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Affair expert, David Feder, discusses how to rebuild trust after an affair has occured on this episode of The Anatomy of an Affair on Divorce Source Radio. For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  For more on David Feder, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

  This is a story of one Fathers' Rights case and how things can go horribly wrong. Wilson is the father of two children, with whom he shares with his ex-wife. Prior to his separation and divorce, he continued to work long, hard hours as a restaurant manager, while his wife stayed home and cared for their children full–time.   Everything was fine until one day in September 2013 his wife decided she no longer wanted to be married to him, filed for divorce, remarried a man she met online and uprooted with the children to Australia. WITHOUT THE FATHER’S CONSENT!  Family Law attorney Henry Gornbein provides advice during this powerful show.  For more on Henry visit: www.FamilyLawForMichigan.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  Send any questions or comments you might have to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.

On this episode of The Anotomy of An Affair with David Feder we are joined with a client who has had more than one affair, as well as several one night stands.  "Mary" has learned from her experiences and shares her story and we have the opportunity to learn from her experiences.  Mary is an example of a person who has worked hard and faced her challenges.   Many people continue to buy into the belief, “once a cheater always a cheater” and this is a reason why many betrayed partners continue to ask themselves whether they will ever be able to trust their partner again?  There are people who will remain untrustworthy but others are willing to learn from their mistake sand commit to living a more wholesome life and make amends for hurting their partner.  People can change and this segment is about illustrating that point. For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  For more on David Feder, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

On this episode of The Smart Divorce, Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck interview Rachel, a DV survivor, who not only survived, but thrived; creating a better life upon leaving her abusive marriage.  Rachel is an inspiration.  She shares with us her journey through the dark days of abuse through to building a happy new life. Her reflections back through her upbringing and abuse include how, with the help of Tim Wenzel, a Personal Security Consultant, she moved from an abusive house to a safe home.   If you or someone you know is abused, you will definitely want to listen to Surviving Domestic Violence.  Abuse doesn’t have to be physical.  Abuse displays itself in many ways, from physical to emotional scars, psychological to sexual…..whatever the dynamics applies to injurious or improper treatment.    For more information about leaving with a Personality Security Consultant tune into the interview with Tim Wenzel http://www.divorcesourceradio.com/physically-abused-leave-safely-security-professional/For more in

This episode of Start Over Smart with Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras is titled Divorce After An Affair. Amy, a mother of 4 children, discovered that her husband was having multiple affairs. After 5 years of trying to make the marriage work they began divorce proceedings.Amy shares how she dealt with the affair, How it affected her children and how she was able to move and forgive him. Her reflection back on the situation and what she  share may help others going through the same difficult situation. For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras return with another episode of Start Over Smart.  When divorcing, finances are of the utmost importance. Lili Vasileff, founder and President of Divorce and Money Matters, LLC, is a pioneer in the field of divorce financial planning and provides financial tips for divorcing couples and families. Making financial decisions can feel like stepping into a world of the unknown. Lili has over thirty plus years of experience in divorce financial planning, financial mediation, and wealth management services. As they say, "If you're failing to plan, you're planning to fail".  Learn what you need to know about the financial aspect of divorce so that you can protect you and your family. For more information on Lili Vasileff, visit: http://www.divorcematters.com For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

In this episode of "Ask Henry", attorney Henry Gornbein discusses his new book Divorce Demystified and speak a bit on each chapter in an effort to help listeners better understand the process of divorce. Gornbein's goal is to help those contemplating divorce understand what to expect, and to help others who are in the process of ending their marriages avoid some of the drama and trauma that surround divorce. Armed with knowledge, putting the children first, keeping a level head, and being smart about how they conduct themselves throughout the divorce process will help make a bad situation better For more on Henry Gornbein, visit: www.FamilyLawForMichigan.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  Join our community and be notified of new programs by “liking” our Facebook page at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio.

Leaving an abusive relationship is hard.  What may sound simple to an outsider is more complex to those on the inside.  It’s not as simple as it sounds.  The background of an individual – economic, cultural, education, age, sex or lifestyle – does not matter. Domestic violence, be it physical or emotional affects all walks of life.  One in three female homicide victims are murdered by their current or former partner every year!  This needs to stop!Even if you’re not in an abusive situation, chances are you know someone who is.  What can you do to help?  What can you do if you are abused?  Our guest, Tim Wenzel is a Protective Security Consultant based out of the San Francisco Bay area.  Tim founded Wenzel Protection Group to provide security & consulting services to the US Government, Foreign Diplomats, Corporations, and Families.Wenzel Protection Group believes in making the world a better place.  Their passion project has been working with Victims of Domestic Violence.  They are committed to providing e

Divorce Coach Laura Campbell joins Nicole Feuer and Francine Barars on Start Over Smart. This program will help you assess where are you now, look at where you want to go and provide tips on how to get there.  Topics include: What to expect when divorcing Considerations if you have children Common Pitfalls during divorce Your next chapter in life Becoming self-sufficient Finding love again And much more. For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Many times after a divorce you are forced into moving into an apartment or rental property because you have less than perfect credit or have suffered bankruptcy. In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, Larry Williams joins us with information on a new program that can make purchasing a home with bad credit possible even if you have a bad credit score or bankruptcy. Learn more about Larry's Purchase-Lease program in this podcast.  For more information on Larry Williams, visit: www.LarryWilliamsHomes.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

On this episode of Start Over Smart, Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras discuss steps for dating after divorce. Their advice... Go slow. We strongly recommend you don’t quickly jump into a new serious relationship. Take this time to figure out who you are again and build your self-esteem, and learn what kind of guy is best for you now. Have fun but take your time so you don’t repeat the same mistakes. For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce.

