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You might be doing everything right — and still not getting the respect you deserve. In this episode, Kwame sits down with psychologist, professor, and author Alison Fragale to expose one of the most overlooked forces in negotiation and career advancement: status. Not money. Not power. Not charisma. But how others perceive your value — and how you can influence that perception. You’ll learn: What “status” really is (and why it’s more powerful than any tactic) Why competence isn’t enough if people don’t respect you How to increase your status before the negotiation even starts The two traits people use to judge you instantly — and how to show both How to build a network that promotes you when you’re not in the room Connect with Alison Follow Alison Fragale on LinkedIn https://alisonfragale.com/ ORDER ALISON’S NEW BOOK - Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide

If you've ever felt invisible, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself In this episode, executive coach Patience Ogunbona explains why the modern workplace favors extroverts — and how introverts can stop playing a rigged game. We break down the six pillars of courageous leadership, the hidden strengths of quiet thinkers, and why you don’t have to be the loudest in the room to lead it. If you've ever felt invisible in meetings, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself. And more importantly, the way you show up. Follow Patience on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything

Do you feel selfish, anxious, or even guilty just for saying “no”? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault. In this eye-opening conversation, Kwame sits down with psychologist, author, and TED speaker Guy Winch to unpack the deep psychological roots behind our fear of rejection, the guilt of boundary-setting, and the hidden emotional costs of people-pleasing. You’ll learn: Why rejection hurts like physical pain (yes, literally) How to reframe fear and rewrite the labels you give yourself The secret to setting boundaries without ruining relationships Why most people fail at boundaries — and how to do it right The one question that will completely change how you approach tough conversations This episode is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with speaking up, saying no, or putting themselves first without shame. Plus, Guy gives a sneak peek into his upcoming book Mind Over Grind — and why burnout at work is hitting harder than ever.

If you've ever felt uncomfortable “selling yourself” — this episode might just change everything. In this episode, Jason Harris, co-founder of the award-winning ad agency Mechanism and author of The Soulful Art of Persuasion, shares how he built a powerhouse business without using manipulation or salesy tactics. Instead, he leaned into empathy, generosity, and storytelling — values most people don’t associate with persuasion. We talk about how to lead with integrity, what it really means to influence without forcing, and why your reputation is the most powerful negotiation tool you have. Connect with Jason Buy the book: The Soulful Art of Persuasion Follow Jason on LinkedIn Jason Harris Mekanism Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your B

Ever walk away from a conversation feeling more disconnected than before? You're not alone — and bestselling author Charles Duhigg is here to explain why. In this powerful episode, Charles (author of The Power of Habit and Supercommunicators) reveals the hidden science behind every conversation that fails — and exactly how to turn it around. Learn how to recognize the 3 types of conversations, why most breakdowns happen even with good intentions, and what super communicators do differently to build trust, defuse tension, and connect deeply — fast. Kwame and Charles break down: Why practical advice often backfires in emotional conversations The “matching principle” and how to use it How to avoid one-upping and start listening for real Why asking better questions is your #1 communication superpower This isn’t just about talking — it’s about leading, connecting, and transforming every difficult conversation you face. Whether you're leading a team, navigating conflict at home, or just want to be heard —

Hise Gibson pulls no punches about what’s really standing in the way of successful AI integration: leadership failure. Drawing on decades of experience in combat, crisis, and the boardroom, Professor Gibson explains: Why most leaders are underprepared for the human side of AI adoption—and how to fix it How trust, not technology, determines whether teams resist or accelerate change The overlooked interpersonal deficit caused by the pandemic—and why your team’s soft skills may be your hardest problem Whether you're leading a team, scaling a business, or just trying to navigate the future of work, this conversation will change the way you think about leadership forever. Follow Hise Gibson on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your

Hard work isn’t enough — you need strategy. In this episode, Michael W. Phillips — veteran consultant and author of The Naked Negotiator — reveals why negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms. Drawing from 30 years of high-stakes deals, he shows how the same principles apply when asking for a raise, and why relying on “fairness” can quietly sabotage your career. You’ll learn: What managing your boss really means — and why it’s not sucking up How to replace “fair” with “reasonable” to shift power in any negotiation Why most people never even start the conversation — and how to build the confidence to ask Whether you’re in procurement or pitching your own salary, this episode is a mindset reset you didn’t know you needed Connect with Michael W. Phillips Follow Mike Phillips On LinkedIn https://www.phillipsconsulting.co.uk/ https://michaelwphillips.ampbk.com/ Buy now the book: The Naked Negotiator by Michael W Phillips Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christ

