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A fun way to reignite passion and fun in the bedroom is to add toys and props. How you bring this up is important, the male ego can be sensitive in the bedroom and the last thing you want to do is make him feel inferior to the battery operated boyfriend. in this episode I talk about how to introduce using toys in the bedroom and the progression of which toys/props to start with and the progression it should follow for maximum fun. Also what to do if you're becoming dependent on vibrators for orgasms. Book: Women's Instruction Manual ow.ly/LuBn30ld9Te To donate to the show Patreon: www.patreon.com/SexManswers PayPal: www.paypal.me/JohnstonShow Social Media Twitter/@SexManswers Facebook/SexManswers

It's hard enough to try to be happy all the time without you going out of your way to find stuff to complain about especially online. Cut out the negativity and for the love of GOD people, stop making your marital arguments public and airing them on social media. Book: Women's Instruction Manual ow.ly/LuBn30ld9Te To Tip Me Patreon: www.patreon.com/SexManswers PayPal: www.paypal.me/JohnstonShow Social Media Twitter/@SexManswers Facebook/SexManswers

When it comes to communication outside of the bedroom it's important to know how men and women communicate differently and the different types of personalities. Here I talk about the first topic you should discuss that will bring your marriage closer (it might create a fight at first but will bring you closer and increase communication in your marriage). You'll understand why when you listen. Book: Women's Instruction Manual ow.ly/LuBn30ld9Te To Tip Me Patreon: www.patreon.com/SexManswers PayPal: www.paypal.me/JohnstonShow Social Media Twitter/@SexManswers Facebook/SexManswers

Women, the lack of passion is not a sign of lost interest, your man just may be too clueless to realize what you're trying to tell him. Here is what to do. Book: Women's Instruction Manual ow.ly/LuBn30ld9Te To Tip Me Patreon: www.patreon.com/SexManswers PayPal: www.paypal.me/JohnstonShow Social Media Twitter/@SexManswers Facebook/SexManswers

Sometimes when you schedule sex with your spouse, it gets interrupted. Here is how to get back on schedule. Warning, do to recent events, it was hard for me to stay focused and motivated, so if this is your first episode listening, it's not the best episode to start with Book: Women's Instruction Manual http://ow.ly/LuBn30ld9Te To Tip Me Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SexManswers PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/JohnstonShow Social Media Twitter/@SexManswers Facebook/SexManswers

You may not consider it a romantic idea but scheduling when and how often you and your partner/husband are going to have sex each week is a big step to improving your relationship. This eliminates the distraction of inconsistent sex that leave guys wondering how long it's going to be to the next time. This means that he can be more focused on you and the relationship and not on sexual frustration. This goes a long way to the emotional connection you're desiring. In your sex schedule you can plan out which days are going to be oral and which days are going to be penetration, whose going to initiate, and what you're going to do (role play, BDSM, Master/Slave, etc..). You will be able to mentally prepare for each day in advance and as you stick the the schedule, your sex drive adjusts to it and even anticipate wanting sex each scheduled day. You'll find having & sticking to a schedule will benefit your relationship/marriage more than you could have imagined.

There will be no episode this week or next week. My Father-In-Law is in hospice with only a few days left to live according to the doctors. After that, my wife and I will be dealing with the funeral. Thank you for your understanding. Also, if you want to follow my on social media you can do so on Facebook.com/SexManswers or Twitter @SexManswers if you want to ask questions. You can also email your questions to SexManswers@Outlook.com. I will also be working on getting a blog up soon.

Wanting equal opportunities and equal pay is one thing, but when you start believing that it's women VS men or that in order for women to succeed, men must be torn down that you have entered a into a toxic version of feminism that is going to make having any relationship with men difficult. Make sure to check the information you are being told by "feminist". You may find out that what you are sacrificing a relationship for may be fiction. Some women have gone so far off the deep end with radical feminism that they have made themselves completely unappealing to men. Do you have any idea how hard that is?

Romance and the mood for sex doesn't just appear out of nowhere. You got to plan in advance and set the stage. This is especially true if the man in your life is trying to get a side hustle off the ground when he gets home from work. By setting the stage flirting by text, sending pics & videos, or if you're home together engaging is some contact flirting, you're giving him a heads up about your desires. This gives him the opportunity to think about what he can move around in his schedule to make time for you. This also works to keeping you in the forefront of his mind and thinking about what he wants to do with you (missionary, tie you down, location, etc..) and you can avoid the "I don't know answer" to the question of what do you want to do. This also engages your creativity to think about what you're going to do to him as you drop hints. Flirting like you did when you first started dating keeps the romance, sex and relationship feeling fresh.

When you have kids, getting time together is next to impossible. All your conversations get interrupted, you're always on the go taking the kids to the park or activities. Getting time together to just be able to relax and talk rare. Finding time for sex is more difficult with kids in the house. During the day, if TV or toys don't keep their attention, they can interrupt you knocking on the door or yelling for you. At night, you can lose motivation as staying up late to have sex when you know you will suffer for it when you have to get up early the next morning for work. You will need to be able to plan the ability to get away from the kids some weekends and maybe even during the week in the summer time.

If you haven't already, at some point in your relationship there is a good chance that you might be asked about having anal sex. If he's never asked about this, what is causing him to ask now? Do you have to allow it? Will saying no set you back in your efforts to rebuild or improve your relationship? These are the questions that get answered and more. Email your questions and stories to SexManswers@Outlook.com

This episode, thought it would be fun to talk about some things to avoid. I recall some personal experiences with a couple of stories. Sometimes you may not even be aware of what you're doing or saying, it just may be habit. Book: Women's Instruction Manual: Mans Collective Knowledge of the Female Mind. Great gag gift for the clueless man in your life. http://a.co/9HDMXcw

No episode this week due to the holiday weekend, I will be returning next Friday

I have mentioned before how women need to take initiative in bed. On this episode I explain that further plus explain that women need to take initiative to build their relationship out of the bedroom too.

Stress can kill your sex live, here is how to deal with it

Ladies, oral sex (blowjobs) is not optional, this is something that you will have to be willing to do for the relationship to last long-term. I get that you may not enjoy this, but it will be appreciated and the man in your life will want to engage more in the relationship when seeing the effort your putting in.

It's easy for sex to get boring if every time it's the exact same. Variety is the spice of life and role-playing is an easy way to spice things up. If you're going to role play, it's a good idea to have a plan before you start buying outfits to pull this off. As always, you're also going to have to be confident with your sex life.

If you think that sex is a means to control the relationship, a weapon to be deployed to control your partner's behaviors and get what you want, you're wrong. Withholding sex from your partner is one of the quickest ways to kill the relationship altogether. Only if your partner is abusive should sex be withheld, in fact, if that is the case, end the relationship and run!

It is unattractive and even discouraging when women have no confidence in the bedroom. This includes speaking up about what you do and don't like. Take control, be the one to start the encounter, tell the man what you want him to do or just tell him to lay back and enjoy while you go to town oh him. Plan special events, role play. What ever you do, make sure that you display confidence.

A few years ago, I was talking to some of my guy friends and about women who save, finely trimmed and those that don't. The girls that happened to be there and listening in decided to speak up thinking that we were being pigs and had some sick fetish with your girls prior to puberty. The mistake they made was not understanding the male perspective since they lacked the experience guys had. For instance, they didn't consider maybe guys don't like choking on a hairball while going down on a woman. There are more logical reason why men like it to be well maintained with little to no hair down under, In this episode, I explain a few of those reasons.