Divorce Source Radio

The business of sorting through years of stuff when divorcing can be overwhelming. The bigger your home, the more space you have to stuff stuff!  Now it’s time to purge...but you get stuck in every box, free falling down memory lane and getting little accomplished.    Today’s guest, professional organizer, Sarah Grace has a new and invigorating way of looking at your stuff.  She helps you to tap into the emotions embodied in your belongings and guides you to let go of that which does not serve your new life and to honor those items that are special to you.    She further explains the importance of a support network, the value of systems and the necessity of storage spaces when it comes to paperwork, bills and necessary but seldom used items etc. You will emerge from today’s show with a revitalized plan to sort through your stuff and reclaim your space!         Click here for more information on Journey Beyond Divorce.   Click here for more information on Sarah Grace.                   

The conversation and decision around what to do with the marital home can be an emotional minefield. For many, your home is your largest financial investment and the  foundation of stability in our lives, it is a hot trigger for most divorcing couples  Today’s guest, Divorce Real Estate Specialist, Kathy Broddock takes us through her process for assisting you in determining what RE professional to work with which is a vital first step.    Kathy helps you determine if you can stay or must sell, what you can you afford and if renting or buying is a better choice.  Together we explore how you can best decide where to live, and the importance of ensuring that you get something special, that you never had before, in your new home. Kathy’s expertise and approach is a beacon as you begin to entertain housing options for the next chapter of your life.    For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce Click Here.

Join Steve in a special conversation with Los Angeles based Casting Producer, Lindsay Spaulding, as they discuss an exciting casting opportunity for Season 2 of HGTV's Unspouse My House. This Home Renovation show, hosted by Orlando Soria, is searching for Los Angeles Homeowners who are looking to refresh their living space post-breakup. Lindsay and the casting team are seeking newly single/divorced (within 10 years) Los Angeles homeowners who are ready to renovate the home they once shared with their ex. If you live in Los Angeles, own your home, and are ready to clear out the emotional baggage and lingering memories of your ex, then this is the show for you! For more info or to apply, please email: lindsaycasting@gmail.com or unspoused@wyldsidemedia.com (put ATTN: Lindsay in the subject of email)

Today’s show acknowledges the tender emotions you experience while negotiating custody.  We encourage you to notice the nightmare stories that create fear and tension, derailing your negotiations. Our guest, Josh Hecht, shares strategies to cut through the acrimony, negotiate for both the current and the long term needs of your children, and insure that you consider the nitty gritty details to guarantee a rock solid agreement.  This is one of the most stressful aspects of your divorce negotiation, listen in, take notes and make sure your attorney understands that the emotional health of your children is your #1 priority. For more on Karen and Journey Beyond Divorce visit: JourneyBeyondDivorce.com.

If you are in a bicultural marriage and are facing divorce this show is for you!  As if divorce is not overwhelming enough, those facing ‘international divorce’ complexities encounter an entirely unique and complex set of challenges which are even further intensified if there are children involved.     Join us as we speak to matrimonial attorneys Nicole Centracchio and Brian Reed who specialize in international divorce.  They share valuable tips on how and when to make the decision to file for divorce, the importance of choosing jurisdiction and how to protect your children’s ability to have access to both parents. They discuss the importance of understanding and navigating differing value systems including cultural, religious, schooling and child rearing.  Get your pen ready, it will be like sipping from a fire hose!   For more on Journey Beyond Divorce Click Here.

The 10th episode of Being Single is over 2-hours of all things sex with a few other topics thrown in for good measure. Join Steve & Toni for their weekly coffee talk with special guest Dr. Edward Lichten.  Dr. Lichten is a gynecologist and anti-aging medicine specialist and no leaf is left unturned in this conversation.   From Menopause and vaginal dryness to condoms, orgasms, what women really want and girl's boy toys, this show has it all. And as with all Being Single shows, the conversation is tongue-in-cheek and a lot of fun. We realize you're probably not going to listen for over 2-hours at one time but that's what the pause button is for.  This is your weekly Toni and Steve fix.  Enjoy! Please "Like" our Facebook page and join our community at www.Facebook.com/BeingSingleRadio.  Feel free to write with thoughts, comments and suggestions at: DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.  For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. 

