The Angry Therapist Podcast

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?" Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices