Earn Your Happy Podcast | Motivation | Self-love | Entrepreneurship | Confidence | Fitness And Life Coaching With Lori Harder

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How joy and grief go hand in hand -Processing grief and letting yourself feel it -Not isolating yourself -Supporting yourself   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Joy and grief exist together on the same highway. While holding my dream event, my best friend and puppy, Waffles, passed away. If you’re in a good place right now, don’t worry, this will only make it better. And if you’re experiencing grief and loss, I express my deepest sorrow for you. In the process of experiencing pain and loss, I’m also noticing my heart expanding in love as well.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Being supported by friends -Sharing your pain to bond more with people -Tools to help you be courageous -Jumping into the fear -Asking for help -Letting people know you’re there   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: We’re back with another episode of Questionably Awesome with me and Evans! We’ve got our favorite quotes of the week, and we answer your questions about courage and helping others in your life to be more courageous.   Review of the Week:   AmandaLeeSouthernSoul "More than just a podcast!  “Earn Your Happy” is amazing . Not only is it incredible alone - making me laugh, cry and feel like I’m connected to a supportive community, but is a gateway to new podcasts, inspirational people to follow on instagram along with adding to my ever growing book collection! I binge at work and get those weird looks when I bust out laughing at Lori and Evans (whatever totally worth it)

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How our environment can feed who we are -Getting out of a creative block -Giving yourself grace to have incomplete ideas -The “tortured artist” -Having a human connection while remaining anonymous -Making room for possibilities -Finding a balance between creative and business ambitions -Feeling stuck and how to get unstuck   Resources: -Atticuspoetry.com -The Truth About Magic -@atticuspoetry -Wine: winc.com/lostpoet -Podcast: atticuspoetry.com/pages/podcast -becomealigned.com     Show Notes: Atticus, the two-time anonymous best-selling author has taken the world by storm with his beautiful poetry and his powerful themes of love and strength of the human spirit. He remains anonymous so he can “write from the shadows” and share from his heart without judgement. I went deep on asking him about this, wondering what it’s like to create like that, and how we can art from a place where we feel exposed.   Question Highlights: -How did your environment

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How training others can lead to the growth you need -Quieting our limiting beliefs -How confidence comes from overcoming difficulties   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: We’ve got another quickie this week, and to add to the fun I’ve got a special guest today that you’ve probably heard before, Lindsey Schwartz. We’re in the middle of our “train the trainer” event, Eventluv, for speakers and facilitators. We talk about how training can lead to growth, and about how doing the hard things you need to do is what results in real confidence and magic.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Reflecting and setting intentions for the new year -Identifying the underlying theme of last year -Feeling lost and anxious -Becoming the person you need to be without it hurting -Enjoying where you’re already at   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about reflections, feeling lost, making transitions, and enjoying life.   Question 1: @magzszs How do you transition from an old environment into your new environment without being rude?   Question 2: @alycek.peterson How do you allow yourself to trust the process?  What triggers taking action?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -The transformations that Tara has seen -Showing up regardless of your mood -Practicing consistency daily -Holding a mirror up to yourself -Taking massive action -Avoiding self-sabotage -Living guilt-free -Setting aside time for yourself -How important communication is   Resources: -tararomano.com -toneandtease.com -yourlifeunleashedevent.com -Instagram: @tara_romano -becomealigned.com   Show Notes: Tara Romano, every year at my Bliss event, blows everyone’s mind, rocks their world, and makes them feel 100 times sexier. Her heart is so beautiful, and she is that person who you feel so invited to be your biggest, best self in front of. She makes doing crazy dance moves feel comfortable. She is hilarious, she is fun, and she is so talented. We get into her mindset, where it comes from, and how you can unleash yourself to show up as that wild, big, bold, sexy version of yourself.   Question Highlights: -How did y

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Using visualization to have breakthroughs Facing the things you are afraid of Embracing the things you are meant to do Starting the things you need to and following through   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: I have a huge ask for you. No matter how you feel about visualization, I want you to go along with me. For me, and so many top performers, visualization is so important. Just keep your eyes closed and let your mind wander. We’re going to be going through a process of start, stop, face, and embrace. Get comfortable, because we’re going to be here for the next 20 minutes.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being in transition Turning unwanted criticism into compassion The importance of communication Having tough conversations Letting go of the mainstream idea of balance Talk to yourself as if you’re talking to a friend Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Watch: Radical Candor Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about transitions, communication, and work/life/everything else balance. Review of the Week: mandisueday Lori’s heartfelt and motivating messages are top of her game! When her co-host Evans joined, the podcast gained a playful and witty spirit that I absolutely adore! While listening to this podcast, I gained my first client! I also gained more self-appreciation and a BIG ‘ol healthy dose of laughter.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -How Ali helps brands + influencers work together -Growth mode + creating a company culture -Celebrating employee milestones -Keeping up with an ever-changing social media landscape -Figuring out TikTok -Moving past imposter syndrome -Making mistakes + not getting bent up over them -Having a strong why behind a product -Creating authentic social media content   Resources:   -besocialpr.com -Instagram: @besocialgroup -Instagram: @aligrant -Read: Radical Candor -becomealigned.com Show Notes: Ali Grant is a leader who has built an extraordinary business. Her company, Be Social, helps influencers and corporations build powerhouse brands. Be Social is currently scaling and growing, so this conversation is a must-listen if you are interested in building a vision bigger than yourself and want to know how it’s done.   Question Highlights: -How do you create a company culture if you're a small business? -How do you sh

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Making every year better than your last even if it’s hard -Making choices that don’t betray yourself -Busting your ass but also taking time to rest + recover -Creating a sense of urgency to get your message out -Believing that you are loved + protected by God or the Universe -The bravery involved in failing + the potential for failure to propel us into bigger arenas   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Before we really get stuck into 2020, I want you to take time here to be proud of the things that you've done. Think of a moment last year where you showed up when you didn't want to, and got results. We have to get really grateful for these moments. And I want to say welcome to 2020. Welcome to this epic opportunity where you get to create a year that is different from the last and you get to make choices in the direction that you want to go. This is truly time to create and rise up a

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -The downside of gossip -Creating a new position for yourself at work -Taking the time to appreciate the little things -What to read if you struggle to find the time   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Happy new year! Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. We cover goal-setting at work, setting an intention to find joy in your life and how to meet your reading goals.    Review of the Week: MsLids Another aha moment thanks to Lori and Evans! Whenever I need some inspiration, laughter or an aha moment, I tune into Earn Your Happy, and usually there is always something in an episode that is exactly what I need to hear. I was listening to Evans and Lori talk about pivots and Lori was sharing the story ab

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Our Become Aligned course -The experiential economy + EventLuv -Our New Year’s Eve manifesting ritual -Why Chris decided not to go to Justin Beiber’s party + P Diddy’s 50th birthday -How Lori’s building a physical product business  -Chris’ plan to write a book in 2020 -Mentally detaching from the desire to please people -Saying no to things, even when you want to support people -The need to keep growing + developing -Having tough conversations with people because you want to love them more -Facing reality about your physical health -The fine line between giving yourself grace + holding yourself accountable -Knowing your value + obeying the law of chemistry   Resources: -fortheloveofmoney.com -Instagram: @chriswharder -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: This episode is with my husband, Chris Harder. He interviewed me for our end-of-year wrap on his show, For The Love Of Money, and I liked it so much I decided to share it with you. It is al

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Getting clear on what’s important to you in 2020 -Checking in with your dreams every time you go to make plans Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: It’s almost time for the new year, and we get to choose how we feel about it. There is so much beautiful energy around 2020 of manifesting what you want and getting rid of what you don't want. A lot of times I fail at reaching my goals because I’m prioritizing things that are less important or not important or things that I don't actually want, and I get stuck in the busy work. And the more and more clear that I've gotten about letting go of things, the more I’ve been able to focus on what matters. I want you to ask some simple questions: -What needs to go?  -Who do you need to say no to?  -What do you need to stop doing?  -What do you need to let go of in order to make room for what you want? I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Avoiding the rabbithole of worrying that you’re making the wrong decisions -Digging yourself out of sad places as fast as possible -Developing a sense of urgency around your goals -Hiring an assistant or contractor before you’re ready -How scrolling Instagram only delivers the picture-perfect aspect of someone’s life   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. If you’re in a place where you’re consistently not reaching your goals, it’s time to get realistic about where you’re at energetically. Maybe you’re not doing the things to hold yourself accountable to your goals, like telling people or putting money down. Maybe you don’t have enough willpower left at the end of the

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -Hannah’s destination wedding in Paris -Why she has zero regrets about her dress -What Hannah does for fun -Transitioning from music videos to more narrative projects -Working collaboratively to bring an artist’s vision to life -The rise of female directors   Resources: -hannahluxdavis.com -Instagram: @hannahluxdavis -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: Hannah Lux-Davis is an award-winning director who works with musicians like Ariana Grande, Miley Cyrus and Lana Del Ray. In this conversation we cover everything from how she started in filmmaking as a production assistant and make-up artist to why she avoids jumping on Instagram.   Question Highlights: -How do you deal with lots of big personalities and potentially big egos? -How do you stay focused on something when there is a lot of pressure? -How do you avoid getting stuck when things aren’t going your way? -What shows up in your body and mind when

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -EventLuv - there’s only 11 spots left! -Why having the right perspective is everything -How changing your perspective when things are tough is the real work -How to flip your perspective   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Perspective is a beautiful thing that can turn something negative into something that is actually life changing and positive. I practice flipping my perspective all the time because the most successful and happy people that I know all have this power. What is something you can change your mind about? For example maybe you’re going to the gym and feel like you hate it and you’re not seeing results. Thank yourself for showing up and doing something hard because you are building that muscle of showing up even when you don’t feel like it’s worth it. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Feeling overwhelmed during the holiday season -How sorrow and contrast prepare you for joy -Self-care assessments -How in order to be great, you have to be willing to bomb -Knowing when you need to ask for help  -Refusing to be responsible for other people’s happiness -Not rewarding shitty behavior   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about joy. Happy holidays! And don’t worry if you’re a little out of routine - we're gonna get back to our normal feelings and pant sizes soon.  Review of the Week: KarlBird18 ★★★★★ " The Earn Your Happy podcast is the fuel for my fire and never fails to bring a spark of joy into my life (a big spark!). Every Wednesday morning, Lori and Evans

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -EventLuv - there are only 11 spots left! -The impetus behind Trent’s work - he lost a friend to suicide eight years ago -How he started playing football and the role models that made his success possible -Living for yourself, not other people -Breaking relationships down to three levels  -Trent’s morning ritual - appreciation, affection, accomplishment and activity -Protecting your peace -Helping people turn their pain into power -Accepting everything about yourself Resources: -trentshelton.com -Instagram: @trentshelton -Read: The Greatest You -Read: Straight Up -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: Trent Shelton is a professional footballer turned motivational speaker, writer and coach. His mission is to help people find promise in their darkest hours and be their greatest self. To do this he teaches about riding out storms, having a perspective that life is to serve you and protecting your peace a

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Eventluv - it’s in January and spots are running out Short-term versus long-term joy Giving yourself grace and staying compassionate Fully expressing yourself and not caring if other people like it or not Bringing more fun to everything   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: I’m recording this episode on my 39th birthday. I’m feeling deep gratitude, and I want to share with you the most important thing I have learned about life. Our only job is to stay in joy. Sometimes we are so far from it that we don’t even know what it would look like to be in joy. So to be in joy we need to focus on what fulfills us and what makes us proud of ourselves. Whether it’s taking your vitamins, putting that voodoo doll down or meditating, take all the steps to focus on the good you can do for yourself and in the world.  I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back t

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Evans’ real name -The amazing results we get from being consistent -Clearing out the clutter -Preparing for tough conversations -Giving yourself grace to get emotional -Recognizing that we don’t always get closure and justice -Non-threatening ways of opening up communication   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about communication.    Review of the Week: Lindsay Klix "This is actually my second review for this podcast, my first one was back when it first started and there were only a handful of episodes. This is the first podcast that I began listening to on a regular basis, and every podcast I listen to now, I first heard about here. I always listen while working alone i