources: Read: You Deserve The Truth Instagram: @missewill Learn more: ericawilliams.com Listen: The Call Podcast Watch: The Assembly   Show Notes: Erica Williams Simon joins me to talk about the power of story and changing your life. She started her career in politics, policy and activism then took some time out and realized she also needed to talk about faith, love and money. On this episode we discuss stories that we learn growing up and how to forge new identities. We also cover how changing your story can trigger other people and how to deal with that. I can't wait for you to listen

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why sitting in indecision will cost you money and your peace How to decide what you will honor, enforce and tolerate Why you shouldn’t say yes to most things straight away Why getting to solve problems is a blessing   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today’s episode is all about decision making. I have so many amazing women in my life right now who are having trouble with making tough decisions and feeling like their boundaries are getting crossed left and right. Our boundaries are getting crossed because we're tolerating things that do not serve our highest self. Listen up for a way to decide what you will honor, enforce and tolerate in your life and business. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Growth through solving problems The practicalities of launching a whole new business and rebranding yourself Dealing with social situations without alcohol Reframing whatever you are dealing with   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: Everything is Figureoutable Read: The Path Made Clear   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about taking action to get out of a stressful situation, staying connected to the things that matter to us, moving from one career to an entirely different one and dealing with social situations without alcohol.    Review of the Week:Emilia DavieAloha, Lori and Evans. I am writing in to send you a BIG THANK YOU from sunny Scotland. (K

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Bringing your personality into your writing Captivating your audience How to nail your unique brand personality Delivering value to your audience Creating profitable copy Speaking your audience’s language   Resources: Learn more: talkingshrimp.com Instagram: @talkingshrimpnyc Facebook: Talking Shrimp   Show Notes: Laura Belgray describes her zone of genius as writing in a way that gives other people permission to be who they are. I’ve been a big fan of hers since I came across her work in 2014 and I’m so excited to have her on the show. In this episode Laura gives golden and easy-to-implement tips for writing emails that will captivate your list, injecting your writing with personality and making your brand stand out. If you have any struggles around copywriting, you will not want to miss this conversation.  Question Highlights:   What is your zone of genius? And how did you discover it? If you’re thinking, wait, I would say this to my frien

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Asking yourself if you feel like you are expanding or contracting when you receive information What to do if you feel like your beliefs are being challenged Why it’s so important to take action and create your purpose Letting yourself be wrong if your ideas change Forgiveness   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today I want to give you a set of questions that is going to give you a reference point for lots of decisions in your life that you can make for taking big leaps and making big decisions. These questions can even help determine who you want to hang around, who you want your mentors to be, what podcasts you want to listen to and what books you want to read. Something that I've been asking myself is, does this make me feel like I'm expanding or contracting? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Starting new ventures with something that looks like crap Trading services and networking when you don’t have any money to hire help Motivating your partner to join your growth journey Stirring up energy and attention in positive ways   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Listen: Soul Transformation with Gina Meyers Listen: Turn Your Hard Times Into Greatness   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about dads who take their daughters out for breakfast, taking imperfect action to start new ventures, getting your partner involved in self-development and stirring up energy and attention in positive ways. This week we’re also asking listeners to tag Evans and I in somethin