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If you’ve ever told yourself “I don’t have time to take care of myself” because you’re too busy taking care of everyone else — this one’s for you. Whether it’s your kids, your job, your partner, aging parents, or your community — a lot of us are constantly pouring out… while running on empty. In this episode, I’m sharing a concept from CrossFit — “core to extremity” — and how it changed the way I think about showing up for others. We’re talking about where real strength comes from, what happens when we don’t start at the center, and how taking care of yourself first is not selfish — it’s strategic. If you feel stretched thin or burned out, this might be the reframe you didn’t know you needed.

You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. But you might be stuck in a loop of trying the same things over and over — even when they’ve never worked. In this episode, I’m diving deep into learned helplessness: why you feel like nothing works, how your brain tricks you into repeating the past, and what you can do to finally break free. We’ll unpack: Why recycling effort isn’t the same as solving the problem How you’ve been overemphasizing options and underemphasizing choice The trap of only considering what you’ve already tried The epidemic of passive consumption (and why it’s costing you your ability to think) This is a wake-up call and a relief — because once you see the loop, you can step out of it.

What if procrastination isn’t the real problem? What if what you see — the delay, the excuses, the inconsistency — is just smoke… and the real fire is underneath? In today’s episode, I’m walking you through a real conversation I had with a client in DEFENSE, where we uncovered the truth behind her procrastination — and it wasn’t time management. It wasn’t planning. It was belief. Identity. A narrow picture of what change had to look like… that she didn’t even want to live. We talk about: Why solving surface problems doesn’t lead to lasting change How “diet food” and “I don’t like exercise” become unconscious blocks What to do when you tell yourself “I’m just not worthy” Why you don’t need to be addicted to your comfort zone anymore

I’ve been asked about this multiple times, so here we go. Today’s episode is a little different. It’s personal. It’s about my faith. You don’t have to agree with me, in fact, I think it might be most valuable to listen if you don’t. Because this isn’t about convincing anyone. It’s about sharing how my faith impacts the way I experience fear, anxiety, the world around me, and how I lead my family. I’m not a theologian. I’m not here to debate doctrine. I’m just here to tell the truth about what’s changed for me and how that plays out in real life. Whether you’ve been curious about my faith journey or you’re just struggling to stay grounded in a chaotic world, I hope this meets you right where you are.

This episode is a mix of practical strategies and personal philosophy, pulled straight from your questions about how I run my home and raise my kids — while still prioritizing consistency, growth, and sanity. Here’s what we cover: ✅ Why I don’t pick up after my kids — and what that has to do with leadership, growth, and long-term habits ✅ What I really want to instill in my kids (hint: it’s way deeper than manners or obedience) ✅ The power of “restraint + kindness” — and how that’s redefining the way I see mercy ✅ How I work to avoid helicopter parenting (even when I really want to intervene) ✅ Easy, healthy meal ideas for busy moms (or anyone who doesn’t want to live in the kitchen) ✅ My personal food strategy: “Dinner once, lunch twice” ✅ How to keep food and parenting simple — but effective

We’re quick to spot the truth in other people’s choices: “If he would just manage his time better…” “If she’d finish one thing before starting the next…” But when it comes to our own patterns? The truth feels harder to see — and even harder to admit. In this episode, I’m digging into the critical practice of telling yourself the truth — the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Because the stories we tell ourselves don’t have to be true to shape our lives. They just have to go unopposed. You’ll hear: Why it’s easier to analyze their problems than to face our own How “permissive phrases” like “I’ll start tomorrow” or “I need this to take the edge off” quietly run the show A client story that shows exactly how to challenge vague justifications and uncover the truth The difference between evaluation (judging yourself) and coaching (creating a way forward) A simple 3-step challenge to practice radical honesty and break free from excuses and procrastination If you’ve ever wondered why you keep startin

