Synopsis
DJ and radio host DJ Envy and his wife Gia Casey will explore the good, bad, ugly and beauty of relationships and family. Join them every week as they let you in on past experiences, give advice, talk to celebrity couples and give you two sides to every situation.
Episodes
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Ep 250: Beauty Faded And So Did My Loyalty
25/04/2025 Duration: 50minIt is a fact that over time, people’s physical appearances are prone to change. Unfortunately, attraction based on aesthetics or “looks” often overshadow the substance of love in relationships. Ultimately, people often lose attraction for their partners because of frequent exposure to images and videos of the opposite sex via social media. As humans, we are inclined to compare and either consciously or subconsciously determine how our partners measure up to the standard. Some may argue that a “new normal” has been created, suggesting that media is reshaping the ideals of beauty in today’s society. With increased accessibility to this provocative content in the palms of our hands daily, do you believe that we are somewhat desensitized to our partners? In today’s episode, we share a video that states that men and women should be cautious about their visual intake and influences, in order to maintain their attraction to their partners. Do you agree? Let’s talk about it!
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Ep. 249: "Real Life, Real Family”
17/04/2025 Duration: 49minAs we approach the launch of our book, "Real Life, Real Family," we’re excited for you to see the love we've put in. This episode addresses common questions about relationships, parenting, and dating through emails. The first email discusses finding new love. The Casey’s advise, “When you look good, you feel good,” encouraging the emailer to engage in enjoyable activities to meet someone special. The second email addresses disrespect from a child; the writer mentions their 18-year-old told them to "shut the f*** up," raising concerns about respect. The third email asks how a father can manage anxiety about the abduction of his young girls. The Casey’s stress the importance of staying alert and share how they feel secure when their kids are out of sight. The fourth email asks Gia how she prioritizes self-care as a wife and mother. Remember, you can’t support others if you don’t take care of yourself! Let’s talk about it…
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Ep. 248: You've Got Mail
10/04/2025 Duration: 55minAs we approach the launch of our book, "Real Life, Real Family," we’re excited for you to see the love we've put in. This episode addresses common questions about relationships, parenting, and dating through emails. The first email discusses finding new love. The Casey’s advise, “When you look good, you feel good,” encouraging the emailer to engage in enjoyable activities to meet someone special. The second email addresses disrespect from a child; the writer mentions their 18-year-old told them to "shut the f*** up," raising concerns about respect. The third email asks how a father can manage anxiety about the abduction of his young girls. The Casey’s stress the importance of staying alert and share how they feel secure when their kids are out of sight. The fourth email asks Gia how she prioritizes self-care as a wife and mother. Remember, you can’t support others if you don’t take care of yourself! Let’s talk about it…
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Ep 247: Society Is Too Damn Sensitive…
27/03/2025 Duration: 50minNavigating the need for personal time as parents can be challenging, especially when children are unable to grasp the concept of privacy. Have you ever had to negotiate with your kids to secure some intimate moments with your partner? What strategies do you employ to keep your children occupied and ensure a bit of seclusion? During our “pillow talk” segment, we explored whether parents should continue to provide a permanent space for their children as they grow older. At what age do you feel they might have overstayed their welcome? Additionally, does your childs gender affect your parenting style? Let’s talk about it…
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Ep 246: Perfect Parents Don’t Exist...
07/03/2025 Duration: 57minEveryone makes mistakes throughout their lives. Our podcast platform and publications are crafted to address the various challenges we encounter both personally and as parents. We recognize that social media often portrays an idealized version of life, showcasing only the most remarkable moments of our relationships and families. Our book delves into the profound lessons and experiences of our parenting journey. We discuss the vital role parents play in supporting their children and the unique dynamics each child brings to the relationship. As a parent, have you ever felt envious of the bond your kids share with your partner? Let’s talk about it…
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Episode 245: Real Life, Real Family
26/02/2025 Duration: 55minOur purpose is grounded in family, love, and faith." This quote from the Casey's upcoming book, set for release on April 16th, serves as a comprehensive guide for raising a family. This episode emphasizes the crucial importance of fostering trust with your children by always being truthful. It's essential never to lie to your kids, as dishonesty may seem like an easy solution but ultimately causes more harm than good. Parents must lead by example, and the Caseys share their own experiences on how this approach has positively impacted their family. Patience is vital in building trust, regardless of how long it takes to address issues. Often, parents lack the time to explain why certain actions are wrong. The Caseys also discuss their "family mission" statement, a set of rules everyone agrees upon to navigate their shared journey as a family. Does your family have a mission statement? Comment below, let's talk about it…
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Episode 244: F?&! A Friend Zone…
26/02/2025 Duration: 50minMany parents eagerly anticipate their children reaching the age of 18, a milestone often recognized by society as the transition into adulthood. As a parent, do you expect your children to contribute to household responsibilities once they secure a job, regardless of the family's financial situation? Should the burden of responsibility and financial obligations fall on an 18-year-old or any child capable of earning an income? This discussion also extends into more personal realms, such as whether it is acceptable to work alongside an ex-partner. Let's talk about it…
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Ep 243: You Hurt My Feelings...
12/02/2025 Duration: 01h06minDuring many of our upbringings, our parents or caregivers often spoke their minds freely regarding our intellectual, athletic, or artistic abilities. In other words, they gave us “the real”. In contrast, contemporary parents tend to adopt a more permissive approach, frequently neglecting to provide honest feedback about their children’s strengths and weaknesses in order to comfort them and inadvertently provide a false sense of security. Which one of these ideologies describes your parenting approach best? Are you a realist or a “Yes Mom”? Let's talk about it…
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Episode 242: What’s Mine Is Mine, And What’s Yours Is Mine…
30/01/2025 Duration: 51minHow would you feel if your partner charged you interest on money that they borrowed from you? It's widely recognized that financial matters often spark significant disagreements in relationships and are the leading cause of divorce in the USA. How do you and your partner manage your household finances together? When one partner is experiencing financial success while the other is struggling, do you anticipate that they will support you? Let's talk about it…
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Ep 241: Did You Find What You Were Looking For?
23/01/2025 Duration: 01h04minTrauma is not a choice; it reflects how an individual reacts to distressing experiences. Past traumas in relationships can significantly affect new connections. Mistrust can undermine the foundation of any relationship. It's crucial to understand that acting on insecurities, such as checking your partner's phone, only serves to deepen feelings of distrust. How does it make you feel when your partner consistently monitors your activities, examines your phone, and questions your every move? Let's talk about it…
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Ep 240: What Does My Past Have To Do With Our Future..?
17/01/2025 Duration: 01h12minChange is crucial for growth. In best case scenarios, we learn from our past decisions. A rough history doesn’t inevitably define our future. In your opinion - Can a person’s dating history (or any history) dictate who you perceive them to be today, or who you believe they will become in the future? Do you believe in change and self-betterment or do you hold a person hostage to their past? Let’s talk about it…
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Ep 239: Monopoly Destroys Families…
09/01/2025 Duration: 01h14sHappy New Year! As 2024 came to a close, the Casey family enjoyed ample quality time together, with everyone under one roof. This period was filled with family photos, gift exchanges, shared dinners, and, of course, exciting game nights. We all know how family game nights can unfold—has a game ever taken an unexpected turn in your home? When it comes to classics like Uno and Monopoly, do you find that there are no universally accepted rules? What constitutes fairness in your household games? This week's email centers around an intriguing topic: the implications of having a child outside of a committed relationship. What are your non-negotiables in such situations? Let's talk about it…
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Ep. 238: Holiday BS
19/12/2024 Duration: 47minMany people revisit the same annual resolutions, reflecting their desire for growth. Common themes include health, personal development, financial goals, and relationship improvements. Couples often focus on better communication and quality time. It's crucial to set realistic, measurable resolutions and break them into smaller steps to stay motivated. What changes in the new year do you envision for yourself or your relationship?
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Ep 237: Tell Me How You Really Feel…
13/12/2024 Duration: 01h06minAttention is a fundamental need for many individuals, and children are no exception. It is crucial to prioritize one-on-one time with each child, especially when managing the demands of a larger family. "Dating your kids" – dedicating focused attention and quality time with each child individually – can help ensure that the attention and care they receive does not diminish when they are grouped together. Do you agree that this personalized approach to attention and engagement is essential for nurturing healthy, thriving children, even in larger families? Let’s talk about it…
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Ep 236: Would You Stay Just For The Kids…?
05/12/2024 Duration: 01h03minThis episode, probes, a few questions… 1.) Has the ticking of your biological clock forced you to SETTLE into unhealthy relationship relationships? 2.) Do single people eventually reach a point in life where they have to start lessening their standards to ensure that they don’t end up alone? Have you ever had to remove items from your “Wish List”? 3.) Is it healthy to remain in an unsatisfying relationship “ just for the kids”? LETS TALK ABOUT IT!!!
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Ep 235: Bad Sex Dealbreaker
20/11/2024 Duration: 01h09minAt what age is it suitable for your young child to begin dating? As an adult, can you recall the age at which you first developed feelings for someone of the opposite sex? Do you believe that societal norms regarding appropriate dating ages have shifted significantly over time? Let’s talk about it..
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Ep 234: Tough Girls Cry Too…
13/11/2024 Duration: 01h06minIn this episode, Gia and Envy discuss Lamar Odom’s choice of a sex doll and explore challenges around appreciating one’s partner. They also examine the difficulty of prioritizing couple time over parenting, the importance of collaborative parenting, and whether young boys are becoming overly sensitive, highlighting the need for active father involvement. Let's talk about it...
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Ep 233: Agree to Disagree…
05/11/2024 Duration: 01h03minThe Halloween celebration at the Casey's gained significant attention and sparked considerable discussion. While everyone is entitled to their opinions, at what point does criticism cross the line? When did the innocent enjoyment of children become a contentious issue? Hip hop lyrics, fashion, and music are often deemed inappropriate to varying extents, yet both children and adults engage in them, either separately or together. What distinguishes these interactions? Let's delve into this topic.
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Ep 232: Coming Out Of Both Ends…
30/10/2024 Duration: 01h15minWhen dating someone who has children, it's important to consider the appropriate timeframe for allowing that person to take on a disciplinary role with your kids. What does discipline mean to you when it comes to someone else’s children? It's widely acknowledged that children can be quite challenging these days. Let's talk about it, and a bunch more!!!
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Episode 231: Just Gimme My Man-Spect..
24/10/2024 Duration: 56minFellas, do you notice that women often offer apologies followed by justifications for their actions? The concept of "man-spect" is significantly undervalued in our society. Do you agree? Or do you believe that sometimes justifications are warranted? Let's discuss…