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The ability to move on after your divorce entails the letting go of the past with its emotional baggage and negative emotions. If you can accomplish this feat then the heavy burdens you have been carrying will lift and you will experience the liberation of freedom: the ability to move unimpeded towards whatever goal you establish for yourself. Ask yourself: what is the price I am paying in holding onto what no longer exists? What is the cost of being chained to my negative emotions and perspective? Is it costing me my health? My peace of mind? My relationship with my children? My happiness? My optimism and enthusiasm for life? I assure you that the price you pay is very, very high and it is you alone, not your ex, that pays that price. How would you feel if you were free of all that negative stuff? Would you feel the world contains new possibilities and opportunities for you? Would you feel light? Would your body and heart stop aching? Would you be able to be happy again? Would you have renewed energy? How wo

Kelly Morrisey has created a connection with people from around the world with her creation of ABetterLifeAfterDivorce.com.  (www.aBetterLifeAfterDivorce.com) Kelly provides international divorce recovery and personal growth strategies, tools and resources and has uplifted and enlightened many of those experiencing the trauma and crisis of divorce. People from all over the world schedule private tele-sessions with Kelly Morrisey and seek her counsel. She holds tele-seminars revolving around the areas of divorce recovery, personal growth and building a strong loving relationship. Kelly Morrisey is respected and endorsed by many of the top experts in the personal development and relationship field such as Bob Proctor (The Secret), Tony Robbins, Denis Waitley, Dr. Wayne Dyer and Marianne Williamson. In this conversation with Kelly we discuss:  Is it possible to have a better life after divorce How to recover from divorce Importance of keeping your kids out of your personal business related to your divorce The e

While all decision during divorce are challenging, deciding whether to stay and mend your marriage or to divorce is one of the most stressful and emotionally charged.  It is often drenched in judgement, shame, guilt, fear and uncertainty. Today we help you to unweave your fears and limiting beliefs from the circumstances you are assessing so that you can become clear in determining your best next steps.  We also share the huge value in staying long enough to work on your shortcoming so that, regardless of your choice, you emerge healthier in all your relationships. For more on Karen McMahon and Journey Beyond Divorce or to book a private session, visit: www.JourneyBeyondDivorce.com.

If you are going through a divorce, chances are you've heard some negative thoughts running through your head.  Am I good enough?  Was this my Fault?  Will I ever find another partner?  Many going through a divorce experience these types of thoughts early on during the grief phase and this is quite normal and understandable.  But If you can't seem to move beyond these thoughts, it's time to explore them and ask yourself are my feelings and interpretations of my situation really true?  More times than not you'll discover these thoughts are not your reality but rather the meaning you have attached to them. In this episode of Divorce Recovery, Shelley Stile shows us how to sort fact from fiction and helps us to see the truth.  By doing this, we empower ourselves to see the reality or our situation and can begin to let go of negative self talk.  Divorce is an opportunity for personal growth and Shelley provides us with tips to feel better mentally and physically during this tough time and helps us to discover our

This podcast begins a series of programs taking a closer look at infidelity.  Our guide throughout the series is David Feder, founder of My Life After an Affair. David has a passion for helping people recover from the trauma of infidelity and his practice is dedicated to accomplishing just that.  As David says, “everyone will recover from infidelity....the question is HOW?” This series will look: How affairs begin Sexual versus emotional affairs The role sex addiction place in affairs Should you admit to an affair? How to rebuild trust after an affair The recovery process and much more.   Listener note: This is Part 1 of this series, and if you are finding this program through our archive directory, itunes or Stitcher Radio, it is advised you begin with program 1 and follow the podcasts in their original order. For more on David Feder, visit: http://MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com

In this new episode of Being Single, Life Coach, Nicole Pisa Gibson, helps us understand how to have healthy relationships.

(Listener Note: This is Step #5 of this 12 step series. To take full advantage of this please visit our show archive and listen to the episodes in their proper order). When we are faced with divorce, we go through a grief process. The death of our marriage brings the loss of the hopes and dreams we had as a couple, the loss of our normal family life, friends, community, etc. Grief is the normal reaction to loss. No two people grieve loss in the same way. You'll learn that there is no "one size fits all" approach to grief recovery, and yet there are experiences we all share when overcome by grief. There are a range of emotions - often referred to as the stages of grief - that you might experience with the death of your marriage: Denial, Anger, Ambivalence, Depression, and Acceptance. Karen and Carrie explore what it means to grieve well and some of the "Rules of Grief" we have learned growing up that need to be consciously examined and set aside in order for you to move into acceptance of your losses. Learn pr

