Femmefluence Radio

In today’s world, modern women have turned from “taboo” vices to things like self-help, meditation, yoga, prayer and special nutrition to alter consciousness. All in the quest to “feel good” at all times. But what we Femmefluencers really need is to see the big picture and learn how to be present with both the light and the dark emotions. I’m showing you how on this episode.   Your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep17   Key Points from this Episode The toxic brew women create to divide ourselves and play into a system called the patriarchy that harms ourselves, our relationships and our connection to other women and men who we could be instead linking arms with and building longer tables is called pink slime. Spiritual bypassing is a form of pink slime that’s highly visible on social media. I am a self-proclaimed personal development junkie. I’m obsessed with why humans behave a certain way. I've become fascinated with the ways in which we try to feel endlessly good. We've gotten progressively more skill

When you’re a busy, driven, ambitious woman, having real friendships with other grown women can be difficult. It’s not easy to create time, space and energy to nurture relationships - so what are we supposed to do? In this episode we talk about the reality that is creating authentic friendships and prioritizing what we look for in other women. Your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep16 Key Points from this Episode: Friendship has always been a love / wanna be loved relationship for me.  If you’ve just joined us on Femmefluence Radio, you may have heard my story of being heavily bullied growing up. So bullied that during the summers when we were out of school I was actually more scared than when we were in school - because it gave the bullies (all girls) more time to harass me. I spent a few summers literally without hair on my head because of being what we called in our little town “mobbed” when I was out and about. The few friends that I had, I cherished. But I did dream of a day when I’d have girls arou

It’s time to activate your dream by influencing others to support your goals. In this age of technology & information, it has been easier to connect the how with your why and what. Join us as we talk about using online and offline mechanisms to grow your influence. Your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep15 Key Points from this Episode: If you’re listening in to this show, you’re a world-changer and global leader. You want to help so many people with your message and live a life designed by your values. You want your Femmefluence to spread like wildfire, yes? There are a number of ways that you can connect with your audience and deliver your message. The messenger needs the right machines to ride their message on. This is an era where it’s never been easier to communicate your why, what and how to other people.  Life moves much faster now that technology and information are both very accessible. The rate at which we deal with change and uncertainty can feel insane. But the best way to be equipped for

Highly influential brands have been using psychology based aesthetics to influence people for centuries. This episode of Femmefluence Radio is your opportunity to learn how to do the same. You’ll learn the 5-categories that go into highly influential aesthetics and begin the process of ideating on how to incorporate them into your personal brand. Your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep14   Key Points from this Episode **If you want to focus on a specific category in today’s episode, here’s a quick list Color Psychology Now onto the episode: Part of standing out in the world, and the area of branding that usually has the most interest - is how a brand looks and feels. This is known as Aesthetics Color Typography Symbology Function Relevance; can better stand out in the world.  Women who use the power of Aesthetics are more than putting on a pretty face in the world through your website or social media. It is in fact a cognitive science If you’re geeky AND glamorous like me, you’ll appreciate this epi

Intimately knowing the people who will support your path is mandatory as you step further into your Femmefluence. The better you understand your audience, the more easily and effectively you can persuade them to aligning with your end goal. In this episode of Femmefluence Radio, host Jennifer Kem talks audience building, where to start, and testing your ideas out.   Key Points from this Episode: The key to getting what you really want is having the certainty and confidence you to have the real conversations necessary with the right people to enroll decision-makers in to your ideas, close sales and create movements Knowing your real audience and what they care about will save you so much time and money, it’s practically priceless. What would be possible for you if you knew how to read the minds of the people you want to influence? People don’t care about the messenger or the message, unless they know how the messenger and message supports getting what they want or how they can eliminate something that’s bring

Archetypes are psychological patterns that people use as filters to interact with the world. As a Femmefluencer, knowing the Archetype you use most naturally allows to you most easily enroll others into your vision. In this episode of Femmefluence, we dive deep into Archetypes, what they are and how to learn yours.   Key Points from this Episode There are a ton of ways to assess your personality Humans LOVE learning more about what they’re about it. From horoscopes to assessments for work like DISC and Strengthfinders, to personal assessments like Enneagram and Myers-Brigg, there are a lot of ways to be curious about what makes you and others tick. For 21 years I’ve been obsessed with why humans do things - it’s ultimately why I became a brand futurist - I support brands to create strategies that help them understand why people consume and buy things - especially products and services.  If you’re a woman leader who wants to create more affluence and influence, you want to have these tools in your pocket too.

