Pandora's Box With Kaleah

Every dysfunctional family system have the same family roles that children fall into, regardless of the type or level of dysfunction.  As I child you may have fall into the role of the Hero/Golden Child, the Scapegoat/Troublemaker, the Clown/Mascott, or the Invisible Child/Lost Child.  Can you identify with any of these.  In this episode of Pandora's Box she talks about family roles but focus's on The Invisible Child and how this role impacted her life.  For more information on Kaleah's work, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com. To check out Kaleah's Latest Book "The Path to Self Love," go here. 

In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about her recent move into her truck camper, the release of her book "The Path to Self Love," and the journey through darkness and light. This episode expands on the importance of developing a strong and resilient relationship with the SELF and find the inner strength and courage to meet life's challenges head on.  For more information about Kaleah's work please visit: www.pathbacktoself.com www.narcissismfree.com Check out Kaleah's New Book on Amazon

Self love is a journey and as Kaleah prepares for the launch of her new book "The Path to Self Love" she talks a bit about that journey and the hard work of learning how to truly love yourself. The Tagline of this book is "Soul Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse and Toxic Relationships."  There is a deeper focus on what needs to be healed within ourselves to change our patterns and toxic relationship dynamics.  If you are interested in getting a FREE review copy of this book in exchange for an honest Amazon review at Launch (June 9th), Please Email Kaleah and put "review copy" in the subject line:   For more information about Kaleah's work, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com    

On the path to living the life of your dreams, there are always those who want to stomp the life out of your dreams.  These are the narcissists, addicts and often those who have failed to live their own dreams. In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah talks about her own process of living her dreams, and how you can take those steps forward, in the direction of your own dreams.  Don't let others stop you from doing what you have come here to do. For more information about Kaleah and her work, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com

Soul contracts are those agreements that we have made in another time/space for a particular purpose.  But we often keep those contracts alive when we really need to break them.  In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah does a deep dive into soul contracts, what they are, how they serve us, and when to let them go.  For more information on Kaleah's work, to schedule counseling or coaching or find out about books and audios, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

One of the most popular topics in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, is that feeling of being immediately replaced by someone else, and how that makes you feel.  Our minds do all kinds of tricks where we devalue ourselves and imagine the "NEW" person, is untainted and perfect in the eyes of the Narcissist.  But this is far from the truth. In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into explaining what exactly is going on behind the scenes, rather than the shiny social media presentation you have been exposed to.  For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The Hero's Journey is the journey from the child self that has adopted the programs, patterns and beliefs of its culture, to the mature adult, who has learned to walk his/her own path.  It is a journey where the old self is obliterated in order for the true self to emerge.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah delves into the archetype of the Hero and its journey through darkness, difficulty, and self betrayal, through the womb of transformation and the rebirth into its new form.  Kaleah draws from Joseph Campbell's work "The Hero of a Thousand Faces."

We live in a world filled with comparison and the result of our comparing ourselves to those we perceive as being somehow better than we are, we end up feeling we are somehow not enough. It was Dr. Ernest Holmes, the Founder of Science of Mind, who first said “Comparison is the Cause of All Unhappiness.”  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into our tendency to compare ourselves with others and looks at ways to turn this around so that we can create true happiness. For more information on Kaleah's work please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Addictions are our way of staying in denial and avoiding the pain of the past or the present.  As we release our addictions to people, food and substances, as well as other addictions, we begin to heal our deepest core wounds.  We learn to forgive ourselves for the wrongs of the past and develop a type of self-love that helps us create an amazing NOW! In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah talks about her own journey through addiction, how fasting has helped to bring more emotional pain to the surface, and how the twelve step program is helping to heal residual codependency.  For more information visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The best way to live your best life is to make yourself a priority and take the Path Back to Self.  This is a path of self knowledge and understanding.  It involves deep inner exploration as well as making outer changes.  In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah talks about how to embark upon the Path Back to SELF and address the things that might be standing in your way of living YOUR BEST LIFE! For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Narcissists are master manipulators and use many different types of techniques to control others.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah explores some of the techniques such as negging, DARVO and gaslighting so that you may be more aware and avoid falling into the narcissists trap.  For more information about Kaleah's work with narcissistic abuse and the Path Back to Self, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