Today we take a big picture look at what is entailed when you enter the world of divorce.  This series is designed to dovetail our 12 Step Divorce Recovery Podcast series by helping listeners understand the divorce landscape, prepare for the many stages and phases and effectively negotiate the bumps and bends with grace and dignity. While our 12 Step Recovery Podcast series guides you through the foundational work that is essential to navigating your divorce with greater ease, this series is designed to support you in being prepared and effective as you engage in each stage of your divorce. We discuss everything from the decision, Should I Stay or Go, to the many legal and financial choices and complexities, to processing reactions of spouse, children, friends and in-laws and we continue through to post divorce issues including where to live, how to re-enter the workforce and when and how to begin dating again. Request a Free Rapid Relief Call at www.rapidreliefcall.com For more information on Journey Beyond

(Listener Note: This is Step #4 of this 12 step series. To take full advantage of this please visit our show archive and listen to the episodes in their proper order). During divorce there is no shortage of opportunities to get upset.  Whether it is a disagreement with your soon-to-be-ex, dealing with the emotional reactions of loved ones, feeling frustrated with the legal system or being paralyzed by fear and uncertainty, it is common to feel raw, reactionary and disempowered! Today we discuss noticing how we unknowingly add to our own emotional upset.  We highlight where you do have control and encourage you to begin to take back your power.  When you follow the practices and engage in the tools that we share, you will begin to experience more calm and confidence regardless of whether or not your external circumstances change.  Today's show invites you to develop a new understanding of the value of acceptance, guides you to stay Solution Oriented and offers a plan for engaging in a manner that brings your c

(Listener Note: This is Step #3 of this 12 step series. To take full advantage of this please visit our show archive and listen to the episodes in their proper order). We have all had the experience of obsessing over thoughts during divorce.  Whether trying to understand how this happened or worrying about what the future holds or re-running that argument in your mind over and over again.  I call it loop thinking when we feel like we are on a mental hamster-wheel or caught in a mental rut.    Today’s we examine the four categories these mental obstacles fall into and how they keep us stuck and cause us to increase the emotional pain we are experiencing.  Begin to see how our pain originates with our thoughts and how once we are aware of those that pull us down, we can begin to consciously change the way we think.  This powerful concept frees us to choose to respond rather than react and ultimately to communicate with more confidence.  Karen McMahon and Lisa Brick share practices, tools and exercises to help y

Today on Being Single with Steve Peck and Toni Morales, Yakov Smirnoff joins us to talk about his new comedy show, the Happily After Laughter Tour and explains how  laughter can effect relationships in a powerful way.   A mainstay in the entertainment scene since the late 1970's, Smirnoff was a regular guest star on the award winning NBC sitcom, Night Court. He has been a popular guest of numerous national TV shows including the Tonight Show. You've seen him on HBO and enjoyed his humor on his critically acclaimed Showtime special. Yakov has also co-starred in movies with Robin Williams in Moscow on the Hudson, Tom Hanks in The Money Pit, Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson in Heartburn and Richard Pryor in Brewster's Millions. Yakov was invited to perform at the White House for several presidents and honored guests. President Ronald Reagan called Yakov a "national treasure."   In his newest endeavor, "The Happily Ever Laughter Tour", Smirnoff takes his comedy to a new level to showcase laughter's effects on rela

(Listener Note: This is Step #2 of this 12 step series. To take full advantage of this please visit our show archive and listen to the episodes in their proper order). Divorce is deeply painful.  We may experience different emotions ranging from hurt or anger, shame or disappointment, fear or bitterness.  In order to heal as we go through this transition, it is vital that we not judge or avoid our feelings but rather accept that they simply are.  In our quick fix society we see the devastation of avoiding our feelings with pharmaceutical drugs and personal addictions.  Emotional pain seems too hard to handle so we stuff it, numb it, work harder, play harder, shop more, binge on Netflix reruns, etc.  Yet no matter where we go, or how fast we try to get there, we can't outrun our feelings. Wherever we go, there we are...with our pain.  The only way out is through.  Karen and Carrie share gentle, practical, and doable strategies for feeling and processing painful emotions in a way that enables us to move through

For all of the divorces files every year, there are at least as many if not more who contemplate getting a divorce. Facing such a big decision can be daunting. Feelings of sadness, guilt, fear and anger are normal now, especially if your spouse is unaware of the extent of your unhappiness or you feel unsupported. You are not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of people feeling stuck in matrimonial confusion. No matter how difficult the circumstances you face, there is a solution. In this program, Susan Pease Gadoua, author of Contemplating Divorce, A Step-byStep Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go, addresses the issues individuals face as they decide to work through their marriage issues or file for divorce. Topics in the program Include: Understanding that you are not alone in the process of contemplating divorce How to manage your emotions during this difficult time Gain a better understanding of what your curret relationship is Learn helpful tools for working on your marriage should you choose t

  There are shows and then there are shows.  THIS is one of those shows.  If you find yourself single and dating, you know this can be a difficult process.   On this episode of Being Single, Steve and Toni speak with one of the country’s most popular dating coaches, Lisa Shield. (www.LisaShield.com)   Lisa shares how she found her dream man after 100 dates and encourages us to not be afraid of the dating process, dip our toe in the water, and find the love we deserve.  This is s “Must Listen To” program for any of our single listeners.  And because we don’t have a time limit on shows, this one lasts two hours, but we bet you’ll be using your pause button and be coming back for the entire show.   Show topics include:   What is “Naked Dating? Do men and women and women want the same thing? How we go about getting our needs met? How important is physical attraction? Do men seek sex for different reasons than women? Male vs. female fantasies Has women’s lib changed the landscape of relationships? The importance

This is the first episode in our twelve-part series from Journey Beyond Divorce with Karen McMahon and Lisa Brick. The emotional storm of divorce creates chaos and uncertainty and often leaves us struggling to keep our heads above water. Emotions from fear and anger, pain and devastation can sink us on a daily basis. Today’s show Curb the Conflict of Divorce details two effective strategies that offer you the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of and control over your emotional reactions. After listening to today’s discussion, you will see the suffering you create by the way you react. You will also receive tangible, immediate action steps that you can take to change your experience. Karen and Lisa will discuss the power in shifting the focus off our spouse and looking at our part in the turmoil. They will challenge you to notice what triggers you, how your choose to perceive situations and what happens when you step back, slow down and embrace new perspectives and behaviors that are more aligned

In this episode of Divorce recovery with Shelley Stile, we explore Unenforceable Expectations as they relate to divorce and life in general. Expectations or something we expect to go our way, can lead to resentment and disappointment. Our desire to expect everything to go our way can even be a form of self-sabotage. As an example of Unenforceable Expectations, have you ever: ·     Expected your ex to treat you with kindness and respect? ·     Expected your ex to be fair regarding your financial settlement? ·     Expected you ex to be a wonderful father or mother to your children? ·     Expected the judge and mediator to see things your way? So why do we expect so much from our ex, family and friends? Is this type of expectation a form of control? Shelly Stile addresses these questions and explains how to accept the "Nature of Life", you'll have good days and bad. Your Self-imposed impossible expectations are a major source of your inability to let go of the pain of your divorce and move

Have you ever listened to the Negative Mind Chatter that goes on in your head during the course of your divorce?  Thoughts like "You aren't good enough", and fearful inner voices chattering "You'll be alone for the rest of your life". Negative mind chatter can be rooted from our childhood.  During extreme stress, such as going through a divorce, our emotions have the ability to resurface with feelings of insecurity or not being "good enough", only now this negative self chatter is amplified. In this epidsode of Divorce Recovery with Shelley Stile, Divorce Recovery/Life Coach Shelley Stile shows us ways to turn off the negative self talk and train ourselves to focus on building a positive fantastic future. Contact Info for Shelley Stile: www.LifeAfterYourDivorce.com

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(Episode #1, The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch)   Help, I think my marriage is over, now what should I do?   Is divorce always the outcome when there is conflict in the marriage?  Of course not, there are options to consider, and help available to put your marriage back on track.  This episode explores the role of marriage counseling, and the next steps required if the marriage results in divorce.  Once the decision to divorce is made, there are many considerations and issues to ponder.  Our guest, psychologist Dr. Robert A. Simon http://dr-simon.com/ provides us with tips and strategies for getting through the early days of separation with your sanity and dignity intact.     Topics in this program include: The benefits of marriage counseling Building your support network Finding a therapist Telling your children about divorce Emotional healing and coping strategies And so much more……..

Steve Peck and Toni Morales are back, and asking the question, How's Your Sex Life? This program features world renowned hormone replacement specialist, Edward Lichten, M.D..  Many couples had sexual issues with their partner long before their relationship broke up.  The question is, why and how do we prevent this in future relationships? Dr. Lichten explains how environmental toxins are harming us and hurting our sex life.  For our female listeners, can you remember your partner with no desire for sex, a lack of energy and feeling more depressed than he used to?  And men, has your partner lost her drive for sex and did her periods cause emotional swings that made you feeling like you were living with a crazy person? Dr. Lichten explains what's going on and tells how we can bring back the loving feelings you had the first time you fell in love through hormone replacement therapy.  If you find yourself single and looking to begin a new, passionate and energetic life, this is the program for you. For more infor