Life Erotique

For as long as we've been in the lifestyle, we've been asked how you can tell if someone you pass is a swinger. Is there some sign, some secret handshake? What about women wearing anklets? Or men in black rings? We discuss these signs and more on this week's episode.

We recently ran afoul of an aggressive dress code that forced us into clothes that we wouldn't have otherwise chosen for our bodies. We talk today about finding your signature style, how to do it on the cheap, and working around dress codes as you navigate the lifestyle.

We're often told that the most important thing in the lifestyle is to be confident. But that can be hard to do. We all struggle with our own body insecurities, but how can we work to overcome that? That's the topic of today's episode!

Do you consider yourself kinky? We didn't until we went to Dungeon Night at Desire, where Mike tried electrosex and Kira got tossed around–consensually, of course. We talk about that experience, the murky legal history of Kink, and why Mike still doesn't care for the "kinky" label (even though he likes kinky things).

What do erotic massage, Sinbad (the actor) as a condom (the barrier), and being groped in the work lunchroom have to do with one another? They're all in the latest episode of the Life Erotique podcast! Join us as we talk about building a working model for acquiring ongoing, enthusiastic consent.What do erotic massage, Sinbad (the actor) as a condom (the barrier), and being groped in the work lunchroom have to do with one another? They're all in the latest episode of the Life Erotique podcast! Join us as we talk about building a working model for acquiring ongoing, enthusiastic consent. Mentioned on this episode: Sinbad condom PSA The Center for Sex Positive Culture Swingset Takes Desire 2019

Kira and Mike have been swingers for a long time but, recently, new experiences seem to be drawing them in a different direction. Join them as they discuss their journey thus far, and a recent trip to Desire Resort in Mexico that produced a lot of memorable firsts.