Synopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
Episodes
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Marriage & Work Relationships (Sunday Service 3/8/09)
30/01/2020 Duration: 01h18minBOND Sunday Service, originally streamed March 8, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson leads a discussion on relationships, with several married men and women, as well as single guys and gals, speaking up about their experiences. They talk about love, and husbands who don't want to be bothered by their wives when they first get home from work. One fellow told on his coworker for not wearing a uniform as the boss wanted, and then pressed the issue further by talking with the colleague who'd seemingly exhibited anger about it. Did he do the right thing? Some people take it too far, always saying something every time they see something wrong. There is a time to be quiet! (Our theme this year was endurance. The sign seen in the video to Jesse's left says: Endure.) Runtime: Approximately 1 hour, 18 minutes, and 30 seconds FROM THE ARCHIVES! SILENT PRAYER: http://silentprayer.video | AUDIO https://soundcloud.com/rebuildingtheman/silent-prayer CHURCH Sunday 11am PT (1pm CT / 2pm ET) http://rebuildingtheman.com/church PLAYLIST:
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What Do You Need to Endure? (Sunday Service 3/1/09)
28/01/2020 Duration: 01h30minSunday Service, originally streamed on BOND website March 3, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson speaks on the corruption of government education, United Nations, the division and weakness of Christians, and the attack on white men and families. At one point he mentions singer Chris Brown who got in trouble for fighting and hitting his then-girlfriend (or whatever) Rihanna. The people talk about life and relationships, as well as the theme for the year 2009: Endurance. What do you need to endure? Hake talks a little in Church here, and they discuss shyness, speaking up, and escaping reality. We also talk about men and women's issues. FROM THE ARCHIVES! See more BOND Sunday Services from 2008-2009 (so far!) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVqjzIOc_QoNYs7rgye3uaXkmziRdj8mU SILENT PRAYER: http://silentprayer.video | AUDIO https://soundcloud.com/rebuildingtheman/silent-prayer CHURCH Sunday 11am PT (1pm CT / 2pm ET) http://rebuildingtheman.com/church PLAYLIST: BOND Sunday Services (Archives) https://www.youtube.com/pl
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What Does It Mean to Be a Christian? (Church 1/26/20)
26/01/2020 Duration: 01h30minChurch with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, January 26, 2020: Overcoming thoughts and emotions; Why a man should not marry an educated woman; Biblical Question: What does it maean to be a Christian? Kobe Bryant died! BLOG POST: https://https://rebuildingtheman.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-a-christian-church-1-26-20/ Original Church video stream: https://youtu.be/3y5JcBxCvGAJoin us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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Are You a Good Slave? (Sunday Service, 2/15/09)
23/01/2020 Duration: 01h24minBOND Sunday Service, originally streamed February 15, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson takes questions from the people. They talk about the year's theme: Endurance. We deal extensively with a lady's trouble in her marriage. The question comes up: Are you a good slave? We also deal with the question: Do you know what you want? We touch on the Bible as well. A woman who's been part of BOND for some time expressed difficulty with her marriage, her being self-righteous at times and judging her husband. Sometimes she feels her husband is not doing what's right, but she reacts badly and recognizes her problem is with herself. Wives are supposed to follow their husbands — but how can she if he's wrong? She thinks the solution is to stay in the moment and deal with issues as they come. She seems to accuse some of the guys of taking Jesse's lead when he tells the truth about women — she thinks that men often simply dismiss and judge women. Some try to diminish her issue, pointing out the good children, her 30-plus year marria
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Why Men Romance Women (Church 1/19/20)
19/01/2020 Duration: 01h54minChurch with Jesse Lee Peterson, January 19, 2020: Jesse takes questions and feedback from men and women and discusses his Biblical Question of last week: Should a man romance a woman? When men don’t romance women, the women feel empty. Men do it because they make the woman their god. You shouldn't do it. We also talk about an Aaron Hernandez documentary, the failure of parents, and how the world misleads you. Toward the beginning a lady asks about the notion that only God can forgive, and that it's judgment, playing God, to forgive one's parents. That actually contradicts Jesus! // BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/why-men-romance-women-church-1-19-20/ VIDEO FROM THIS SERVICE: https://youtu.be/MKQhZgFvmCIJoin us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more
