Synopsis
Negotiate Anything is the top ranked negotiation podcast. In this podcast, youll discover how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process. You'll hear interviews from successful business professionals and thought leaders and discover how they use these skills to advance their businesses and careers. In our sparring sessions, I go head-to-head with our guests in a mock negotiation to give the audience an example of how these techniques can be implemented when dealing with difficult people. We don't just talk about what works, we talk about why it works by uncovering the psychological principles that undergird these techniques. The podcast is as fun as it is informative. Our goal is to increase the competence and confidence of our listeners to empower them to get what they want and deserve out of life, both personally and professionally. (Formerly Negotiation for Entrepreneurs)Keywords: negotiation, negotiate, persuasion, influence, leadership, psychology, sales, compassionate curiosity, mindful, mindfulness, emotions, self awareness, emotional intelligence, career, interviews, informational interviews, job search, job readiness, networking, discounts, conflict, difficult people, psychology, emotion, emotions, argue, argument, debate, negotiation, negotiate, influence, persuasion, leadership, entrepreneurship, small business, salary, sales, law, lawyer, law school, mba, human resources, HR, employee, employees,
Episodes
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IBM’s Cindy Anderson & Anthony Marshal on Thought Leadership for Negotiators
05/03/2025 Duration: 32minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Cindy Anderson and Anthony Marshal, two thought leaders from the IBM Institute for Business Value. The discussion centers around their co-authored book, "The ROI of Thought Leadership," and its unique intersection with negotiation. They explore the tangible impact of thought leadership on negotiation, persuasion, and communication, offering listeners actionable insights. As Cindy and Anthony dispel common misconceptions, they provide a roadmap for individuals to harness thought leadership to amplify their authority and negotiation skills. What will be covered: A deep dive into what thought leadership truly means and common misconceptions about it. A discussion on how thought leadership intersects with negotiation and enhances persuasive communication skills. Exploration of practical steps for individuals to become thought leaders and effectively produce thought leadership.
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Your Boss Won’t Tell You This: How to Get a Raise with Meggie Palmer
04/03/2025 Duration: 27minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian is joined by Meggie Palmer, founder of Pep Talkher, to discuss the art of knowing your worth and securing the compensation you deserve, especially in light of today's economic challenges. Meggie shares insights into her mission to close the gender pay gap and highlights the importance of recognizing your value in the workplace. With practical advice on preparing for salary negotiations, Meggie arms listeners with the tools to approach these crucial conversations with confidence and strategy. Tune in to explore how self-awareness, preparation, and advocacy can transform your career trajectory. In this episode, we will cover: The importance of knowing your worth and how it impacts salary negotiations. Strategies for effective preparation for salary discussions, even amidst the challenges posed by inflation. Ways in which employees can advocate for themselves and others in creating equitable workpl
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Culture Over Tactics: Richard Cogswell’s Formula for Sales Success
03/03/2025 Duration: 30minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," Kwame Christian engages in a compelling conversation with Richard Cogswell, author of "The Cultural Sales Leader: Sustaining People, Attaining Results." Richard shares insights from his book, drawing from his extensive experience in sales leadership across the Asia Pacific region. He emphasizes the importance of culture within sales teams, explaining how effective leadership goes beyond mere tactics to foster an environment where teams can thrive. Listeners will gain an understanding of how to align sales strategies with organizational culture to achieve lasting success. What will be covered: Richard Cogswell's journey and career insights in the payments, data, and technology industry. The significance of culture in transforming sales teams for long-term success. Challenges and solutions in sales leadership, including dealing with high performers and aligning cross-functional teams. Connect with Richard Cogswell www
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Unlocking Persuasion Secrets with Adele Gambardella and Kwame Christian
