Betrayal Recovery Radio

Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Michelle who has wanted to inspire partners by sharing her story of her husband's out of control sexually addictive behavior and the havoc it cause in her family. Michelle was able to take back her life by supporting her husband into getting the help he needed and working towards creating the family life that she had always wanted.Despite the trauma, Michelle was able to find the positives that his crisis would bring the family.

Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing James Annear of Core Relationship Recovery who has researched the attachment styles of betrayed partners and has found extreme wounding that effects deep trust and intimacy. Today, he will be talking about the 4 attachment styles and how they are effected when "heart wounding" occurs.

APSATS president Laurie Hall and Carol the Coach will be talking about strategies they use to help partners heal. They will be discussing Internal Family System work and Empathy techniques that restore safety, stabalization and healing from grief. Learn how to manage painful emotions to help you heal from sexual betrayal.

Today, Carol will be interviewing Tim Kiernon who has worked at Prescott House after graduating from their program. He is a proponent of longer term treatemt as he firmly believes that the more time an addict has to work on his recovery, the better off his family has for their own healing. If your spouse has been struggling with good sobriety, this may be the answer!

Today Carol the Coach will be talking with Amy whose husband committed the worst form of betrayal, he cheated on her with their adult daughter and had a baby. Listen how Amy talks about how she is restoring her sense of trust after this horrific sexual betrayal.

There is no greater pain than the pain of sexual betrayal and today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Jennifer Josey a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist who is also a CSAT. She will be sharing what the most important things  the SA can do to repair trut in his/her relationship. She also will be giving tips on the partner can do to heal from the betrayal.

Tim Stein is a partner sensitive therapist who wrote Gifts of Recovery to help men and women in recovery from sex addiction find healing. He believes it has great merit for the partner in recovery because each day iincludes a quote, a therapy lesson and or a therapy metaphor and much of the book has a relational lesson too!

Repeat Show of whether women are in abusive relationships if they love and addict.

Sex addicts who knowingly have sex with their spouses while having unprotected sex with others are violating their spouses by undermining her self-determination over her body.  When the partner of the SA has no idea she's been "having sex" with her spouse's sex workers, a crime has been committed. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Alex Katehakis, Ph.D, Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex, who believes that sex in a relationship where intimate deception is taking place is a non-consensual act and leaves many partners feeling "raped"  having been exposed to multiple sex partners and the potential to contract an STI, some of which can be fatal. Find out why few women get honest enough with themselves about the gravity of this type of gross violation!

Carol the Coach is interviewing Cathy Walls who works at PCS - Psychological Counselling Services - and is the first to offer the APSATS Multidimensional Partner Model for partners who want intensive treatment. Listen as Cathy helps you to determine whether this would be a good fit for you!

Carol the Coach talks with experts on partner betrayal.

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dan Drake and Janice Caudill on their new book, Full Disclosure: How To Share The Truth After Sexual Betrayal.  They recognize that doing a full disclosure can be both daunting and difficult, so they will be talking about their step by step approach they have created in their new workbooks. They have participated in hundeds of disclosures and have years of experience and are committed to helping you navigate a complicated yet vital part of healing after sexual betayal.

Carol the Coach is talking with Mathew and Joanna Raabsmith who work together helping couples and individuals find healing and transformation when sexual betrayal occurs. Today, they will share their own story of healing and restoration from the damage of addiction and betrayal in their marriage. They seek to use their training and experience to empower other couples to find healing and wholeness in their own unique journey.

Coach Jen is going to be interviewing Carol the Coach. The show has been running for a year now and Coach Jen thought it was time for you to get to know the host "up front and personal." She will be asking Carol about her personal journey so that the listeners will know what obstacles that she has had to face in her life.

Listen as Andy Johns talks with Carol the Coach about the nuances of working with male partners.

How do you help your daughters work through sex addiction when it ravages your family. Kristin Cary talks about a program that has helped daughters work through their trauma and band together recognizing that they are not alone. Daughters in the Battle has a unique program that gives daughters the support that they deserve.

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Jean who has struggled with her husbands sexual addiction. She was able to work through the addiction and has come out feeling like her marriage has survived and thrived. Jean is now helping others to get through this process and she wants to share the resources to build your tool box and come out of this with a personal sense of power.

Today Carol interviews Anne who is the producer and host of the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast. She spent years of attempting to help her husband recover from his sexual addiction, yet problems worsened and he was arrested for domestic violence. Anne has made it her mission to help other partners keep themselves safe and she would like to share her journey with us!

Carol the Coach is interviewing Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck who believes when a couple enters treament for sex addiction recovery, their lives have been turned upside down and both parties will most likely be engaginging in abusive behaviors towards one another. Their relationship is in turmoil and they are experiencing a plethora of feelings. A good counselor has to be able to address and identify the abuse and neglect cycle that exists so that healing can occur. Dr. Hollenbeck believes that it can be advantageous to see the addict, the partner, and the couple.She is going to talk about what the couple can do to provide each other with safety for healing.

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dan and Angie Andrew who want the community to understand the difference betwwen sobriety and true recovery. They believe that the coupleship with thrive when both people do their work and support each other's recovery. They will discuss the tools for recovery  that keep the lines of communication open and promote good self care.