Everyone's Gay

Chris and Bryan start the show with a recap of the VMA red carpet and a conversation about how hard it is to be bold in public. They talk about Taylor Swift’s new album and share an inspiring clip from her VMA acceptance speech. Why do people continue to criticize her for waiting so long to speak out about politics? At 22:10 they’re joined by celebrity hairstylist Andrew Fitzsimons. They start out with some inside info on working with the Kardashians, Jenners, and tons of other huge names. He tells us about getting his start in the industry and eventually working his way to style people like Adele and Mariah. They also talk about Andrew starting the Trans Cosmetic Donation Program at the Los Angeles LGBT Center. At 49:05 Andrew sticks around for a game of Cock It or Block It. Then at 1:00:05 a listener writes in to ask how you should react if you catch your partner masturbating.

Chris and Bryan start the show with a news story about Karamo from Queer Eye coming to the defense of Sean Spicer, despite the horrible lies he has told in the past. At 16:05 they’re joined by Kay Brown of The Betchelor podcast to talk about everything going down on Bachelor In Paradise this season. They discuss Derek Peth’s inspiring reaction to Demi coming out and the arrival of her girlfriend on the show. Is this the most genuine moment in the history of the franchise? At 34:20 they play a game of Cock It or Block It, including a critique of the Kardashians and a debate about cooking shows. At 48:40 a listener writes in to ask if Grindr is a good place to find friends. How do you go about finding friends in the LGBTQ+ community when you’re new to town?

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with a story from Fire Island and a convo about the best music of the Summer. At 11:15 they play Gag it or Bag it and debate whether or not chain restaurants are any good. At 17:40 they are joined by our resident pop culture expert, Dylan Hafer. Together, they discuss Katy Perry getting #metooed, Miley Cyrus hooking up with Brody Jenner’s ex, and Demi coming out as bisexual on Bachelor in Paradise. Plus, they share the news that Bella Thorne is directing a movie for Pornhub. Then at 35:40 a listener writes in to ask how to tell his “good Christian boy” roommate that he’s gay. Is it better to drop hints or just come clean?

Chris and Bryan start the show with a conversation about whether or not the new Lion King movie should have ever been made. At 8:30 they talk about the woman who started the viral gender reveal video trend and the news that her child is non-binary. Is it time to cancel gender reveal parties? At 15:00 they’re joined by New York-based fitness trainer Patrick McGrath to talk about what you should and shouldn’t be doing to get fit. Patrick shares a list of true or false fitness questions and answers some listener submissions. At 29:30 Patrick sticks around for a game of Gag It or Bag It. Then at 39:15 a listener writes in to ask how to tell his long term boyfriend that he’s trans. They close out the show with some fun listener reviews.

Bryan and Chris start the show with a conversation about how well Chris would do as a CIA agent. They also talk about the Democratic debates from this week. At 12:45 they share a clip of Tituss Burgess giving Andy Cohen attitude on WWHL over a question about Eddie Murphy’s homophobic jokes. Why did he feel the need to come for Andy after the interview? They also tell us who Lady Gaga is dating now and ask if she’s staging her public photos. At 21:25 they play a game of Gag It or Bag It, including one about whether or not emojis have any place in sexting. At 27:00 a listener writes in to ask whether or not the guy he’s dating is just using him to test out a gay relationship. As a person who is open and honest about their own sexuality, is it harder to date someone who isn’t out of the closet yet?

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with details about the Carly Rae Jepsen concert Bryan attended and share a huge announcement about Chris’s career. They also offer their opinions on Taylor Swift’s new single. Is this album destined to be a disappointment? At 18:30 they talk about Lance Bass telling the world how he came out to Britney Spears. Then at 23:25 they play a game of Gag It or Bag It and debate whether or not thirst traps are getting out of control. Plus, they ask how early is too early to start doing Botox treatments. At 37:40 a listener writes in to ask if it’s okay to tell his partner that he has begun to let himself go.

