Synopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
Episodes
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Have you ever seen God? | Church 7/28/24
28/07/2024 Duration: 02h44sMarriage, relationships, and "giving" are done out of ego, not love! Let the light destroy the ego. Have you ever seen God? It's spiritual, not physical. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, July 28, 2024 Life doesn't work your way: Marriage out-of-order, living near mama, wife working, not raising children. Women "help" and "give" and get hurt: for ego or love? All human beings are selfish. In relationships, it was never love, but covering up emptiness. Let the ego die: The light destroys the darkness. Biblical Question: Have you ever seen God? Christians say they have, but… New Biblical Question: Do you love the emptiness of not knowing who you are? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:03:26) Life won't work but its way: Marriage away from mama. * (0:11:20) Men whose wives wouldn't stay home. Trying to make it work. * (0:17:38) Grandmothers messing up children* (0:20:06) Man and girlfriend of 10 years* (0:33:44) She gets hurt giving, and being used. All women like this! * (0:42:55) "Generous
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The Armor of God, Part 1 | Archive 8/29/10
24/07/2024 Duration: 56minWe read Ephesians 5: 21 through 6: 17, and discuss work, marriage, parents and children. A "Civil Rights" rally revealed our spiritual battle. Archive Sunday Service, August 29, 2010 TIME STAMPS* (00:00) Welcome to Church * (01:02) Intro: Ephesians 5: 21 - 6: 17 * (03:38) Eph 5: 21 - 6: 9, Husbands, wives, children, slaves, masters * (06:23) Eph 6: 10-17, spiritual war, God's armor * (07:48) Feedback: Marriage, Women, Men, Obey, Slave? * (18:20) Reaction to "Obey" * (21:17) When your body gives you attitude * (24:45) Parents, don't drive children to resentment * (27:04) Children rebellious at 10 years-old! * (27:45) JLP childhood story: Plowing the mule * (34:37) Are you a slave? * (36:20) Did you fall asleep? You missed the most important part! * (39:00) Eph 6: 10-17 * (39:54) JLP: Armor of God * (40:27) Al Sharpton "Reclaim the Dream" rally, deceived * (41:29) Afraid to tell the truth… spiritual armor, spiritual battle * (46:48) Love truth, no fear * (49:00) Feedback: Fear * (50:30) Evil one cannot get to y
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Do you have hope? | Church 7/21/24
21/07/2024 Duration: 02h10minDo you have faith? Do you have hope? Why don't you let yourself die (spiritually)? Amnesia: You've forgotten the way back to the Father. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, July 21, 2024 Do you have faith in God? How do you know? Biblical Question: Do you have hope? What's it like working on yourself daily? Why don't you just let yourself die? Do you have amnesia? Pay attention to yourself; come to fellowship, not to get. You don’t have faith or hope, and don’t want it. You have amnesia: Forgot the way back home TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Start * (0:03:16) Welcome, JLP standing, Hake's b-day. Dreams? * (0:06:18) "I don't have faith in God." Do you? How do you know? * (0:15:54) BQ: Do you have hope? * (0:18:27) BTW: Didn't have a Bible growing up. Hope… * (0:24:03) How long would $6M last you? Hope… * (0:27:19) Can't help wife work on herself. $6M, BQ continues… * (0:34:31) What is it like working on your life daily? Story of man back in hell! * (0:40:58) Why don't you let yourself die? * (0:43:47) Man almost
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Why are you dismayed by others? | Church 7/14/24
14/07/2024 Duration: 02h01minTrump assassination attempt. Angry people are desperate. You're dismayed because you believe and think about what others say. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, July 14, 2024 Trump's assassination attempt: You’re no different from the shooter on the roof. Angry people are desperate, vicious, dangerous… consulting with the Devil in the mind. We have a Teacher! Leave it blank! It’s just a thought! Biblical Question: Why are you dismayed by others? Because you believe what they say about you, and think about it! NEW Biblical Question: Do you have hope? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Start… Welcome. Love your hell? * (0:04:26) Attempted assassination of Trump: Surprised? Did you cry? * (0:17:37) Could it have been fake? … Replaying the scene * (0:25:07) Going to get worse. Suspect's thrill. Lady on Anger at work * (0:34:19) Angry people are desperate, vicious. Distance yourself. Face fear. * (0:43:53) JLP: You're the same: Shooting yourself and others * (0:54:53) Ever consulted with the Devil? Emotional people are d