Divorce attorney and mediator, Vicki Volper joins Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras on this episode of Start Over Smart to discuss mediation for a more peaceful divorce. Attorney Volper has devoted her career to helping couples divorce in a manner that maintains their dignity, preserves their assets and protects their children. She believes that people can divorce without destroying each other and their children. Topics include: Understanding mediation Mediation versus collaborative or litigation Who is a good candidate for mediation? How to find a mediator in your area Is mediation cheaper than a traditional divorce litigation And much more For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce    

On this episode of Start Over Smart, Nicole Feuer & Francine Baras provide tips on successful co-parenting. Parenting is definitely not an easy task. If you throw divorce into the mix parenting becomes even more complicated if it’s turned into co-parenting. To do this, you may need to put aside your anger, resentment or hurt and focus on creating a cooperative relationship that will be best for everyone, especially your children! For more on Nicole and Francine and their book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce.

David Feder returns with The Anatomy of An Affair and discusses the thought process of whether you should end an affair and return to your partner. On the next episode, David is bringing on one of his clients to share her affair experience. For more information on David Feder, visit: http://www.mylifeafteranaffair.com For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  Send any questions or comments you might have to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.

On this episode of Start Over Smart, Nicole Feuer and Nicole Baras discuss Financial Steps to take During Divorce Divorce is often referred to as the No. 2 most stressful life event, second only to death of a spouse. And no wonder: Besides its obvious emotional impacts, getting divorced can also be a financial nightmare as you're forced to deal with nagging details like separating your finances, acquiring your own health insurance and deciding who will claim the kids as tax deductions. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit:www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com

On this episode of Start over Smart, Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras provide tips to help get you through the holidays during or post-divorce. Topics include: Putting your children first Reinventing holiday traditions Reaching out to family and friends for support Dealing with holiday parties Don't be alone - making plans with friends or family know that things will get better and that the first year is the most challenging. And much more. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com.  

Welcome to Start Over Smart, our new show featuring divorce and relationship experts Nicole Baras Feuer and Francine Baras. This new series will guide you through all aspects of divorce whether you find yourself contemplating, going through or post-divorce Episode #1 is titled "Help! I don't Even Know Where to Begin!"   Nicole and Francine walk you through the steps you might need to take as you enter the divorce process. Topics include: How to protect your children Your Divorce Process Choices - Mediation, collaborative, Litigation or Do-it-yourseelf What you need to know about finances during divorce The emotional toll od divorce And much more. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. For more on Nicole and Francine and their new book 37 Things I wish I’d Known Before My Divorce visit: www.SOSDivorceAdvisors.com.

Welcome to Start Over Smart, our new show featuring divorce and relationship experts Nicole Feuer and Francine Baras. This new series will guide you through all aspects of divorce whether you find yourself contemplating, going through or post-divorce. Meet our show co-hosts: Nicole Baras Feuer, is a divorce and family mediator with advanced training in custody and visitation. In 2009, Nicole went through her own painful and complex divorce. This journey, coupled with her experience as a divorce mediator, lead to her desire to begin helping others and advising men and women at every stage of divorce. Francine Baras, earned a master’s degree in social work from Columbia University and has an advanced degree in child psychology and parent guidance. Francine has had a private practice in Manhattan for 25 years, specializing in child and family issues and is also a trained divorce mediator. Don't miss an episode of Start Over Smart coming soon to Divorce SOurce Radio! For more programs related to divorce and life

Attorney Henry Gornbein returns with another episode of Ask Henry to discuss the first legal steps to take during divorce. Topics include: Filing a complaint or petition Putting your husband or wife on notice - what to expect Serving the divorce petition to your husband or wife How to do it with the least amount of discourse. How some lawyers “troll” or solicit for clients and how this can be harmful if domestic violence has been part of the marriage Creating a checklist for the divorce process Digital Discovery - Computers, cell phones, etc. For more on Henry Gornbein, visit: www.FamilyLawForMichigan.com. For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  Join our community and be notified of new programs by “liking” our Facebook page at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio.  

 In episode 11 of The Anatomy of an Affair, David Feder discusses why your heart can’t be two places at the same time during an affair. Comparing your partner to the affair partner is an unfair comparison that will either create more confusion for you or keep you stuck.  You will not discover why you are where you are.  Your heart cannot be in two places at the same time and your partner will almost always come up wanting in any comparison test.  Instead it will be more helpful if instead of directing blame onto your spouse, you focus on yourself and become more aware of your beliefs, values and needs. The way a person feels when in an affair will almost always trump feelings had in a long-term relationship.  An affair is a fantasy built on a foundation of secrecy, exclusive focus and excitement.  Absent are the financial and childcare responsibilities that often distract committed partners from one another and robs the committed relationship of passion.  Hence, the affair will often appear more exciting and