Synopsis
Sext and the City is a podcast on modern dating by Samantha Jones. In each episode, she interviews a guest where they take on a question Carrie asked on Sex and the City 20 years ago and how it applies to relationships today.
Episodes
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S3 E3: Did you unfollow me?!
13/04/2020 Duration: 58minSeason 3 Episode 3 "Attack of the Five Foot Ten Woman is all about the comparison game. In this episode, I speak with Emily Curl, digital host at iHeart Radio, on Instagram versus reality: Seeing your ex without seeing them Comparing ourselves to exes Is even "unfiltered" and "BTS" social media still fake? Things we buy to feel better about ourselves Doing something that scares you Follow Emily at @emcurl and iHeart Radio at @iHeartRadio Follow this podcast BTS and vote on episodes at @sextnthecity and @samnthacity
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S3 E2: The campaign for wifey?
06/04/2020 Duration: 41minIn Season 3, Episode 2 we talk Politically Erect with Arielle Shnaidman, a mindset and business coach. She offers her tips and insights on: Owing someone - a favor for a favor? Women, politics, and how it's portrayed in media Are there any original ideas left? What if something better comes along? Moving on, and then back Call out culture Follow Arielle on IG at @arielleshnaidman and check out her business and mindset coaching business at arielleshnaidman.com Follow podcast BTS and vote on episodes at @sextnthecity and @samnthacity
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S3 E1: Give a rose, take a rose
30/03/2020 Duration: 41minNo, we aren't talking The Bachelor. We are talking Season 3, Episode 1 of Sex and the City, "Where There's Smoke," with Kate Lindsay of Refinery29. This episode is all about how we try to rescue one another and we get into: Do women want to be rescued then or now? Is "fixing" people a version of rescuing them? Are there different levels of rescuing someone? Dating (judging) people based on where they live The role of fantasies Manifesting Follow Kate at @kathrynfiona and show BTS and vote on episodes at @sextnthecity and @samnthacity
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S2 E2: & the student becomes the master
28/10/2019 Duration: 45minSeason 2 Episode 17, Twenty-Something Girls vs. Thirty-Something Women, takes a wild turn when we turn relationship questions into career questions. I spoke with one of my friends who I really admire for how much she puts herself out there in her career on the following: The millennial stereotype Burning bridges in your network The mentor/mentee relationship Can you lie in a job interview? Good resume = bad employee Office competitiveness
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S2 E16: If you make your bed they will come?
21/10/2019 Duration: 33minThis week, a guest from Season 1 returns to talk about Season 2 Episode 16 "Was it good for you?" This time as a Miranda. We talk: Is society now pansexual Are we graded every time we go to bed with someone How Carrie's dramatics are full-on in this episode Manifesting your desires Self-esteem and validation
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S2 E15: All in the family
14/10/2019 Duration: 33minFor Season 2, Episode 15 "Shortcomings," I sat down with Courtney Seamon of the blog Mimosas and Manhattan and the podcast Relationships Uncensored. We talked about all things: If you date someone are you dating the entire family If "shortcomings" are really a dealbreaker Should a family know about your sex life Breaking up with the family too Can you date someone else in the family if things don't work out Dating someone with kids and divorced Follow Courtney the following ways! Relationships Uncensored itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncensored/id1473345494 Relationships Uncensored IG: @relationships_uncensored Mimosas and Manhattan IG: @courtandkelly Courtney's personal: @courtseamoney
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S2 E14: I do a shot if I'm wrong
07/10/2019 Duration: 10minI turned Season 2 Episode 14, "The Fuck Buddy Essentials," into a drinking game. Listen to me read your answers from Instagram @sextnthecity and if I disagree I have to take a sip.
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S2 E18: sEXt and the City
30/09/2019 Duration: 40minWe are discussing the finale of season 2 on this week's episode for "Ex and the City." I sit down with Allison, who totally feels Miranda in this episode, to discuss all things friends with an ex. We get into: Do you run when you see an ex Are exes like dresses Can you "tame" people High roads versus low roads Can you be friends with an ex
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S2 E13: Quit playing games with my heart
23/09/2019 Duration: 43minI chatted with Jenn M. Simpson, LISW-S Clinical Social Worker of Thrive Therapy Inc., to discuss Season 2, Episode 13 "Games People Play." In this episode, we get into: The importance of therapy Tips on creating clarity Healthy vs unhealthy ways to handle a breakup Dating games and why we do them Choosing a partner For more information on Jenn and her work, visit her website www.thrivetherapyinc.com and you can follow her on IG at @thrivetherapycincinnati
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S2 E12: I have this thing for...
