The Great Love Debate With Brian Howie

What are the fundamental lessons to lean on so you can move forward in your love life? Brian takes a look back at a dozen shows that made a lasting difference - how to shake up your dating strategy, the way out of a bad relationship, what everyone can do better, how to make your dates more meaningful, the best way to bounce back from divorce, ways to improve your sex life, and much, much more! All the greatest hits in one neat podcast!

Can you size somebody up in a moment in a way that's meaningful? Comedienne Mariza Brussolo stops by to talk about the upside of a spicy Latina, mistakes men make in approaching, thinking outside of the box, rattling people's comfort zones, judging people by their appearance, defining who you are, trying too hard to be funny, blowing people's minds, and much, much more!

Do we ever get exactly what we need in the way we need it? Brian takes a deep dive on relationship balance - why it matters, how to know if it has a chance, what to appreciate about your partner, when to speak up, putting limits on compromising, and why you might be happier liking somebody a little less!

Are men thisclose to figuring it all out? "The ManFixer" Heather Leigh stops by to make her case to save the males, how to find the beauty in conversation, the key to finding confidence, how to get what you want from him, a purpose of positive re-enforcement, moving beyond money, why right and wrong doesn't matter, and much, much more!

What lessons have we learned from these strange two years? Brian breaks down the hidden benefits, what deserves our appreciation, the things we missed most, the hidden cost of the quiet, what downtime did to dating, and why we are more likely to find love than ever!

GLD favorite (and WeDeepen founder) Christina Weber returns to talk about being part of a televised social experiment, confronting one's past, accepting a partner's flaws, owning your outcome, re-defining love, meeting expectations, what's ahead on the love landscape, and much, much more! Plus, what's it like to get surprised by Andy Cohen?

Is it the little things that are fatal to a partnership? Matthew Fray, viral blogging sensation and author of "This Is How Your Marriage Ends," stops by to talk about causing pain in a partnership, taking responsibility for behavior, breaking potentially harmful patterns, what men need to do better, why women need to communicate clearer, bouncing back from misery, how to stop causing conflict, why it takes a while to mature, and much, much more! Plus, why monsters tend to hide under the bed!

Is your sexual health and wellness the key to relationship happiness? Dr. Kanwal Bawa - aka "Dr. Sex Fairy" - stops by to talk about all the stuff we rarely talk about! From penis enlargement to vaginal rejuvenation, from better communication to increased stimulation, from emergency room embarrassments to groundbreaking treatments, from G-Spots to O-Shots - we've got everything you need to live and love longer, harder, and better!

Are the holidays a challenge for a whole lotta reasons? We open up our annual Mistletoe Mailbag to find out! "Crazy Rich Neighbors" co-hosts Mia & Tiffany are back to answer a snowy batch of listener letters, breaking down cooking concerns, overgifting, parental pressures, office party pitfalls, decorating disasters, and much, much more!

What makes some couples last...for a really long time? "Elevate Love" host Arielle Leavitt stops by to explore what she's learned about happy, positive and loving relationships! How good couples grow stronger, what they have in common, the things that pull us apart, how to get through hard times, and the key to growing older - together. Plus, why you should never mix red and white wine!

How do you feel about...how you feel about them? Brian breaks down the importance of pride - why you should have it, what it means, how it benefits a relationship, what it signals to others, and much, much more! Plus, would you like to be the subject of a hit song?

Are Love Languages just a bit...overrated? Brian breaks down what really matters in terms of what we need, when we need it, how to express it, learning to understand it, reading your partner, balancing your needs, going all-in on emotion, making private things public, creating positive patterns, and a better way to say "I Love You!"

"Love, exciting and new...come aboard!" Is it time to get out of your house, your city, and even your country to find what you are looking for? "The Solo Travel Expert" Shelby Frenette drops by to talk about her experiences as a cruise director, misconceptions about "singles" travel, the best places to go to meet someone, how to connect when traveling alone, and why a sense of adventure is the key to romance!

Is your first impression always your best impression? Frank Favaro, host of "The People Business" podcast, stops by to talk about making the most of an encounter, the value of positive energy, what you can learn from strangers, the importance of body language, how to overcome introversion, and what we have learned most about ourselves over the last year!

Is there a better way to say goodbye? Brian takes a look at the complex matter of ghosting - what it means, what it doesn't, why you should (and should not) care, how things changed, why it's become a sensitive topic, and when it's absolutely appropriate. Plus, he shares the perfect exit strategy!

Is there a different path to getting what you want out of a relationship? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus & Amy stop by to explore the reasons behind an alternative lifestyle, the upside of successful men, how to keep emotions in check, getting needs met, setting boundaries, having honest expectations, creating an arrangement you desire, and much, much more!

Are romantic comedies a good guide to love? "The One With All The 90s" host Katie Gross drops by to break down some of the best romantic comedies, why guys enjoy them too, the lessons they teach us, the ones to avoid, the rules to follow, and much, much more! Plus, Brian explains the theory of The Blue Lobster!

You get the dates...so why do you keep screwing them up? "Homanity" co-hosts Brad Kimmelman and Bree McCabe drop by to take on our listener's bad ideas, strategic screw-ups, second thoughts, fresh starts, false personas, too much too soon, too little too late, and a whole lot more! Plus, has Forensic Files ruined Friday night?

Is the key to a positive relationship experience...repetition? Brian takes a dive into partnership patterns, why habit-forming is crucial, the importance of rituals, how to find your traditions, the memories that linger, and why Sunday brunch is the most important meal of the week!

Wondering if the honeymoon is the end of the honeymoon? Bridesmaid For Hire founder (and GLD fave) Jen Glantz is back to share what the first year of marriage is really like, things you need to know about your spouse, how weddings have changed over the past year, the best way to have your best day, and the benefit of seeing a divorce lawyer before the wedding ceremony!