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Why do you attack back when someone attacks you? | Church 7/7/24
07/07/2024 Duration: 01h59minIf you didn't have your thoughts and experiences, who would you be? Biblical Question: Why do you attack back when someone attacks you? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, July 7, 2024 — Most won't make it. But you can. Mother imposing, weak husband! Stop arguing; let ego die. Impractical thoughts: Self image. Mama's boy: men gone beta! Out-of-control? Stay conscious. Don't give your girlfriend or mama money! TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Start… Welcome! * (0:02:03) Anger attacks the body * (0:03:35) JLP: Concerned most won't make it * (0:12:24) Woman: Mother living with us, imposing * (0:22:02) Husband: Mother-in-law ruling you; Forgive your mother! * (0:31:44) Notice yourself arguing? Stop. Watch the ego go crazy. * (0:41:47) How to determine practical thoughts vs non-practical? * (0:59:29) Anything giving an illusion about you is not practical * (1:04:34) Mama's boy, why are you lying to yourself? Devil worshiping! * (1:15:32) Men gone beta. Ego "sinner" guilt. No you! Die. * (1:21:47) Went out-of-control? Yo
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Why is evil able to work with you? | Church 6/30/24
30/06/2024 Duration: 02h17sMessage to the ladies about sex. Grief and suicide. No fear in practical thoughts. Why evil is able to work with you: You're evil. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 30, 2024 NOTE: No Men's Forum in July 2024, due to the Fourth of July, Independence Day
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Why do you carry out the works of the flesh? | Church 6/23/24
23/06/2024 Duration: 01h55minWhy are there no grownups today? Man on-stage: Run toward fears. Thoughts of self keep you doing the works of the flesh. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 23, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk; Welcome* (0:06:43) No more grownups! (JLP story: old black lady, feedback) * (0:20:09) Grownups: Young ladies on men, others* (0:25:32) Grownups: Ever get feelings hurt? Who are you? * (0:31:10) Men on their lives (Colin on-stage) * (0:43:42) Anxieties, fears: Why do you run from it? * (0:54:18) Fear of death: Illusion. Forgive father: 16yo * (1:01:24) "Integrity": Let it go, then you'll have it. * (1:06:38) Parents *DID* have an instruction manual: Truth within * (1:09:02) Forgive to be free of being controlled * (1:14:07) BQ: Why do you carry out the works of the flesh? * (1:29:01) Examples of the works of the flesh? * (1:31:35) Galatians 5: 16-23, the works of the flesh vs Spirit * (1:33:35) JLP on BQ: Thoughtless life vs false self, images, "morals" * (1:44:59) JLP: It's not you. Stop ov
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The Observance of Life | Archive 8/22/10
20/06/2024 Duration: 48minPrior assignment: Don't judge! Observe life. "Self" is not you! Renew your mind. Have the attitude of the Lord's Prayer. Archive Sunday Service, August 22, 2010 TIME STAMPS * (00:00) Welcome to Church * (00:57) Assignment? …Don't judge! Playing God* (03:37) Thoughts not your own. Peace vs problems* (05:25) Not judging: Observer of life* (07:59) "Self" is not you. But you condemn yourself! * (09:02) Thoughts lead to feelings, lead to actions * (11:05) Need thoughts to function, plan. I'm tired. Do what's in front. * (14:49) Angry people can't see. Nature of Devil. Separated from God. * (16:20) God is something else! But people don't trust that! * (18:08) Roy: Romans 12: Renew mind? Struggle? Process? Not perfect? * (28:32) Roy: Traitors said you can't be perfect, preachers not of God * (32:59) Roy: She has an ear for gossip. She's not honest with him! * (35:58) Cannot trust angry people — don't tell the truth! * (38:48) Matt 6: 1-15 — Giving, Praying, the Lord's Prayer * (40:40) Prayer attitude vs Ego: black y
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Who is dumber, men or women? | Church 6/16/24
