Synopsis
Losing It is all about getting to know guests by asking the awkward questions up front: Have you ever been to therapy? When was the first time you had sex? Hi, my name is James. I host/produce this show. I'm trying to make it less weird to talk about sex and mental health, two things that greatly influence the way we see ourselves and interact with one another, but are generally deemed off-limits as topics of everyday conversation. I am a stand-up comedian and am most certainly, definitely, not in any capacity a health professional of any sort. I go to therapy sporadically and have sex also sporadically. I'm doing okay.
Episodes
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Losing It- Ep.26 Reena Calm
19/06/2018 Duration: 45minReena Calm is todays guest on Losing it and asked that a disclaimer be issued up top: If you are a family member of Reena's, please don't listen to this. That disclaimer is not intended to be eye-catching clickbait bullshit. That's a legit request from her to you. Reena (The Laugh Factory, We Still Like You, published author) took some time out of her tour stop in Denver to have a conversation about her life and her early experiences with depression, anxiety, medication, and the different tolls it can take both physically and emotionally. Reena also shares some of what she has learned about being happy as an adult. She has recently published her first book "Once A Pun a Time: Legend of a Sighs Queen" and she continues to be on tour across the US through the rest of the summer. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little to nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-
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Losing It- Ep.24 Ben Kronberg
08/06/2018 Duration: 01h03sBen Kronberg (Comedy Central, Jimmy Kimmel Live! Northglenn Junior High Sex-Ed Award recipient) joins James in the Sexpot Studio to talk about his first sexual relationship. It gets heavy. Later, Ben names the latin anatomical names for different parts of the genitals. James recounts a story about seeing Ben tricking a bouncer into carrying him off stage. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little to nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to: Sexpot Comedy Attn: @djamespate on Twitter and Instagram 12 E Ellsworth Ave Denver, CO 80206 Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.24 Cody Spyker
31/05/2018 Duration: 58minCody Spyker (Comedy Works, High Plains Comedy Festival, Ice Cream Social Podcast) sits down in the Sexpot Studio to talk about growing up as one of the most Colorado of the Coloradans. Skiing, Hut Alliances, calling teachers by their first name, she's done it all! Cody also talks about the importance of personal boundaries and how those can sometimes be difficult to identify or establish. But first, she and James talk about Clan of the Cave Bear and struggle to remember the name of the that movie from the 80's about an escort and the name of that other book about hot time travelers. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little to nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to: Sexpot Comedy Attn: @djamespate on Twitter and Instagram 12 E Ellsworth Ave Denver, CO 80206 Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.
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Losing It- Ep.23 Daniel Reskin
24/05/2018 Duration: 01h06minDaniel Reskin (Dat-Mocracy Tho, Casa de Haha, Roommate) sits down in the Sexpot Studio to talk about growing up in Miami and how certain aspects of the city may have influenced his sexual interests. Daniel talks about his first kiss and the hormonal pressures of adolescence. He also shares his experiences with college fraternities and performing comedy outdoors. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little to nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to: Sexpot Comedy Attn: @djamespate on Twitter and Instagram 12 E Ellsworth Ave Denver, CO 80206 Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.22 Timmi Lasley
15/05/2018 Duration: 01h14minTimmi Lasley (Comedy Works, High Plains Comedy Festival, Moth Story Slam, Roommate)sits down in the Sexpot Studio to talk about zodiac signs and epigenetics and having sex with people who have the same name as you. Timmi shares her views on why human reproduction is metal af. She also discusses her experience with therapy and having a close family member with a dissociative personality disorder. Upon request, James tallies his number. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little or nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to: Sexpot Comedy Attn: @djamespate on Twitter and Instagram 12 E Ellsworth Ave Denver, CO 80206 Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo If you are out of stamps and/or self-addressed envelopes, you can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate
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Losing It- Ep.21 Zeke Herrera
06/05/2018 Duration: 01h23sZeke Hererra (High Plains Comedy Festival, Savage Henry, Crom) got kicked off of Instagram for a picture that included tasteful partial nudity (no nips), but we'll get into that later. Zeke is fresh off his first therapy appointment as an adult. This was recorded on a Thursday. His appointment was three days earlier. Zeke talks about his past and somewhat problematic experience with therapy as a child. He also shares the story of losing his virginity while working for the California Conservation Corps. At some point he and James get into the complexities of good, evil, and human nature. Zeke does not believe people are good and evil but rather that there are good and evil actions. And finally, Zeke dishes on a concerning issue regarding his Facebook profile and privacy. Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little or nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addresse
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Losing It- Ep.20 Olivia Schyling
30/04/2018 Duration: 01h17minOlivia Schyling (Comedian, Artist, Dope Person) is on this episode to talk hurricanes, stalkers, and omegle. Oh my! Questions answered in this episode: What's the difference between bulimia and anorexia? Is it illegal to take pictures of yourself as an underage person and share them online? How does one handle being in two of the biggest hurricanes ever recorded and at what point during that time should the shrooms be eaten? All of this and more on this episode of Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast! Losing It: The Sex and Sanity Podcast is recorded at Sexpot Comedy Studio in beautiful Denver, Colorado. To join the fan club and receive free stickers that have little or nothing to do with this particular podcast, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to: Sexpot Comedy Attn: @djamespate on Twitter and Instagram 12 E Ellsworth Ave Denver, CO 80206 Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg If you are out of stamps and/or envel
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Losing It- Ep.19 Danny Felts
25/04/2018 Duration: 01h08minDanny Felts (national touring comic, Kevin Allison's Risk!, The Moth) sits down in the Sexpot Studio to talk about his experiences with the New York health care system. Apparently, it leaves a little bit to be desired. Also, Danny fills us in on what sets off his misophonia, a condition causing physical reactions as a result of certain auditory environments. If you're a die hard fan of kids and dogs consider this your trigger warning. Danny and James day dream about killing the neighbors dog and possibly the neighbor. It's a fun romp. Danny is a current New Yorker and former Oregonian. You can find out about upcoming projects and shows by following @dannyfelts on Twitter and Instagram. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.18 Meghan DePonceau
16/04/2018 Duration: 01h15minMeghan DePonceau is this episodes guest and boy-howdy, what an episode. Meghan shares the pros and cons of having a health teacher for a mom. Pros: great source of information. Cons: fellow students ratting you out in class for throwing a rager of a party last weekend. Also on this episode, Meghan and James compare notes on accidental drug ingestion. Good times! Find Meghan on Twitter and Instagram @meghanisajoke or follow her on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ThatsMyJamFF/ Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.17 Mitch Jones
10/04/2018 Duration: 01h02minComedian Mitch Jones sits down to talk about how he lost two totally different types of virginity. "Butt stuff?" you just thought to yourself. No, it's not that. Mitch dishes on some crazy (ex)roommate drama and then he poses a sort of philosophical question about how "The Number" is tallied. Find Mitch on Twitter and Instagram @comicmitchjones on follow him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/MitchJonesComedy/ Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.16 Piper Shepard
27/03/2018 Duration: 55minPiper Shepard is busy. She's a comedian, musician, make-up artist, and she just finished recording a new song in time for it to be included in this episode! She and James get into bipolar classifications, why going to therapy at a young age kinda blows, and everyone's favorite, guns. Check out Piper on bandcamp: https://pipershepherd.bandcamp.com/ She is also on Twitter @exorcistasy You can find James on Twitter and Instagram @djamespate
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Losing It- Ep.15 Brett Hiker
12/03/2018 Duration: 53minBrett Hiker shares his very special experience about losing his virginity the week of 9/11. He and James also discuss starting comedy and impatient, old-man therapists; then it gets a little paranormal. Follow Brett Hiker on Twitter @bretthiker and check out a Comedian's Power Hour show near you! https://comedianspowerhour.com/ Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate
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Losing It- Ep.14 Janae Burris
05/03/2018 Duration: 01h30minJanae Burris sits down in the Sexpot Studio to talk romance novels, Shakespeare, Steely Dan (which we couldn't get the rights for, sorry Janae!) and awkward teenage years (Hey 19!). Check out Janae on Twitter @negativenegro and be sure to keep up to date with shows by following @pussybroscomedy as well. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate
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Losing It- Ep.13 Harris Alterman
03/02/2018 Duration: 01h11minHarris Alterman is today's guest on Losing It. He talks up all the benefits of being a vegan for 2 weeks and shares his comedy origin story. We also speculate on what his chances are of being the Comedy Works New Faces winner. Turns out the chances were good. James also goes off the rails talking about conspiracy theories and hypnosis. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate
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Losing It- Ep.12 Rachel Weeks
03/02/2018 Duration: 01h21minRachel Weeks is in the studio to talk about religious teenage-rebellion phases, greek culture, and the numerous merits of Des Moines. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg
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Losing It- Ep.11 Aaron Maslow
12/10/2017 Duration: 01h10minAaron Maslow comes to the Sexpot Studio to help sort out whether his wife was being sweet or trolling the shit out of James. Also discussed, working for sex ed programs and yet another way you can fuck up using a condom and get in the family way. It's crazy y'all. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate. http://losingitsexandsanity.libsyn.com/
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Losing It- Ep.10 Kacy Dahl
23/09/2017 Duration: 01h28minKacy Dahl had a rough go of losing it but she and James get into all kinds of stuff from religion to woke 11-year-olds. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.9 Anthony Armstrong
14/09/2017 Duration: 59minAnthony Armstrong stops by the Sexpot Comedy Studio to talk about being raised women, kids on drugs, and the ups and downs of learning by doing. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.8 Miriam Moreno
31/08/2017 Duration: 57minMiriam Moreno and James sit down to talk about getting diagnosed with anxiety, making bets with God, and which comedy bit made Miriam pee her pants, just a little bit. Fair warning, this episode gets pretty heavy in parts. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castillo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate.
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Losing It- Ep.7 Kyle Pogue
23/08/2017 Duration: 55minKyle Pogue sits down with James to discuss masculinity, oil rigs, and reading erotica from the women's perspective. Good stuff! He also shares the (viscous) link between his first kiss and losing his virginity. Music by the all too generous and talented David Castilo - - > https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCjXYGb3qcHsD18iVxpwAmWg You can find James on twitter and instagram @djamespate.