Managing up is not about flattery. It’s about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) career skills: learning how to manage your boss. If you’ve ever felt invisible, undervalued, or like you're doing everything right but still not moving forward, this conversation will shift your entire perspective on leadership at work. You’ll learn: • Why “being a team player” might be damaging your reputation and future • How to set boundaries without making enemies or risking your job • What managing up really means—and why it’s not the same as sucking up Connect with Melody melodywilding.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of

Saying yes all the time is the fastest road to burnout. In this episode, career coach Eliana Goldstein breaks down why setting boundaries is essential—not just for your well-being, but for your success. Whether you're leading a team or pivoting your career, this is your wake-up call to stop people-pleasing and start protecting your energy. What You’ll Learn: Why saying “yes” too often can destroy performance and relationships How to set boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish The biggest mistakes people make when trying to advocate for themselves Enroll in THE CAREER UPGRADE COURSE  Discount link: https://www.elianagoldsteincoaching.com/offers/hgjebgSL?coupon_code=NEGOTIATEANYTHING BOOK A CAREER ASSESSMENT CALL! Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate An

What if your biggest obstacle in sales isn’t your product — but how you’re pitching it? In this episode, Kwame sits down with persuasion expert and medtech strategist Omar M. Khateeb to explore the psychology behind why people actually say yes. From understanding emotional triggers to mastering persuasion at scale, this is a no-fluff conversation packed with insights you can use immediately. What you’ll learn in this episode The biggest persuasion mistake people make (and how it silently kills deals) How to use Omar’s “Present Pain, Future Fear” framework to drive action The difference between ethical persuasion and manipulation — and how to stay on the right side Whether you're a sales pro, entrepreneur, or just trying to get better at influencing others, this episode is a masterclass in how to persuade without pushing. Connect with Omar M. Khateeb Omar's Social Media Omar's blog Follow Omar on LinkedIn L[in] Profile Upgrade Course Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Fol

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by strategic communications executive Maha Abouelenein. With extensive experience at top-tier companies like Google and Netflix, Maha shares invaluable advice on building personal brands, effective storytelling, and the power of self-reliance. Together, they delve into the nuances of value creation in professional relationships and overcoming fears in communication. With actionable tips and real-life examples, this conversation is a goldmine for anyone looking to elevate their negotiation skills and personal branding. What will be covered: Maha Abouelenein's professional background and her new book, "The Seven Rules of Self-Reliance." Key strategies for effective communication and the importance of authenticity. How to create value in relationships and why it's crucial for successful negotiations Connect with Maha Order the Book 7 Rules of Self-Reliance: How to Stay Low,

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Gary Noesner, a retired chief of the FBI Crisis Negotiation Unit with 30 years of experience in high-stakes negotiations. Gary shares captivating stories from his career, including his involvement in major cases like Waco, and offers profound insights into the principles of effective negotiation and conflict resolution. They discuss the essential qualities of a good negotiator, the importance of genuine communication, and the critical role of emotional intelligence. Listeners will gain valuable lessons on building respect in relationships, learning from mistakes, and the impact of authenticity in both professional and personal negotiations. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from Gary's experiences and wisdom that have saved lives and resolved critical situations. What Will Be Covered: Gary Noesner's experiences as a chief negotiator for the FBI, including high-profile cases like W

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Ivna Curi to discuss the art of assertive communication in negotiations. Overcoming numerous setbacks, the duo dives deep into the core of being assertive without losing warmth, an essential skill for both personal and professional life. Ivna shares invaluable insights from her extensive experience helping professionals, with a particular focus on women, to speak up confidently and effectively. The episode is packed with actionable strategies, practical examples, and proven techniques to master assertiveness in the workplace and beyond. What will be covered: The four components of assertiveness: expressing oneself, showing respect, maintaining calmness, and being effective. Common myths about assertiveness, including perceptions of aggression and conflict. Replacing negative communication habits, such as complaining and assuming, with actionable, solution-focused approaches.

