Date/able Podcast

Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? We're revisiting the first of our limited social experiment series 'Exit Interview' where we're chatting with the exes, past dates, and anyone else who give insight into to what may be getting in the way of our guest finding love. Join us as we sit down with Tia and hear how she's been struggling with dating – and then what her exes and past situationships have to say! We'll discuss why playing it cool ruins your dating life, the ways you can recover from CGS, and how to go after what you actually want in a relationship. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.Listen t

When another date or budding relationship doesn't work out, it can feel like a sucker-punch in the stomach. You start to question what you're doing wrong and if you're destined to be alone forever. Trust us, we get it and we've been here ourselves too. On this week's Best of Brunch talk we're talking about what rejection really means, why it keeps happening, and how this can actually be a great thing if you choose to see it that way.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern datingWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland

It's been a big week! Writing a book brings up a lot – especially when the topic is around dating and relationships! Julie is discussing how she processed her own dating history and patterns, including reconnecting with her ex 4 years later.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch

Our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order! We'll recap the wild announcement week along with a flashback episode to a still very hot topic today: how to meet people IRL with ease and confidence. Our guest Amanda shares how she approaches guys IRL with a nothing to lose attitude. We discuss how make moves in an organic way, why approaching IRL is not as scary as it seems, and how to change your mentality by recognizing what you could gain from a simple hello. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiah

How do you keep your heart open when it's been trampled on a few too many times to count? Whether you've recovering from a big breakup or have had a string of dates that just didn't work out, it can be incredibly challenging to stay open to the next romantic prospect while also protecting your heart. But in this best of brunch talk we're going to discuss how to balance still staying hopeful in a way that feels realistic, ways to avoid burnout, and why you can still stay open for that amazing person who is just around the corner.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern datingWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out VIIA and use

Our BIG ANNOUNCEMENT is here....along with a flashback to one of the most positive guests we've had on the pod. We guarantee you'll feel more hopeful and optimistic after hearing Meredith's story about how she's been able to actually enjoy dating in her 30's and thrive being single – even after a brutal breakup that involved infidelity. We discuss how detrimental breakups can be the catalyst for growth, how to actually enjoy the process of dating (even on the apps), and why personal growth is the most important gift you can give yourself while dating. Trigger Warning: We discuss infidelityFollow Meredith at @meredithtxFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cl

Do they like you? Or not? We're bringing back one of our most listened to #brunchtalks to dissect the age old question of how to tell if someone likes you, especially in times when it's not entirely clear. We'll discuss how to navigate situations where there are mixed signals, why you can have that fabulous first date (make-out sesh included) and never hear back from the person again, and the #1 thing you should be asking yourself when you are dating.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern datingUse the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.co

What makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're bringing back our most popular episode ever with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab of how people form and maintain relationships. We discuss how ideal partner preferences play into partner selection, why we often think we know what we want when we don't, and the secret of when attraction can build over time. Plus we'll kick off the episode with a new intro recapping Yue's solo trip + the intimacy workshop she attended, and Julie's bday highs and lows. Plus BIG announcement coming next week!!!Check out Paul's work at http://pauleastwick.com/ or @pauleastwick on Twitter.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablep

Would you rather stay in a mediocre relationship than to start over and be single? The thought of dating "from scratch" can be daunting but does it really justify staying in a relationship not meeting your needs? We're re-airing one of our most popular brunch talks, where we explore whether to try to make your current relationship better or cut bait – and how to reframe your mindset about what "starting over" even means.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Suppli

Are you sick of the ghosting, bread crumbing, flaking, zombie-ing, and the myriad of other bad dating behavior? Yup, us too. Yue is discussing her theory on why it seems to keep getting worse every year, but more importantly how we can all squash this type of behavior and head into a dating utopia. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com* Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE* Go to badlandsfood.com/DAT

Have you ever wanted to get into the mind of men who act like they're interested only until you have sex? We're bringing up a spicy one from the archives of our most controversial guest to-date, Leon (if you're an OG listener, you probably remember this one!) who is here to deliver a PSA to women as a reformed f*ckboy who is now married and settled down. We're giving this a reboot to reflect on this current day, now that we've processed this "PSA" with updated takeaways to remind us that all guys aren't like this and how to not let the bad eggs get in the way of finding love. And for the good guys out there: this may give more understanding to experiences women may have with not so great men. Trigger Warning: This episode shows a manipulative side of men which may be triggering if you've experienced this type of behavior yourself. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Inter

We've been told from an early age, there's 'The One' – that person who is our best friend, our soulmate, the person we belong with. But is that even realistic? And how do we know if we are making the right choice? It can be tricky especially if we have had little relationship experience to benchmark it against. Join us for this week's 'Best of brunch talk' as we discuss if 'The One' even exists, signs you are with the right person, and how to distinguish between fear and if this person is actually a good fit for you or notGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern datingUse the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE * Check out Armoire and use my code DAT

To kick off this "off season" hot, we're bringing back an extremely relevant episode where we did a deep dive into Ashley Madison, the dating site exclusively for affairs. Maybe you caught the recent documentary on Netflix, but even not, we'll go into the data breach that caused millions of users' intimate data to be exposed, wrecking marriages and destroying lives. But more importantly, we'll hear directly from users of the site and staff members about why they turned to Ashley Madison in the first place and the psychology behind cheating. Buckle up, as this is a juicy one!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at

It's hard not to imagine a future with someone especially when dating has been a struggle and you *finally* meet someone you like! But what happens when you get ahead of yourself and how does this impact the budding romance? We're re-airing one of our crowd favorites in our on-off season for the best of brunch talk. Join us as we talk about how to to give yourself a gut check if you're getting ahead of yourself, how even the best of us can fall into fantasy mode, and a surefire way to set expectations according to what you know.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern datingUse the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great

We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.Related Episodes:The Truth About RelationshipsHow To Have A Healthy RelationshipWhat's Your Communication StyleFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Use the promo DATEABLE for $10 off our Meeting People IRL Masterclass NOW until July 9th: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/programsOur Sponsors:* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.ar

Is dating the only way to find your person? Contrary to popular belief, we do think there are other ways that aren't the typical date sequence. Tune in for our season 18 finale as we discuss some viable alternative ways to get into a relationship, how to stay intentional even if you aren't "dating", and why whatever you do there's hope out there that your person is just around the corner!Have no fear! We're not going anywhere. Stay tuned into our "off season" where we shake it up a bit with different formats, guest pods, and series. Subscribe so you don't miss anything!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all summer: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclassOur Sponsors:* Armoire: Visit armoire.s

When you're at a place when you've learned to say no to things that don't feel right...how do you also strike that balance of saying yes without settling or sacrificing? For the last #brunchtalk of the season (don't worry, there will be more!), we're discussing how to assess your compatibility meter, the proper expectations of when you should "know" with someone, and why it's possible to hold certain boundaries while being open to the possibilities of love.Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all summer: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclassOur Sponsors:* Armoire: Visit armoire.style/DATEABLE to get

Are setbacks inevitable while dating? We think so – and it's more about how you handle them to move forward. We're joined today with setback expert Amy Shoenthal to take us through the setback cycle to navigate everything from breakups, rejection, thinking you met “the one” only to realize it wasn’t, and everything in between. We're discussing what constitutes as a setback, how they can actually be a force to bring you in the right direction, and why setbacks can help you if you let them.Related Episodes:Moving Forward After A BreakupHow to Have A Healthy RelationshipFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Follow Amy @amysho, learn more https://www.amyshoenthal.com/ and pick up the book 'The Setback Cycle' wherever books are sold.Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all sum

What happens if you have totally different political views than someone you're seeing...or in this case have been f*cking for the last 15 years? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss how much political affiliation matters in the scheme of your relationships, what the line is between a friends-with-benefits and someone you date, and how you can decide if you can come to terms with varying views or if this is a no go for your relationship. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all summer: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclassOur Sponsors:* Armoire: Visit armoire.style/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your first month, t

We've talked about Dating Sabbaticals but what about Relationship Sabbaticals? Yue is reflecting on the conversation we had with Mark Groves this week about the need to take an intentional pause and how this could serve her relationships – past, present, and future. If you've wondered before if you should stay or go, or when the relationship is worth fighting for, this one is for you!Related Episodes:The Key To Getting Back Together With Your Ex w/ Mark GrovesFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all summer: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclassOur Sponsors:* Armoire: Visit armoire.style/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your first month, that’s up to $125 OFF! Never worry about what to wear again—try Armoire today!* Badland