02/09/2019 Duration: 44minIn this week's episode for "La Douleur Exquise," season 2 episode 12, it's all about fetishes. I spoke with Christy Haas, a sex and relationship therapist (MA, CPCC, CST) who really broke it down. We discussed: The difference in a fetish and a preference Living out your fetish IRL Meeting your partner's fetish needs Meeting a stranger's fetish needs Carrie and Big's "S&M" relationship Like what you hear on the episode? You can talk with Christy about your personal questions! Find her website for booking here, or follow on IG at @christyhaassextherapist
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S2 E11: When it's more than a toothbrush
26/08/2019 Duration: 35minFor this week's episode, I sit down with Caroline Vazzana, frequently referred to as the modern day Carrie Bradshaw. Caroline is an editor, stylist, fashion influencer, and author of Making it in Manhattan. As part of Season 2, Episode 11 titled Evolution, we talk all things: Leaving things at your partners home Pressures on life timelines Getting closure Fashion being more than clothes Thinking like a man Letting go of stereotypes in dating and careers Follow Caroline on Instagram @cvazzana and subscribe to her YouTube channel. You can follow the site Making it in Manhattan at @makingmanhattanofficial. You can check out all the articles and resources she shares on Making it in Manhattan here or buy the book for a full deep dive into Caroline's background and advice!
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S2 E10: We are classless
19/08/2019 Duration: 26minWe are talking all things classless in Season 2 Episode 10, "The Caste System." I interview a Charlotte to talk all things: Dating outside of your socioeconomic standing Are we still biased on who pays Dating someone with no aspirations Jealousy with other people in your partner's life Saying "I love you" for the first time
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S2 E9: Dear Diary...A journal for your sex life
12/08/2019 Duration: 32minFor Season 2 Episode 9, "Old Dogs, New Dicks," I sit down with Caleb and Levina who started A Sex Journal, which is filled with resources, exercises, and guides to have intimate conversations with your partner following sex. On this episode we discuss: Why communication is so difficult Blaming partners for not being able to read our mind Changing your expectations Is it harder for men to change than women How to show up for your partner Scheduling sex You can pre-order your journal here and follow on social media to stay up-to-date at @asexjounral
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S2 E8: Now I ain't saying she a gold digger
05/08/2019 Duration: 32minThis week we are talking about Season 2 Episode 8 titled, "The Man, The Myth, The Viagra." We get into Dating married men or formerly married men Letting your friends meet who you are dating Wealthy women still being gold diggers Is it okay to be a gold digger for certain reasons Bad dates and getting stood up
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S2 E7: Just a quickie
29/07/2019 Duration: 31minWe are talking Season 2 Episode 7, "The Chicken Dance," where the ladies find themselves at another wedding...which has some special circumstances. I interviewed a Charlotte for this episode and we get into: Being on dates that aren't yours Fast engagements versus fast weddings A case study of a speedy marriage (+celeb case studies!) Is love in first sight real Are soulmates real Red flags to add to your list
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S2 E5: Turning Tinder on at funerals
22/07/2019 Duration: 42minThis week I sit down with Tom and Tucker of The Undesirables podcast. The podcast takes on dating in a "trial by fire" approach. We talk all things Season 2 Episode 5, "Four Women and a Funeral," including: Picking up people at a funeral Looking like your ex Protocols of being friends with an ex You can check out their podcast here and follow on IG @undesireablespod
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Bonus: East vs West Coast
15/07/2019 Duration: 24minI sat down with a friend of mine (a Charlotte) who has dated on the East Coast and now the West Coast. We are addressing stereotypes for the coasts and is the grass actually greener on another one. Listen for: Who is more likely to be late to a date Who has better style Does one coast have a better "quality" dating pool Are there more women than men on one coast Picking a date spot Dating outside your neighborhood
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S2 E6: Spectrums of cheating and sexualities
08/07/2019 Duration: 35minThis week we get into cheating curves and sexual identity for episode six of Sex and the City with my friend Ashely. We discussed: Can you ask someone if they are gay? The journey of sexuality Secret relationships Defining cheating Why do you cheat
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S1 E12: God sees your crazy
01/07/2019 Duration: 33minOn this episode, I sit down with Cylla Senii the creator (director/producer/writer/actress) of the web series Situationships that was picked up by BET, and her fellow producer Kar Logan. Situationships as the millennial Sex and the City The definition of a situationship Red flags you are in a situationship Millennial dating in modern times Defining the relationship (situationship) You can catch the show via the below links and follow along on social for more behind the scenes: Watch Situatioships on BET:https://www.bet.com/situationships Watch Situationships on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXwrGJYj797ldwxmO-2_6w Watch Wingmen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVoQj-k7A5HgXkkpx279AxQ IG @situationshipNY: https://www.instagram.com/situationshipny/ IG @WingmenWebShow: https://www.instagram.com/wingmenwebshow/ IG @CyllaSenii: https://www.instagram.com/cyllasenii/ IG @KarLogan: https://www.instagram.com/karlogan/
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S2 E4: SFK on Single and Fucking Killing it
24/06/2019 Duration: 37minIn this week's episode, Carrie has a meltdown after being plastered on a magazine all over the city as, "Single and Fabulous?" I chatted with Serena Kerrigan, aka SFK, aka Queen of Confidence, on why women should stop feeling ashamed about being single. Topics we address include: Faking orgasms Sex for validation Single women's "armor" The relationship with yourself Dating for all the wrong reasons You can follow Serena and all her confidence tips on @serenakerrigan