The Red Pen: Why Your Plans Always Fall Apart You’ve been here before: the shiny new plan, the clean fridge, the big motivation… and then life gets lifey. Pizza at the work meeting, a missed workout, one “I already blew it” moment — and suddenly the whole thing unravels. It’s not that your plan was bad. It’s that your plan had no defense. In this episode, I pull out my imaginary red pen and circle the exact spots where most plans are doomed to fall apart — and why you don’t need a stricter plan, you need a defensive strategy. Here’s what you’ll learn: The three biggest “red circles” that sabotage your progress every time Why chasing a perfect 9 or 10 keeps you stuck at zero How Defense gives you a playbook for the moments when life gets messy If you’re tired of doing and undoing the same work, it’s time for a different approach.

This week, in two vastly different conversations, the same question came up: Why bother? Whether it’s the weight of repeated failure or the heartbreak of a world that feels broken, it’s easy to wonder what the point is. In today’s episode, I’m sharing two real-life moments — one rooted in personal frustration, and another in the aftermath of a community tragedy — that both led to this question… and the truth I believe we need to hold onto: Your health matters. Not for the number on the scale. Not for appearances. But because healthy people create healthy communities. We need physically, mentally, and spiritually well individuals now more than ever — in homes, schools, workplaces, and online spaces. If you’re feeling powerless to change what’s happening around you, this episode is for you. You have a part to play — and your health equips you to play it well.

Episode Summary: In this episode, I’m sharing the supplements I take in this season of life—and why I take them. I’ll walk you through my non-negotiables, seasonal support, and individualized tools, plus offer thoughts on how to choose what’s right for you instead of being swayed by supplement trends on social media. You’ll hear a bit about my background in the supplement industry, the role of personalized data (like gut testing), and how I approach this area of wellness with intention—not overwhelm.

Most people are stuck in the cycle of starting strong, burning out, and wondering what’s wrong with them. The truth? It’s not just about effort; it’s about protection. In this episode, we’re unpacking why your success in health, finances, relationships — all of it — hinges on one critical skill: defense. It’s not just about what you do; it’s about what you protect. And if you’re not protecting your peace, your clarity, your energy… you're probably sabotaging your own progress.

If you’ve ever had one of those days where you were busy all day but not actually productive…this episode is for you. I’m sharing the morning rhythm that’s working for me right now — a flexible structure I call 30x4. It’s not about what time your day starts. It’s about what you start with. Instead of getting lost in emails, minutia, or life management, this rhythm helps me lock in the “big rocks” first. And because it’s flexible, it works whether my day starts at 4:30 AM, 7:00 AM, or even later. Here’s what I’ll walk you through: Why “busy” doesn’t always mean “productive” — and how to change that. The 30x4 framework: four 30-minute blocks that set up my day for success. How I layer activities like exercise + learning + sunlight to maximize time. Why I focus on order instead of a fixed start time. Examples of how this rhythm can look different depending on your season of life. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a simple but powerful structure you can adapt to your own goals — whether that’s h

Episode focus: What GLP‑1 actually is (your body already makes it), when/where it’s released, why food noise exists, and practical ways to nudge the same mechanisms without a prescription. Listen for: simple definitions, meal/lifestyle plays that boost satiety signals, and a week‑by‑week experiment plan. Quick Summary GLP‑1 (glucagon‑like peptide‑1) is a peptide hormone your gut releases after you eat. It helps meals feel calmer by slowing stomach emptying, supporting insulin only when glucose is high, and signaling the brain to turn down cravings. Release is biphasic (two waves): a quick early wave soon after food hits the upper small intestine, and a later, longer satiety wave 30–120+ minutes after—especially when meals include protein, some fat, and fermentable/viscous fiber. Food noise is multi‑factor: hyperpalatable foods, fast eating/liquid calories, sleep debt and stress, microbiome shifts, and environment/cues. Meds mute it fast; habits keep it quiet. What it is: a gut‑made peptide hormone t

We’ve all said it: “I know what to do, I’m just not doing it.” But here’s the truth: willpower and intention aren’t strategies. That’s why you can have the best plan in the world and still feel stuck. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 fresh approaches that will change the way you think about follow-through — including: Why discipline flows from identity (and how to rewrite yours in tiny, powerful ways). What beans in my garden taught me about building reachable steps instead of impossible leaps. How the Mary Poppins Effect can make consistency feel fun instead of like punishment. This isn’t about trying harder. It’s about trying smarter, with strategies that actually work for real life.

Join me for a casual chat with my husband, Chris! Let's lighten things up, but we'll also chat about how we navigate different priorities and preferences around food. 

Episode Summary: In this episode, I’m unpacking the new Netflix documentary Fit for TV about The Biggest Loser—and the uncomfortable parallels to today’s GLP-1 craze. On The Biggest Loser, contestants were willing to humiliate themselves, punish their bodies, and risk their health for rapid results. Fast forward 20 years, and we’re seeing the same mentality play out in a different form—this time with injections. Just like the show, GLP-1s promise dramatic, fast weight loss. But behind the glamor lies a dangerous truth: severe caloric restriction, significant muscle loss, and a metabolism that slows to a crawl. And when the meds stop—because of side effects, cost, or insurance changes—most people find themselves right back where they started, but worse off. This isn’t about hating the drugs. It’s about raising a flag. It’s about questioning our obsession with extremes and asking: why are we willing to do the most drastic things for a quick fix, but so resistant to the slow, sustainable path that actually works

ou’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You know exactly what to do to reach your goals. So why… are you still not doing it? If you’ve ever found yourself saying: “It’s just one little thing — it won’t matter.” “I’ll start again Monday.” “I don’t have the time right now.” …this episode is for you. Today, we’re digging into: The hidden lies behind your most convincing excuses — and how to call them out in real time. Why “just a little” always makes a difference (and how to prove it to yourself). The simple debate-club trick for shutting down an excuse before it derails you. The fastest way to bounce back after you’ve drifted — without waiting for the perfect Monday or the perfect mood. How to create momentum in minutes with “first choice, second choice, third choice.” This isn’t about learning more information — it’s about using what you already know, breaking the pattern of self-sabotage, and getting back in the driver’s seat of your choices. You don’t need to overhaul your

Your ego will demand a 10… when a consistent 3 would’ve changed your life. We glorify the grind. We chase the ideal. We obsess over the best way, the most extreme plan, the perfect strategy — and in doing so, we reject the one thing that actually works: consistency at a realistic level. This episode is a deep dive into the lie that’s been holding you back — the toxic fantasy that you have to “do it right” or not at all. It’s the all-or-nothing trap, dressed up in perfectionism and powered by ego. And it’s keeping you sick, stuck, and afraid. You think you need a total overhaul. You think you need discipline, intensity, a fresh start on Monday. You don’t. You need to make peace with a 3. You need to build a life you want to stay in. Because the perfect plan you can't stick with will never compete with the “good enough” one you do daily. In this episode: Why your standards might be the reason you're not making progress How perfectionism is just a prettier form of procrastination The hidden ego in “not eno

You’ve got a plan. You’ve got your motivation. You even start strong. And then… life happens. Work runs late. Stress spikes. Travel throws you off. A single “bad day” turns into a lost week. Sound familiar? Here’s the truth: most people have an offense for their goals — the plan, the schedule, the structure — but no defense for when things go sideways. And that’s why you keep tripping over the same obstacles again and again. In this episode, I’m going to show you: Why your goals collapse when the unexpected happens (and why “try harder” isn’t the answer) How you already use defense strategies in everyday life without realizing it The “luminol moments” that reveal your weak spots — and how to fortify them Real-life examples of personal defenses that keep you on track no matter what Your plan can’t just work when everything goes perfectly. It needs to work when life punches you in the mouth. And that’s what building your defense will do.