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When you’ve gone through struggles in your life, it becomes clear what you don’t want. Unfortunately, this doesn’t always translate when it comes to deciding what you do want. If you’re not intentional about figuring out what you want in life, it’s easy to fall into survival mode. You feel lost, only focusing on what is directly in front of you, leading to frustration or even disillusionment. So, in this episode, Phoenix will be explaining the process she is currently going through of finding what she wants.

A healthy relationship requires communication, compromise, and mutual respect. While some people might feel fine with a monetary expression of affection, some might not. In the case of the latter, the person should never insist or feel bad about that. Many people overlook things that would normally be an issue at the beginning of the relationship. So, why power through when you’re not really into it? In this episode, Phoenix is joined by Justice to discuss relationships and all of the wild things that come along with being in the dating scene.

We’ve all been there. Trying to focus on something specific but continuously get distracted by things that don’t really make a difference. Recently, Phoenix discovered something about this common conundrum. When we get in these constant circles of distractions, we are in fact focusing. We’re just focusing on the wrong things. So, in this episode, she will be explaining how she has learned to focus on the right things so she can continue progressing forward in her work, career and love life.

Most of us are focused on all the things we have yet to achieve in life. However, only focusing on your to-do list or failures can take a serious toll on your emotional well-being. It’s important to appreciate everything that you have accomplished on your journey too. All of the things you’ve worked hard for and all of the blessings you’ve received along the way. In this episode, Phoenix explains her recent battles with anxiety and how she is learning to feel joy without fear.

Negative mental habits carry a lot of psychological weight. Talking negatively about yourself, dwelling on the past, and starting frequent fights with loved ones are just a few of the bad habits that will drain your mental strength. So, how can you make room in your life for what you really want and stop allowing these negative patterns to take up so much space? Phoenix will be sharing the answer to this question and more in this episode.For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

Life is all about timing. It’s the right time or it’s the wrong time - timing really is everything. When you trust in the timing of your life, it helps you to trust and accept what is happening instead of trying to change it. You trust that what is happening will get you to where you need to be. So, in this episode, Phoenix will share why she is leaning into this mindset now, explaining why she is no longer afraid of her timing.For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

Why do people always ask single men and women why they’re single? Is it supposed to be a compliment? Are they digging for something deeper? Most of the time, people are single not because there is something wrong with them but because they haven’t found the right situation for them. They haven’t found that person that matches their energy and lifestyle. It’s the same with our careers, friendships, etc. If things don’t align, then it simply isn’t the right time. So, in this episode, Phoenix will be sharing her experience with this and delving deep into why availability does not mean there is something lacking.

Nobody enjoys making mistakes or being wrong. It can make you question yourself and your decisions, and it can even make you question your value. However, everyone makes mistakes. It’s a natural part of being human and most of the time, it’s not nearly as big of a deal as we make it out to be. So, in this episode, Phoenix will be sharing her experience with being mistaken and explaining why she is no longer fearful of being wrong.

Have you ever been on a run and those last few minutes feel as though they drag on for hours? It feels even harder than the majority of the run you’ve already completed. Why is it that when we’ve made it so far the final touches of a task are usually the most difficult? In this episode, Phoenix will be sharing her own experience with that last doggone mile and explaining why perseverance to the end is critical.

What are you building? Are you proud of it? Are you shouting about it from the rooftops? In this episode, Phoenix will be sharing why she is no longer keeping quiet about what she is building. Instead, she is sharing the excitement with her friends so that everyone can be involved in the creation process. Get excited because big things are coming!For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

There are people and places that are available around you that won’t leave you feeling strange, unwanted, or uncertain. So, why are you still showing up in the places that make you uncomfortable? In this episode, Phoenix explains why she no longer feels the need to justify herself when she doesn’t want to be somewhere or around someone anymore. For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

What are you willing to do to get what you want? Are you willing to compromise your integrity and who you are to get the things you desire? Phoenix doesn’t believe that you should have to. In this episode, she will be sharing why you should listen to the signs or the red flags telling you “no,” even if it is for something you truly want so that you don’t end up having to deal with the consequences later on.

When entering the dating world, it’s important to be picky. You want to be certain that your new romantic partner is going to fit into your life and in turn, you will fit into theirs. Compromises are necessary and of course, you will never find your 100% perfect match. In this episode, Phoenix reflects on her dating life and shares why she is putting in the work to be more patient in her life and how that may end up helping her find a partner in the future.

When you are a creative or you’re passionate about your work, it can be easy to get stuck into your craft and work during all hours of the day. You might feel as though you need to spend more time sleeping, relaxing or hanging out with friends. You might feel as though you shouldn’t be okay with spending so much time on the thing that you love to do. In this episode, Phoenix addresses this topic and shares this piece of advice: You don’t have to apologize for being available to your craft.

We have all heard the saying “knowledge is power.” There are many ways to leverage your information and the more you have the better off you may be. Unfortunately, we often get caught up in all of the information that we have the amount of power that I may yield, saying things that we probably should not have said. So, in this episode, Phoenix will be sharing the importance of thinking before you speak and having a plan for how you’re going to use your knowledge moving forward.For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

What drives you? Are you driven by your wants or are you driven by your needs? Contrary to popular belief, neither of these answers are incorrect. It’s simply about what works for you. So, in this episode, Phoenix will be sharing what works for her and explaining how she plans on accomplishing her goals this year.For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

When you’re pursuing a worthwhile goal or dream it’s almost inevitable that at some point you’ll think about giving up. We all do it. Sometimes we don’t even realize that we’re doing it. So, how do we stop ourselves from giving up the dream and actually continue forward instead? In this episode, Phoenix will be sharing her advice for staying on track and achieving the things you need to do. For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

It can sometimes feel as though the ability to say “no” is absent in some people. People might look at you differently, you might upset your friend or you may even disappoint someone if you decline to do what they are asking of you. However, saying “yes” to everything isn’t beneficial to anyone, including yourself. In this episode, Phoenix will be sharing why it is okay to say “no” to the things you don’t have time to do or you simply don’t want to do. That power is in the hands of no one but yourself. For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

These days, it feels as though everyone is looking for a reason to tear you down. We focus so much on the negativity and the people who are saying these negative things without giving thought to the people who are really supporting us. So, in this episode, Phoenix is sharing why she is now putting the emphasis on the people who want to see her win and no longer paying attention to those who want to see her fail. For show notes, resources, and more, visit: https://www.saywharadio.com/listen/lifeasp/

With resistance comes struggle. You can either continue to fight if you feel as though the reward will be beneficial enough to struggle through the resistance, or you can decide to stop the fight and move on. Phoenix believes the same is true for knowing your people, knowing your truth, or knowing your audience. If you have to struggle to be with someone, is it worth it to be with them? It’s time to start understanding your audience and acknowledging when you’re not the right audience for someone else.