16/06/2024 Duration: 01h55minAssignment: Leave it blank! BQ's: Who's dumber, men or women? What are you trying to win? New BQ: Why do you carry out the works of the flesh? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 16, 2024 — Happy Father's Day! ANNOUNCEMENT: No Women's Forum this week! Normally third Thursday, but not this month! rebuildingtheman.com/events TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk; Welcome! * (0:05:46) Man and wife: Her mother died in car accident * (0:08:30) Children, their mother, her husband * (0:17:40) Do the assignment? Why do you come? * (0:23:29) Assignment: Leave it blank; don't converse with the Devil * (0:27:10) Biblical Questions: Trying to win? Who's dumber? * (0:36:22) (BQs) Women have to do the same as men. Is it men's fault? * (0:47:40) (BQs) Man and his wife… Obey? Don't believe in God * (0:51:58) (BQs) Triggered by Q. Why not remain in the present? (Love hell?) * (1:03:52) (BQs) Woman going through divorce, on anger * (1:14:02) (BQs) Little girl: Who makes better decisions? * (1:19:27) Q: Is it m
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You Should Live as Children of God | Archive 8/15/10
13/06/2024 Duration: 57minAfter visiting family, JLP comments on blacks falling away from God. Dr. Laura apologized after saying the "N-word" — where's the love? Archive Sunday Service, August 15, 2010 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsTIME STAMPS* (00:00) Welcome to Church * (00:55) Black family, morality decline: Jesus coming back? * (16:51) Dr Laura "N-word" apology! Interracial marriage * (22:54) Spiritual battle, hatred, preachers, ego * (27:45) Make all whites say N-word, no apology * (29:23) Before you marry blacks * (31:19) Love what's right. See spiritual reality. * (37:27) Does the "N-word" hurt? Overcome words. * (44:49) Come together. Dog the Bounty Hunter. Can't be weak in life. * (46:39) Whining! Back to Mama Africa. We gave them everything! * (51:28) Spiritual battle: Truth * (53:05) Story of a crime. Concerned: Speak up before anger * (54:46) 1 John 2: 29 - 3: 10 (End) CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips playlists on YouTube, or alt platforms: BitChute, Rumble, Odysee… (channel name: "BOND
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What demons do you see inside? | Church 6/9/24
09/06/2024 Duration: 01h57minEnglish is gone! Assignment feedback: Seeing different demons inside: Demons' thoughts! Not God's, not yours! Don't argue with the Devil! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 9, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:21) Proper English used to be important. ("Ask"; Seeing I'm crazy) * (0:06:54) Why don't relationships work? * (0:11:39) How to make boys first? * (0:12:51) Assignment: Seeing different demons inside (...shopping carts!) * (0:24:30) Not talking to mother, she's just like father * (0:32:19) Demons (competition, fear, anxiety) * (0:45:18) Raymond, others on Demons (Wives obey husbands?) * (0:52:21) Young newlywed wife: Forgive Father; Cold, indifferent JLP * (0:59:59) Overwhelmed at work. Become as children? * (1:06:01) Anger, rage… Resist the thoughts. Stop saying “me”! * (1:15:48) Backseat drivers, Recognizing demons (...Hake)* (1:32:38) Is this helpful? (..."Female demons") * (1:48:24) Don’t answer the Devil; New BQ: Who's dumber…? (Closing) CLIPSWho is dumber, men or
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Can You Judge Another Person's Heart? | Archive 8/1/10
06/06/2024 Duration: 56minPrior assignment: Don't judge. Does pain bring you to God? Christian life: Accept what is. Can you know what's in another person's heart? Archive Sunday Service, August 1, 2010 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsTIME STAMPS* (00:00) Welcome to Church * (00:48) Assignment: Don't judge (work situation, politics) * (03:42) Think on these things (Judgment, disagreement) * (05:43) Pain: Learn from it? Brings you to God? Cried out to God?* (12:08) (Suburban whites put feet on your furniture, funny) * (12:41) Pain bringing salvation? * (17:53) Christian life: Easy, simple. Accept what is. * (27:08) TV show panel discussion: Kid in candy jar? * (17:41) Don't judge your lack of character (Accept it? Stop?) * (31:11) Janitor service: Grateful, not worried * (33:00) Accept what is, struggle of life fades away * (34:21) Spiritual battle: Of yourself you can do nothing * (35:37) Mind sets you up to fail. Every thought you get is a lie. * (36:34) "You cant judge another man's heart." True or
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How many demons do you have inside? | Church 6/2/24