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian and guest Matt Abrahams delve into the art of effective communication, particularly when responding on the spot in high-stakes situations. Matt, a communication expert, shares insights from his new book, "Think Faster, Talk Smarter," and emphasizes the importance of mindset, audience understanding, and empathy. They discuss common communication pitfalls and provide tangible strategies to improve spontaneity and connection in both personal and professional interactions. Listeners will discover how reframing mindset and practicing spontaneity can lead to more authentic and effective communication. In this episode, we cover: The significance of mindset and empathy in effective communication. Strategies for improving spontaneity and adapting communication under pressure. The importance of thinking about your audience's needs rather than just your message. Listeners will learn: How to approach sponta

Buy the book Never Lead Alone: 10 Shifts from Leadership to Teamship In this engaging episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian sits down with Keith Ferrazzi, a high-performing teams coach and bestselling author, to discuss the transformative power of shifting from traditional leadership models to teamship paradigms. Throughout the conversation, they explore practical strategies for building trust, enhancing team accountability, and embracing conflict resolution to boost team performance. Keith emphasizes the importance of operationalizing these concepts with actionable steps and social contracts within teams. This discussion provides invaluable insights for leaders and team members looking to foster a more collaborative and dynamic organizational culture. What will be covered: The concept of moving from leadership to teamship and its impact on team dynamics. Practices for fostering peer-to-peer accountability and resilience within teams. Strategies for building trust through personal, structural, an

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes back Heather MacArthur to explore the intricacies of giving and receiving effective feedback. Heather, an expert in coaching and consulting with a wealth of experience across various industries, shares her unique insights into how to create a productive feedback dialogue. Listeners will learn about Heather's innovative "above the line" feedback model and how to handle feedback they might initially disagree with. This conversation is a goldmine for anyone looking to refine their negotiation skills and become better communicators within both professional and personal environments. What will be covered: Effective strategies for giving feedback without appear accusatory or confrontational. Techniques for receiving feedback positively and using it to improve interactions. Handling disagreement in feedback to maintain constructive dialogue. What listeners will learn: How to maintain

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Dr. Mat Park, an organizational development specialist and sports psychology expert, to discuss mastering your mindset and performing under pressure. Dr. Park shares his multifaceted approach to leadership coaching and mental training, drawing from his experience with elite golfers and executives. Together, they explore the importance of balancing craft, body, and mindset, and dive into the crucial aspect of addressing stress to enhance performance in both negotiations and everyday life. Listeners will gain insights into the science behind stressors, how to strengthen mental acuity, and the significance of emotional intelligence in achieving negotiation success. What will be covered: The three essential components of performance: mastering craft, body conditioning, and mindset. The difference between stress and stressors, and how they impact performance. The role of emot

In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian delves into the often-overlooked yet crucial role of saying "no" in negotiation. While many focus on getting to "yes," Kwame explains why mastering the art of saying "no" can actually enhance your negotiation results and relationships. Through insightful strategies like the "no sandwich" technique, listeners will learn to deliver their "no" in a way that is both respectful and effective. With practical examples and actionable advice, this episode equips you with the tools to handle difficult conversations with poise and clarity. What will be covered: The psychological barriers that make saying "no" challenging. Common ineffective strategies when people try to avoid saying "no." Techniques for saying "no" without damaging relationships, such as the "no sandwich." Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conver

Buy Now The Broken Rung: When the Career Ladder Breaks for Women--and How They Can Succeed in Spite of It In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Kweilin Ellingrud and Simon Perez to discuss strategies for career advancement, overcoming workplace biases, and the importance of financial and physical health. Kweilin, a senior partner at McKinsey & Co, shares insights from her book "The Broken Rung," focusing on how women can proactively navigate their careers and increase their lifetime earnings. The conversation delves into topics such as the concept of experience capital, the significance of making bold career moves, and the evolving role of negotiation and soft skills in today's workforce. This episode provides listeners with a holistic approach to success, combining career strategy with a focus on health and well-being. Topics Covered: The concept of experience capital and its impact on career growth and earnings. Strategies for overcoming workplace biase

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