The wide array of logistical details and emotional tensions surrounding co parenting post divorce can be a minefield for unnecessary conflict. It’s hard enough to parent while living under the same roof due to all the details of our children’s busy lives.  When parenting under separate roofs, managing all the details of your shared parenting schedule, tracking extracurricular activities along with who's picking up and dropping off, plus tracking expenses, who’s paid and who owes and needing a plethora of medical, educational and social information and contact numbers can send a co parents into a tailspin of blame and accusation.  There is a great solution available via modern technology.  Today we are introducing you to a platform called Our Family Wizard which buffers reactions and streamlines communication enabling you to co parent with greater ease. Tune in as we speak to CEO of Our Family Wizard, Jai Kasoon. For more on Journey Beyond Divorce visit: JourneyBeyondDivorce.com.

Raising special needs children has a unique set of gifts and challenges.  When negotiating divorce, it is essential that you can advocate for the support they will continue to need.  Guest, Randi Karmel specializes in this area and discusses the pitfalls inherent and possibilities available through the negotiation process.  Randi shares negotiation danger signs to be aware of as well as resources, organizations and advocates ready to assist you, financial support available for schooling and what you need to do to receive it. This is a must listen show for anyone entering divorce with special needs children. For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit: www.JourneyBeyondDivorce.com.

In today’s show we discuss how to choose the best legal approach with your children’s mental and emotional health front and center. Children can experience significant emotional damage as a result of divorce, but they don’t have to.    While it is understandable that you want to fight for your fair share of time with the kids, we want you to understand the risks that accompany a legal fight wherein children are dragged through the court process and strangers make parenting decisions for you.  Our guest, Larry Sarezsky, discusses the choices available and the impact of those decision when fighting for custody during the legal process. We cover both a standard divorce as well as the challenges in a high conflict scenario.   Fore more information on Karen McMahon visit Journey Beyond Divorce.  For more programs on divorce and life after divorce visit Divorce Source Radio.

In the first episode of Beyond Divorce, Susan Pease Gadoua discusses dating and sex post divorce. Dating and sex after divorce can be a challenge.  Pondering what to wear on a date, where to go, who pays, not to mention how you even find people to date in this brave new world of Internet match-ups, is getting over your reluctance to take a stab at it. Why is it so hard? The post-divorce period can also be a time of new sexual discoveries and these sexual experiences can be absolutely fabulous-and very different from what you were used to, especially as your marriage deteriorated. Susan helps us prepare for the next chapter of our new life in this program. Topics in the program include: When is it the right time to begin dating after divorce? How to find a date Representing yourself honestly during the dating process Pitfalls of dating to watch out for New sexual relationships Being upfront regarding a STD And much more.

In this podcast of BEYOND INFIDELITY, David Feder introduces us to what he believes is a critical phase of his recovery program.  David calls this phase of treatment, PRE-RECOVERY and he states that “it is one of the most important predictors of treatment outcome.”  David continues that “if the participating partner completes the pre-recovery phase successfully, the potential for a successful treatment outcome goes up considerably.  However, the opposite is also true because if the tasks in this phase are not completed well, the potential for a successful treatment outcome drops considerably. You won’t want to miss this podcast as it can predict the future of your relationship. 

In this episode of The Smart Divorce, our guest is Boyd Lemon, a retired lawyer, who reinvented himself as a writer, discusses his memoir Digging Deep:  A Writer Uncovers His Marriages.  This memoir is written with brutal honesty about the process of coming to understand himself and the failure of his marriages.  Boyd’s coming of age as a highly paid lawyer provides insight  into the Mad Man like excesses of the seventies.  Topics in this program include: Mistakes and lessons learned from each marriage and three divorces How the children were affected by each divorce Sex, drink and rock n’ roll – the impact on marriage and divorce The importance of introspection                                                                                                      Exploring the relationships of ex wives

Steve speaks with Dr. David Rendelstein regarding unhealthy weight gain during divorce in this episode. Dr. Rendelstein lost over 100 pounds in 6 months using the very system he now uses to help clients lose the weight they have been battling for years. Join our community at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio or www.Facebook.com/BeinSingleRadio. 

Toni and Steve are back in Being Single V 2.1, discussing everything from what's the best pizza, to who's the worst partner. If you've ever been in a relationship with an addict, you need to hear this episode. As always, these shows are presented in a tongue and cheek way, making them fun to listen to.  Please join our Being Single community by visiting: www.Facebook.com/BeingSingleRadio. 

Today's show focuses on your children and how you can parent through divorce in a way that protects them from the animosity between you and your spouse and honors their rights. We talk with Dr. Mark Banschick, a child psychiatrist who share the negative impact and long term affects children experience when parents do not protect them from the hostility. Dr. Banschick discusses why we tend to act out and react without filters in front of our children and how hard this season is for mom's and dad's to navigate consciously. After explaining why it makes sense, he offers specific strategies for curbing destructive conversations with your kids. Dr. Banschick provides us with a Child's Bill of Rights to guide us. Tune in and you will also receive his free eBook which includes the bill of rights and other tips and strategies. If you have kids, you do not want to miss this show!

Once the decision to divorce has been made one of the greatest daily difficulties is how to live under the same roof with your STBX and all the contention that you are each feelings.  The most effective way of approaching this stage is refining your communication and problem solving skills.   Dr. Dan Thomason explains how easy it is to get caught in arguments about how you are communicating and lose the opportunity to actually communicate effectively. He shares a tool he has created to help couples stay on topic, solution oriented and effective in traversing difficult and triggering topics. Dr. Dan also offers listeners a free eBook that outlines his communication tool, so make sure to tune in!   For more information visit Journey Beyond Divorce.

Steve and Toni discuss how attachment styles affect your relationships, and how trauma has affected your relationships. Other topics include; Strange Dating Sites National Dating and Taco Day Whats It's Like To Be In Therapy For a Man Why Being Alone Is So Important to Being Happy With Future Relationships Follow Toni & Steve on Facebook @ www.Facebook.com/BeingSingleRadio or Instagram @BeingSingleRadio

In the early stages of divorce we experience a powerful emotional sting. Coming to terms with the fact that divorce IS part of your reality often happens when you begin to tell others about it. Today we discuss telling your spouse, children, family, friends and others. We look at the fears and resistance that arises and the questions that you want to ask yourself prior to telling.   Being clear on what you want to say and who you are ready to tell and what your boundaries are around discussing this tender topic will enable you to take this step with greater ease. Everyone will have their own emotional reaction. Preparing for that as well is key to managing your own needs and peace. Throughout the process, being aware, making conscious decisions and setting an intention for how you want your divorce to unfold will enable you to feel empowered, stay calm and negotiate effectively. Tune in today!   For more information on Journey Beyond Divorce visit www.JourneyBeyondDivorce.com. For more programs on divorce and

Deirdre Dyment is an interior designer who believes in designing an overall experience at home that leaves you spiritually energized and equipped to live your life passionately.  Deirdre knows all too well, there’s much more involved in leaving the matrimonial home than packing a suitcase and signing a lease. When she separated from her husband in 2007, she, unusually, helped him get set up in his new place, from stripping the floors and painting the walls to measuring and ordering furniture. They also got their two kids involved in creating their bedrooms. The experience has since motivated Dyment to launch a novel service – post-divorce decorating – that assists in feathering the nests of newly single men in particular, whether it’s coordinating their renovations or sourcing and installing art to enliven their empty walls. Topics in this program include: • What are the different things can be done to make transition easier and less disruptive for children • The emotional strain of leaving the family home;

  Create your Future NOW -  Divorce offers you the Chance to Create the Life You Want and Deserve! Although it might be hard to see if now, your divorce has many hidden gifts in the form of life lessons and deep wisdom that will evolve you as a human being and allow you to move forward into a new and vibrant life. Create the Vision of a New Life and Your Future To create a new way of being, you must have a clear vision of who you are becoming and the life you choose to live.  Identifying what matters to you now and what your passions are is the starting point.  Visualizing that Future Self and your New Life allows us to work backwards from that vision, so that we can begin taking action steps today towards your goal. In this episode of Divorce Recovery, Shelley Stile helps you create a vision of your future self. Shelley discusses how to find what truly has meaning for you and what you are passionate about. Once you are clear about your priorities, you are then free to create a vision of your future; a