Earn Your Happy Podcast | Motivation | Self-love | Entrepreneurship | Confidence | Fitness And Life Coaching With Lori Harder

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How marriage works Losing friends and making room for new ones Transitioning from one group of friends to another Dealing with loneliness   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome. Evans and I answer your questions about friendship, losing friends, making room for new friends, and grappling with transitions.   Question 1: @jesswecann Why do you think some friends stick with you through the mud of life and some bail?   Question 2: @atracktive How do you navigate the transition space when you know you're up-leveling your tribe but you also feel super isolated because the new up-leveled tribe hasn't come through yet?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Recognizing the beauty in people and the world How trauma can shape you How to stop people-pleasing Breaking patterns and stepping into your calling Hurting your family by being successful Life gives you the lessons that you need   Resources: Learn more: laceyjohnson.com Facebook: facebook.com/thelaceyjohnson Twitter: twitter.com/thelaceyjohnson Instagram: instagram.com/thelaceyjohnson Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com   Show Notes: I was so lucky to connect with Lacey Johnson over the phone, and before even meeting with her in person I felt immediately connected. She has stories that are going to take your breath away and move you, and I can’t wait for you to hear them. Question Highlights:   Why do you connect with people so well? What got you interested in writing? What are some things you saw in your life that shaped you What was one of the biggest things you realized you were capable of creat

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The three things that set us apart Being accountable The three vital pieces of accountability Controlling your environment Thinking about the big picture Resources: Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: On this quickie, I’ve invited my husband along! We talk about 3 things that we know have made us successful and stand apart from the rest.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Learning in a state of joy Focusing on solutions and belief Trying on the highest version of yourself Feeling more like yourself Meeting people with zero expectation   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome, where you’re going to find yourself questioning why you are listening. Evans and I answer your questions about doing a rebrand, finding courage, setting goals, and the fear of getting close to people.   Question 1: @alecialindsay How to be bold in sharing when your soul decided to do a "rebrand"?!   Question 2: @katieandhercanines How do you find the courage to leave the religion you grew up with and limiting beliefs?   Question 3: @andi_ruth HALP: I often fear the more people I get close to just leads to more stress and obligation to others.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Working with a publisher vs. self publishing What happens when your dream comes true and you don’t realize it Imposter syndrome Getting the confidence to crown yourself Serving people with purpose Remaining fearless as your audience grows Doing things that are uncomfortable for other people   Resources: Learn more: caraalwill.com Read: Girl on Fire Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: Whenever I get a chance to have a glass of champagne with someone, I’m probably not going to pass it up. With Cara Alwill being the creator of the Champagne Diet blog, I needed more of that. She is one of the most down to earth, champagne-loving girls girls I know. She has a new book called Girl on Fire that you are not going to want to miss.   Question Highlights:   What was the difference between working with publishers and self-publishing?  Why do people always wait to be chosen instead of choosing themsel

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting clear on what you want Going on manifest walks How to manifest big goals My core values   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Today I want to talk about specificity. Why is it so important to be so specific in our lives with what we are asking for? You must be clear on what you want, even if you don’t know what it is for sure. You will need those details to manifest the life you want.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Crying at work Finding people worth the effort Staying committed when your tribe isn’t Finding a tribe when you travel a lot Staying connected   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about staying motivated when your tribe isn’t onboard, finding a tribe when you travel, and staying connected when life gets busy!   Question 1: @alstew22 We finished your book, now what? Half of us want to keep going and the others don't seem like they are interested or committed.   Question 2: @laurenksorensen How do you find your tribe when you travel a lot?   Question 3: @stbarbeau How do you stay connected to your tribe when life gets busy?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting your family to buy in on your business ideas Missing out on the joy in our lives due to clutter How every yes is saying no to something else Setting boundaries The “sandwich” strategy Giving yourself space Having a priority list instead of a to do list   Resources: Learn more: tonyadalton.com Read: joyofmissingout.com Instagram: @tonya.i.dalton Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: When I interviewed Tonya Dalton for this week’s show, I instantly knew I wanted to connect more with her in my life. She is a productivity expert, and we all could use some tools there. This podcast is so much fun and so clarifying, and you will find ways to get hacks out of this even if you are not a business owner or entrepreneur.   Question Highlights: How did you start doing what you do? Where do we start with productivity? What does JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) mean? How do we say no when it’s really

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How joy and grief go hand in hand -Processing grief and letting yourself feel it -Not isolating yourself -Supporting yourself   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Joy and grief exist together on the same highway. While holding my dream event, my best friend and puppy, Waffles, passed away. If you’re in a good place right now, don’t worry, this will only make it better. And if you’re experiencing grief and loss, I express my deepest sorrow for you. In the process of experiencing pain and loss, I’m also noticing my heart expanding in love as well.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Being supported by friends -Sharing your pain to bond more with people -Tools to help you be courageous -Jumping into the fear -Asking for help -Letting people know you’re there   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: We’re back with another episode of Questionably Awesome with me and Evans! We’ve got our favorite quotes of the week, and we answer your questions about courage and helping others in your life to be more courageous.   Review of the Week:   AmandaLeeSouthernSoul "More than just a podcast!  “Earn Your Happy” is amazing . Not only is it incredible alone - making me laugh, cry and feel like I’m connected to a supportive community, but is a gateway to new podcasts, inspirational people to follow on instagram along with adding to my ever growing book collection! I binge at work and get those weird looks when I bust out laughing at Lori and Evans (whatever totally worth it)

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How our environment can feed who we are -Getting out of a creative block -Giving yourself grace to have incomplete ideas -The “tortured artist” -Having a human connection while remaining anonymous -Making room for possibilities -Finding a balance between creative and business ambitions -Feeling stuck and how to get unstuck   Resources: -Atticuspoetry.com -The Truth About Magic -@atticuspoetry -Wine: winc.com/lostpoet -Podcast: atticuspoetry.com/pages/podcast -becomealigned.com     Show Notes: Atticus, the two-time anonymous best-selling author has taken the world by storm with his beautiful poetry and his powerful themes of love and strength of the human spirit. He remains anonymous so he can “write from the shadows” and share from his heart without judgement. I went deep on asking him about this, wondering what it’s like to create like that, and how we can art from a place where we feel exposed.   Question Highlights: -How did your environment

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How training others can lead to the growth you need -Quieting our limiting beliefs -How confidence comes from overcoming difficulties   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: We’ve got another quickie this week, and to add to the fun I’ve got a special guest today that you’ve probably heard before, Lindsey Schwartz. We’re in the middle of our “train the trainer” event, Eventluv, for speakers and facilitators. We talk about how training can lead to growth, and about how doing the hard things you need to do is what results in real confidence and magic.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Reflecting and setting intentions for the new year -Identifying the underlying theme of last year -Feeling lost and anxious -Becoming the person you need to be without it hurting -Enjoying where you’re already at   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about reflections, feeling lost, making transitions, and enjoying life.   Question 1: @magzszs How do you transition from an old environment into your new environment without being rude?   Question 2: @alycek.peterson How do you allow yourself to trust the process?  What triggers taking action?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -The transformations that Tara has seen -Showing up regardless of your mood -Practicing consistency daily -Holding a mirror up to yourself -Taking massive action -Avoiding self-sabotage -Living guilt-free -Setting aside time for yourself -How important communication is   Resources: -tararomano.com -toneandtease.com -yourlifeunleashedevent.com -Instagram: @tara_romano -becomealigned.com   Show Notes: Tara Romano, every year at my Bliss event, blows everyone’s mind, rocks their world, and makes them feel 100 times sexier. Her heart is so beautiful, and she is that person who you feel so invited to be your biggest, best self in front of. She makes doing crazy dance moves feel comfortable. She is hilarious, she is fun, and she is so talented. We get into her mindset, where it comes from, and how you can unleash yourself to show up as that wild, big, bold, sexy version of yourself.   Question Highlights: -How did y

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Using visualization to have breakthroughs Facing the things you are afraid of Embracing the things you are meant to do Starting the things you need to and following through   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: I have a huge ask for you. No matter how you feel about visualization, I want you to go along with me. For me, and so many top performers, visualization is so important. Just keep your eyes closed and let your mind wander. We’re going to be going through a process of start, stop, face, and embrace. Get comfortable, because we’re going to be here for the next 20 minutes.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being in transition Turning unwanted criticism into compassion The importance of communication Having tough conversations Letting go of the mainstream idea of balance Talk to yourself as if you’re talking to a friend Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Watch: Radical Candor Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about transitions, communication, and work/life/everything else balance. Review of the Week: mandisueday Lori’s heartfelt and motivating messages are top of her game! When her co-host Evans joined, the podcast gained a playful and witty spirit that I absolutely adore! While listening to this podcast, I gained my first client! I also gained more self-appreciation and a BIG ‘ol healthy dose of laughter.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -How Ali helps brands + influencers work together -Growth mode + creating a company culture -Celebrating employee milestones -Keeping up with an ever-changing social media landscape -Figuring out TikTok -Moving past imposter syndrome -Making mistakes + not getting bent up over them -Having a strong why behind a product -Creating authentic social media content   Resources:   -besocialpr.com -Instagram: @besocialgroup -Instagram: @aligrant -Read: Radical Candor -becomealigned.com Show Notes: Ali Grant is a leader who has built an extraordinary business. Her company, Be Social, helps influencers and corporations build powerhouse brands. Be Social is currently scaling and growing, so this conversation is a must-listen if you are interested in building a vision bigger than yourself and want to know how it’s done.   Question Highlights: -How do you create a company culture if you're a small business? -How do you sh

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Making every year better than your last even if it’s hard -Making choices that don’t betray yourself -Busting your ass but also taking time to rest + recover -Creating a sense of urgency to get your message out -Believing that you are loved + protected by God or the Universe -The bravery involved in failing + the potential for failure to propel us into bigger arenas   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Before we really get stuck into 2020, I want you to take time here to be proud of the things that you've done. Think of a moment last year where you showed up when you didn't want to, and got results. We have to get really grateful for these moments. And I want to say welcome to 2020. Welcome to this epic opportunity where you get to create a year that is different from the last and you get to make choices in the direction that you want to go. This is truly time to create and rise up a

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -The downside of gossip -Creating a new position for yourself at work -Taking the time to appreciate the little things -What to read if you struggle to find the time   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Happy new year! Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. We cover goal-setting at work, setting an intention to find joy in your life and how to meet your reading goals.    Review of the Week: MsLids Another aha moment thanks to Lori and Evans! Whenever I need some inspiration, laughter or an aha moment, I tune into Earn Your Happy, and usually there is always something in an episode that is exactly what I need to hear. I was listening to Evans and Lori talk about pivots and Lori was sharing the story ab

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Our Become Aligned course -The experiential economy + EventLuv -Our New Year’s Eve manifesting ritual -Why Chris decided not to go to Justin Beiber’s party + P Diddy’s 50th birthday -How Lori’s building a physical product business  -Chris’ plan to write a book in 2020 -Mentally detaching from the desire to please people -Saying no to things, even when you want to support people -The need to keep growing + developing -Having tough conversations with people because you want to love them more -Facing reality about your physical health -The fine line between giving yourself grace + holding yourself accountable -Knowing your value + obeying the law of chemistry   Resources: -fortheloveofmoney.com -Instagram: @chriswharder -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: This episode is with my husband, Chris Harder. He interviewed me for our end-of-year wrap on his show, For The Love Of Money, and I liked it so much I decided to share it with you. It is al