Soultalk With Kute Blackson

"You cannot fully love yourself while quietly betraying yourself." In this episode of Soul Talk I dive into a hard truth that most of us are not ready to hear: not all betrayal comes from others. Some of the deepest wounds and pain you carry, you did to yourself. If you've been feeling stuck, hitting the same wall of self-doubt, fear, or sabotage on repeat, or exhausted from pretending, this episode is for you. You are going to dive into the five ways you may have been unconsciously betraying yourself and you will be offered a powerful formula to help you identify, confront, and heal these self-betrayals.  Prepare to align your mind, energy, and actions with your authentic self, reclaim your power, and start living a life of freedom and possibility that you are meant for.   Timestamps: • [01:00] Welcome to Soul Talk: Understanding the depth of self-betrayal and the episode's purpose. • [04:15] Self-Betrayal #1: Saying 'Yes' When Your Soul is Screaming 'No' – Abandoning yourself for the illusion of peace. • [

“Healing is uncomfortable, the dysfunction may be painful, but it’s familiar. Growth requires stepping into the unfamiliar.” What if the wounds you carry aren’t just your own, but echoes of generations before you, and the path to freedom begins not with fixing the past, but by choosing to live differently today? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with psychologist, minister, and bestselling author Dr. Thema Bryant for a conversation that cuts to the heart of healing. Known for her groundbreaking work in trauma recovery and soulful living, Dr. Thema reveals that sensitivity, so often dismissed as weakness, is actually a profound gift, and that the very places we feel most broken can become the birthplace of compassion, resilience, and joy. Together, we explore the hidden ways intergenerational trauma shapes our choices, relationships, and sense of self, and how cycles of pain can finally be interrupted. Dr. Thema shares how forgiveness is often misunderstood, why healing can feel uncomfortable, and the

“Relationship is a spiritual practice. It will awaken you, challenge you, and purify you from the inside out.” Have you ever wondered why relationships start so magically, only to become messy, complicated, and sometimes painful? In the beginning, everything feels effortless: the butterflies, the passion, the fantasy of having finally found “the one.” But then reality sets in. The flaws appear. The masks drop. And you start to ask yourself, “Did I choose the right person?” In this episode of Soul Talk, I take you on a journey through the six phases of a romantic relationship. Drawing from my marriage and years of witnessing couples struggle, grow, and transform, I reveal the deeper purpose of love and why so many of us get stuck in the early stages. If you’ve ever struggled with love, felt like running when things got hard, or wondered how to keep a relationship alive after the initial spark fades, this episode will give you the roadmap. True love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a choice, a practice, and ultimatel

 “The system is geared for wellbeing. When given the right conditions, we naturally move toward it.” What if true healing isn’t found by reliving the past, but by reconnecting with the unshakable support that’s been holding you all along? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with internationally acclaimed movement and breathing specialist Betsy Polatin for a deeply transformative exploration of trauma, embodiment, and the body’s innate capacity to heal. Betsy, celebrated author of Humanual: An Epic Journey to Your Expanded Self, has spent decades guiding performers, musicians, actors, and everyday people toward greater freedom and ease. Drawing from the Alexander Technique, somatic education, and breath awareness, she reveals a life-changing truth: the body remembers what the mind forgets, and you don’t have to recall the story of your trauma to be free from it. We dive into how unprocessed experiences silently shape the way you breathe, move, and respond to life; why healthy anger is essential while sto

“Strength without allowing support often becomes self-abandonment.” Have you ever found yourself being the one everyone leans on, the strong one, the steady one, the one who always shows up? You’re the rock, the caretaker, the leader. But beneath the surface, there’s a quiet ache. A deep fatigue. A part of you is wondering, “When is it my turn to be held?” In this episode of Soul Talk, I open up about the hidden cost of strength. From my early years as the son of a healer and spiritual leader, to the emotional weight I carried as a child, I share how becoming the “strong one” became my identity, and how it nearly kept me from truly healing. We dive into the psychology of hyper-independence, the nervous system’s response to unmet childhood needs, and why so many of us find it easier to give than to receive. This episode is a wake-up call for the silent warriors, the ones who show up for everyone but struggle to let anyone show up for them. Tune into this episode and learn how to release the pressure to be eve

“Be with awareness. Let thought and emotion come and go. Don’t fight or follow. That’s how you find freedom.” What if true freedom isn’t about controlling your mind, but remembering the awareness that’s always been there? In today’s episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with beloved Tibetan meditation master and best-selling author Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche for a soul-stirring conversation on inner peace, joy, and transformation, even in the midst of life’s greatest storms. Born into a lineage of Tibetan masters, Mingyur Rinpoche has spent decades teaching the power of awareness and compassion. But it was during a near-death experience, alone, sick, and penniless on the streets of India, that he had a profound realization: beyond fear, beyond suffering, is a pure, unshakable presence we all carry inside. Together, we explore the real meaning of enlightenment, how to deal with fear, desire, and difficult emotions, and why your thoughts are not who you are. Rinpoche shares simple yet radical practices to help you acc

“You don’t sabotage because you’re afraid to fail. You sabotage because you’re afraid of how powerful you truly are.” Have you ever noticed how things finally start going well — you're in a loving relationship, making more money, feeling happier — and out of nowhere… you pull back? You overthink. You pick a fight. You overspend. You sabotage. But here's the truth: Self-sabotage is not failure — it’s protection. It’s not that you’re broken. It’s that a part of you is trying to keep you safe, even if that means holding you back from everything you’ve prayed for. In this soul-stirring episode, we’re going deep into the real reasons why we sabotage the good in our lives — the subconscious fears, the childhood survival strategies, the nervous system that equates success with danger. It’s time to stop blaming yourself. It’s time to hold yourself with compassion. And most of all — to finally allow yourself to receive what you’ve always deserved. Tune in and learn how to stop sabotaging what you truly deserve.      

“When you heal yourself, it is a spiritual experience.” What if healing isn’t something outside of you, but a remembering of what’s already within? In today’s episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Donna Eden, world-renowned teacher, energy medicine pioneer, and living example of what’s possible when we trust the body’s wisdom. At 16, Donna was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. By her twenties, doctors told her to “get her affairs in order.” But instead of giving up, she turned inward and activated a healing intelligence that transformed her life forever. In this conversation, we explore what true healing means, from chronic illness to emotional trauma, from heartbreak to soul fatigue. Donna shares simple yet powerful energy techniques you can use right now to awaken vitality, move through pain, and reconnect with your joy. We talk about trauma, aging, intuition, seeing energy, and the sacred design of the human body, and why your energy field holds the blueprint for your transformation. Tune in and learn how

“Your soul doesn’t run on human time. It runs on sacred time.” What if the pressure you feel to “hurry up” and have it all figured out… is based on a lie? In this episode of Soul Talk, I dive into one of the most painful illusions we’ve been taught: the belief that we’re behind in life. Whether it’s love, purpose, abundance, or healing, many of us are carrying a quiet grief. Grieving the timeline we thought we should be on. The milestones we expected to hit by now. The version of life our ego mapped out, but our soul never signed off on. We compare ourselves to others. We ask, “Did I miss my moment?” “Am I too late?” But here’s the truth: You are not late. You are right on time. In this episode, I get real about what it means to trust your soul’s divine timeline, even when things feel delayed, quiet, or unclear. I unpack how societal pressure, ego, and unhealed wounds drive us to rush, to push, to force outcomes. But what if your delay is not denial… but divine preparation? I share personal stories from my j

"Asking a man with no arms to hold you, that’s what it’s like to expect love from someone who doesn’t know how." What if the greatest block to love… isn’t your past, but the story you’ve been told about what love is supposed to be? In this raw and revelatory episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Arielle Ford—bestselling author and spiritual teacher—for a soul-stirring conversation about what it really means to love and be loved. Together, we peel back the illusions that keep so many of us stuck in cycles of pain, confusion, or longing. From the myth that love should always feel magical, to the hard truths about emotional safety, forgiveness, and self-worth, Arielle shares relationship wisdom that cuts straight to the soul. We also explore her re-released romantic spiritual thriller The Love Thief—and how fiction can sometimes reveal truth in ways real life can’t. This episode is a deep invitation to let go of the fantasies, release the old stories, and step into the kind of sacred partnership that’s built on

"Just because it feels intense does not mean it's love. Sometimes it’s simply your wounds shaking hands."  What if the intense connection you keep chasing… isn’t actually love? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep into the difference between true, soul-aligned love — and trauma bonding disguised as passion. So many of us have been conditioned to equate emotional chaos with chemistry. But real love? It doesn’t spike your anxiety. It soothes it. I break down how early wounds shape our patterns in relationships, why we confuse familiarity with fate, and how the nervous system plays a hidden role in who we’re drawn to. I’ll also share personal stories, raw truth, and grounded spiritual insights to help you recognize when you’re stuck in a trauma loop — and how to finally break free. If you’ve ever asked: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of relationship?” “Why does love feel so exhausting?” …this episode will give you clarity — and a path to healing. You’ll learn how to rewire your nervous syst

“You can evolve your destiny. That’s why we study astrology, to take the high road of your nature.” What if the reason you're stuck, frustrated, or forcing life… isn’t because something’s wrong with you — but because you’re out of alignment with your soul’s true design?  In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I’m joined by renowned astrologer, psychotherapist, and spiritual teacher Debra Silverman, author of I Don’t Believe in Astrology. Together, we explore how astrology isn’t about superstition or prediction — it’s about gaining deep permission to be who you were always meant to be. Debra breaks down how your rising sign reveals the keys to your destiny, the real difference between fate and free will, and what happens when you ignore your soul’s contract. We talk about the signs of misalignment, why burnout and confusion are often spiritual wake-up calls, and how reconnecting with your unique energetic blueprint can unlock greater clarity, peace, and purpose. This conversation will give you a radically com

"You must resist the temptation to go back and to cling to what you know because it's comfortable". What do you do when nothing makes sense anymore, when you’ve let go of who you were but haven’t yet become who you’re meant to be? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I explore the void, that sacred, often painful space between life chapters where transformation is quietly unfolding. Maybe you feel stuck, tired, uninspired, or disconnected. You're not broken. You're not lost. You're simply in the space between stories. I’ll guide you through how to embrace the unknown, trust the timing of your soul, and stop forcing clarity before it’s ready. The void is not the end, it’s the sacred pause before the beginning. Tune in and learn how to navigate the void with grace, surrender, and trust, so you can emerge renewed, realigned, and ready for your next level. Timestamps: (00:05:34) - What is the void, and why does it feel so terrifying. (00:07:25) - The ego’s temptation to cling to the familiar. (00:09:47) - The

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"We’re not here for life to be easy. We define ourselves by our challenges.” What if the life you’re living isn’t broken, but simply out of alignment with how you were designed to live? In today’s episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep with the brilliant Eric Edmeades. He’s a visionary, entrepreneur, founder of WildFit, and one of the most dynamic voices in the personal growth and health space.  We talk about the real reason most people struggle to change, why diets fail, and how lasting transformation comes down to one thing: identity. Eric breaks down the science of behavior change, the trap of willpower, and why the key to your future is shifting who you believe you are. He also shares powerful principles behind the WildFit approach, how our modern lifestyle clashes with our evolutionary design, and why our deepest suffering often comes not from struggle, but from the absence of challenge. Tune in and learn why evolution holds the secret to your well-being, and how to reclaim your energy, your clarity, and your

“You don't manifest from pressure. You manifest from presence.” Do you know why your manifestations might not be showing up, even though you're doing all the right things? You’ve set the intentions. You’ve visualized, journaled, prayed, and affirmed. But still...something feels stuck. In today’s episode of Soul Talk, I want to share with you what I believe is the missing link in manifestation, and it's probably not what you think. Most people are trying to manifest from their minds. From hustle. From willpower. But if your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, if your body is living in survival mode, no amount of positive thinking will make it happen. Because you don’t just manifest what you want. You manifest who you are. We’re going beyond vision boards today. I’m breaking down the science of your brainwave states, beta, alpha, theta, and gamma, and showing you how they affect your ability to attract abundance, love, joy, and purpose. I’ll walk you through a simple daily practice to shift your state, regulate

"Your intuition isn’t there to flatter your personality. It’s there to help you show up for life".  What if I told you that the most powerful GPS for your life is already inside you? In today’s episode of SoulTalk, I sit down once again with one of the most respected intuitive voices of our time, Laura Day. Laura isn’t just brilliant, she’s real, raw, and wildly practical. In this episode, we dive deep into the true nature of intuition; what it is, what it’s not, and how you can use it to transform your life. Laura breaks down the myths, the mechanics, and the magic of intuition with so much clarity and wisdom that you’ll walk away with tools you can use immediately. Whether you’re facing a big decision, longing for clarity, or just tired of second-guessing yourself, this episode will remind you of what you already know and show you how to trust it. Tune in and learn how to stop overthinking, start listening, and let your inner knowing lead the way. This one is deep, practical, and powerfully liberat

“When your nervous system is grounded and your heart is open, you become a magnet for miracles."   What if the reason your manifestations aren’t coming true isn’t because you’re doing it wrong, but because your nervous system doesn’t feel safe enough to receive them? In today’s episode of Soul Talk, we go beyond mindset and vision boards to explore the real missing link in manifestation: your nervous system. Most of us try to manifest from a place of hustle, willpower, and positive thinking. But if your body is stuck in survival mode, wired for fear, protection, or scarcity, then it will subconsciously reject the very things you say you want. This episode is an invitation to slow down and look within. To recognize that trauma, even from childhood, can condition your energy and block abundance, love, and expansion, not because you’re broken, but because your system is trying to keep you safe. Whether you’re stuck at an upper limit, sabotaging your success, or feeling disconnected from your dreams, this conver

"What you believe will determine the reality you live." What if the key to your freedom isn’t about striving harder, but surrendering to the truth that’s already inside you? In today’s Soul Talk, I sit down with the incredible Rha Goddess, visionary author, spiritual coach, and a real force of nature. Rha doesn’t just talk about purpose, that changed everything: being shot at point-blank range and walking away untouched. That moment didn’t just wake her up, it called her deeper into her mission. We go deep into the myths we’ve been sold about money, work, and worthiness. We talk about survival consciousness, burnout, belief systems, and how most of us are still chasing someone else’s version of success. Rha breaks it all down and shows us how to rise, how to listen to the whispers of your soul and build a life rooted in alignment, joy, and truth. This isn’t just a conversation. It’s a transmission, a remembering; a call to come home to yourself. Tune in and learn how to stop living from fear, start trusting

“If you cannot sit with yourself, the world cannot give you peace.”   What if being alone wasn’t something to fear,  but a sacred invitation to return home to yourself? In today’s episode of Soul Talk, I speak on a topic that most of us avoid: solitude. But I’m not talking about isolation. I’m talking about the kind of aloneness that strips away the noise, dissolves false identities, and brings you face-to-face with your soul. We live in a world addicted to distraction. We’re constantly running, scrolling, chasing, searching. But what if everything you’re looking for is found in the silence you’re avoiding? This episode is an invitation to shift your perspective. To stop resisting the quiet. To stop running from yourself. Because the truth is: when you can be fully with yourself, you become free. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, in a season of uncertainty, or simply craving deeper connection, this is for you. Solitude isn’t a punishment. It’s preparation. And when you embrace it, your life will transform