The Tranquility Tribe Podcast

In my endless scrolling on social media, I inevitably see an expecting parent jokingly say they wish they could have a glass of wine or a glass of beer. I never know if I should write in that it’s A-OK to have something to drink (says the science) or leave it be..or are they even looking for a serious answer? I have no clue, but I thought it was a conversation that needed to happen so I’m bringing it you! I’m diving into the research of having a glass of wine during pregnancy and if it will have impacts on your pregnancy or your baby’s development. Let’s go!    Resource: Expecting Better Book Brought to you by: The Birth Lounge, www.TheBirthLounge.com

In this episode, HeHe is joined by Julia Brown, MD to discuss COVID-19 and newborns/infants! Julia is a local pediatrician at one of the top 5 birthing hospitals in Massachusetts and is sharing what parents need to know in these unprecedented times. HeHe is asking about how coronavirus presents in newborns, the recommendations on separation of birthing parent and baby plus what breastfeeding parents need to know about transmission! Julia shares what parents need to know about fevers, symptoms of COVID-19 and how to begin treating it at home while you make a plan with your medical providers. The conversation also addresses what pregnant people need to know about washing their babies and what to changes to expect during labor!    About Julia: Julia Brown MD is a primary care pediatrician at Newton-Wellesley Family Pediatrics, a private practice in Newton, Massachusetts affiliated with Boston Children's Hospital. Dr. Brown completed her medical training at Tufts University School of Medicine and her pediatric

 If you don’t know..you might not get to the hospital and go straight to Labor and Delivery. Sometimes you do, but sometimes you don’t. When you get to the hospital, you will most likely be asked to go to a smaller exam room and the nurse will grab a few vitals like your temperature, your blood pressure, a reading on the electronic fetal monitoring, and a cervical exam. If you need/want an IV placement, now is the time this will happen as well.  If you are going to the hospital for induction, a scheduled c-section, or during transition you will most likely not go to triage. I’m breaking it all down and what to expect upon arrival at the hospital in today’s episode!    A FREE training on HOW TO STAY IN CONTROL DURING LABOR! Brought to you by: The Birth Lounge 

  From intentionally choosing your birth place to understanding c-section rates in your area, it all plays a role in your birth experience. In this episode of The Birth Lounge Podcast, Dr. Neel Shah dives into what we know about c-sections, why our country has such an astronomical rate of them, and what you can do to decrease your chances of “being sectioned” during labor and delivery. We dive into access (or lack there of) and how this impacts thousand of birth stories each year. Dr. Neel shares how birthing people in rural parts of our country will have different experiences than folks in the cities with better and more abundant access to healthcare. Dr. Neel says, “We know the right mortality rate is zero. We don’t know know the right amount of c-sections..and it’s not zero.” We go deep into cesarean sections being life saving surgery, but also balancing that with medical manipulation. He shares that asking question is a wonderful way to stay in control of your care. Plus, he shares a tidbit about nuchal

Today, HeHe is joined by Ann Marie Paul, a spiritual activator for divine feminine wisdom. She teaches the ancient art of Yoni Eggs which opens up a woman to her own bodies wisdom and sensuality. She is leading us today down the path of igniting your sexual self and harnessing your inner goddess. HeHe and Ann Marie are diving into what a yoni egg is, how to use it, what to expect from it, and why you need one. Ann Marie is also sharing her thoughts on how we teach and talk about sexuality with kids. Why don’t we start off by defining sensuality vs. sexuality… I’ll see you there!   Connect with Ann Marie Paul here! // Use code HEHE15 to save 15% on the Yoni Egg Initiation Online Program Join us on Facebook by searching The Tranquility Tribe

Are you a mama that wonders if your birth is "normal"? Do you look back on your birth and think "Things didn't go... like I thought they would." Maybe you know your birth was traumatic and you're trying to navigate that headspace of what to do, who to tell, and where to go. Possibly, for you, it looks like the decision between having another child or not? The question of "Do I really want to go through that again?" keep looming in your head. This episode is for you. This is THE episode if you'e been on the fence wondering if this tribe has women like you in it and the answer is right inside... Happy Friday, yal! 

Have you ever wondered if hypnosis might be a useful tool for your labor support toolbox? Many women use hypnosis as a way to manage with the pressures of labor and there are tons of programs to choose from (many choices!). Kelley Keenan is the Founder of Hypnobabies Boston and she is sharing how hypnosis works as pain relief for birth. We are diving into the role that mindset and training your brain has on your birth experience and what you can do to harness the power of hypnosis. 

Seriously, stop washing your vagina. First, HeHe is explaining why you should never wash your vagina and if you wash your vulva, there are a few rules. HeHe is sharing what you can expect when it comes to the proper pH of your vagina and how important intentionality is when it comes to choosing products for your feminine care, specifically feminine wash. You may be surprised by a few facts in here like, it’s best to wash your vulva only with water if you can and douching can kill your vaginal flora. HeHe shares the top three brands she recommends, although, she stands true in believing water-only is best. Check out the brand new TBH Portal!  Good clean Love Healthy HooHoo Honey Pot Honey Pot Mama-to-Be Wash

This episode is one that many families ("nanny families" --check out episode #89) will need to hear, relisten to, and probably refer back to numerous times. HeHe sat down with SolBe Education Center's Director, Hannah Riddle de Rojas, to chat about everything you need to know when choosing childcare for your first baby. HeHe and Hannah bring very different perspectives to the table and this is perfect for parents to get a transparent peek into what really goes on behind the scenes in childcare centers. From questions to ask on an interview/tour to reading the teachers body language to what you can expect for investments and why, this episode covers it all.    The TBH Portal SolBe Learning Center, Boston, Ma

Are you blocking yourself? Are you really the problem?! The good news is that if you're the problem, then that's an easy solution! In this episode, HeHe is sharing the different options that you have when it comes to unblocking your own success whether it be trying to conceive, achieving your ideal birth, or navigating motherhood. Stop making excuses for why you're in the position that you're in and take control of your life, your mindset, and your health! Getting out of your own pond requires you to step outside of your comfort zone.. are you willing to do the work?  STAY TUNED UNTIL THE END FOR AN ENORMOUS ANNOUNCEMENT!  TBH Portal Experience TBH Portal Sample Table of Contents TBH Recommended Book List 

Today is an episode that is so needed, but so many people do not dare walk in this territory. Well, we are. Sex Therapist, Dr. Alex Chinks, joins HeHe to chat all things intercourse! We are starting the conversation by diving into the stigma surrounding sex. Alex is sharing how to talk about sex and consent with kids in a healthy way that supports boundaries and body awareness. She also shares her thoughts on sex as self-care and sex during pregnancy + after baby! HeHe ask about re-establishing sex after baby, plus there’s a freebie below!! This episode will help you sort out whether sex therapy is right for you! Stay tuned for the most exciting TBH announcement yet! HeHe will be sharing in this week's Friday Free Talk (Episode #100!!). Freebie: https://mailchi.mp/2807d1b062c2/sexafterbirth Alex Chinks: http://dralexchinks.com/

It's no secret that HeHe is a firm believer in "Mindset is 90%" of the game mentality. This episode, she is sharing how you can mold your mindset and help support your mental health! "Stop planning your birth for someone else!" she urges listeners. When you fail to do the research yourself, you are blindly trusting someone else's knowledge and resources. Part of remaining in control of your birth experience is knowing your rights and never succumbing to the pressure of "Impossible." HeHe is sharing why "impossible" is just an illusion and it's really all about your grit!    TBH Retreat: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/balancing-motherhood-retreat-tickets-53375032158 Book: Unfuck Yourself Book: Grit

Julie Starr, Founder of Starr Yoga and Shift by Julie, joins HeHe in today's episode to talk all about the common misconceptions that people have when it comes to yoga in pregnancy! Julie is also a midwife and brings a very special perspective to the table! Julie is a fellow No BS gal and we think you'll fall in love with her just like we have! This episode is filled with blunt honesty and unforgiving truths so buckle up! From birth prep to listening to your body, we are going there! Happy Tuesday, Villagers!  Learn more about the 2019 TBH Retreat and reserve your seat here! Connect with Julie! Shift by Julie Probiotics

This episode is raw and real. Some might even say brutal. HeHe is diving into how you might be sabotaging yourself when it comes to conceiving, your birth, or motherhood. We know that worry is an emotion that is rooted in fear.. but fear of what? That will look different for everyone and only you can know what it is for you. HeHe is sharing what to do with that anxious energy to channel it into productivity! She is encouraging you to lean into the uncomfortable pieces of the journey because that is usually where the most growth happens. Don't come to this episode with a chip on your shoulder because in the end, you learn that maybe, just maybe, you're the one blocking yourself... (dun, dun, dun!!).    Learn more about the 2019 TBH Retreat here! Watch the youtube video! Sign up for our newsletter here! 