02/03/2025 Duration: 40minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," Kwame Christian sits down with Adele Gambardella to explore the art of mastering negotiation techniques. Adele shares insights from her expansive career in journalism, PR, and crisis communication, and unveils strategies from her new book "Convince Me," co-authored with former FBI hostage negotiator Chip Massey. They discuss the importance of crossing disciplines to create unique negotiation strategies, the concept of targeted validation, and Adele's revelations around how our convincing techniques are established as early as age six. Through a rich dialogue, listeners are equipped with practical tactics to become more persuasive in their professional and personal lives. What will be covered: How Adele Gambardella integrates PR and crisis communication with FBI hostage negotiation techniques in her book "Convince Me." The concept of targeted validation and its efficacy in negotiation situations. The impact of starting
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Wies Bratby: Unveiling the Power of Negotiation for Women
01/03/2025 Duration: 33minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this empowering episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Wies Bratby, an expert in career negotiation and advocacy for women. Wies shares her journey from a lawyer to creating her organization, Women in Negotiation (WIN), where she helps women negotiate their careers and salaries with astonishing success. The conversation delves into the importance of mindset, self-value, and developing a communication model to achieve personal and professional growth. Wies emphasizes the transformative power of negotiation, not only in financial terms but also in building self-confidence and recognizing one's worth. What will be covered: Wies Bratby's unique approach to empowering women to advocate and negotiate for themselves. The success of Women in Negotiation's coaching program and its impact on women's careers. The role of mindset in negotiation and overcoming societal barriers. Connect with Wies Listen to Winning with Wies Bratby Podcast
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The Compassionate Curiosity Framework Explained - with Kwame Christian and Lindsay Andrews
28/02/2025 Duration: 38minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian takes on the role of the interviewee as Lindsay Andrews sits down with him to delve into mastering the art of difficult conversations through his compassionate curiosity framework. Kwame shares his journey from being a people pleaser to becoming a negotiation expert, emphasizing the importance of self-trust, emotional management, and proactive engagement in challenging discussions. Lindsay and Kwame exchange valuable insights on how to navigate emotionally charged situations, build confidence, and transform fear into productive action. Tune in to learn how negotiation isn't just a skill but an empowering identity that can strengthen relationships and foster personal growth. What will be covered: The compassionate curiosity framework and its three steps: validating emotions, compassionate curiosity, and joint problem-solving. The role of emotional management, introspection, and self-reflec
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Angela Cheng-Cimini: Mastering Difficult Conversations in HR
27/02/2025 Duration: 28minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Angela Cheng-Cimini, a seasoned HR professional with three decades of experience. Angela shares her expertise on navigating difficult conversations in the workplace, particularly those resembling mediation between conflicting parties. Delving deep into the essence of organizational courage, Angela emphasizes the importance of open communication and self-awareness in professional settings. As she transitions into a new chapter in her life, Angela reflects on the value of being honest and transparent to foster a productive work environment. What will be covered: Strategies for handling workplace mediations and resolving conflicts effectively. The concept of organizational courage and its impact on corporate culture. Angela's personal experiences and insights from her extensive HR career. Follow Angela on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow
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Bridging Divides: Negotiation Lessons from City Leadership with Mayor Tony Roswarski & Mayor Erin Easter
26/02/2025 Duration: 58minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company How do leaders navigate tough conversations, build collaboration across political and community lines, and handle high-stakes negotiations? In this insightful episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Mayor Tony Roswarski (Lafayette, IN) and Mayor Erin Easter (West Lafayette, IN) to explore the art of negotiation in city leadership. Together, they break down: The power of finding common ground in divided communities Active listening as a tool for trust and persuasion The challenge of misinformation and how to counter it in public discussions Emotional intelligence in leadership—how to repair missteps and foster collaboration The hidden power of relationships in negotiations Whether you're leading a team, managing community disputes, or handling difficult conversations in your daily life, this episode is packed with practical negotiation strategies you can apply immediately. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian o
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Effective Storytelling: Stop Being Nice, Start Being Clear - Amber Wright
26/02/2025 Duration: 47minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by Dr. Amber Wright, a communication expert, to explore the transformative power of storytelling in negotiation. With nearly 20 years of experience, Amber shares her expertise in fostering effective communication practices, both in personal and professional settings. The discussion delves into the critical questions that define human interactions and the responsibility we have in showing up authentically in conversations. Through engaging dialogue, Amber provides practical strategies for improving communication and increasing confidence, highlighting the intersection of preparation, persuasion, and authenticity in difficult conversations. What will be covered: The role of storytelling in negotiation and its impact on effective communication. The WSD Method for clear communication and its application in various settings. The relationship between confidence, preparation, and succe
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The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Secrets to Getting People to Reveal the Truth – John R. "Jack" Schafer
25/02/2025 Duration: 55minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape. What will be covered: Techniques to detect deception through behavioral and verbal cues. The use of elicitation in
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Kwame Christian: The Unexpected Power of Admitting a Mistake - Reverse Interview by Lauren Sabo
24/02/2025 Duration: 57minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Lauren Sabo, an attorney specializing in education and special education law, for a reverse interview where Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies
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The Art of Salary Negotiation: Understanding Anchoring and Expectations
23/02/2025 Duration: 38minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of the "Negotiate Anything" podcast, host Kwame Christian is joined by negotiation expert Jeff Sipe to delve into the intricacies of job negotiation strategies. They provide valuable insights on how to handle pressure-packed conversations, the importance of setting high anchors, and the effective use of graciousness and kindness in negotiations. Throughout the discussion, Jeff shares practical advice on deflecting salary expectations questions and discusses the critical role that pitch, tone, and delivery play in successful negotiations. Listeners are introduced to innovative tools and methods, including leveraging AI for interview preparation, as Jeff shares his vast experience in negotiating job offers, particularly in the tech industry. What will be covered: Strategies for deflecting salary expectation inquiries and the importance of timing in discussions. The role of pitch and tone in maintaining composure and effectiveness d
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Amy Green Smith's Guide: 3 Tips to Transform People-Pleasing Habits
22/02/2025 Duration: 40minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by life coach and hypnotherapist, Amy Green Smith, for a deep dive into overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and enhancing self-worth. Amy unpacks the complex intersection of emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal influences that affect our negotiation strategies in daily life, whether it’s within the workplace or personal relationships. She discusses the evolutionary background of people-pleasing behaviors, offering a nuanced perspective on when such strategies can be beneficial and when they undermine self-worth. Listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of the role self-perception plays in their negotiation effectiveness and overall life satisfaction. What will be covered: Definition and implications of people-pleasing behaviors and how they relate to negotiation. The impact of emotional intelligence on self-advocacy and boundary setting. The interplay
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Jean M. Lawler: How Humor Can Make or Break Your Negotiation
21/02/2025 Duration: 33minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Jean M. Lawler, an experienced commercial and insurance mediator, to share her insights on realistic deals and creative solutions in conflict resolution. Jean delves into her typical day handling litigation cases, the importance of distinguishing between wants and needs in mediation, and the power of empathy and creativity in negotiations. The conversation highlights the benefits of pre-mediation preparation and the use of bracketing strategies to set reasonable negotiation ranges. This episode is packed with invaluable mediation and negotiation tips that can enhance your conflict resolution skills. What will be covered: Jean M. Lawler's professional journey from practicing lawyer to full-time mediator. The daily responsibilities and challenges in handling litigation and pre-suit cases. Strategies like pre-mediation preparation and bracketing to facilitate smoother negotiations.
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The Power of Keeping Negotiation Simple—Mark Mirra Explains How
20/02/2025 Duration: 38minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Mark Mirra, the founder and CEO of Aligned, a negotiation training, coaching, and consulting firm. Mark shares his expertise in simplifying complex negotiation strategies through a structured four-phase approach: preparation, communication, proposing, and aligning. By exploring the intricacies of different types of negotiations, from hard bargaining to partnerships, Mark provides actionable insights that make it easier for listeners to apply negotiation strategies effectively. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their negotiation skills and contribute to successful business outcomes with a simplified yet powerful methodology. What You'll Hear Covered: An overview of Mark Mirra's unique, simplified negotiation framework The four phases of negotiation: preparation, communication, proposal, and alignment How internal alignment and strategic communicati
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Dan Oblinger: How to Detect and Address Lies in Negotiations
19/02/2025 Duration: 44minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian engages with guest Dan Oblinger, a seasoned police crisis and business negotiator, about effectively dealing with deception in negotiations. Dan leverages his diverse background, including his experience in ancient philosophy and ethics, to provide a comprehensive approach for navigating deceptive situations. The conversation covers a robust three-pronged strategy focused on preparation, tactical listening, and confrontation of deception without compromising professionalism. Listeners will gain valuable insights into how understanding the nuances of human behavior and active listening can uncover and manage deception in negotiation contexts. What will be covered: Dan Oblinger's unique journey from police crisis negotiator to business negotiator, and his insights into human behavior. A detailed explanation of a three-pronged strategy to deal with deception, including preparation, tactica
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Kwame Christian: "Every interaction is a deposit in the relationship bank account" - Strategies for Building Stronger Relationships
18/02/2025 Duration: 41minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company Trust is the bedrock of effective negotiations. When negotiators trust each other, they are more likely to share their interests, concerns, and objectives freely, enabling a deeper understanding of the underlying issues. This transparency promotes empathy and fosters a collaborative mindset, where both parties strive for win-win solutions rather than focusing solely on their individual gains. By building this foundation of trust, negotiators can create an atmosphere of respect and cooperation, increasing the chances of achieving mutually beneficial agreements. As important as it is, determining how to earn a person’s trust can be incredibly challenging – especially in high-stakes business scenarios. Determining if you can trust your counterpart can be equally difficult. So how do we effectively give and receive trust in difficult conversations? Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiat
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Brian Ahearn: The Hard Talks We Avoid—And Why We Need Them
17/02/2025 Duration: 34minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes back Brian Ahearn, Chief Influence Officer at Influence People, to discuss the powerful lessons and insights from Brian's new book, "His Story, My Story, Our Story." The book chronicles the complexities of Brian's relationship with his late father, a Marine Corps veteran who faced significant challenges after serving in Vietnam. Brian shares how understanding his father's experiences helped him develop empathy and strengthen their relationship. This episode delves into how these personal revelations can apply to negotiations and influence in everyday life. What will be covered: The story of Brian Ahearn's relationship with his father and the personal journey of reconciling past issues. Insights on establishing empathy and connection with loved ones who are military veterans. Techniques from the science of influence and negotiation applied to personal relationships. Connect with Brian htt
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Confidence Isn’t What You Think – with David Hulman
16/02/2025 Duration: 01h03minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes David Hulman, the founder of Self Belief Chief, to discuss the pivotal role of self-belief in successful negotiation and conflict resolution. David shares his insights on how self-belief isn't just about a general sense of confidence, but rather a tailored confidence in specific areas of life and negotiation. Highlighting the science behind self-belief, David introduces listeners to the six sources of self-belief and innovative techniques like the reliable peak pattern and the scratching technique. These concepts are designed to help negotiators harness their true potential by relying on proven methods and transforming past disappointments into empowering experiences. What will be covered: The six sources of self-belief and how they can bolster negotiation confidence. Understanding the reliable peak pattern to achieve consistent peak performance in negotiations. The scratching te
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The ‘Nice Person’ Trap: How to Set Firm and Healthy Boundaries – with Jamila Brown
15/02/2025 Duration: 35minRequest A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Jamila Brown, career consultant and co-founder of The 5 Minute Career Hack, to discuss the critical art of setting boundaries at work. Jamila shares her unique insights and experiences from her corporate career and highlights the importance of establishing boundaries early and consistently as a strategic career-building tool. Together, they explore the holistic view of an employee's journey, from crafting a resume to negotiating that dream exit. Through relatable anecdotes and expert advice, Jamila reveals how understanding and managing personal and professional life as an integrated whole can prevent burnout and lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling career path. What will be covered: Understanding the employment life cycle and its impact on setting effective boundaries. Recognizing the intertwined nature of personal and professional life in preventing burnout. Practical strat