Bryan and Chris are back and start the show with a recap of Bryan’s trip to Spain, including the moment he had to save his boyfriend from choking. They also discuss Chris’s family lake trip and preview the Carly Rae Jepsen concert Bryan is planning to attend. At 18:45 they introduce a new game called “Bag It or Gag It” all about the latest trends and whether or not they’re having it. Are you loving the new FaceApp age filter? At 27:00 a listener writes in to ask how to deal with a new boyfriend who hasn’t come out to his family. Would you be okay with meeting your significant other’s parents and pretending you’re not a couple? They close the show with a conversation about Elon Musk creating a bluetooth connection to your brain, and an explanation of his girlfriend’s bizarre health routine.

With Bryan away, Chris is joined by Daryn Carp, resident lesbian correspondent and host of the Martinis and Murder podcast. They start out with a recap of their Pride march with the Bravo float. Next, they talk about the difference between texting and email obligations. Is it okay to leave a text unanswered? Chris shares his hiking experience and they speculate about how they would do on the Appalachian Trail. At 22:10 they talk about Ariana Grande crying on stage, the explosion of Lizzo in the pop world, and Adele avoiding the spotlight. At 36:15 a listener writes in to ask for advice with a long distance relationship. Is agreeing to an open relationship the best way to make it work? They close the show with a conversation about what it takes to make an open relationship right for you.

Bryan and Chris are back with a World Pride hangover. While Chris was marching next to the Bravo float, Bryan was in Fire Island having unwanted penises flashed in his face by some guys being extra on the beach. At 9:40 they discuss Lil Nas X coming out of the closet at Glastonbury. At 13:40 they break down the Scooter Braun/ Taylor Swift controversy. At 31:30 a listener writes in wondering how handle his boyfriend who is seemingly addicted to porn.

Bryan and Chris kick off this week’s episode with a news story about Cracker Barrel standing up to a bigot who tried to stage an event at one of their restaurants. Next, they talk about a new study that says poppers may not be so bad for you. At 15:00 they discuss the origin of ball culture and tell us what really happens at a ball. Then at 25:40 they’re joined by recording artist Saro to talk about his new EP and LA Pride performance. They talk about the pop icons that have inspired each of them and Saro tells a story about getting chicken and waffles with Beyonce. At 47:40 a listener writes in to ask for tips on bottoming for the first time with his boyfriend. They close the show with advice on how to prepare for your first time and what to do if things don’t go well.

Bryan and Chris start the show with a reaction to the new Taylor Swift video. Are we okay with her using LGBTQ icons to promote her song? At 10:00 they dive into a conversation about drag culture, and Chris tells the story of how he first started out as a drag performer. At 18:50 they’re joined by drag icon Lady Bunny and director Chris Moukarbel to talk about their new documentary “Wig” on HBO. Bunny tells us how the Wigstock festival first started and explains how the drag scene is different today. They discuss the origin of the documentary, recent revival of the festival, and the current place drag holds in the LGBTQ community. Plus, Bunny talks about getting banned from Twitter and Chis tells them about working with Lady Gaga. At 53:45 they close the show with a listener email about whether or not you should come out to your family on a birthday. Is there a right and wrong time to come out?

Bryan and Chris kick off the show with a recap of their recent shoot at Bryan’s childhood home and talk about a pair of new singles that just dropped. At 11:00 they dive into a conversation about LGBTQ representation in sports. Bryan shares his experience playing in a gay sports league in NYC and talks about playing on teams growing up. They talk about the lack of gay pro athletes today. Why aren’t there any out athletes in any of the four major American sports? At 25:05 they share a story about the Trump administration instructing international embassies not to fly the pride flag. Then at 32:40 a listener writes in to ask how to get involved in the local gay scene when you first come out. How do you build self esteem when you don’t have enough experience?

Bryan and Chris celebrate the one year anniversary of Everyone’s Gay by reflecting on some listener messages, including one from a girl who was inspired by the podcast to come out to her mom. At 9:50 they discuss the “Straight Pride Parade” controversy. Are people just looking for reasons to feel marginalized? Bryan tells us about posting his first ever thirst trap and tells us the name he got called in his DMs. Then Chris tells a story about losing his wallet at a strip show. At 26:05 they start their new Dive into Pride segment brought to you by Bon and Viv Spiked Seltzer, sharing their earliest and fondest Pride memories. Then at 31:45 a listener writes in to ask how to come out in the workplace. Are people finally comfortable sharing their sexual identity with coworkers?

Happy Pride eve from Bryan and Chris! They start by talking about Bryan’s trip to Drag Con in LA and Chris’ experience seeing newly crowned gay icon, Lizzo, at Terminal 5. At 7:00 they discuss their inner conflicts about pride being monetized throughout the month of June. At 14:45 a listener writes in wondering how to bring up his interest in a polyamorous relationship with his partner. At 21:15 Mathew Shurka joins Bryan to discuss the practice of conversion therapy in America. They tell us what the next steps are for outlawing the practice and outline the biggest obstacles to making it happen.

Bryan and Chris are cranking the new album by newly crowned gay icon, Carly Rae Jepson. At 10:15 Bryan talks about his first summer 2019 Fire Island experience. At 14:00 they talk about the controversy surrounding the fictional gay wedding in the children’s show “Arthur”. At 22:00 they discuss how they would walk down the aisle if they were to get married. At 28:15 a listener writes in wondering if losing straight friends is common amongst more flamboyant gay guys.

Bryan and Chris are joined by resident gay betch Dylan Hafer to break down the James Charles Youtube drama. Dylan explains how Charles became enemy number one after clashing with his former mentor Tati Westbrook. Who is really to blame here? At 18:50 they’re joined by John Paul ("JP") Brammer, managing editor at the Trevor Project. They talk about coming out later in life and what it’s like to grow up gay in rural America. JP tells us about his advice column and shares some of the most common questions he gets. Why is everyone worried they’re being “too” gay? At 38:45 a listener writes in to ask if he needs to tell his friend that they’re both flirting with the same guy. Are you obligated to be honest about a mutual crush? They close out the show with a conversation about the new gender-swap Snapchat filter, and whether or not we should be concerned about its implications.

Bryan and Chris are back and talking the Met Gala. They start off with a recap of the GLAAD awards and their highlights from attending the event. At 4:25 they talk about the Met Gala and react to the best and worst outfits this year. Bryan also shares a story about a celeb sliding into his DMs. At 16:20 they are joined by Joey Camasta, makeup artist, foodie and host of “It's Happening with Snooki & Joey.” Joey tells a story about the time he gave a blow job and his car caught on fire. At 28:00 he tells us how he became best friends with Snooki. At 33:30 they talk about astrology and dating apps. They finish the show with a listener email about dating a guy who needs financial support.

Bryan and Chris are back and talking about Taylor Swift’s new music video. Is everyone else disappointed she didn’t come out as bisexual? At 13:00 they discuss a GQ article about iced coffee becoming the new gay signifier. At 20:20 they’re joined by our gay wellness correspondent Thomas Whitfield to answer some sex advice questions. They start with a conversation about sex education across the country and the negative impact of not including information about gay sex. At 59:40 a listener writes in to ask if it’s okay to date a daddy and whether or not a large age gap is cause for concern.

Bryan and Chris start the show with an announcement about new Everyone’s Gay merch and tell us about their Easter weekends, including Bryan’s family gathering and Chris’s jury duty. At 13:00 they discuss news that the Supreme Court plans to hear arguments on LGBTQ rights. At 23:20 they are joined by actor, writer and director Rightor Doyle to talk about his new brand new Netflix series Bonding. Rightor tells the real-life story of how he got tricked into working for a dominatrix and turned the experience into a tv show. They discuss some of the most common sex kinks and explain what sex dungeons are really like. At 38:00 a listener writes in to ask about hooking up with someone who has a full bush. They finish the with some talk about Rightor’s role on the hit HBO series Barry. To order your Everyone's Gay T-shirt, visit http://betches.co/everyonesgaytee

Bryan and Chris are joined by Daryn Carp, resident lesbian correspondent and host of the Martinis and Murder podcast, for a special 420 episode. They start off talking about doing poppers and watching the movie Thirteen. At 11:10 they share a list of surprising weed facts and discuss the impact of the next election on legalization. Is there any chance weed will finally be legal soon? At 26:15 they ask Daryn a series of listener-submitted questions about being a lesbian and working for Andy Cohen. To close out the show, they tell stories of the craziest things they’ve ever done while high.