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Henry answers a listener question regarding 50/50 custody.

This clip is from the website Dads in Distress.  This show how desparate a father can be when he loses his family, to the point of suicide. FOr more information on Dads in Distress visit: http://www.dadsindistress.asn.au/index.html For more free audio programs visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com    

Domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior per-perpetrated by an intimate partner against another. Domestic violence results in physical injury, psychological trauma, and sometimes death. The consequences of domestic violence can cross generations and truly last a lifetime. Attorney, Henry Gornbein is our guest on Divorce Source Radio as we discuss, Domestic Violence against Women. Topics in The Program Include: How to recognize the signs of Domestic Violence How abusers try to control their partner The difference between Physical and Mental Abuse How to plan a safe exit strategy The role of a domestic violence Shelter And where to seek help if you are an abuser For more information and programs, visit: http://www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

It used to be that courts would assist in dividing a couples assets during a divorce, but during these tough economic times, it seems like many couples are dividing debt. This program explores your options if you are considering bankruptcy before, during or after your divorce. Our guest is Bankruptcy Attorney, Douglas Kuthy. Topics Include: • What are the advantages and disadvantages of filing bankruptcy? • Understand the different chapters of bankruptcy and decide which is the best option for you • What happens if your spouse files for bankruptcy after your divorce? • What to do if you are having a hard time making mortgage and credit card payments • If your spouse files for bankruptcy, will it affect your spousal support or child custody payments? www.bankruptcylawyerspllc.com  

The Friend of The Court enforces court orders pertaining to custody, parenting time and child support. In this program, we speak with Friend of The Court referee, Mark Sherbow to give you a better idea of the inner workings of the Friend of The Court system as it relates to divorce and child custody issues. Topics in this program include: - The role of a referee and how they work hand in hand with the judge to oversee your case. - How Child Support Orders are reviewed and how referee's mediate child support petitions - How a hearing works with a friend of the court referee - What to do if you are paying child support and you lose your job -  How hearing days work - Key issues regarding custody and parenting time disputes - How to prepare for your meeting with the friend of the court referee

Attorney Henry Gornbein and I interview  Judge James Alexander, a family court judge in Michigan, who helps us understand the court process as it relates to divorce and child custody issues. Topics covered in this program include: ·         What types of cases a Family Court handles ·         How to prepare yourself for motions and/or your trial ·         Making sure your lawyer knows your case and is prepared to tell the judge exactly what you want ·         Identify if your attorney is a problem solver or a problem creator ·         You'll get a feel for a judge's case load and realize that you'll only have a few minutes to state your case on motion day. ·         And finally, well take an in-depth look at the misuse of Personal Protection Orders related to divorce cases.

A high conflict divorce is never a good thing and is typically ramped up by the personalities involved.  During this type of divorce, a war is created that is costly and damaging to the children and the divorcing couples. In this program Dr. Larry Friedberg explains the differences between the friendly divorce, the business-like divorce and the high conflict divorce. You will also gain insight into why couples go this path and learn how a partner with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder adds fuel to the fire in a high conflict situation. Finally, we have some suggestions to circumvent this path that can save you and your family a lot of grief.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

When you have children and your ex remarries or becomes involved with someone, there are plenty of adjustments that need to be made beyond new living arrangements.“Life After Divorce – Step Parenting Issues”, discusses:  If its proper for your kids to call their new stepparent mom or dad. – We’ll talk about The role of disciplining your child by a stepparent,  and going to find ways to communicate with your ex’s new spouse or partner.  Most importantly we’re going to show you how to remain an important part of your Child's life.Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest for this program.  For more information visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

The primary purpose and main focus of the custody evaluation is to determine what is in the best interests of the child.  A competent assessment will include a skilled clinical interview and history of the family dynamics. Generally one parent doesn’t win and the other parent lose custody.  Rather, each parent's role with the children may be outlined, and as a result, one may get to spend more time or less time with the children. Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and he explains the custody evaluation process during this program.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com 

Part of a divorce is the division of property. The marital home used to be one of a couple's major assets but due to the current economy, the equity in many homes has been turned upside down leaving couples with little or no equity and in some cases, the couples owe more than their house is worth. In this program, we discuss the difference between Real Property and Personal Property; we’ll look at residential and commercial real estate holdings. And if you own a business, you’ll learn how businesses are valued and dealt with during a divorce. We'll also discuss how Boats, planes, cars, furnishings, Stock Assets, Pensions, collectibles, and Inheritance come into play when dividing property.   Show Guest: Attorney, Henry Gornbein

When many of us embark on divorce, it’s anything but civil.  Anger can create the "win at any cost" mentality.  If the attorney representing you is overly litigious, you may find yourself on the expensive path of hearings and a trial, and in the end, will you really come out ahead?  You have to weigh the financial and mental cost of this path against what you expect to gain.  Relationships will be torn farther apart, anger will be raised to a new high and if you have children, how will this fallout affect them? This program will discuss: - How to size up your attorney and not let them inflame your divorce with unnecessary anger and litigation. - How unscrupulous attorneys over sell their clients with false hope and promises.  - How to keep the peace in a divorce. - The Do’s and Don’ts of a divorce. For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

Surviving Divorce explores the five stages of anger and grief as it relates to a divorce. The five stages of divorce are: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression/Pain, Acceptance/Recovery. It's harder to get over a divorce than the death of a loved one.  Learn ways to cope with your hurt, anger and pain and discover how to come out the other side of divorce a healthy and happy person. This is a "Must Hear" program for anyone experiencing the emotional pain of divorce.  For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

How do lawyers and psychologists work together when child custody is an issue and in a divorce with a high level of conflict? Psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg and attorney Henry Gornbein are guests and discuss: Counseling for high conflict couples for the sake of the children. -  How to set up a communications protocol with high conflict couples. - Does the conflict end after re-marriage? - Learn how to not re-marry the same type of person you are divorcing. - Is taking your children to counseling a good or bad idea? - How to stay away from “shark” attorneys who want to litigate and save money and relationships by pre-packaging your divorce. - Create a plan for an amicable divorce.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. 

If you’ve decided to separate or get a divorce and have children, your next important decision should be about co-parenting.  Divorce may be the end of a marriage, but it is not the end of the family.  People who separate but continue to work cooperatively as parents give their children the best chances for a smooth adjustment to living in two separate households and continued growth. Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg shows us ways to communicate with your ex without hostility for the good of your children. Learn how to: Be respectful of your ex spouse. Resolve conflicts and discuss major issues privately, not in front of the children. Not confide, complain or grumble about your ex to your kids – you need family, friends or a therapist for that role. Not use our kids as messengers between you and the other parent. Assure our kids that both parents will listen to feelings and address needs cooperatively.

Divorce is difficult on children at any age.  The psychological effects of divorce on children are more extreme when they’re forced to endure a long, drawn-out custody battle. These children suffer from a variety of psychological problems like denial, guilt, low self-esteem, physical problems, depression, anger, panic, destructive or even criminal behavior. Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and discusses ways to help your children through your divorce. You will learn: How to tell your children about your divorce, How to help them with their shared living arrangements and Find ways to make this an easier transition for the entire family. For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  

Divorce is a complex and traumatic experience for most people.  The so called “simple” divorce is all too rare. Although most divorces don’t end up in a trial, there are alternatives to an acrimonious and combative divorce. On this program, we take a look at ways to get you through the divorce process with less stress and come out the other side with less animosity towards your ex.  Attorney, Henry Gornbein, discusses Alternate Dispute Resolution.  Learn how Facilitative Mediation and Collaborative Law can be a viable option to a traditional divorce and help couples retain control over their lives.   If children are involved, keeping a harmonious relationship after divorce should be one of primary concerns and ADR offers a means of maintaining an amicable relationship with your ex as opposed to doing battle and growing further apart  during a litigious traditional divorce. For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com  

Dealing with child custody and visitation is one of the most difficult aspects of getting divorced.  Divorce and child custody cases are often sensitive and emotional matters. In this program, we’ll discuss The different types of child custody, child support, and visitation.  Attorney, Henry Gornbein, will explain how you can step back from your anger and do what’s in the best interest of your children.  Henry also emphasizes not wasting your your financial resources through unnecessary litigation.   Henry explains how to have a "game-plan" and provides a step-by-step guide to prepare you for your divorce and child custody case.   This is a very important program for anyone divorcing with children. Visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com for more information.

Divorce is an emotional experience.  Learn how to make the process easier by selecting the proper attorney.  Henry Gornbein, an attorney and expert of over 40 years in family law, is interviewed and provides helpful information for those entering divorce.   For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. 

The second episode of Divorce Source Radio explores the emotional side of divorce. Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages. Renowned  psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities. For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com.  For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com 

Why is it so hard to end an affair? Once a hurt spouse discovers their spouse is having an affair often and for good reason the hurt spouse demands that the affair be ended immediately.  This is not an unreasonable expectation but it is one that may take some time.  In this podcast we discuss some of the reasons why ending the affair may take some time and what the hurt partner can do in the meantime.  The solution is not always to end the marriage or committed relationship. David’s Terminology and Definitions: Hurt Partner – The partner in the relationship who has been “cheated” on Participating Partner – The partner that having the affair Affair Partner – The partner outside the relationship in the affair with the Participating Partner For more on David Feder visit his website, Close Connections at: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.   At Close Connections we are determined to guide you through to the other side of infidelity. We are committed to help you live an extraordinary life, whether it be together or apar