The Angry Therapist Podcast

Today, John explores the complex nature of obsession, discussing its duality as both a gift and a curse. He reflects on his personal experiences with obsession, and dives into the importance of recognizing when obsession becomes unhealthy and the need for balance in life. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the eight different types of breakups, emphasizing that each type carries unique lessons and opportunities for personal growth. He discusses the emotional impacts of various breakups, from the initial heartbreak of 'the big one' to the complexities of divorce, and how to move on from each. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John brings on Francesca Sipma to discuss the journey of unlocking one's purpose through self-discovery and healing. They explore the importance of addressing emotional barriers, understanding intuition versus ego, aligning with the present, the transformative power of breathwork, and much more. Francesca is a former New Yorker, who spent her career in advertising and marketing for top global brands, Google, Marriott and Bacardi. After 10 years of chasing an insatiable lifestyle, she experienced a radical awakening and went on a quest to find higher purpose. She found herself on a deep self-exploration journey exploring modalities and retreats all over Bali, India and Peru. In 2020 she pioneered her own methodology blending breathwork and hypnosis called Hypnobreathwork® and Flow State Breathwork®. She now has 100+ coaches spreading this transformative work across the globe. Her new book, Unblock Your Purpose, presents a tangible and accessible process to identify old habits, clear blocks, and achie

Today, John talks to Buddy Wakefield about the importance of balance in life, clarity that can come from celibacy, and the creative process that navigates both light and dark experiences. They also touch on cultural identity, the impermanence of life, the responsibility we hold in the current societal landscape, and much more. Follow Buddy on Instagram HERE Find out more about Buddy HERE You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the impact of parental relationships on self-worth and emotional development, emphasizing the importance of nurturing oneself in ways that may have been lacking in childhood. He dives into practical strategies for self-compassion, identifying emotional needs, transforming negative self-talk, and regulating emotions through body awareness. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the profound impact of breakups on personal growth and self-discovery. He emphasizes that breakups serve as a mirror, reflecting our emotional patterns and unresolved wounds, and encourages listeners to view breakups as transformative opportunities for growth. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the misconceptions surrounding heartbreak and breakups, emphasizing that our hearts do not break but stretch, allowing for personal growth and resilience. He also discusses the importance of understanding the pain of heartbreak, the necessity of coping mechanisms, the journey of self-discovery that follows a breakup, and much more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on his experiences as a parent and the generational differences in parenting styles. He emphasizes the importance of perspective in understanding one's life journey, the need to pull back to see the bigger picture, and how self-reflection can lead to emotional well-being. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John's Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

John talks about how wisdom is derived from lived experiences and how seeking new experiences can lead to personal growth and transformation. He emphasizes how by focusing on corrective experiences, individuals can challenge false beliefs and expand their understanding of love, relationships, and life itself. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the transformative power of breakups. He also encourages listeners to reframe their narratives around breakups, viewing them as invitations to evolve into better versions of themselves, and to lean into the discomfort of pain, so one can learn valuable lessons and shed limiting beliefs leading to a more fulfilling future. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John's Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares a series of poignant poems that delve into themes of creativity, personal growth, love, and relationships. He also explores how breakups can lead to breakthroughs, the ongoing journey of self-discovery, and the evolving nature of love. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John recounts the excitement of having a free day, the mishap with his motorcycle keys, and the subsequent challenges he faced. He emphasizes the value of accepting life's unpredictability, recognizing personal growth in how we respond to setbacks, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the concept of 'Fuck It Friday,’and emphasizes the importance of taking time for oneself without guilt, exploring the balance between self-love and self-indulgence. He also talks about the practice of gratitude, encouraging listeners to reflect on unique aspects of their lives they appreciate, and his new book, Break Up On Purpose. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John challenges the traditional fairy tale narrative of love and relationships, arguing that the myth of 'happily ever after' is unrealistic and damaging. He discusses the importance of commitment, self-reflection, resilience in relationships, and emphasizes that real love requires effort, growth, and the willingness to navigate struggles together. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

John shares his personal journey regarding sex, intimacy, early experiences, the shame he felt, and what he's learned from them. He also introduces the concept of co-creating intimacy with partners, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual pleasure, adaptability in sexual relationships, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the emotional complexities involved in breakups, including the concept of secondary loss and the importance of understanding one's emotional responses. He also explores the transformative potential of breakups, emphasizing that they can serve as catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on his upbringing in a family restaurant, exploring themes of generational trauma, cultural identity, and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's parents' backgrounds, so they can shift towards a more empathetic and responsive approach in the current generation. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of a client's story. He highlights common struggles couples face, and encourages them to co-create their relationship dynamics by moving away from traditional roles to find what works best for them. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the emotional turmoil of losing not just a marriage but the life he envisioned, and how this experience led him to a path of self-discovery and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding different types of breakups, how they require tailored approaches to healing, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices