Sex Manswers

Since Anal Sex episodes seems to be everyone's favorite, this episode from the archives gives advice on how to get started with Anal sex now that you have decided to try it. 

Sex just gets better the longer you're with someone. It doesn't matter how much you slept around when you were single or how many short term relationships you had, sex in marriage is just better. There are several reasons why that is. In this episode I go through and compare from history sex when I was single and now. Wife Recommends Bondage Set | Couples Vibrator | Toys For Dates |  Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

In the last of the best of shows, my third most popular episode according to download numbers I lay out the reasons why guys like a shaved or at least fine trimmed pussy. I also explain the sexual benefits to women keeping their down under groomed. I will be back after the holidays with new episodes on Jan 9th Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagram| YouTube| Podcast| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

On this episode, I replay my second most popular episode explaining to women why a Blow Job is a must in any relationship. I will be back with new episodes after the holidays starting Jan 9th. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagram| YouTube| Podcast| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

This and the next two episodes will be rebroadcasting my most popular shows. Anal Sex & Butt Stuff is an explanation of why your guy may be asking you to try anal sex Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagram| YouTube| Podcast| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

Lets face it, one of the reasons why sex was so exciting as teenagers was the sneaking around behind you parents back and getting away with it. You can get that excitement back during the holidays sneaking around but you do have to be smart about it. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

In the first part of this episode I address the guys listening to this show. If you’re listening, especially with your wives than you have an increased obligation to engage with her outside of the bedroom and do the things she wants to do as well. This includes doing your part in keeping the house clean. Women, what your Husbands say and do CAN’T be held against him for life. You will have to let go of whatever he said or did months or years ago. Also don’t torture your man, if you ask tell him you want to go somewhere, go out to eat, or go to the movies, you must tell him where you want to go. This is not a guessing game and when he asks you where, you CAN’T say “I don’t care” or “I don’t know” you decide, than proceed to say no to what he picks. Leave a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sexmanswers/message For Financial Peace University: https://www.daveramsey.com/fpu Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|

On this episode I talk about hitting your sexual peak sooner and making it last longer. The first thing you have to realize is that it is partly mindset. It's mindset to stop being concerned about how or what people think but also about being intentional with your sex life and marriage. Just like you're intentional with your money and career you have to be intentional with your sex life and marriage. Part of being intentional means being willing to research, experiment, and spend money on ways to improve your sex life and marriage. I have never once known a woman to complain about having too many orgasms or complain that sex is just too good, that means no matter how good sex is now there is always room for making it better but that won't happen by accident or without thought and planning. As your sex life improves in the bedroom, your marriage will improve out of the bedroom as well. Submit your response to taking this show to video format Here Submit a Voice Message to the show Here Follow Me | Facebook| T

Sometime when we try something new it doesn't go as planned. Take the time before hand to learn what you need to know to pull it off successfully but no matter what happens don't give up experimenting just because it didn't go right the first time.

To some, what holds them back sexually is what we call certain sex acts or body parts. The names make them feel dirty, subservient, or that they are just a sex toy for their partner. You will have to learn to get over what we call certain position or acts if your going to fully enjoy your sex life with your partner 

When it comes to investing you need to make sure that both of you understand the types of investments available to you and come to an agreement on which investment you will be investing in. If one of you don't understand the investment or is uncomfortable with the amount of risk that investment has, then you don't use that type of investment. Just like in your budget, you have to be in agreement as a team. One way that you can increase your income to achieve you goals in your personal finances is to start a side hustle together. There are many side hustles that you can do and each side hustle has different levers of complexity and time commitment. Regardless of what you decide to do, you and your spouse need to make extra effort to ensure that you're not neglecting each other and set a side time each week for each other as well as to communicate about your finances and side hustle results.  Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question 

Now that you have decided to get on the same page with your partner regarding the finances, now it's time to learn how to get your finances in order and work a plan that will eliminate debt, build wealth, and virtually eliminate money fights. Couples that communicate about personal finances enjoy greater communication in their relationship and fight less with each other. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Podcast | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

