The Terri Cole Show

Today, I'm talking about breaking up with someone humanely. If it is time to end your relationship, then I hope you find this helpful. "Sometimes someone is perfectly awesome, but they're just not your person. And you breaking up with them is actually freeing them to be with someone who actually is their person." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/234 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I talk about my V-Day self love ritual, creating a zen den, finding a gift to show gratitude to yourself, the importance of self love, and more. "I firmly believe that self love is the only path to getting other real love." - Terri Cole. Learn more at terricole.com/233 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show, I talk about how to get clarity on whether or not to end it, and I go over some of these essential questions to think about. "Relationships are like getting your Masters Degree in knowing who you are - learning how to communicate - learning what you want." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/232 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show, Danielle LaPorte and I talk about finding real love, getting honest about secondary gain, letting go of the past, and much more. "My truest core self, my most divine self, my most essential original self is pure love." -Danielle LaPorte. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/231 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're talking about how to stop walking on eggshells and how to understand why we are compelled to walk on eggshells in the first place. "A lot of times our own disfunction is that we're still responding like we're in our childhood homes, but we're not." - Terri Cole Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/230 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gabby Bernstein and I talk about how to get what you want in life, her postpartum experience, her new book Super Attractor, and more. "It's not selfish to feel good. It is selfless to feel good." - Gabby Bernstein. Learn more about this episode at terrricole.com/229 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We compiled "the best of" 2019 for you. I talk about the most popular podcast episodes, and the most popular YouTube and IGTV episodes as well. "My goal is to help as many people as possible live the most empowered life." -  Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/228 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I talk about New Year's reflection and ritual. Those lists include looking at EVERY aspect of your life and getting clear on what you want for 2020. "Part of the evolutionary path is being willing to do hard things. And you can do hard things." -  Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/227   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we're talking all about unconditional love and the kind of love you might actually want in your relationships (hint: it has to do with boundaries). "If you don't have any conditions on your love, that really means to me that you don't have boundaries." - Terri Cole. Learn more than terricole.com/226 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Previously a dancer on Strictly Come Dancing (the UK’s version of Dancing with the Stars), Camilla Sacre-Dallerup talks about her new book and more. "We really need to work with the mind in the same way that we work with the body in the gym." - Camilla Sacre-Dallerup. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/225 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I talk about the questions to ask yourself to see if YOU struggle with "people pleasing", how to assert yourself, and much more. "How can anyone authentically love you if you don't let them authentically know you?" - Terri Cole. Learn more at terricole.com/224 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is Your Parent a Narcissist? I’m giving you 20 real-life behaviors that your parent might exhibit if they are a narcissist. "You can lessen your suffering by being accepting about what your parent may or may not be." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/223 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm actually not into Black Friday at all, so I wanted to create something that makes it easy to sink into gratitude - a meditation. Listen in to the end of the episode to hear it. "I think it is important that we honor the way that we feel." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/222   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show, Satya Scainetti talks about what she did before she made jewelry, how she got her name, how to make the world better and much more. "We all have these little hidden gifts inside us and sometimes we just need a little push to remind us." - Satya Scainetti Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/221 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know that breakups and broken hearts can hurt. I think this episode will be helpful to heal, process your emotions, and move forward. "Get really clear on how it actually was - not your fantasy of it." - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/220 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The holidays are just around the corner. Today we are going to talk about how to stop auto-accommodating and start enjoying this season. “Give yourself permission to not do something that you'd done in the past.” - Terri Cole. Learn more about this episode at terricole.com/219 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I talk about how to get out of your own way, why we resist change, what you are gaining out of staying stuck, and much more. “We can go kicking and screaming, or we can accept that change is apart of life.” - Terri Cole Learn more at terricole.com/218 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I talk about how to take a perspective inventory (why we take on a perspective to protect ourselves from pain), simple steps to changing your perspective, and much more. "I feel more empowered looking at a problem and seeing an opportunity." - Terri Cole. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I talk about what emotional labor is, how to find out if you're taking on too much emotional labor, and how to balance it out in relationships. "As women, there is a tendency for us to be like sponges to a degree." - Terri Cole. Learn more at terricole.com/216 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's show is all about transference. It can hold you back if you're not careful. I talk about how to spot transference and what to do about it. Learn more episode at terricole.com/215 “There's a part of you inside - the child within - that's thinking that this time it is going to be different.” - Terri Cole Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices