Synopsis
The purpose of growing a business isn't just revenue. Revenue and profits run the business, but it's the ability to do what you want, when you want, and where you want. That's control. And that's what most small business owners never achieve. The Three-Month Vacation shows you how to create a powerful business, while still taking generous amounts of time to relax and unwind.
Episodes
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Why we struggle to acquire skills (and how the mindset of the teacher is the root cause)
03/12/2021 Duration: 18minLet's say you're about to learn a new skill—and you don't. You finish the course and you're still not quite anywhere as good as you hoped. Is that your fault? Or the teacher's fault? Or is it 50:50? Learn why so many of us struggle with skill acquisition and why mindset matters.
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Scaring clients away from your sales page?
26/11/2021 Duration: 27minWhy a simple fix can bring them back. Most of us have products and services that solve many problems. The natural, and seemingly logical way we go about talking about the product or service, is to make sure the client knows they're getting a great deal. However, this over-enthusiasm is precisely what causes clients to be confused, and leave. Let's find out how to simply, and quickly get clients to keep reading your sales page.
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Why "write every day" is seriously misunderstood (and why it prevents us from writing every day)
19/11/2021 Duration: 20minWrite every day. Write every day. Write every day. We seem to hear a lot of that advice when we start off in writing. Yet, are we likely to be misunderstanding what the real meaning of "write every day" means? Most of us believe that we need to write at least an article a day, or at least some chunky bit of content. And yet that level of having to write on a daily basis is precisely what would cause us to fail. Yes, as you'd expect, there is a way out.
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How to get clients comfortable on Zoom
12/11/2021 Duration: 32minWhy would clients be uncomfortable on Zoom? They're your clients after all. Yet, time and time again we notice a reluctance on the part of the client. They turn off their video, and it's possible they don't have a photo either. They don't ask questions, despite you trying your best to get them to pitch in. Zoom calls can often seem thankless, but there's a way to get clients extremely comfortable on Zoom. Let's find out how.
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The Paradox of Motivation and Burnout (And Where To Draw the Line)
05/11/2021 Duration: 22minSome days, you can't get yourself motivated. Yet on other days, you're working so hard that you're frying up much too quickly. How do you keep a balance between getting yourself motivated and still not tipping over to the other side?
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Chaotic Week? How To Use The Goldilocks Method To Get Things Back On Track
29/10/2021 Duration: 08minSome days seem to start not on Monday, but Wednesday. You fully intended to get your planning going, but something got in the way and it looks like the week is slipping away from you. What do you do to arrest this slide? We bring Goldilocks to the rescue—that's what we do. Weird weeks show up all the time, but here's a system that gets you back on the rails. P.S. Here are 21 Articles on Time Management (You can read or listen to the articles)
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The Real Goal of Productivity (And How it Helps You Waste More Time)
22/10/2021 Duration: 07minMost people tend to tell you to be more productive. Sales need to be doubled, you somehow aren't satisfied with the client numbers, and need a lot more. In short, it's this endless race towards a rather nutty goal. Instead, how about a goal that allows you to waste more time? That throws you back to when you were 17 and not constantly trying to earn, learn or hustle your way through life. Productivity is important, but the goal isn't exactly what you're expecting. Let's find more about the real goal of productivity.
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Why restricting the numbers of sales increased profits (and gave us more downtime)
15/10/2021 Duration: 21minIt seems illogical to sell just 25 copies of a product when the product is just digital. Isn't it just a PDF, audio or video? Shouldn't we sell as many as we can? On the face of it, this logic of selling less seems seriously flawed. But is it? Find out what did we found when we started selling less instead of selling greater numbers?
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Why do clients sign up? Understanding the core motivations that attracts clients.
08/10/2021 Duration: 28minHave you ever wondered why people keep buying recipe books? Your grandma had a dozen books, so did your parents, and now, even if you're not such a good cook, you're likely to have a few around the house. There are tens of thousands of recipes in blogs and on YouTube. Even so, there's when yet another recipe book comes out, and there's still a market for it. Why is this the case? The reason is more straightforward than you'd expect because this factor of recipe books doesn't just apply to food. If you've tried to learn a language, you're likely to have gone to a live course, bought several apps and some home study versions of the language. When the next "wonder language program" comes out, you'll still want to try it out. And all of these purchases of books, courses and training don't just apply to beginners. An experienced writer, for example, will evaluate and possibly buy a new writing course or go to a writing event. Why is this the case, and how do you use this information to make your sales page better?