Money plays an important role in your marriage. When you agree on a budget, you're agreeing on your households values and setting up what the future will be for you and your family. But getting on the same page with money is not easy, you may have some same in how you've handled money so far. If you've been hiding debt getting this started will be hard but not impossible. Before you can talk about how to get on the same page with your spouse on your finances, you first have to understand the emotions that are in play and the embarrassment some may feel when it comes to starting the money talks. Planning the household finances is not the job of either one of you, you both must be actively involved in your finances. The best book for you to read to help you get on the same page with how to handle money is Dave Ramsey's Complete Guide to Money Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Podcast | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

To fully connect with your spouse, you need to be able to get out of the house and connect emotionally.  Date night is a great time to be able to communicate with each other about what's going on in your lives. But for date night to be successful in fulfilling your needs out of the bedroom, you need to make sure that you set up date night right and that you go into the night with a plan. There is a right way and a wrong way to set up date night  Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

Cam Fraser is a Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, and Counselor from Western Australia. Cam specializes with male self-love, well-being, and expansion of pleasure. Connect with  Cam Fraser   | Website | Facebook | Instagram | Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Podcast | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

If you want to jump start your way to a better relationship, the sex challenge is the way to do so. Most couples after taking the challenge report feeling closer to each other and see improved communication. You can shorten the time it takes you to get from where you are to where you want to be with spending more time together out of the bedroom doing this. Seven days is not the only option, you can choose however many weeks you want to attempt to have sex daily for. You can switch between penetration and oral sex during this time. Your man will love this and at some point he will find that he is having more sex than he can handle. As you go through the challenge you will find him paying more attention to you, flirting with you and wanting to spend more time with you out of the bedroom instead or TV or whatever hobby he has. If you have a child, don't worry about the mom bod, trust me he is not turned off by that baby belly you may still be working off. There is no reason to spend hundreds or even thousands o

On this episode, while I am out of town we finish up the man's VS women's brain series to better help understand the different ways in which we communicate and think. Better understanding and communication helps us improve our relationships both in and out of the bedroom. Next week we will be back to our normal programming helping you with the advice you need to have the best marriage possible. If you have any questions you want answered, check the links below or go to SexManswers.com to submit your questions. Links to videos Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nR3zbf3fn0&list=WL&index=2&t=0s Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIA575TCf7Q&list=WL&index=3&t=0s Part 3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iu3tjasnAvo&list=WL&index=5&t=0s Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Podcast | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

Understanding how men and women think differently is key to a happy successful relationship. Don't fight it, that is pointless. Instead understand how we are different and how to can use that to your advantage to improve communication in your relationships  Originally I was only going to do Part 1 and then continue with my normal show. However, due to technical difficulties I was unable to plan and produce an episode this week. That said, here is part two of the series. Next week I will post part three since I will be out of town attending a family reunion. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter | Instagram | YouTube | Podcast | Support the show | Shop | PayPal | Patreon | Anchor | Book | Ask Your Question  | Email | Web Form |

This week, I am taking off and relaxing for my birthday. But I have some great content for you that will help with your communication. Also I include a song submitted by a fan of the show. To listen to the entire song, follow the link below. If you want to watch more about Man's Brain VS Woman Brain, here are the links to YouTube. Fan Submitted Song https://soundcloud.com/pepperjuice/killthislove  YouTube Videos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyBBlpGie6w&list=PLDy7q4kFFJX_rio5GVsTsLdCPcPS5y0Ps&index=3&t=0s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=814eR5K7KD8&list=WL&index=2&t=0s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUNaZinoH_0&list=WL&index=3&t=0s

For new listeners, I think it may be important to listen to the introductory episode to fully understand what this show is about. Sex Manswers is about advice to women in how they can take the first steps towards improving their relationship with the man in their life. In doing this, you will first need to be able to disrupt your man's current routine and get him into a happier more agreeable mood. I start with sex because this is the path of least resistance towards motivating the changes you want from him to fulfill the needs in the relationship you feel is lacking. I assume if you're listening to the show that you're not satisfied with your relationship, you still love him, and what you have done prior to stumbling upon this podcast hasn't worked for you. In answering this listeners question, I explain how the many benefits increased sexual activity in your relationship puts him in a more agreeable mood to do other things outside of the bedroom and increases his energy level so he is more motivated to be m