When equipped with three mindset principles, you can Amplify how you show up in the world. Join host Jennifer Kem as she teaches the importance and practicality of Courage, Attitude and Ownership in your life.   Key Points from this Episode As women, we’re not only carrying too much baggage, we’re carrying a lot of trash. Especially between our ears! The distance between where you are (Point A) and where you want to be (Point B), is about 5 inches between your ears. But here’s the thing - because of lack of boundaries, mentorship, a community and a clean environment to operate in (for more on that, visit our episode on being Values-Driven) we tend to clutter up our brains with things we should not be available for. We justify these things as necessary to how our lives are set up. So much so that we’re calling that trash recycled and claiming ourselves eco-friendly! HAH! But in all seriousness, that’s just a metaphor for the word insanity - hoping and doing the same things over and over again, expecting diffe

Building a personal brand is the difference between being just another face in the office or being the baller shot caller around the places you work being recognized for what you contribute. By strategically and accurately communicating your values, beliefs, goals, and purpose, you can establish a public persona that enrolls decision makers, closes sales and creates movements. If you want more of that, this episode is for you.   Key Points from this Episode: Creating a personal brand is imperative to creating more influence and affluence in your life, whether you own your own business or you work inside of a company. Think about the most influential people who rise within an organization. I bet you can describe the way they talk, walk, dress, who they ally with, the projects they’ve led...that means they’ve built a personal brand, one that others consider having influence over people and decisions. Personal branding refers to the process of establishing your public persona for your target audience. It involv

Fear of perfection is ingrained in us as humans and doubly so as women. The fear of failure and not being good enough puts us into cycle of expectation, doubt and ironically, failure. We need to change the culture of imperfection, embracing it for all of the great things it creates for us. Join me in this episode as I share the beauty of imperfect action taking and the importance of being supported when showing up imperfectly. Key Points from this Episode: If you’re anxious, a perfectionist, worried about what other people think of you, afraid you won’t get it right when you share, overstressed, overworked, disconnected, lonely, unhappy then this episode is meant just for you. It’s also for women who are ready to face and say “F you!” to fear. There’s no such thing as a quick fix or a pill.  As one of my good friends, mentors and former client Lisa Nichols says,

In this episode, I dive deep into the framework that I’ve used to strengthen myself, my life and my business - Values-Driven. Now at the nucleus of everything I do, I use this framework to enroll women into stepping into their power and sharing the story that calls to those who believe the same thing. This episode is a must listen for any woman that wants to masterfully create more influence and affluence in her life.   Key Points from this Episode When it comes to being “feminine”, “womanly” even “feminist” - there isn’t a way to do it wrong, because there isn’t one way to be a woman. One of the struggles women who are ambitious have is fitting into society’s vision of what we’re supposed to look like. Taller, thinner, more outspoken, less aggressive, not too negative, never angry - hell, never in our feelings at all. 

The message to “be the best you can be” for young girls can be a huge smack in the face as we grow older - because even though many strides have happened over the years, this message has limitations based on gender. In today’s episode I unpack the topic of ambition for women and the cultural stigma we need to overcome in order to be supported and respected for our pursuits of purpose. Your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep7   Key Points from this Episode Many women (me included) were taught at a young age that it is commendable to be ambitious and to be the best you can be.  I got that message growing up. I also got the message to expect to have to have a tidy household, to make sure my husband felt manly and to be more feminine, and to not trust anyone outside of my family. Talk about confusing! Ambitious men are supported, encouraged, and recognized for their achievements. Ambitious women are often viewed negatively; their right to reach advanced status is sometimes denied, and their motives are ofte

Our mission in Femmefluence Nation is to build longer tables - for us and the women who are looking for The Others like us.  We want to shift the idea of “The Others” to “The Many” and shift minority thinking into the new status quo. Join me in this episode as I share the process that creates real connection between women to build deep, trusting, intimate, vulnerable relationships and eliminates pink slime from our interactions.   Key Points from this Episode Pink Slime is the enemy of Femmefluence, and Connection is the Cure. The Halo Effect - when we grow together, we amplify our results  The Butterfly Effect - when we focus on transforming ourselves, the faster the world around us transforms There’s a huge case for Connection:  REALationships over REELationships - finding the relationships that are really authentic can be confusing in this world of over-sharing and comparitis. Loneliness is an epidemic, especially for women who identify as ambitious. I read this startling statistic recently that said l

Intersectionality is one of the most important values in my life, it’s linked to my reverence for justice and equity, and the need to feel that I have the same opportunity as anyone in the status quo to create a life of my own design, without societal barriers getting in the way. To create opportunities for women of all colors to link arms is a key value of Femmefluence. In this episode, I share the facts of how racial and gender discrimination for women of color is a major problem THAT WE CAN CHANGE and why it is so important that women as a whole work together to create equality for all women. This is an emotionally charged, possibly uncomfortable conversation. But that tension to take part of the conversation regardless of that fact is the work required for us to build longer tables together and to create affluence and influence at a level the world has never experienced before.    

When women bet on themselves, they create economies that not only grow their own personal wealth, they create influence that can be felt in their communities and in the world. In this episode, I break down how the value of Autonomy is the key to fully expressing and flexing your intellect and intuition in a bigger, bolder, more aligned way. I also share the multi-million dollar mistake that helped me to rediscover Autonomy as my top value and why I use it to filter every single decision I make - and why it’s required for women to fully own their Femmefluence. Go here to get your workbook: Femmefluence.com/ep4 Key Points from this Episode When women make money, they reinvest that money into impactful initiatives 70% or more of the time when compared to their male counterparts who traditionally reinvest 30%. Basically when womxn make more money, we invest in bigger things that change the world. Autonomy simply means self-governing. It's creating a way of life that becomes ours when we decide that our intellect

Decision making is a clean process when based in your personal values. In today's episode, we dive deep into the framework I recommend every woman use to make guilt-free, clean decisions in everyday life. Be sure to get your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep3   3 Key Points of this episode: One of the most defining moments of life is the day you realize that you’re in a situation that absolutely violates your values. Work life balance is a bunch of bull. It creates self-inflicted torture because you’re constantly trying to have enough of everything and it’s simply impossible to achieve. Living a life driven by values allows you to have anything you want without having to worry about feeling bad when you say no.

Pink Slime is the #1 structure that holds women down and drives the ridiculous things we do to each other. In this episode, we dive deep into the mindset and structure that is Pink Slime and how we need to overcome it in order to rise into our leadership. Be sure to get your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep2   3 Key Points of this episode: Pink Slime is a construct that affects all womxn, one that encourages us to doubt ourselves and tear each other down. We have to take ownership, stand up individually and together to fight this epidemic. Womxn who are more comfortable with male friends have usually experienced severe bouts of Pink Slime from other womxn. It’s easier to hang around the guys because they’re less petty, catty, dramatic and backstabbing. But this creates the problem that is not having strong female connections. In the world of Femmefluence it's our responsibility to lift up another womxn, and that it's our job to open up the playing field for any womxn who doesn't have the same privilege

Welcome to Femmefluence Radio, a show dedicated to helping women step into their influence and affluence. In this episode we dive deep into why Femmefluence and what Femmefluence means. Be sure to get your episode worksheet: Femmefluence.com/ep1   3 Key Points of this episode: Your femmefluence your unique superpower, the thing that most highlights your gifts, talents and skills. We believe it's possible to lead and link arms and build longer tables for ourselves now and for generations to come. We believe it's our responsibility to learn how to work together so that we can do good things for our economy, do good things for the people that we serve and do good things for society.  Tolerations are the activities and mindsets that eat away at our time, energy and money and keeps us from living in our Femmefluence