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How the doorway principle lets you get started (even when you're not known in your industry)
01/10/2021 Duration: 17minMost of us believe we have to start a business. Hence, we get all fancy with business cards and websites. We talk about how we solve problems. And then—then we hear nothing. Clients should be rushing to avail of our products and services, but it's nothing. Why? Because the risk is too high. You and I are unknowns, remember? But what if you created something low-risk. Something low risk for you and just as low-risk for the client? Something like a doorway. Let's find out how you can get your foot in the door, shall we?
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How to get re-started (when you've been blown off course)
25/09/2021 Duration: 16minEverybody starts off with a plan, but shortly after that plan turns to custard. We should be able to realign ourselves and restart, but restarting seems to be extremely difficult. Which is the quickest way to get back on course? That’s what we’ll find out in this episode.
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Why High Conflict is Tearing Us Apart (And How To Sidestep the Chaos)
18/09/2021 Duration: 36minWhen I was 13 years old, my parents got involved in a court battle. I was past 40 when the issue was finally resolved. We don't see ourselves wanting to engage in high conflict. Yet, there seems to be no way to avoid the tectonic forces of our world. No matter where you look online or offline, someone is continuously bashing the other side. And often, that chaos spills over into our world. Like it did with my parents. They had no intention of being sieged for over 25 years, and yet that's what happened. Tensions escalate beyond a point, original facts disappear, and conflict becomes a reality. Yet, all conflict isn't destructive. There's a difference between High Conflict and Healthy Conflict. The dangerous kind is when it's "us" vs "them", "good" vs "evil". That kind of conflict bestows arrogance and superiority. It layers on the rage, sometimes even dread. It's a state where almost everyone loses, unlike in Healthy Conflict, where disagreement doesn't soar and serves more as a way to understand each other
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How To Create Bonuses Out Of Thin Air (And Still Make Them Extremely Desirable): Part 2
11/09/2021 Duration: 15minThe toughest part about creating bonuses is how time-consuming they can be, especially when you want to make them desirable. Yet there is a method of creating extremely desirable bonuses without doing much at all. This is what this episode on “ creating bonuses out of thin air” is all about.
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How To Create Bonuses For Your Products Or Services: Part 1
04/09/2021 Duration: 24minIt may sound odd, but the bonus is often the tipping point for a client to buy your product or service. And yet, by the time we are done with creating the product or service, we are too tired to work out what the bonus should be. n this episode we look at two methods. —One is a more traditional method called “bundling“, well the other is quite unexpected and requires very little work. —A method called “Unbundling“. Let’s find out how we can use both of these methods, or just one, to create bonuses that are extremely yummy.
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Why You Should Never Trust A Silent Customer
28/08/2021 Duration: 12minWe tend to think all is well with the world when no one complains. Yet, most customers rarely complain. Instead, they just walk out of the door, without saying a word. A silent customer is not necessarily an asset. How can you get your customer to be a little more 'noisy'—and why you should start now.
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Why we do what we do at Psychotactics: Origin Story 2
21/08/2021 Duration: 22minWhat was the trigger for the Three-Month Vacation? Why do we have workshops at random locations? This is it—the second part in the two part series of "how all these traditions started"
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Why we do what we do at Psychotactics: Origin Story 1
14/08/2021 Duration: 22minHow did the gold star show up in Psychotactics courses? How did we start sending chocolate across the world? Here is a two part series on how all of these traditions started
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What I learned from children (and how it lowered my stress levels)
07/08/2021 Duration: 16minIt's rare that we don't learn lessons from a child. Even so, I think we don't always pay closer attention to what they're saying. My nieces, Marsha and Keira have taught me a lot. Here are a few nuggets of simple, yet intense wisdom.
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How to avoid high conflict—even when you don't agree with the idea
31/07/2021 Duration: 05minAre you pro or anti-vaccine? Are you pro this or anti that? We seem to be pushed into one camp or the other and we end up getting ourselves in a tight corner. Is there a way to be part of a conversation and still neatly side step the argument?
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How to get your foot in the door (with a humble checklist)
24/07/2021 Duration: 18minWhen starting up, it's almost impossible to get clients. Yet, there's a method that's almost fail-proof and gets the client interested in you, right away. What's more, this method not only gets you one job, but has the potential to get you back repeatedly. The big surprise is that it doesn't work just when dealing with new clients, but it works amazingly well with current clients too. Want to get going? Well, here's what the checklist is all about.