We dug up episode #13 from the files and are re-sharing it here! Sarah Bivens in coming Boston in February to speak at our 2019 TBH Retreat! She will be teaching us all about finding balance in motherhood and how to be mindful in our daily actions! Today is all about learning to be in control of your thoughts. HeHe and Sarah dive into what self-care looks like in motherhood. We talk about why it's so important to set time aside for yourself, why communication can make or break a system, and how you can start your journey of finding "balance." Parenting and being a partner can be challenging, so what happens when your cup is empty and there's nothing left to give? Join us as we talk about the not-so-pretty moments of filling so many roles and how to find a place in your life that you want to relish in every single last moment!  ​   2019 TBH Retreat https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood TBH 5-day challenge https://mailchi.mp/3b8bd5c210ec/mastering-your-mindset-in-motherhood-2019 TBH Virtu

In today's episode, HeHe is breaking down exactly what a Maternity Concierge does each day. The care that TBH clients receive is above and beyond because our end goal is above and beyond, the mindset shifts we intentionally walk through is above and beyond, the language we use is above and beyond. It's been called "extra." She's not afraid to "go there" with TBH clients because we've have seen the pay off in the end. The TBH Approach was born during one of HeHe's trainings and has slowly transformed into a comprehensive approach from infertility support to the first three years of your child's life! The TBH team will be with you every step of the way!    2019 TBH Retreat https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood Check out more about Maternity Concierge here: https://www.tranquilitybyhehe.com/ Hot Stones as Pain Relief for Labor: https://youtu.be/wjpuKfx2cZM

Ahhhh! Alas, the topic that is quietly buzzing, circling like a taboo topic, but almost everyone is curious. Cannabis and parenting. Can you use it for morning sickness? Does it get to your baby through breastmilk? Can you smoke it? Do you have to stop using it to get pregnant? These questions are on many people’s mind and we don’t have even a quarter of the information right now. We’ve only begun to tap into the tip of the iceberg. To get our tribe started on this topic, HeHe sat down with Ashley Reynolds, Founder of Elmore Mountain Therapeutics, to bring you the conversation you’ve all been waiting for. This episode will not answer all of your questions. Rather, we’d like it to get your wheels turning. We intend to continue the exploration and conversation around cannabis and it’s benefits for women. This may be for you and it may not be for you, but it is an option for everyone and that’s our goal. Ashley is explaining the basics of CBD including our cannabinoid systems and what you might feel like after y

Inspired by 3 different events seemingly placed in HeHe’s path intentionally by the universe, she sat down and chatted about a term she coined in grad school. Having gone to Mississippi State University for undergraduate, she learned a funny little secret about bulldogs that makes for the perfect parenting approach, too! From helicopter moms to free range parenting, there’s a million labels out there. HeHe is here to share that you’re allowed to be whatever combination you feel is best for your kids and your family. Listen in to learn there quick phrases that will help you set boundaries in the moment if you are caught in a conversation that makes you feel uncomfortable! 2019 TBH Retreat https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood TBH 5-day challenge https://mailchi.mp/3b8bd5c210ec/mastering-your-mindset-in-motherhood-2019 Navigating the Land of If Book: https://amzn.to/2ALfroV “Parenting Styles” https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/allthemoms/2018/09/19/parenting-terms-explained-lawnmower-helic

HeHe is joined by the Founder of Thrive by Food, Kristin Thomas, to chat about all things hormones and food, plus a little leaky gut! Did you know that there are specific foods that align with various times in your menstrual cycle. If you eat these foods (or avoid certain ones!) at the right time, it can help support your body better. We will be diving into symptoms that present as one thing, but might actually be another. Kristin in sharing her opinion on supplements and natural ways to improve digestion. Finally, the buzzing questions of leaky gut.. Yep, we’re going there! Join us to hear how you can take control of your gut health in 2019!     2019 TBH Retreat https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood TBH 5-day challenge https://mailchi.mp/3b8bd5c210ec/mastering-your-mindset-in-motherhood-2019 TBH Virtual Mom Meet-Up https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tbh-free-virtual-mommy-meet-up-tickets-53660403712 Thrive by Food: https://thrivebyfood.com/

Remember when you used to practice fire drills as a child. For me, there were different expectations at home and at school. Fire drills came up in a recent conversation and per usual I connected it to birth, in particular home birth and hospital birth. Digging deep into the files from studying Psych at Mississippi State University, I am showing how the foundation we lay as children impacts the way we birth our children. This is an incredible episode with so many "Holy Cow" moments! Your birth is not a drill. You get one chance to do this thing. I'm sharing the ways you can practice "birth drills" just as we did in school as little munchkins. Happy Tuesday! I can't wait to hear how you use these tips to prepare for your birth!    2019 TBH RetreatL  https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood TBH 5-day challenge https://mailchi.mp/3b8bd5c210ec/mastering-your-mindset-in-motherhood-2019   TBH Virtual Mom Meet-Up https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tbh-free-virtual-mommy-meet-up-tickets-53660403712