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Romance a Woman? Live in Spirit and Truth? (Church 1/12/20)
12/01/2020 Duration: 01h49minChurch from Sunday, January 12, 2020: Jesse Lee Peterson asks his new Biblical Question of the week: Should a man romance a woman? He gets extensive feedback, talking about sex and how women and men see things differently. Then he gets to his Biblical Question from this past week: Do you live in Spirit and Truth? Amid the conversation, we deal with mothers, daughters and sons, marriage, smoking pot, doing edibles, and finding true peace. BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/romance-a-woman-live-in-spirit-and-truth-church-1-12-20/Original video stream: https://youtu.be/1GgFeUk2Or0 Join us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. This is a public ep
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Are Whites the Only Racist People? (Church 1/5/20)
06/01/2020 Duration: 01h56minAt Church Sunday, January 5, 2020, a young man Duran talks briefly. We then talk about mothers letting go of their children and the Biblical Question: Are whites the only racist people? Jesse points out examples in the world of the Old Testament (Dwyane Wade, Gabrielle Union, singer Sam Smith, so-called “hate crimes” and “anti-Semitism” laws). A 19-year-old conservative straight man with four gay parents visited us from San Francisco! A 30-year-old man from New York believed he should live with his mother to help her — and his girlfriend called him a “beta male”! Our theme for 2020: Watchfulness. The light of God allows you to see yourself. Don’t judge yourself or others. BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/are-whites-the-only-racist-people-church-1-5-20/VIDEO FROM THIS SERVICE: https://youtu.be/8wr5j_oxvhwChurch with Jesse Lee Peterson streamed live video Sunday 11 AM PT on YouTube, Facebook, Periscope, DLive, Twitch, and Mixer. Listen to Church audio recordings on Apple Podcasts, TuneIn, Stitcher, Sprea
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How to Be a Person of Openness (Church 12/29/19)
29/12/2019 Duration: 01h35minNOTE: SORRY FOR THE BAD NOISE FIRST 30 SECONDS! … Church, December 29, 2019: Young men are waking up and forgiving their mothers! Biblical Question: What does it mean to be a person of openness? Theme for 2020: Watchfulness. READ BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/how-to-be-a-person-of-openness-church-12-29-19/Original video stream from this service: https://youtu.be/0dp5Uic9uSs Join us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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Was Jesus Weak? (Church 12/22/19)
22/12/2019 Duration: 01h49minChurch from Sunday, December 22, 2019: Should men show weakness? Was Jesus weak? An alpha male is weak to God, not the world. Do you judge? You better! Biblical Question: Are you an open person? BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/was-jesus-weak-church-12-22-19/Original video stream from this service: https://youtu.be/KfpdKLm_5K0Join us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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Do You Know God? (Sunday Service 2/1/09)
20/12/2019 Duration: 01h30minOriginally streamed on the BOND website Sunday, February 1, 2009: At Sunday Service, Jesse leads a discussion with church attendees discussing the theme of 2009: Endurance. They also read passages from the Bible and talk about life. They also talk about the question: Do you know God? SUNDAY SERVICE FROM THE ARCHIVES! Video from this service: https://youtu.be/sCXXfmp1vbw SILENT PRAYER: http://silentprayer.video | AUDIO https://soundcloud.com/rebuildingtheman/silent-prayer CHURCH Sunday 11am PT (1pm CT / 2pm ET) http://rebuildingtheman.com/church BOOKS http://www.bondinfostore.org DONATE http://rebuildingtheman.com/donate PATREON https://www.patreon.com/rebuildingtheman PAYPAL https://www.paypal.com/donate/?token=CAdAqhNiNHK6IgfD81HMcGhHq4npQVJJ67BSn5d7-7CCoQp7Nc89_mpDEPOhmEQuLoSZ6W&country.x=US&locale.x=US T-SHIRTS BOND https://teespring.com/stores/rebuildingtheman This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingthem
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Compassion or Dispassion: Which Is Right? (Church 12/15/19)
15/12/2019 Duration: 02h01minAt the beginning of Church, Jesse Lee Peterson rants about girly cars that all look the same, and calls for manly cars. Jesse then talks briefly with a young lady Chris who looks totally different; she used to look like one of “those people” — goths, Jesse thinks. Welcome home! A young man asks about the fact he has never really liked eating meat, since childhood. Mark eats only fish and points out that meat eaters and vegetarians should not judge one another. THEN we get to Jesse’s Biblical Question of the week: What is the right way to deal with all people: with compassion or dispassion? We discuss this extensively. Some go both ways. Was Jesus compassionate or dispassionate? Some say that both compassion and dispassion are the same when you have real love. In the midst of the discussion, one man thinks we cannot be perfect like Jesus, but is striving toward it. Why? He does not think we can be compassionate like Jesus, so he is dispassionate. Jesse later asserts that we can be perfect. Some of the ladies,
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Have You Taken on a False Identity? (Church 12/8/19)
08/12/2019 Duration: 01h56minAt Church, December 8, 2019, we talked about when to “speak up” on issues of morality, and when not to do so — such as at work. A substitute teacher in Utah was fired for telling a fifth-grade student, a foster child, that homosexuality was wrong. It was around Thanksgiving, and the boy had said he was thankful to be adopted by his two new “dads.” BLOG POST: https://https://rebuildingtheman.com/have-you-taken-on-a-false-identity-church-12-8-19/ We then discussed identity — taking on a false identity. People sometimes become like a preacher or “leader” when he helps them or impresses them. Sometimes people cannot see that they’re acting like someone else — or how they think the person is. They take on an identity other than their own. But in God there is no identity. We talk a little about being judgmental toward others at work. Jesse briefly mentions making a strong point about women voting when asked about his position at a recent speaking engagement. At the event, Jesse pointed out the destruction today, an
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Don’t Judge Yourself as You Grow (Church 12/1/19)
01/12/2019 Duration: 01h51minAt Church, December 1, 2019, Jesse talks with a brother and sister visiting from Canada — their parents were African immigrants. The people talk about forgiving and being honest with evil mothers, and not judging oneself when you fall into anger. A couple of old regulars at BOND return after being away for a while. People are like sheep — just look at Black Friday madness and people with a victim mentality. Lastly we deal with Biblical Questions about an unclean life vs honorable death, and about the spirit of the man. BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/dont-judge-yourself-as-you-grow-church-12-1-19/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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Independence and Growth Is More Valuable Than Money (11/24/19)
24/11/2019 Duration: 01h37minChurch on Sunday, November 24, 2019 BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/independence-and-growth-is-more-valuable-than-money/ This streamed live video 11 AM PT on YouTube, Facebook, Periscope, DLive, Twitch, and Mixer. Listen to Church audio recordings on Apple Podcasts, TuneIn, Spreaker, Stitcher, and SoundCloud. We had some great questions about forgiving parents, mothers letting adult children go, and young men and women becoming independent. Jesse opens up briefly talking about how American communities have become remade in the cultures of immigrants, whether Hispanic, Asian or other. One lady no longer feels even welcome in her own country! Save 10% (ten percent) of the money you make, and use it only for investment, not for emergency, and opportunities will come. Opportunities are always there, but you don’t see them. One young man goes to school and doesn’t work, but his parents help him financially — stop it! The growth is more important than the money! Jesse asked a few people, perhaps a Biblical
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Endurance, Part 4 (Sunday Service, January 25, 2009)
21/11/2019 Duration: 01h30minSunday Service from January 25, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson talks with the congregation about being conscious in the present. God said to be still and know Him. Pray so that the light of God can control you. Let your will die, and let His will take over. A lady talks about a car accident in which she was at-fault, and dealing with angry people. VIDEO: https://youtu.be/_q2oufbyR50 Sometimes the Devil reminds you of the scriptures, and interprets them for you. but God reveals to you. The scriptures do tell the truth, but God keeps you calm without quoting the Bible to your intellect. People fight throwing scriptures at each other. God does not quote scriptures to you! Jesse urges people to forgive their mothers, realizing that they cannot help themselves. Let them react how they will. If she falls out and dies, find out if she has some insurance. Love is to forgive, and not to hate. One lady says her mother is a "born again Christian." She'll throw the Bible at you, but the Devil is her daddy. But she can't help i
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Endurance, Part 3 (Sunday Service, 1/18/09)
20/11/2019 Duration: 01h30minBOND Sunday Service, originally streamed on bondinfo.org January 18, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson leads a church discussion on the theme of this year: Endurance. This was just before then-president-elect Barack Obama was inaugurated, a very dark time. VIDEO: https://youtu.be/pnpA_6MkfrA FROM THE ARCHIVES! SILENT PRAYER: http://silentprayer.video | AUDIO https://soundcloud.com/rebuildingtheman/silent-prayer CHURCH Sunday 11am PT (1pm CT / 2pm ET) http://rebuildingtheman.com/church This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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What Do You Believe? (Church 11/17/19)
17/11/2019 Duration: 01h26minNew babies! Working out at 70! Great Content of Character Series event in Fremont, CA yesterday! What do you believe? We discuss the biblical quotes: “If you confess with your mouth…” and “Faith comes by hearing…” People call the Bible the “word of God.” Let no man teach you! Jesse refuse to answer last Biblical Question: Was Christ created? Women’s Forum third Thursday of the month! BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/what-do-you-believe-church-11-17-19/ Join us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substa
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Endurance, Part 2 (Sunday Service, Jan. 11, 2009)
13/11/2019 Duration: 01h30minSunday Service from January 11, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson leads a discussion on reading a passage as part of an assignment from Men's Forum the prior Thursday. We talk about the theme of endurance, and different people discuss life issues. It's really good! From the BOND archives! Video from this episode: https://youtu.be/QsoyT2I9CIo SILENT PRAYER: http://silentprayer.video | AUDIO https://soundcloud.com/rebuildingtheman/silent-prayer CHURCH Sunday 11am PT (1pm CT / 2pm ET) http://rebuildingtheman.com/church This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com
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Endurance, Part 1 (Sunday Service, Jan 4, 2009)
12/11/2019 Duration: 01h26minBOND Sunday Service, originally aired January 4, 2009: Jesse Lee Peterson wishes everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Did last year’s theme work for you? The theme was Practicing the Presence of God. Did you do it? Jesse took a week vacation in Hawaii at the end of the year and talked with different people out there. Everyone has the same issues: Husbands and wives don’t get along, or judge one another. Men are weak. Women are angry. Fathers fail their children. Jesse highly recommends Gran Torino by Clint Eastwood. (Mel Gibson is also good.) Different people talk about their issues. One 21-year-old young lady asks whether she should have spoken up, as an issue at a dinner party arose with a drunk family friend. She felt she was judging him but he was acting foolishly and asking her to sit on his lap. He’s an alcoholic. Her dad defends their friend, and says she did right by leaving him alone, but says he’d have taken it well had she spoken up to the drunkard. Jesse says she absolutely should have
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What Is the American Dream? (Church 11/10/19)
10/11/2019 Duration: 01h50minCongrats on weddings! Last Biblical Question: What is the American Dream? (A grown man cries!) Speak up as Christians for First and Second Amendment! We read from 1 Corinthians 2 by Paul. The wisdom of the world is crazy. Should you respect your elders, or be honest? A woman is seeing that she’s no good. Not likely to start seeing you’re wonderful! Next #BiblicalQuestion: Was Christ created? A mother has a lot to think about now that her son has forgiven her. READ BLOG POST: https://rebuildingtheman.com/what-is-the-american-dream-church-11-10-19/ VIDEO FROM THIS SERVICE: https://youtu.be/p6SmJDvo0MUJoin us for Church with Jesse Lee Peterson (an open forum service) Sunday 11am Pacific Time (doors open 10: 30) from Jesse's nonprofit's current location at BOND, 6146 W Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90035. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church Call BOND for counseling (by phone or in-person), books, or more info about our programs 800-411-BOND (800-411-2663) M-F 9am-4pm PT (Los Angeles time) 11am-6pm CT / 12-7pm ET. Thi