Synopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
Episodes
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The distance between you and Christ | Church 6/22/25
22/06/2025 Duration: 01h54minAnger: a false identity. Don't agree or disagree with anyone. (Work politics?) What's the distance between you and Jesus?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 22, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk… Welcome* (0:05:27) Anger is a false identity; Don’t have to be who you are* (0:26:46) Feedback: You don't care, but you handle people perfectly.* (0:34:46) Understanding can’t judge: They’re possessed by evil.* (0:41:21) Biblical Question and Assignment…* (0:46:16) Work politics and (not) saying, "I don’t wanna hear it."* (1:05:46) Back to Assignment: Not agreeing or disagreeing* (1:13:15) Don't like being likeable* (1:21:30) … Jesse fell out! … STREAM GOES SILENT …* (1:27:14) OK WE’RE BACK* (1:29:55) … Trust truth: Trained to agree and disagree …* (1:34:10) BQ: Distance between you and Christ?* (1:44:42) JLP on BQ: Thoughts, ideas, beliefs separate you in your mind* (1:50:10) Christ is the light: Bring all your darkness to the lightCLIPSAnger is a false identity (21-min) YouTube | Rumble Your
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Do you think for yourself? | Church 6/15/25
15/06/2025 Duration: 01h58minBeware: Anger is deceiving. Overcome the world within and without. Do you think for yourself? Assignment: Don't agree or disagree.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 15, 2025 — Happy Father's Day!
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Quietly Living in Your Hell, Week Two | Church 6/8/25
08/06/2025 Duration: 02h01minAssignment feedback, week two: Quietly live in your hell. (We don't answer the Biblical Question: Neither agree nor disagree with others.)Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 8, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk, Welcome* (0:02:11) JLP: Warning, Encouragement* (0:16:18) …Judging church ladies!* (0:22:53) Male vs man… Never use the truth to hurt…* (0:27:58) Assignment: Quietly live in your hell. Slow down.* (0:31:44) Young man: I was dissatisfied* (0:38:38) JLP: The spirits play a game on you.* (0:43:42) I'm more judgmental!* (0:53:08) Property loss scare: Rest in misery!* (1:00:01) Doug kept mouth shut. Homeless story. Opportunities.* (1:10:11) Psych ward?! Prayer: Remember to be present. Don't judge.* (1:23:36) Raymond: Don't have to judge myself — finally!* (1:26:27) BQ feedback? Walk the journey alone, ladies.* (1:31:24) …Overcoming a past hardship?* (1:42:05) Learning from mistakes? Insane! Assignment* (1:46:36) Elon vs Trump fight: Thoughts?* (1:51:48) Taught wrong. New BQ: Think for yourself?
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Does God allow you to suffer? | Church 6/1/25
01/06/2025 Duration: 01h58minWhen people fall away, don't want them to get better! People get a thrill inflicting pain! God set you free from suffering! "Suffer and die."Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 1, 2025
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Quietly live with the hell in you | Church 5/25/25
25/05/2025 Duration: 02h06minThe world will only get worse! You can't prevent suffering! No such thing as forgiving yourself! Quietly live with the hell in you.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 25, 2025
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Catch it when the Devil stabs you | Church 5/18/25
18/05/2025 Duration: 02h01minAssignment: Catching stabs. Willing to take it? Welcome betrayal. Don't protect the ego. What would happen if you came out of your movie?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 18, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:01:49) Women's Forum* (0:03:44) Happy b-day, Anchor Baby* (0:05:46) Assignment: Write down how many stabs* (0:24:32) "I still get pretty mad." Catch thoughts…* (0:33:06) "Good stabs." Faith?* (0:41:45) Willing to take it* (0:53:33) Children, dominating woman, passive man* (1:02:43) Welcome betrayal.* (1:11:13) The signs are always there, but you miss them.* (1:22:21) JLP: Stupid stuff… Catching stabs…* (1:32:54) BQ: What would happen if you came out of your movie?* (1:43:19) Anxious man, not comfortable around others* (1:54:31) Was this helpful? Temptation. Closing: The real you…* (1:58:40) New BQ: Anger or understanding, which do you prefer?CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the ManLINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman
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Do you see evil in you? | Church 5/11/25
11/05/2025 Duration: 02h11minStop telling your personal business! How many times have you been stabbed? Do you have evil in you? Nobody knows God. Don't protect the ego!Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 11, 2025 —
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Have you ever been betrayed? | Church 5/4/25
04/05/2025 Duration: 01h52minHave you ever betrayed anyone? You're either on the side of good or evil: Destroy words (the "N-word" controversy). "When she's crying, she's lying."Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 4, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome* (0:02:07) Should we be grateful? The garden…* (0:09:29) Either Good or Evil: Destroy words* (0:20:21) Ever betrayed anyone?* (0:31:45) More betrayers…* (0:42:35) Betrayal: Treating each other in an evil way…* (0:49:48) Forgive your mother: Put her in an old folks home* (0:55:31) Ever been betrayed?* (1:01:07) Crying, lying. More betrayed people…* (1:21:12) When she’s crying, she’s lying: "I was angry…"* (1:24:17) JLP: Time to start living: Welcome betrayal* (1:31:01) Emotions confirm the thoughts. Crying alone?* (1:38:05) Acting on emotions? "Jesus wept"?* (1:41:35) Heaven on Earth: Stay with it…* (1:46:43) BQ: Making decisions?CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the ManLINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/have
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Be single-minded, not double-minded | Church 4/27/25
27/04/2025 Duration: 02h06minDid you do the Assignment? Be single-minded, not double-minded. You're free. Die to the illusion. If you're forgiven, do you go on "sinning"?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 27, 2025ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum, first Thur, 7pm, May 1, 2025, at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:03:00) Ego death? Was Adam beta? Struggling with belief?* (0:10:58) Assignment: Be single-minded, not double-minded* (0:22:22) Snap at your wife? Assignment…* (0:30:11) AAB/JLP: You're free, but live like slaves* (0:39:18) Unstable, lookin' crazy, living an illusion* (0:46:00) Why do you think about yourself all the time?* (0:51:11) JLP: Trusting your enemy… Be the cause, not the effect* (0:56:23) Which will you obey: Fear or freedom? Where was your mind? Gals on-stage* (1:13:14) JLP: Ladies, never let a man push you around.* (1:19:46) Think the kids will be traumatized?* (1:23:30) Think you're a sinner? You are free.* (1:37:27) Forgiven "sinners"? They don't know.
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Fear is an illusion | Church 4/20/25
20/04/2025 Duration: 02h01minEaster? The first temple? Being an adult with fear? Wait and see: Be single-minded, not double-minded.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Easter Sunday, April 20, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:01:42) What is Easter?* (0:10:38) BQ: First temple God made? Soccer star…* (0:16:35) Muslim temple debate / Do you treat your body as the temple of God?* (0:25:15) Adults have fear. What's it like?* (0:40:22) JLP union work story; More people with fear* (0:49:25) Hard living as an adult with fear* (0:56:23) Childhood bullies, No grudges …* (1:05:20) Not taught to have fear. Not tolerated…* (1:11:50) Wait and see: Single-minded, not double-minded: Assignment* (1:19:21) JLP: Overcome fear. Car accident!* (1:26:17) Nothing bad ever happened to you!* (1:30:22) JLP: It's not you.* (1:35:03) Stop trusting the old nature* (1:44:51) Take control… Story of Christ* (1:50:05) Feedback and closingCLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the ManLINKSBLOG https:
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Are you a single-minded person? | Church 4/13/25
13/04/2025 Duration: 02h07minAngry people are influenced to carry water. God gave you the power to be the ruler of your world. Are you a single-minded person?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 13, 2025REMINDER: Women's Forum third Thursday, April 17, 2025, 7pm, at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) …Water…* (0:03:00) Why do you carry water? Influenced* (0:16:05) Fear doesn’t want to lose your business.* (0:23:28) Angry people are hypnotized…* (0:38:40) What do you mean, it’s already in me?* (0:56:43) Ruler of your world* (1:07:27) Confessing your sins? Evil people, vices* (1:18:45) Evil doesn't want you alone* (1:25:59) Blasphemy of the Spirit: Mark 3: 28-30* (1:32:56) Block sis if she doesn't stop: "Extreme"?* (1:46:12) BQ: Single-minded? Forgive, feisty gf, liar father* (2:01:18) JLP on BQCLIPSHow to be single-minded (5-min) YouTube | Rumble See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the ManLINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/are-you-a-single
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How can you change your future? | Church 4/6/25
06/04/2025 Duration: 02h04minTalk to us. What did he say? She told her brother's business! How do you be in the world and not of it? How can you change your future?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 6, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk: Accents* (0:02:35) Track meet stabbing…* (0:07:38) Tell us about you… What'd she/he say?* (0:21:38) Betrayed my brother's confidence …* (0:48:09) Christianity turned anti-Christ …* (1:00:37) Q: In the world and not of it?* (1:08:43) How do I watch the thoughts?* (1:12:18) How do you feel about the Christians?* (1:19:00) Telling it…* (1:24:46) Forgive your mother. "What?"* (1:42:33) "I think I have forgiven her. I don't wanna hurt her."* (1:50:50) Changing the future… Did you forgive your mother?* (2:01:54) JLP on BQ… ClosingCLIPSTrack meet stabbing: Saddest story of the year (5-min) YouTube | Rumble See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the ManLINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/how-can-you-change-your-future-church-4-6-25/PO
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What is evil? | Church 3/30/25
30/03/2025 Duration: 02h45sDanish couple getting married: Does she obey? Take no thought for the outcome. How do you deal with evil in women and yourself?Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 30, 2025
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Are you a lawbreaker? | Church 3/23/25
23/03/2025 Duration: 01h51minEye contact? What is a human being? Are you a lawbreaker? If you do any of this, you are a lawbreaker. Sit in your pain.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 23, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Eye contact / Welcome* (0:02:03) Why do women look in the eye, while men look away?* (0:09:01) What is a human being?* (0:19:52) Human means no perfect peace? I don't know what it is!* (0:29:11) Jewish: religion and ethnicity* (0:31:10) BQ: Are you a lawbreaker?* (0:41:41) JLP: Anyone who… everything… is a lawbreaker* (0:45:20) Feedback: Breaking spiritual laws* (0:50:02) Believing the lie. Seeking other things* (0:56:36) Seeking the Kingdom: Sit in darkness. ADHD meds.* (1:14:44) Lying to yourself… Say you're ticked at Nick…* (1:27:18) Irritation fills me: Sit in it, do nothing, relax your face* (1:38:37) JLP: Fathers fighting for kids, breaking the law* (1:41:50) Forgive, pray… The weight will drop off. Don't judge it.* (1:43:53) Change of thoughts is a change of self … ClosingCLIPSYou are a lawbreaker (13-min) You
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Which race would you choose to be right? | Church 3/16/25
16/03/2025 Duration: 02h15minStay on the path. BQ: No race is right! Face fear. You are 100% responsible. Seek first the Kingdom… Bible passages: Stay in the light! Drop anger.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 16, 2025ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, March 20, 2025, 7pm, in-person-only! — at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:21) Homeschooling as a working mother* (0:04:56) Not an easy journey, but you can make it* (0:19:45) Pain and peace?* (0:26:01) Why create love? Dealing with anger* (0:31:25) BQ… which color would you choose to be right?* (0:49:48) BQ: What do you think of this question? More feedback…* (1:08:59) JLP on BQ: No race is right!* (1:13:54) Q's: Never wrong, facing fear…* (1:16:16) Prayer. Women are 100% responsible. Seek first… No romance!* (1:28:17) 100% responsible? Explain to my husband? Mind wandered off!* (1:40:16) Don't think about what's right* (1:41:25) Women's Forum, I was a disgrace. Forgave my son's father*
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The principle you violate in dating and marriage | Church 3/9/25
09/03/2025 Duration: 02h03minYou'll never find the right person if you violate the principle: Seek first the Kingdom, and all will be added. Why do you want the approval of anyone else?NOTE: We "spring forward" 1-hour on Sunday, so we come on AN HOUR EARLIER for those who don't observe U.S. Daylight Saving Time (Arizona, Europe, Australia...)Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 9, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:26) Difficulty committing to prayer* (0:03:11) Raw milk?* (0:10:57) Happy to sit through hell after Women's Forum* (0:19:42) How deep evil within goes* (0:20:48) Dating: Married people* (0:32:31) Dating: Unmarried people* (0:41:36) Disappointed couple… Where do you look?* (0:55:24) Living together… "I'm a terrible person"...* (1:05:38) Separated… Romance? …* (1:17:41) "Helper, to serve me." - Ambitious winner… Multiple women?!* (1:34:46) JLP: You'll never find the right person; Seek first…* (1:46:27) Biblical Q: Why do you want the approval of anyone else?* (1:52:10) New BQ: Concerning race, which
