The Art Of Love Podcast

The reason your ex broke up with you is usually because their interest level in you went down. However, what causes someone to lose attraction and dump their partner? Using points from LMFT Tory Eletto (@nytherapist on IG), dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 9 reasons why your ex left you.

Just because you haven't heard from your ex, it doesn't mean they're over you. There are always signs that they still have feelings for you and may want to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 20 signs that your ex is not over you.

Many people don't get their exes back because their actions after the breakup push their ex even further away, instead of bringing them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the two factors are which determine whether or not you'll get your ex back.

If you have an anxious attachment style and pleaded with your ex, along with sending millions of texts after the breakup, is it still possible to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a break up with a woman who did all those things, yet still managed to get her ex back, along with a marriage proposal.

What is your ex thinking and feeling right after the break up? Do they feel the same after 30, 45 and 60 days of no contact? What will it take for them to reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the stages a dumper goes through after the break up and how long each stage lasts.

The no contact rule isn't a cure all for every dating or relationship issue you have. It's only to be used for very specific situations, otherwise, it will backfire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the situations where you should definitely not be using no contact.

Should you move on from your ex, should you write your ex a letter, how can you find out if your ex wants to get back together, is it a bad sign if your ex is mad at you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers all these questions and more in part 3 of No Contact Q & A.

If you're in no contact after a breakup, the chances of hearing from your ex are very high. However, in order to have the best chance at getting your ex back, you have to wait for the right time to respond. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two things to look for, that will let you know it's the right to time to answer your ex's text or return their call

Back by popular demand - more no contact success stories to keep you motivated to stay in no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails and comments from viewers who either heard from their ex during no contact or decided that they were better off without their ex.

Contrary to what most dating coaches say, if you want the best chance at getting your ex back, you must ignore them when they reach out, unless they say something significant. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story of.a woman who was broken up with via email and got her ex back by ignoring him.

If you're doing no contact, there's a possibility that your ex's birthday will be coming up. Should you wish your ex a "Happy birthday"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should absolutely NOT break no contact to wish your ex a happy birthday.

You shouldn't always try to get an ex back, especially if the relationship was toxic. What behaviors should you walk away from? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on 2 emails from women who should not get back with their exes.

Is the no contact rule manipulative and a childish game? Should you just reach out to your ex, even though they broke up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the doubts some people have with no contact and addresses those concerns.

After a breakup, how do you know if you're the dumper or the dumpee? Is it always up to the dumper to get their ex back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to know if you're the dumper or dumpee and whether or not it's up to you or your ex to put the relationship back together.

Most people who start to use the no contact rule to get their ex back will end up breaking it at some point. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 8 ways to stop yourself from breaking no contact, and thus have a better chance at getting your ex back.

If you're in touch with your ex because you did no contact successfully, you want to make sure you don't mess up, otherwise, all the time spent in no contact will have been for nothing. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the common mistakes people make when they start to talk to or meet up with their ex, and what to do instead.

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, there's a very high probability you'll break it at some point, but your ex will not want to get back with you. Will no contact work a second or even third time? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who is most likely to break no contact, why they do it and how to prevent breaking it.

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, at some point you may receive the "I miss you" text. Do they really mean it? Should you answer? What should you say? Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides 40 useful, funny and sarcastic responses to send when your ex says they miss you.

There's a mistake that many people who get back together make, which usually leads to another break up. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what that mistake is and what to do instead.

Why do women prefer alpha males and get turned off when a man they're dating starts to behave as a beta male? Is it possible to get a woman back if you behaved as a beta either in the relationship or after being dumped? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what a man needs to do to get his ex back if he acted as a beta male.