The Art Of Love Podcast

How do you keep the sex exciting in a long term relationship?  What are some common misconceptions people have about sex?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions and more in this upbeat interview with dating coach Devan Brown.

Is it ever a good idea to remain friends with an ex?  If so, under what circumstances?  A recent study shows that staying friends with an ex says something about your personality - and it's not flattering!  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, most of the time, you should not remain friends with an ex.

It's safe to say that most people are not totally honest in their online dating profile.  What do men lie about vs what do women lie about? If you hate it when women lie about their age or if you hate having to reveal your age, find out how dating/relationship expert Lucia says you should handle this touchy situation.

What is a "love zombie" and what should you do when you encounter one?  Should you run screaming in the other direction or embrace them?  Dating/relationship Lucia expert reveals what to do when someone you've dated in the past returns "from the dead".

Should you date someone less attractive than you normally would, so that they'll treat you better?  Will a relationship with someone "ugly" work out better because they'll be so grateful to be dating you?  Find out what dating/relationship expert Lucia says are the factors that determine whether something will work out.

What's the first thing you should do when someone breaks up with you?  Should you ask why, beg them to reconsider or simply say "Ok"?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 1 simple thing you must do if you want the best chance at having your partner change their mind.

When it comes to dating and relationships, people often "play themselves".  They don't know how to relieve the anxiety they feel, so they behave in ways that give them short term relief but long term negative consequences.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through some dating scenarios where people often end up making things worse and reveals what to do instead.

What should you do if your girlfriend regularly cuddles with other guys but says it's because they're childhood friends?  Is it cause for concern or harmless?  Should you believe her or is something  else is going on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's really going on.

Should you date someone who recently got out of a relationship?  If not, how long should you wait to make sure they're emotionally available?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to navigate through a situation where someone is not yet over their ex.

Is it possible to get an ex back when you pushed them out of your life because of your insecurities?  What should you do and not do when you're trying to win someone back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to get back an ex.

Do you constantly go on 1st dates that never turn into 2nd dates?  Are you dating the wrong people or is it something you're doing?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives pointers on ways you may be turning off your dates.

Should you go in for a kiss on the first date?  If a woman gives you her cheek when you try to kiss her for the first time, should you forget her number or give her another chance?  Dating/relationship Lucia clears up the confusion around how a first date should end.

Confidence is the #1 quality women look for in men.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia interviews Scott, a personal trainer (www.dofit.life), who lost his excess weight and gained back his confidence.  Find out how transforming your body can make you more secure and give you a ticket into a world where women chase YOU!

The irony about insecurity is that you're afraid you're going to lose your partner, but often, it's your own insecure actions and words that cause you to lose your partner, not another person.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses several scenarios where insecurity may pop up and how to handle them.

A breakup is a breakup - whether it's with a lover, business relationship or your cable provider.  It always follows the same pattern.  Find out about dating/relationship expert Lucia's recent "breakup" and how it applies to the end of all relationships.

What should you do if you forgot your partner's birthday or they forgot yours?  Does it mean they don't care about you?  Should you break up with them over this?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do in this touchy situation.

This week's email is from a young man who is dating his aunt.  He claims they're in love and he's wondering how to handle the situation.  Dating/expert Lucia explains that this happens more often than you'd think and lets him know exactly what he needs to do.

What should a woman do if she begins to date a man and he tells her he's not interested in a relationship but is looking for "adut play".  Should she go along with it, hoping it will turn into something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets the record straight as to exactly how to handle this common situation.

This week's podcast is about a guy who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for 4 years!  He says he treated his girlfriend like a queen and doesn't know why she keeps ending things.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the causes of this type of relationship and how to fix it.

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a man who said he is not dating anyone else.  However, she thinks he's seeing at least 2 other women.  Should she confront him with this information?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets her straight as to how to handle this situation.