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What good have you gotten out of religion? | Church 3/2/25
02/03/2025 Duration: 02h07minMushrooms to "see God"? Don't let your body be too important. Struggling with judgment. Face your mother. You've gotten no good out of religion!Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 2, 2025Men's Forum first Thur, Mar 6, 2025, 7 PM, BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:01:41) Mushrooms? See God without dying?* (0:14:09) Health concern: Time doesn't exist* (0:27:34) Go through Hell…* (0:29:30) Struggling with judgment of the world?* (0:44:00) Noticing "demonic" mother; Distraction from Silent Prayer* (0:53:53) Silent Prayer: Don't let sleep be too important. Etc.* (1:00:26) Don't care? Practice being present. Face your mother.* (1:10:13) Why forgive mother? Why relationships?* (1:13:12) BQ, lady and her husband: Obey? See you're evil?* (1:21:05) BQ: Hasn't forgiven. Don't focus on body* (1:30:19) BQ: She'll see how much she hates her mother* (1:34:59) BQ: Raymond and others* (1:38:05) BQ: Don’t let Satan talk you out of coming. Don't compare* (1
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Everyone is a monster | Church 2/23/25
23/02/2025 Duration: 02h06minStory: Mother drove 15yo dating daughter to suicide. Everyone is a monster. Disobedient wife, angry husband: Don't hold onto learning!Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 23, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk* (0:01:30) Lotion for ashy skin* (0:02:51) Women's Forum: Face fears, stay present* (0:04:45) Spiritual life; Mama* (0:22:07) Story: Mother stopping daughter dating, suicide* (0:34:42) Asian gal: Dating age? Found Jesus on TikTok* (0:44:48) Asian gal: Anger. Mother. Father. Monster.* (1:06:05) Asian gal: Crying, Lying. Ayahuasca or forgiveness?* (1:15:28) Dating age? 13, 18, or 25?* (1:24:30) Still have anger? … "Righteous anger"? No thinking* (1:30:52) Why won't you obey your husband?* (1:49:30) Husband: Why do you get angry? Let ideas go!* (1:54:08) JLP: Parents, let children learn in dating* (1:58:10) Stop judging the L.A. people* (2:03:32) BQ's, closingCLIPSStory: Mother drove 15yo daughter and her bf to suicide (12-min) YouTube | Rumble See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, Bi
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Does Satan know God? | Church 2/16/25
16/02/2025 Duration: 02h11minEvil comes through the mother. Can't do drugs to see God. Don't hide from fear. You've been taught wrong. Satan does not know God!Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 16, 2025ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thurs, Feb 20, 2025, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Health, Welcome, Valentine's * (0:02:29) Diddy, the mother's nature* (0:04:49) Armenian woman, husband* (0:13:30) Jewish man, wife, daughter* (0:29:36) Take drugs to see God?* (0:38:25) …"windowpane"; Dark ego, feelings* (0:47:27) All have anger: stupid.* (0:54:54) Fear, hiding. Forget about being r—d! On-stage* (1:09:08) Joel news: Married!* (1:12:22) Never let fear stop you… on-stage gals* (1:33:11) BQ: Does Satan know God?* (1:36:31) Health issue: Take no thought about your body.* (1:41:30) Homeowner smoked pot, got lonely …* (1:57:51) Shouldn't the perp be held accountable?* (2:02:02) Taught wrong… Don't live up to anything!* (2:07:19) JLP on BQ… New BQ… ClosingCLIPSYou've been told wrong (8-m
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Is Anger a Part of Intelligence or Stupidity? | Church 2/9/25
09/02/2025 Duration: 01h59minBOND 35 years. No plan, no thought. Judgment. The Prodigal Son. Anger is total stupidity.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 9, 2025TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Nick, Joel, Welcome! Super Bowl?* (0:03:17) BOND 35 years ago* (0:15:42) Have no plan! … No need to think* (0:24:55) If you stopped thinking? Anger left me.* (0:35:02) Prodigal Son?* (0:44:38) Judgment? Mexican* (0:50:50) JLP: Stop judging* (0:53:44) Would you throw the drag queen out?* (0:58:43) JLP: Prodigal, lost in jungle of thoughts* (1:10:20) BQ… Is anger part of intelligence or stupidity?* (1:27:13) JLP on BQ: Total stupidity* (1:30:55) Buying her flowers: Anger is evil* (1:36:30) Can't go back: Bridge of thoughts falling away* (1:44:04) Wanting a good relationship with…? Fear* (1:47:54) Love thrills? Let ideas go. Don't think about God.* (1:54:17) New BQ… Forgiven? ClosingCLIPSJLP's nonprofit BOND: 35 years with no plan (18-min) YouTube | Rumble | BitChute | Odysee // Anger is pure stupidity (10-min) YouTube | Rumble | BitChute | Odyse