When recovering from Narcissistic Abuse, the pain and the heartache can last a long time.  As much as we would love to put the nightmare behind us, sometimes it holds on like a parasite that just won't let go of its hold. In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into why we hold onto this lingering pain, or why this pain holds onto us.  She gives the top seven reasons that we continue to be plagued by pain, long after the relationship is over. For more information on Kaleah's work or to schedule a private session with Kaleah, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com

Borderline Personality Disorder, like Narcissistic Personality Disorder is confusing, deceptive and soul destroying in so many ways for those who love them.  But there is actually a psychological reason that one develops BPD that may be heIpful to understand.  What is borderline and why do they split? In this episode of Pandora's Box radio, Kaleah talks about the splitting of the borderline personality into the all good, all bad Mother and how this projection actually has nothing to do with the partner that is being projected upon.  If you are a partner of a borderline or healing from borderline abuse, this will help you to understand what you have gone through.  For more information about Kaleah's work and to schedule a private session, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

Taking a really deep look at Codependency as described in the Twelve Step Program.  Doing a fearless and searching moral inventory (step four.)  Asking the question if narcissists can also be codependent?  How to make healthy choices and continue moving toward recovery. In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah delves into step four and explores her own process of looking deeply at Codependent behaviors. For more information about Kaleah's work go to: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The most powerful way for people with Codependent Traits to heal and recover is to get really honest with themselves.  This allows us to face our dragons, and change those parts of ourselves that get in the way of our having healthy, happy relationships.  In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah gets honest about her own dysfunctional relationship patterns and talks about the power of recovery to change these patterns. For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

The Day of Reckoning is the day when someone who needs recovery in their lives comes up against the circumstances that force them to look at themselves in a way they never did before.  It is the "Wake UP" call.  It is the day when one realizes he or she can't go back to the way it was.  They can only move forward to something more sustainable and healthy. In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah dives into this important time when denial comes crashing down and the truth of one's need for healing and recovery is exposed.  For more information please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com

The Twelve Step Recovery Programs have found to bring success to many people seeking to recover from their addictions to people, things or substances.  In this episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah talks about her own recovery process from Codependency and how the Twelve Step recovery program is helping to take her to the next level. She delves into why the twelves steps might be helpful to anyone trying to recover from narcissistic abuse, and codependent patterns of helping, enabling, fixing, healing, and rehabilitating others.  Bring the focus back to yourself and your own healing journey by entering a twelve step recovery program. For more information about Kaleah's work with narcissistic abuse and recovery please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

When we go through great challenges in life, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually we need to activate the warrior within in order to find our way through.  But what does it mean to really be the warrior? In this episode of Pandora's Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into the journey of the Spiritual Warrior to combat the darkness both within and without in order to harness one's greatest light and power! For more information on Kaleah's work with Narcissistic Abuse and Personal Empowerment, please visit: www.narcissismfree.com  

The Twin Flame Myth is a belief that you are one soul divided in half and put into two different bodies.  When you find that “other half,” it is like coming home.  It feels amazing!  But what happens when your “other half” doesn’t love you anymore, doesn’t treat you right, is narcissistic and/or is downright abusive?  Will your belief that this is your other half, keep you holding onto a relationship that is painful and destructive to you? In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah dispels the myth of the Twin Flame and also brings in the truth of your true twin flame, healing your separation and finding yourself worthy of the love you seek.  Watch the Twin Flame Series on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/kaleahsong/videos For counseling, coaching or hypnotherapy visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com  

If you have a pattern of getting involved or staying involved in toxic relationships with addicts, narcissists or borderlines, you are very likely a codependent?  But what exactly is codependency and how does this cause us to migrate towards unhealthy relationships? In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into Codependency,  how it shows up in our lives and relationships and the journey to heal so we can find healthy, satisfying relationships. For more information on Kaleah's work please visit: www.narcissismfree.com www.pathbacktoself.com