The Art Of Love Podcast

If you cheated and were dumped, is it possible to get your ex back? Should you use the no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what to do if you want to get your ex back after you cheated on them.

If you want your ex back, it's scary to think that they may never come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 12 signs your ex will never come back. The more of these signs you see, the less chance you have of getting your ex back. However, it's possible to see one or more of these signs and still get your ex back.

Before I specialized in helping people get their ex back, I was a "general" dating expert, discussing many different dating topics. When I was broken up with in 2014, I wanted him back and started to look for information on how to do this. That's when I discovered that a lot of the "dating coaches" who specialized in getting an ex back, didn't know what they were talking about. Thus began my journey of learning how to get an ex back effectively. In this video I tell you about my relationship and breakup, which led to me deciding to specialize in ex back coaching.

Are you losing girls by asking questions or making comments that turn them off? Being hot will get you in the door, but you can easily mess it up with the things you say. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should never say to a girl.

Being dumped is one of the most painful experiences you'll ever have.  It usually comes as a surprise and you'll feel a rollercoaster of emotions.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the 7 stages you'll go through after you've been broken up with.

It can be very confusing when you've been broken up with, yet your ex starts to contact you after a period of not hearing from them or they stay in contact. What do they want? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the many reasons why your ex wants to stay in touch.

When you're dealing with a break up, one of the biggest fears is that your ex will quickly move on to someone else, and you'll never get them back. Is it possible to know if it's totally over and they've definitely moved on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the six signs your ex is dating a rebound.

Before your ex can even begin to think of possibly getting back with you, there's something that needs to happen. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what needs to change, in order for your ex to want to try again.

Are you losing guys by asking questions or making comments that turn them off? Being hot will get you in the door, but you can easily mess it up with the things you say. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should never say to a guy.

The biggest mistake people make when their ex wants them back, is to take them back too easily. This makes them look low value. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 6 questions to ask your ex when they tell you they want you back. If they're unable or unwilling to answer them, you should think twice about getting back together.

Use this meditation to manifest a text or call from your ex or a specific person. Using the law of attraction, get your specific person to text you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia guides you through a meditation to manifest a text from your ex. 

When you first start to date someone, there are several red flags to look out for, if you're looking for a relationship. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a listener and points out all the warning signs she ignored, which led to a breakup. Ignore them at your own risk.

If you want the best chance at things working out if you get back with your ex, there's something you absolutely must do, or you may get dumped again. What is it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you should be doing during no contact, so that you don't blow your second chance if your ex takes you back.

Is it possible to get your ex back if you begged and pleaded with them not to break up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what works to get an ex back if you didn't handle the break up well, using an uplifting success story.

If you're in no contact during the coronavirus pandemic, you've probably started to wonder whether this is an exception to the no contact rule. Should you make an exception and break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who can break no contact a this point, and who should absolutely not break it.

Why do women seem to prefer bad boys or jerks over a nice guy? Do nice guys have to start being mean to women, in order to be successful with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what women really want in a man and the main difference between nice guys and jerks.

The word narcissist is often used to describe an ex. This wasn't always the case. Is it possible that there has been an increase in narcissistic personality disorders? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains whether your ex is really a narcissist or if there's something else going on.

How can you get your ex back if you were dumped for being too needy? Will no contact work in this case, or do you need to do something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you absolutely must do if you were too needy in your relationship and now want your ex back.

Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.

If you've done no contact correctly, there's a good chance you'll hear from your ex.  How you handle re-connecting with your ex will make the difference between getting back together or losing them again.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should not say to your ex when you text/talk to them after no contact.