The Art Of Love Podcast

How do you know if someone is the one for you, especially if you have doubts or society doesn't agree with your choice?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia uses a line from a recent Jim Carrey speech to illustrate how to pick the "One".

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to have sex with her personal trainer however he's not making any moves, even though she's given him the green light.  Dating/relatiionship expert Lucia explains what's going on.

Why does dating start out as being fun and eventually burn out and turn into boredom?  It's usually because you're doing one or more of these three "romance killers".  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what they are and how to stop them.

Why do you want a lover or a romantic partner?  Why do you drive a certain car or dress a certain way?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the reason we do almost everything is to feel "this" way.  Find out what "this" is, in this philosophical podcast.

What should you do if you're sexually frustrated because you don't have a lover?  Should you settle and just take whoever is willing and able or is there another alternative?  Besides a cold shower, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this common issue.

Are people on dating sites or social media flakier than the norm?  If so, why and how should you deal with it?  Dating/relationship expert breaks it down for you and explains why it's not you, it's them.

Are most guys really jerks or is there something else going on?  Why are guys so nice in the beginning and then turn into jerks?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether jerks really exist.

When you first start dating someone, how often should you text or call?  How often should you see them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make sure you're not over-doing it and turning the other person off.

When was the last time you felt anticipation?  Although most of the world may function on instant gratification, dating and relationships cannot and should not be rushed.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how anticipation can make a difference in your love life.

What should you do if you're dating someone who is "nice" but there is little to no chemistry?  Should you wait to see if things change or end it right away?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "nice" is not always the best criteria for picking a mate.

Does the 3-day rule still work, or did it ever?  Should you wait to call someone when you get their number or is it okay to call within 24 hours?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

This week's email is from a guy who's interested in a woman on a dating site who seems to be out of his league.  He currently doesn't have a job or a car and wonders if there's any hope.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises him as to what he should do.

Are you impatient and restless about finding the love of your life?  Do you wish they were here already and wonder what's taking so long?  Find out how the story of a couple moving a mattress can be an inspiration while you're waiting.

Is it a good idea to ask your friends for advice on your love life?  What are the downfalls of getting help from someone who isn't a professional?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why friends often do more harm than good.

What's the best way to bond with a guy?  Does having long phone conversations or texting sessions lead to bonding?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what is the best way to bond with a guy.

Is a "friends with benefits" relationship a good idea or should you hold out for someone who wants a real relationship?  What are the benefits and who gets them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

Is there anything good that can come from a breakup, even a temporary one?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what updating an app has in common with losing someone who's important to you.

Whether you're male or female, single or in a relationship, you have an opinion about Valentine's Day.  Love it or hate it, find out how to get through the day and why guys have such a problem with it!

If you're not having much luck with online dating, you may be making a mistake in your first email, when you contact a woman you're interested in.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you may be doing wrong and how to fix it.

Did a guy break up with you and not give you a good reason as to why?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the common mistake women make that leaves men with no choice but to end the relationshp.