02/06/2024 Duration: 01h58minPrior Assignment: It's just a thought! How many demons inside? BQ: Are emotions necessary? New Assignment: Watch the demons within! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, June 2, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:14) Do the assignment? "It's just a thought" (not for physical/practical issues!) * (0:14:03) "It's just a thought": Family "concerned"; Feeling fear * (0:22:58) How many demons have you seen inside lately? * (0:27:50) Demons or "flesh"? Sinner, or sins washed away? * (0:35:40) Demons: Falling out with a friend? * (0:38:12) JLP: Demons on valet personality switch! Lady gets "ticked"! * (0:48:20) English lady: I'm a bit brash… * (0:55:38) (Baptism question) Demons in you with theoretical boyfriend? * (1:08:41) Protesters fighting: Stop taking sides (Young lady continued) * (1:15:24) Demons: "I got worked." Keep your eye on self. * (1:18:08) Does your wife obey you? He's not your head! * (1:29:18) Don't be angry at offense. And you'll see what to do. * (1:31:14) Biblical Q: Are
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How Parents Transfer Their Anger to Their Children | Archive 7-25-10
30/05/2024 Duration: 58minHate father? Husband? Parents are cruel to their children. Mothers hate children's fathers, and influence children. Anger is playing God — sin. Archive Sunday Service, July 25, 2010 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsTIME STAMPS* (00:00) Welcome to Church * (00:56) How many hate fathers? * (01:30) He was alcoholic * (03:08) He wasn't there, charged interest, cheated * (04:11) You still hate your husband? * (06:36) Married 30 years, hate him! * (08:57) Anger easy to overcome* (09:45) You were already like that when he met you. * (10:21) Others aren't responsible for what's brought out of you. * (11:43) Hated father from what mom told me * (12:12) Married him twice (renewed vows) but hated him! * (13:34) Who else hates their father? Afraid of him. * (16:26) Don't give husband a hard time? Easy to live with? * (18:03) Without hatred, it gets better. It's amazin'. * (18:31) Spoke at Christian group, hatred. "Righteous anger"? * (19:36) Father hater? Normal whupping? (black people, w
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All of your sins are washed away | Church 5/26/24
26/05/2024 Duration: 02h14minDo the assignment? It's just a thought! Gentleman afraid of mama! Which is easier: "I'm a sinner," or sins wiped away? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 26, 2024 Assignment from last week (5/19/24): Know this week anytime you feel something, that it's just a thought — not you, and not real! Biblical Question: Are you a self worshiper? Question during the week: Which is easier: to say you're a sinner, or to say your sins have been washed away? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Walking. Memorial Day? Welcome, first-timers. * (0:06:05) Do the Assignment? It’s just a thought! * (0:15:48) Live w/o anger? W/ Jesus's help? (Assignment feedback) * (0:26:46) Setbacks in working on self? Believed a thought. Come back to present * (0:31:42) How important are thoughts? * (0:33:59) 30yo afraid of evil mother! A "gentleman" with women! * (0:44:39) Gal: Covering up crazy. Stop trying to guilt. Raymond on thoughts. * (0:47:43) Hake, JLP: Thoughts are unimportant. Become a no-thinker. * (0:49:31) Lady, they don't care about yo
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The Effect of Words | Archive 7/11/10
22/05/2024 Duration: 55minLive with no expectation. Your purpose will find you. People are getting lost in words, but don't realize they're lost! Let the truth be revealed to you. Archive Sunday Service, July 11, 2010 — JLP talks about living your purpose without expectation or idea of what success is. Everybody's trying to be like Oprah! Don't look for your purpose. Your purpose will find you! Jesse mentions his "Seven Guaranteed Steps to Spiritual, Financial and Family Success" guide. Stay with prayer — check out the Silent Prayer. Jesse also recounts talking on Sean Hannity's program with a loud-mouthed Leo Terrell! In a marriage, let them talk, and don't get pulled in! Words are messing with people's minds! Words prevent people from seeing they have no peace, and don't know God's truth! But they'll bash people over the head with it! People do the craziest things based on intellectual learning about "the truth" that they've picked up! You're never supposed to hold onto words! You become a prisoner of words! Don't try to convince pe
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Why don't you drop thoughts and feelings? | Church 5/19/24
19/05/2024 Duration: 02h05minSean's leaving! You can't know others. Why don't you drop thoughts and feelings? What does evil look like inside of you? Assignment: It's just a thought! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 19, 2024 Sean the producer is leaving! He gives a nice talk… Two weeks ago, Biblical Question: Can you ever really know another person? Do you ever deal with fear? Why don’t you drop the thoughts and feelings? This past week's Biblical Question: What does evil look like inside of you? Assignment: Know this week anytime you feel something, that it's just a thought — not you, and not real! New Biblical Question: Are you a self worshiper? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk / Welcome* (0:04:22) Sean the producer's leaving! Parting words…* (0:27:08) Sean's BQ: If you know yourself, do you know others? * (0:31:43) JLP on BQ: You can never know another person's heart. * (0:33:38) JLP: When you wake up, don't tell anyone. It's all ego. * (0:37:23) JLP: Reelz documentary: Third FBI spy for the Soviet Union * (0:4
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The Spirit of Deceit | Archive 6/27/10
16/05/2024 Duration: 01h43sHusband-wife becomes father-daughter? Women lead when men fail. Blind Christians justify sin! "You are of your father the Devil." Archive Sunday Service, June 27, 2010 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsTIME STAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome! * (01:01) Agree wives become daughters? No? * (07:21) Letter: Spirit of God in father/husband (re: 6/20/10) * (08:28) Parents not an example. World/schools switch roles. * (10:06) Mother took the lead when husband didn't? * (12:15) Look at the black community: Women leading * (13:07) Airplane story: Stop arguing with your wife! (Men afraid!) * (15:17) Men cheating on wife! Fear. Childless. * (17:46) Mothers vs Fathers taking kids to church * (21:04) Empty words from the Bible, lost preachers! (Radio interview) * (23:38) Raymond: Do people want to be blind? * (24:48) Husband rules with anger? Preacher woman?! Cowardly men! * (29:14) Story: Man needed his woman to motivate him. * (31:02) Salvation: Overcoming the mother's spirit. * (32:33) John
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What is real power? | Church 5/12/24
12/05/2024 Duration: 01h59minWife "wants" to obey husband, but won't! 20yo gal's smarter than many men. You're not in control: Never done wrong! Real power: When you're you, no anger/fear. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 12, 2024 — Happy Mother's Day! ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, May 16, 2024, 7 PM at BOND https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk (Palestine, Israel) — Welcome! * (0:05:39) Where you been, Mimi (Mae Mae)? * (0:09:01) Wife wants to obey, but husband doesn't! * (0:17:33) Wife stays on YouTube, won't pray, loves her hell! * (0:28:29) 20yo gal: Alpha nutcases on videos. Forgive father, mother.* (0:45:45) Her mother: Working on yourself? Father dead to me * (0:48:46) Two guys: Forgiving mother. Getting rid of fear/anger (Brothers) * (0:59:16) You've never done wrong. Spirits in imagination control you. (Woman, young man) * (1:09:35) Man: Not in control of anything. Women want to obey * (1:14:37) No control in life? Many stupid, weak men. (20yo gal, feedback)
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Don't Run from Your Hell | Church 5/5/24
05/05/2024 Duration: 02h07minPeople speak on anger. Slaves to thoughts. Love your Hell. There is no "you." Watch your thrills. Can you ever know another? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 5, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Rough start! * (0:02:57) Jason (sp) 10-mins (No friends, Anger) * (0:20:42) Chy (sp) 10-mins (Small, Polite, Fake? Angry past) * (0:32:23) Man 5-mins: Anger, spinning wheels at churches * (0:37:19) About a woman not ready for the message * (0:42:39) Work on you. * (0:46:22) First-timer: Real you, nothing you can imagine * (0:49:26) BQ: Can you ever really know another person? * (0:51:49) Fidgety man: All are slaves to thoughts. Go dumb. Love your Hell. * (1:01:37) Do you see your Hell? "Striving to be better"? * (1:07:50) Stuck in a loop. Hate working out. * (1:12:44) "I'm making myself bad." There is no you! …Just a thrill. * (1:20:02) Just a thrill! People don't want relationships to work! (Jason) * (1:27:32) More BQ: Ever really know another? (Smoke on it till next Sunday) * (1:36:17) What did you learn? * (1: