Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details. Upcoming events: OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/ Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/ Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it. (Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.) Links: “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / c

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March! Bonus links: Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97) Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd. Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.

Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott’s new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as information about what’s happening with Las Vegas. Listen on, dudes! Bad Ass Weekend: https://bawevent.com/ Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home OTK LA: https://www.otkla.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex. But not every bottom wants that kind of aftercare, and not every top is comfortable in providing everything a bottom might want. So, it’s important for tops and bottoms to communicate what they want—or don’t want—after a spanking session is over. Listen on dudes, to learn more. All of this and a quick explanation about some rule changes at Etsy about the types of BDSM and adult gear they allow to be sold through the site. Oh, and the pink lanyards are coming to Bad Ass Weekend! Bad Ass Weekend: BAWevent.com Etsy’s adult content policies: https://www.e

Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Sept. 14 to enter the lottery. Listen for more details. And information about registration and room rates can be found on our site: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Scott is back home after hosting the first Hot Seat Vegas and returns with a new outlook on his spanking life. And that new outlook is one where he is ass up over a man’s knee, getting spanked as much and as frequently as possible. Scott is re-embracing and reclaiming his bottomhood. He’s joined this episode by returning guest Steve, who gave Scott four of the 36 separate spankings he got his birthday weekend. Listen on, Dudes, to hear hot stories about hot spankings in one of the hottest cities in America. Bad Ass Weekend: Bawevent.com Avatar L.A.: Avatarla.org Justin and Trevor's spanking blog: https://justintrevorblss.blogspot.com

July is one of the hottest months of the year, and thanks to a couple of spanking events that month, we’re going to make it even hotter. Insert as many “global warming” puns and jokes as you see fit as you rub your sore bottom—or somebody else’s! Scott is joined by Tony, a.k.a. Bearspanks, to help newbies know what to expect at their first spanking event and also to provide some tips for anybody who is thinking about getting or giving a spanking involving somebody they’ve just met. Pack your bags, your paddles, and don’t forget your belt, and listen on dudes. Links: The Spank Bank Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thespankbank-774333226 Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home Camp Red Tails: https://www.campredtails.com/home Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees. Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our event. Message RedSpankScott on Whappz if you'd like to host an event or activity, or if you're interested in helping run games for our planned Friday game night! More details about Hot Seat Vegas here: HotSeatVegas.com. More information on Tuscany Suites, Las Vegas here: https://www.tuscanylv.com/

Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat’s roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunities for punishment to manifest. Valuable links: OTK LA: otkla.com/home Hot Seat Vegas: hotseatvegas.com/home Camp Red Tails: campredtails.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details. Visit our site here and sign up for our newsletters to keep track of the latest info: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police officer’s belt, or maybe some paddle he happens to be carrying around with him? You can live out that fantasy, either as the wayward driver or the cop. We’re joined by Dave, also known as Hunter Chase, who does roleplay spanking scenes as a police officer or prisoner with advice on living out these fantasies and incorporating handcuffs into spanking play safely. All this plus the latest on upcoming spanking events, including a very hot time coming to some butts this summer in Las Vegas! Links "Bad Lads and Strict Sirs" shop: https://blssworld.printify.me/products SWAT Studios: https://www.swat-studios.com/ Dave’s Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/hunter_chase_23 Mus

Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play. Justin and Trevor made an example of themselves in an excellent public lesson about putting together genuine roleplay scenes in your spanking play. Justin and Trevor also have plenty to say about their amazing new book, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking,” which had its release party at Bad Ass Weekend. Oh, and we have a spanking flag now. No, really, we do. Listen on, dudes! More on Justin and Trevor’s book: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/ Buy it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CH7BLWSW Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details. Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061. Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/. There will be more news to come in December. Looking forward to seeing you all back.

The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.

Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.’s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the future holds. We are working on keeping Moonburn going, but it’s gonna take a little work. We also share fond memories of Moonburn and our friend Vern, who was a pivotal part of Man’s Hand Films, Camp Red Tails, and the Moonburn parties and just recently passed away. All this, plus reminders about the pending Bad Ass Weekend in October (Scott’s giving another presentation on Bully Play) and the pending release of Steve and Mike’s book on spanking, “Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking.” More on Bad Ass Weekend: BawEvent.Com More on Hot Seat Retreat: HotSeatPS.com More on the OTK LA spanking parties: OTKLA.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsoun

Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott announces an addition of "interest tracks" for attendees who want to focus on activities involving certain types of roleplay. There is more info to come! Visit Hot Seat Retreat's website for more info: HotSeatPS.com Follow Hot Seat Retreat on Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off. All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community. CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven Bad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. Bawevent.com. OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. OTKLA.com Hot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. Hotseatps.com Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it’s like. We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navigate our alternating modes of play as well as how the desire to both give and receive affects our fantasies and how we pursue them. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com