Earn Your Happy Podcast | Motivation | Self-love | Entrepreneurship | Confidence | Fitness And Life Coaching With Lori Harder

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How the best things in life come from things that expand you before you feel ready. Sharing your negativity to move past it How to deal when you get a nasty email or comment in your DMs   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: The best things in life are going to come from things that scare you. We pray for massive expansion. We want to hold these incredibly huge visions, except when we get put into the exact thing that is going to expand us. A lot of us say, get me out of here. I can't do it. This is too much. I'm not sure of myself. What about my past? What are people going to say? And we don't sit long enough in the fire to let it burn away our old form and let us stretch into the person that can handle the dream. Today I’m talking all about staying in the discomfort in order to get through it and through to the other side. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Evans’ impending nuptials and why she needs to schedule in cleaning out her closet Lori’s former addiction to acting from a place of hurt Conversations to have before you get married Committing to resolving problems in your marriage   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Read: The War of Art   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about resistance. We cover how to love yourself into making better decisions, how to make a decision and move on without second-guessing plus how to pause to make sure you’re in control of your emotions so you don’t act from a place of chemical reaction in your body.   Review of the Week: Aliciasep Holy crap I’ve never felt closer to y’all! I love the show! Been listening for ove

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course Protecting your creativity in a busy environment like L.A. How Makenzie grew up watching the Food Network Mirror therapy Surrendering to a vision and the guidance of the universe Seeking shareholders who share her vision   Resources: delightedbydesserts.com Instagram: @delightedbydesserts Podcast: Delighted By Desserts www.flykakao.com  You Can Heal Your Life Spirit Junkie       Show Notes: Makenzie Marzluff is the founder of Delighted By, a high-vibe, better-for-you dessert company. But before that she studied pre-med, moved to Australia for 2.5 years and did a bunch of inner work. When searching for her purpose at the end of her healing journey she heard a message that said, “Makenzie, your purpose is to spread your glitter. It doesn't matter what you do, it matters how you do it.” Join us for this conversation about consciously raising capital, running a business intuitively and why Makenzie’s so pass

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Unlocking that part of you that's been hidden away Shining our light, even when it’s not well received Forgiving yourself and other people Not being a match for negativity and fear Staying in joy   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Whether you are being bullied online, whether you have a friend who is questioning who you are as you grow, or whether you are completely doubting yourself and not feeling smart enough, these are all opportunities to shine. I recently had an experience that I might share more about later. In the past, I would have gone to a very dark place and it would have taken me down for a really long time. This time I was able to bounce right back knowing that it is not our place to feel bad. We are meant to stay in joy because that's where we get outside of our heads and our small worlds. We expand, we grow and we give our talents, our efforts and our money to peo

In This Episode You Will Learn About: When Lori got her tongue pierced Screaming into pillows Putting things on the line How sleep is so underrated   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about resistance. In moments of resistance I feel like my inner toddler’s having a temper tantrum and it wants to do anything but the thing I have to do. But I know if I can just sit through the resistance, there's a huge reward on the other side.   Review of the Week: TracyNadler You and Evans are seriously so hilarious! I eagerly await every Wednesday to hear your silliness, humor and sound advice! Your podcast makes me literally laugh out loud and puts so much joy in my heart. I love how you combine humor with self help

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course Why Jordan’s childhood garage was full of gumball machines The currency of clarity Micro steps to success The 10 foot rule Jordan’s book, Own Your Everyday    Resources: becomealigned.com jordanleedooley.com Instagram: @jordanleedooley Own Your Everyday    Show Notes: Jordan Dooley’s approach to life is all about showing up everyday and not waiting for the massive signs from the heavens. She schedules herself reminders to listen to God, abides by a no-phone rule in her and her husband’s bedroom, and believes that if we are always burning out, we’re not going to reach our full potential. Tune into this conversation to hear about getting the lessons you need, even if the outcome is unexpected.    Question Highlights: What did the road to finding what you wanted look like? When do we start to take it upon ourselves to start knocking on other doors and really creating our own destiny? How do we start showing up

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being addicted to distraction and drama How to pause and let go of the small stuff Playing decisions out to the end Accepting responsibility for our mistakes How Lori tried to make her husband her everything best friend  Eventluv, Lindsey and Lori’s 5-day workshop   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Instagram: @loriharder lindseyschwartz.com Instagram: @llindseyschwartz   Show Notes: In this episode Lindsey Schwartz joins me to talk all about stopping petty things get in our way. We share our personal experiences of being kind of addicted to the drama of people saying bad things about us. It is only through stepping into our highest purpose that we have learnt to let this small stuff and other people’s opinions of us go. Don’t miss this conversation if you are longing for a best friend, if you have trouble trusting women or if you find yourself pleasing other people more than yourself. 

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Evans’ dog’s new ACL If you’re being multi passionate or just doing too much Placing unfair expectations on your partner Sending people love even when they hurt you Putting too much value on the opinions of others  Giving yourself grace in busy seasons   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day. Today Evans and I are joined by Lindsey Schwartz. Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, we’re talking all about embracing change. We cover how to take action even when you’re not sure what your true purpose is and how to know when to stick at something or give it up.   Review of the Week: morganbarkus My favorite shit show on FIRE! The last month has felt like falling down that Alice in Wonderland hole for me. There’s a welcome change waiting for me, but the inter

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course Lindsey Schwartz and Lori’s 5-day immersive workshop on how to run profitable events, retreats or masterminds How Ashley turned the trauma of losing her kids into power The difference between pain and suffering Trusting the process of life Clarity mapping Ashley’s book, Born To Shine   Resources: becomealigned.com eventluv.com Born To Shine The Shine Project Instagram: @theshineproject Shop Ashley LeMieux Instagram: @shopashleylemieux       Show Notes: Six years ago Ashley LeMieux and her husband got a phone call asking them to become parents of a six-year-old and a four-year-old. They weren’t looking to adopt or foster at the time, but they said yes, and their life became all about their new family. During the final stages of the adoption process they experienced an unexpected contested adoption, which meant that they spent over a year and a half in court fighting to keep their family together. In the e

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The superpower of sharing your truth Making yourself proud Being grateful for your present but believing in a better future   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Today’s podcast is all about getting out of your own way because you have bigger fish to fry. You can’t play small anymore, you can’t live for other people and you can’t keep waiting for someone else to save you. That thing that you think just stopping you is your power. For me it was my anxiety, even though it was debilitating, and I told myself I couldn't do what I wanted because of it. Our superpower is to really share where we're at, and to share our truth and share that we're nervous and to remember that we're all in this human experience together. You can’t say the wrong thing to the right people, so get out there, find your audience, and live the life you want! I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Having dinner with Gary Vee Why we’re not actually scared of failing The pitfalls of people pleasing Accepting that people evolve differently and at different times Sabotaging those moments of puppies kissing in the sunset How our brain is addicted to the chemicals that we feed it the most   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about embracing change. We cover how to accept that change is going to be for your highest good, how to let go of the need for approval and how to train your brain so that you don’t self-sabotage. Review of the Week: Stephanatey So much fun and love and relevant! Lori ! You and Evans are so fun to listen to! It brought me right back to when y

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course Why Kate tracks her menstrual cycle Embracing non-creative periods in life Making more money while doing less The 80/20 rule Seeing the day as a circle Using ovulation to help us take inspired action in targeted ways The practice and the philosophy of biomimicry  Kate’s bliss menu   Resources: becomealigned.com katenorthrup.com Instagram: @katenorthrup Money: A Love Story Do Less: A Revolutionary Approach to Time and Energy Management for Busy Moms Profit First   Show Notes: Kate Northrup is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, speaker, and mother. Her new book, Do Less: A Revolutionary Approach to Time and Energy Management for Busy Moms, is the story of how she cut her work hours in half and actually made more money. In this episode, Kate and I dive deep into the intersections between women’s bodies and business and how we can use our bodies to fuel our deepest insights, impact and profits. This conversatio

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being grateful for challenging people and the resistance in your life The side effects of not following your calling - anger, resentment and depression Tapping into the energy of your purpose Creating a life you cannot hide from   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Today I’m talking about the side effects of following your calling. But first I want to talk about the side effects of not following your calling. If you’re not taking actions that support your highest self, you get resentful toward yourself, the people that you love of other people and people who are inspiring to you. You feel anger, anxiety, isolation, comparison, and depression. The most important thing you can do is to really take note of how you're holding yourself back and learn to move forward. But moving forward isn’t pain-free either. You’ll feel discomfort and massive fear. You’ll make new friends and mentors bu

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Evans’ new job Why you can’t wait around for signs Reframing the mundane How there’s super irritating, boring parts to every job Leaving people and good jobs behind Why your purpose won’t be the same forever   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about purpose. We cover how to know when it’s time to move on from something that isn’t right for you and how to find your purpose by following your curiosities and taking action.    Review of the Week: MarieofVenus Lori’s podcast has been so life changing for me. She’s been helping me navigate my life for a couple of years now, and her content is always so relative, inspiring, and exactly what I need at the time I listen. He

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Lindsey and Lori’s 5-day immersive workshop on how to run profitable events, retreats or masterminds Why events are so powerful for building your brand Showing up, even when you’re worried no-one else will How to make events profitable and impactful   Resources: eventluv.com lindseyschwartz.com amberlilyestrom.com meetthefreemans.com taylorwray.love   Show Notes: In this episode Lindsey Schwartz and I talk to three entrepreneurs who create amazing live experiences for their audience - Amber Lilyestrom, Jocelyn Freeman and Taylor Wray. Listen in for some powerful tips on to becoming a more confident speaker and adding an event to your current business or making events your business model.   Question Highlights: What made you decide to create live events? What benefits have you got from stepping into fear and creating these experiences? What do you wish that you knew before you did your first event? What is your best tip for making your events profi

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How I got rejected so many times pitching for fitness covers The ways in which I used to self-sabotage What happened when I invested in something I could not afford Why I’ve created EventLuv with Lindsey Schwartz   Resources: eventluv.com The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: On my run this morning something triggered my memory back to when I was in the fitness world but hadn’t started doing self-development work. I was binge eating and telling myself stories about why I wasn't good enough to do this work. I knew I had greatness inside of me, but I didn’t know what shape or form I would share it in. I put a training program on my credit card and showed up at that event so freaked out, but it totally paid off. Now I’ve created a 5-day workshop called EventLuv to teach the next generation of speakers, leaders and teachers how to create transformational experiences. The event is in January 2020 and the Earlybird price ends September 30. We’ll cover so many th

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Non-negotiable parts to your day which stop you turning into your nasty ass self  Working out which bucket to fill when you only have a little time Self-care when you’re up-leveling Creating your own opportunities at your day job   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about balance. We cover learning how to support yourself and actual things you can do to get into a different state.    Review of the Week: Jaylaagnes Absolutely love listening to Lori, Evans and all our her guests! From needing a mindset shift or refocus or needing a good laugh, this podcast has helped me continue to be the best version of myself and realize that being myself is exactly who I am supposed

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s course, Become Aligned Lindsay Schwartz and Lori’s 5-day immersive workshop on how to run profitable events, retreats or masterminds Chase’s new book, Creative Calling Learning to listen to our inner voice Toxic myths about creativity Creating a place for your work to land Protecting your mornings Making money from things which are rooted in play and joy   Resources: Creative Calling CreativeLive.com Instagram: @chasejarvis   Show Notes: In second grade Chase Jarvis loved doing stand-up comedy and produced a weekly comic book strip. Then one day at the parent teacher conference he overheard his teacher telling his mom that he was so much better at sports than he was at art. Because we gravitate to where we get rewarded, he became an athlete, went to college on a soccer scholarship and made the Olympic Development Program soccer team. Then, a week before Chase graduated college, his grandfather died from a heart attack and left Chase

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Lindsay Schwartz and Lori’s 5-day immersive workshop on how to run profitable events, retreats or masterminds Making decisions and burning the boats Being OK with disappointing people   Resources: eventluv.com The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today I’m talking about making decisions. To actually make a decision you have to put skin in the game, say no to things and schedule your calendar so that it’s aligned with your dreams. Lately I've been fierce about making sure that I have room in my calendar for all of my new projects. And I am so proud of myself because, looking back at last year, I had a calendar full of things that I didn't necessarily want to do. I was more reacting to life than actually taking time to think if it was something that would move the needle forward. I was doing things because I didn't want to say no and hurt people's feelings. But you have to say no to things in order to create space for your dreams. I hope today’s quickie serv

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why Evans quit her job  Why Lori’s written ‘decide’ on her arm with a pen How you can sabotage yourself by floundering Breaking up with besties   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about connection. We cover being vulnerable with friends, whether you should guard your heart or not and how to connect with people when you rock up to an event by yourself.    Review of the Week: Ashleyjulie Awesome content! This is actually the first podcast I’ve ever heard, as a friend in LA told me how great it is, so glad I found it! Got into podcasting more than listening to music as I drive around for work projects. Your guests are great and inspiring as well and I’ve listened to a few of theirs as well. Your