The Terri Cole Show

"We do not know what 90% of our existence is made up of.” - Christina Rasmussen. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/174 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"The very beginning of attracting lasting love is straightening out your relationship with yourself.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/173 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“You’re potentially over-giving not from a place of niceness, but from a place of need.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/172 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“One of the most important things is staying connected to your friends and your family no matter how amazing your relationship is.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/171 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Perhaps make a decision this year if you generally feel blue during the holiday to prioritize your actual wants, needs, and desires.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/170 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“There is a way to be firm, but loving.” - Terri Cole.   Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/169 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“I was having a very pivotal moment in my life where I was turning a corner. The pain was high enough that I was starting to go “maybe I am the problem”, and when I started asking that question, my life completely changed .” - Jayson Gaddis. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/168 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“What we’re really talking about is being mindful when you’re dating.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/167 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"I want you to communicate effectively, efficiently, and directly, which you can do with ease, grace, and with appropriate love.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/166 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“You don’t have to work yourself to death solving other people’s problems to be worthy of love.” – Terri Cole Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/165 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Your job is to create an amazing relationship with yourself. Take time. Do your own personal work.” – Terri Cole Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/164 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Don’t just become a receptacle for someone else’s compulsive negativity.” – Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/163 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“If you don’t prioritize you, how the hell can you expect other people to do it?” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/162 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"My real hope and intention for this book is that it helps people have the difficult conversations that we need to cross bridges and reconnect in a powerful way that is positive for everyone involved.” - Alexandra Jamieson. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/161 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“The most effective language to use is a question. And the most effective question to use is a question about the communication that was spoken.” - Kasia Urbaniak Learn more about Hello Freedom at terricole.com/160 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"I’m giving you all the information that you need to look at your life from a different framework.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/159 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Being a mom really taps into that already over-developed desire or need to give yourself and put your own needs, wants, and desires last.” - Terri Cole Learn more about this episode and others at terricole.com/158 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“You cannot have the disease-to-please and rock-solid boundaries at the same time.” - Terri Cole, Learn more about Hello Freedom at terricole.com/157 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"The little kid in you, just like the little kid in all of us, hopes that it can be different, wants it to be different, wants to be wrong about their parent being a narcissist.” - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at terricole.com/156 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Because narcissists and codependents are basically two halves of this perfect whole. So you have the narcissist who is basically the taker and the controller, and the codependent person who is the fixer, the giver, the person who wants to make everything ok.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about Hello Freedom at https://terricole.com/155 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices