The Art Of Love Podcast

How is your relationship with your car similar to a romantic relationship?  What makes you start to think about changing cars, or partners?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains, with tongue in cheek, why losing trust in your car is similar to losing trust in your partner.

What should you do if your partner wants to check your phone, is jealous and thinks your clothing is too revealing?  Should you be understanding or is it time to end the relationship?  Dating/relationship Lucia expert discusses what these red flags are all symptoms of and why you need to run!

Is there ever a good reason to break no contact with an ex (unless you have children or business together)?  Will contacting them make them rethink the breakup and want to get back with you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what really happens when you break no contact.

What should you do when someone breaks up with you but wants to remain friends?  Should you continue to see them or stop all contact?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals if and when you should let go of an ex.

Why does online dating seem to be so difficult these days?  Why do people you're chatting with disappear, seemingly without reason?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how Tinder drastically changed the dating scene and how the "swiping" culture can be fixed.

Did you know that not every breakup is real?  Sometimes, when someone breaks up with you, it's because they want to shake you up and see if you'll step up to the plate.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia describes the difference between a real and fake breakup.

Women are usually ready to be exclusive and to make a commitment a lot sooner than men are.  This usually leads to fights, misunderstandings and breakups.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the easy way to get what you want with a man.

When you first start to date someone, the only thing you should be focused on is raising their "interest level" in you, and everything else will take care of itself. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives examples of what to say in order to keep things light and upbeat and in doing so, raise the interest level.

When someone breaks up with you, is it better to unfollow/unfriend them on social media or should you keep them on your pages?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the benefits of both choices and what you should do if your goal is to get back with your ex.

What is the definition of confrontation?  Is it possible to confront someone without having them get defensive?  In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to express your feelings about what's going on in a way that doesn't lower interest level.

There's ever only one reason why anyone breaks up with anyone!  They may say it's something else, but any other reasons are all symptoms of this main reason.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you can do about it in this groundbreaking podcast.

How can you tell if someone isn't that interested in you or if they're not available because they're already seeing someone?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the main difference between someone who's just not into you and someone who's just not available.

Is it possible to talk someone out of breaking up with you or into coming back?  If not, are there any exceptions?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two circumstances under which you may be able to talk your ex into coming back.

In between matching and meeting someone from a dating site, many people are making mistakes when they start to communicate with their match.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells men what they need to do to be more appealing to women online and reveals the number 1 thing women need to make sure they don't do.Find the book "Online Dating: 238 Questions - Getting to Know Someone" on Amazon

Are you getting burned out with online dating?  Do you spend days or weeks chatting with a potential love interest online, only to find out there's no chemistry when you finally talk or meet?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you must do sooner rather than later in order to find out if there's a true connection or if you should keep it moving.

It was recently announced that Mariah Carey & her backup dancer boyfriend Bryan Tanaka had broken up over his jealousy & insecurity over Mariah spending time with her ex-husband Nick Cannon.  Dating/relationship Lucia explains why you don't have to worry about who else is spending time with your partner but instead who you really need to worry about!

If you follow the 30-Day no contact rule and reach out to your ex after 30 days, you're in for an unpleasant surprise.  Any "expert" that touts this rule doesn't know what they're talking about.  Dating/relationship Lucia explains why your ex needs a lot more time than 30 days and why you don't need to worry about them forgetting about you if you don't contact them.

Does crying and begging someone that has broken up with you ever work?  Should you get back with someone who broke up with you, because, after all, the heart wants what the heart wants?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why this popular way of looking at romantic relationships doesn't work.This episode of The Art of Love was sponsored by www.SmileMakersCollection.com

Why do we fear rejection, even if it's with someone who doesn't know us?  Is it possible to have a "who cares" attitude when it comes to rejection?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what it takes to be able to easily deal with rejection and move on.

In the Bravo TV show "Imposters", Maddie is a con woman who get guys to fall in love with her, propose, get married and then she runs off with their money.  How is she able to get these guys to fall for her?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 3 powerful phrases Maddie used on the show that you can apply to your own life.