Everyone's Gay

Bryan and Chris are joined by sex researcher Thomas Whitfield. At 6:00 they talk about the PrEP pill. Does taking the pill change people’s choices in the bedroom? They discuss HIV stigma and ask how long you should wait to tell someone you’re HIV positive. At 17:30 they talk about research into watching porn and how it affects your sex life. Does anyone else prefer watching straight porn? At 30:00 a listener asks if it’s normal to feel upset after your first gay hookup. They each share stories of their first gay kiss. They close out the show with a conversation about dating a bisexual partner.

Bryan and Chris are back. They talk about the creepy serial killer who was targeting gay men in Toronto and discuss the Ted Bundy Netflix doc. At 8:35 they share details of the brutal attack on Empire star Jussie Smollett. Why are hate crimes like this still happening today? At 17:00 a listener writes in to ask about masc vs femme tendencies. Why not just be yourself and not worry about falling into either category? At 24:30 they admit their go-to karaoke songs and close out the show talking about what it means to be asexual.

Bryan and Chris are joined by comedian Jessica Henderson. They start with the Oscar nominations and are relieved to hear Lady Gaga got two noms. At 16:00 they talk about watching your own porn tape. Would you go back and watch it or is that too awkward? At 23:00 Chris and Jessica tell the story of how they met and discuss the importance of body positivity. At 30:00 they talk about feeling uncomfortable at the gym. At 33:15 they read a listener question from a girl who thinks her boyfriend may be gay. They close out the show by asking how the gay experience has changed in just the last few years.

In this special bonus episode from the Betches Sup Podcast, Bryan is joined by Wyatt Harms of the Voices 4 organization and Lyosha Gorshkov, Co-President of RUSA LGBT. They begin by talking about the oppression and torture of queer people in Chechnya. At 7:55 they discuss why the UN hasn’t investigated the violence against the LGBTQ community in Russia. At 18:00 they talk about all the great work that Voices 4 is doing in countries where the LGBTQ community is being oppressed. At 20:00 Lyosha talks about his experience being harassed in Russia because of his sexual preference.

Bryan and Chris are joined by Garrett Magee and James DeSantis of Bravo’s “Backyard Envy.” They talk about the origins of their “Manscapers NY” exterior design company and dish on what the garden party scene is really like in New York. What’s the difference between landscaping and gardening? At 13:00 a listener writes in about catfishing his partner on Grindr. Is it time to confront him about his cheating? At 24:20 Garrett and James weigh in on the current Rupaul's Drag Race season.

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by Betches writer/editor Dylan Hafer aka 50 Shades of Betch. At 4:00 a listener writes in to explain how truck stop sex works. At 11:40 Bryan shares red carpet audio of Rupaul's Drag Race cast members Aquaria, Trinity and Monét X Change and their thoughts on the latest All Stars season. At 16:40 a listener writes in to ask why the guy she was seeing refused sex but insisted she “ride on his ass” instead. They explain how to work your kinks into the relationship over time. At 33:10 Chris shares a story about going to war with a meme Instagram account.

Bryan and Chris are back for the first episode of 2019. Chris attempted to save the Betches office from a rogue mouse. They update us on their New Year’s resolutions. So far Bryan has failed to go to the gym and Chris has failed to do the splits. At 8:45 they raise concerns that Lady Gaga may not win an Oscar for her role in “A Star Is Born” which leads to some movie discussion and a review of the new Mary Poppins. At 13:50 a listener writes in for advice about trying to meet new friends in a city when you’re planning to leave anyway. Chris shares a weird threatening Grindr message he received this week. At 24:00 another listener writes in to ask about how to find a guy when he moves to New York.

Bryan and Chris present to you a very gay new year! They’re joined by fashion blogger and influencer Ian Michael Crumm. Ian talks about how he was able to transition his blog and Tumblr into a successful Instagram account. At 19:00 a listener writes in asking how to feel as comfortable when he’s by himself with another gay as opposed to a group of gays.

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by The Official Everyone’s Gay Lesbian Correspondent, Daryn Carp. They start by talking about Andy Cohen’s announcement that he’s having a baby through a surrogate. Daryn’s known all along and is finally happy that the cat is out of the bag so she doesn’t have the weight of the secret on her shoulders anymore. At 8:00 they talk about their New Year’s resolutions, or lack thereof. At 13:30 a listener writes in wondering if it’s ok to sleep with a boss? At 25:25 a listener writes in wondering if he should tell his friend that her dad has a grindr profile and loves to send nudes.

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by gay jack of all trades, Grayson Gilbert. At 5:00 Grayson explains how he got into kundalini yoga. At 9:30 Grayson explains how he uses his onlyfans.com page for something other than porn. At 21:30 a listener writes in wondering how to make an awkward romantic encounter at an office party a little less awkward. At 28:20 they talk about the awkwardness of uninspired hookups and whether it’s better to pass up those opportunities all together. At 32:00 Grayson explains how he thought he was lactose intolerant but really it was chlamydia.

Bryan and Chris are back. They start by dissecting their top songs on Spotify. Chris seems a bit surprised by how much Demi Lovato he listened to this year but he’s convinced that he and Ariana Grande will cross paths and become friends. At 9:25 they talk about the Golden Globes and the nomination of Lady Gaga for lead actress in a drama. At 12:30 they talk about Kevin Hart’s homophobic tweets that have stirred up controversy surrounding the Oscars. At 16:50 they talk about their relationship history with straight men through the years as it relates to tolerance and kindness. At 24:55 a listener writes in wondering if he should contact an old flame 2 years after after a breakup with minimal contact.   Thanks to our sponsor! Scentbird- Go to scentbird.com/GAY and use code GAY for fifty percent off your first month!

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by the amazing, Taylor Strecker. At 7:40 Bryan explains his gay awakening which took place after watching the Michael Keaton movie “Jack Frost”. At 13:00 Taylor talks about her turn from closeted homophobe to fabulous out of the closet lesbian. At 16:00 Taylor explains how she met her girlfriend while originally trying to set her up with a friend of her ex husband’s. At 23:00 Taylor talks about her experience realizing she was gay and breaking the news to her radio audience. At 31:45 a listener living in a new city writes in wondering how to re-introduce himself to the gay scene after a lukewarm first impression.   Thanks to our sponsor! Go to TomBoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

Bryan and Chris are back. Chris saw “Bohemian Rhapsody” which he enjoyed but was a little surprised that a movie about Freddie Mercury has no sex of any kind in it. At 8:00 Bryan brings up “Keeping Up With The Kardashians” and the show’s amazing ability to stretch the Khloe pregnancy story line for months. At 11:00 a listener writes in hoping to get a little insight on whether or not her boyfriend is a homosexual or not. 22:40 Chris explains that he was invited to his 10 year high school reunion and also explains why his won’t be attending. At 25:50 a listener writes in wondering if he should keep contact with a long distance flame who now has a boyfriend. Thanks to our sponsors!  Care/of- For 25% off your first month of personalized Care/of vitamins, visit TakeCareOf.com and enter Promo Code GAY. Go to Tom BoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by The Dauphine of Bushwick, Tyler Ashley. Tyler is a star in the NYC nightlife scene who performs in drag, and dances. At 6:30 Tyler explains the origins of his “Dauphine” nickname. At 10:15 Tyler explains how he got started as a performer in the NYC nightlife scene which, surprisingly, started in the field of acrobatics. At 20:20 a listener writes in wondering if it's a dealbreaker that the guy he's hooking up with constantly asks to not wear a condom. At 30:00 Tyler breaks down which dating apps he’s using and explains which one he thinks the best are.    Thanks to our sponsor Tomboy X!  Regardless of where you fall on the size or gender spectrum – TomBoyX offers amazing underwear that ANY BODY feels comfortable in. Go to Tom BoyX.com/BETCHES and check out their special bundles and pack pricing. And EVERYONE’S GAY listeners get an extra 15% off with code BETCHES.

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re joined by comedian and host of the podcast “Beyond”, Mike Kelton. Mike is an extremely spiritual person and explores the possibilities of past lives and the other side on his show. At 7:40 Mike explains that he went to see a soothsayer who revealed his past lives to him. At 11:00 Mike talks about the experience of losing his grandfather and feeling the disruption of his departure of this plain of existence. At 25:00 a listener writes in wondering if he’s going overboard by sexting guys all day.

Bryan and Chris are back and excited for the election! At 3:15 they talk about Carly Rae Jepson’s new song which they both love. Chris also loves Carly Rae Jepson because she’s older than him and doesn’t have to be jealous of someone younger and more successful. At 6:55 they talk about Marina and The Diamonds’ new song which, again, they love. At 13:30 a listener writes in looking for advice on how to build up enough steam to move to New York City. At 21:45 a listener writes in wondering how to tame a hot guy who is dating a lot of people.   Thanks to our sponsors! Zola- Zola, the wedding company that will do anything for love, is reinventing the wedding planning and registry experience to make the happiest moment in couples' lives even happier. To start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your registry on Zola, go to ZOLA.com/Gay   Be A Hero- Garland Benson is on a mission to save his sister, Christiane, by funding a treatment for her and other kids with the fatal and rare condition called Batten

Bryan and Chris are back! Chris has finally returned from his odyssey across the Atlantic which included a wedding, a bad mushroom trip, and an encounter with an aggressive London business man. At 12:30 a listener in the closet writes in wondering how to shake self hateful feelings about their own sexuality. At 28:30 a listener writes in wondering how to get a guy he’s casually seeing to take their relationship as seriously as he does. Bryan and Chris both agree that having a boyfriend is actually pretty cool and it’s not a crime to admit that you want one.   Thanks to our sponsors   Lola-LOLA is a female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners and all-natural cleansing wipes. “For 40% off all subscriptions, visit mylola.com and enter "GAY" when you subscribe!”   Scentbird- Scentbird dot com keeps you smelling good month after month. Go to scentbird.com/gay for 50 percent off your first month. 

Bryan and Chris are back. They’re joined by hilarious comedian, Cole Escola. Cole has been open about his sexuality since he was 17 when he came out of the closet after renting “Queer As Folk” at a Hollywood video in Portland, Oregon. At 12:00 Cole confesses that in his early years in New York, he worked as a sex worker. At 17:00 a listener writes in wondering how to bring a partner to work events without making a company wide announcement that they’re gay. At 29:45 Bryan tells the story of a one night stand that reared its ugly head on a recent trip to Fire Island.

Bryan and Chris are joined by Mark Kanemura of many fames including his viral Cut to the Feeling video, Dancing to the Stars, and dancing for Lady Gaga. He talks about his first music video, touring with Gaga, dealing with Little Monsters, and working with Janet Jackson. At 26:15, they take a question from a lesbian listener who wants to get more serious in her relationship but her partner doesn't seem quite on board. For instance, she won’t drop the ILY. Is there a future there? They talk about the difference between being friends with your exes between gays and lesbians. They wrap up talking about the temptation of doing ASMR recordings while on mic.

Bryan and Chris are back and they’re on cloud nine after watching, “A Star Is Born”. At 1:45 a listener asks how long you should date someone until you realize they’re boyfriend material. At 7:50 they dive into their review of “A Star Is Born”. If you’re not into spoilers, that might be when you want to shut the pod off. If you’ve seen the movie continue on to hear them talk about the movie, Lady Gaga, and how many times they may have cried in the theater.