Love Life Connection

To my American listeners, happy Fourth of July!  Whether or not you’re celebrating, I thought this would be a great time to talk about INDEPENDENCE. Because the truth is, you can definitely have too much of a good thing. I’m in  no way advocating for you to be codependent on a partner or lose yourself in a relationship. But in relationships, people need to feel needed. If you’re not allowing the other person to feel needed, then you’re blocking off the opportunity for connection, vulnerability, and intimacy. Relationships can feel flat or stagnant, and my guess is the other person will eventually just leave. So if you… ...Have a hard time asking for help ...Can’t drop into your feminine energy ...Don’t even want your partner to open the door for you Then you’ll love this episode! Show notes: https://veronicagrant.com/episode175 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa is a dear friend of mine and I can’t wait for you to meet her too. In this episode, we talk about how to deal with curveballs, whether from a cancer diagnosis, a loss, or just being single when you thought you wouldn’t be. Lisa also shares her story and how her diagnosis led her to creating a non-profit organization around the importance of understanding dense breast tissue. https://veronicagrant.com/episode174 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I know you love to hate online dating! It’s easy to believe that online is the root of your dating issues, why you hate it, and why you can’t meet anyone. Because of that, I hear all the time women wanting to move into the offline space. Look, I have a lot of opinions around whether or not online dating is the problem, but I don’t go into that (too much) this episode. Instead, I help Judith figure out what she needs to do meet people offline. If you’re desiring to meet people in “real life” too, then you’ll love this episode. https://veronicagrant.com/episode173 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s no way around it, getting over an ex can bring up all the feels. THAT’S NORMAL. The goal isn’t to rejection proof yourself, it’s to build rejection resilience. As much as getting over an ex isn’t fun, it’s an incredible time for deep healing and growth. In today’s episode, I walk you through three ways to not just making getting over your ex easier, but how these are three hidden opportunities to grow as a person in your own life, and in your next relationship. https://veronicagrant.com/episode172 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oh the three month fizzle! It’s all too real. There could be MANY reasons your relationship fizzles out after 3 months. However, no matter what the reason is, if it’s a pattern, it means something deeper is going on. The answer is NOT date more, pick better, or try not to be too demanding or needy. Something deeper is going on that’s causing you to attract people who initially fill a void, so it feels GOOD, and then once that fades out, the issues begin to surface. In this episode, I share with Renee what to do instead, and what YOU can do to avoid the three-month fizzle. Once you listen, come let me know what stood out for you on Instagram! Comment on any of my photos or send me a DM. https://veronicagrant.com/episode171 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode isn’t just an interview, it’s two women about to get married having a candid conversation about what real love looks like. We talk about what beliefs we had to let go of and how we soften in ways so that real love could come in. https://veronicagrant.com/episode170 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s one thing to know intellectually that you want a partner and you want love. Unfortunately, that’s now how you manifest and bring things into your life. You have to go deeper than that. Just because you know you want a partner, doesn’t mean there aren’t emotional blocks that are keeping you out of love. In my call with Jenny, she’s attracting plenty of people, but they aren’t the right ones. We uncover why and tangible steps she can take to change that. https://veronicagrant.com/the-right-person/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m talking about the ONE THING that could be holding you back in your love life. It’s a real obstacle that can STALL your personal growth, and I know because it’s stalled mine and I’ve seen it stall clients’ growth too. I’m talking about the low-quality, bullshit questions you ask yourself that make you feel stuck. These are the questions that suck the soul out of you and can make you feel that you are not cut out for love. In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 most common low-quality, soul-sucking questions, why they keep you stuck, and how to change them into high quality questions that inspire more love, abundance, and you getting closer to real love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know by now that dating by your intuition is the name of the game here… but what if your intuition and fear kinda feel like… the same thing? The good news is they’re not. But it CAN be tricky to know if your gut is telling you to stay away. Or if fear is running the show, and ultimately holding you back. In my coaching conversation with Katy today, we dive into some important questions and techniques to use that’ll help her know the difference in no time. Once you apply these to your own life, you’ll have the clarity you need too. https://veronicagrant.com/intuition-and-fear/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, I invited another client of mine to share her story. I love Sara’s story because I know so many of you will be able to relate to it: wanting to be super independent, seeing the good in crappy guys and wanting to help them be the best they can. Sara had reached a point in her life where if she didn’t end up meeting someone, she was going to be okay with that. And that’s just about the time she met Zach… https://veronicagrant.com/when-you-least-expect-it/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s episode is a bit different. On the third Thursday of the month, I normally bring on a caller to coach them through a question or situationship. In today’s episode, I wanted to bring on Lauren. We’ve worked together 1x1 and she’s a member of the Love Action Tribe. I wanted her to share her path with you, and luckily, she agreed! Because if you’re anything like me, you want to hear from “real” people what this journey actually looked like for them. The theory and steps to take are nice, but lord knows it’s never as straightforward as that. So if your path is feeling rather loop de loop, I hope Lauren’s journey will inspire you. No one has anything more or less special than you. No one knows anything you don’t. They’re just doing the work, and you can do that too. https://veronicagrant.com/episode165 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whew, can you say vulnerability hangover? I made an intention during the New Moon in March to show up even more real for you. To tell the truth. And I’ve shared a lot about my love life, especially before Stevie, but I’m also not a robot. Nor am I perfect. There’s something so refreshing when I see an influencer being super real, because it helps me to feel less alone. And when I feel less alone, I feel happier. And when I feel happier, I show up better for my clients, my partner, and in my life generally. So in today’s episode I’m sharing 10 things you didn’t know about me. Some things are fun facts you might not have known, and some things feel like, “woah, I need a moment.” Whether it’s your normal human desire to get a peak behind the scenes or some of my truths can help you to feel not so alone, I hope you enjoy this episode. https://veronicagrant.com/10-things-you-didnt-know-about-me/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I coach Vicky on how to let go of control. She’s a go getter, and could accomplish any goal you put in front of her. The problem is, she does the same thing in her love life, which has created a lot of anxiety and turning off the other person. Plus, she’s not even attracting the kind of relationships she’d like to create. In this episode, I’ll walk her through the steps to start shifting that pattern. https://veronicagrant.com/episode163 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I always love my conversations with Veronica, honestly, they could go on forever! But we had to cut ourselves off to make this a reasonable length podcast. In this episode, Veronica gives you the astrological run down from now until mid-June. AND, at the end, we have a big announcement for you!!! https://veronicagrant.com/episode162 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes not having a specific question is better than having a question when it comes to getting coached. You’ll notice women come onto the show with a question, and my clients will definitely know from our sessions, that what they bring to the session isn’t what we end up talking about. There’s something underneath the question. If you don’t have a question, you don’t have to wait around to be able to articulate it. There are tools you can use to get underneath that’s blocking your knowing. https://veronicagrant.com/episode161 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I love some good tea, don’t you? In this week’s episode, I’m giving you the inside scoop on what relationships are REALLY supposed to be like beyond the 3rd or 4th date. I’m talking all the stuff you wondered about, all the stuff you suspected, and all the questions you’ve asked about the world of being “in love.” Want a little teaser? Relationships are NOT about compromise. WHAT? I know, right? I break it all down in this week’s episode. https://veronicagrant.com/episode160 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My caller today has discovered from other personal development resources that she doesn’t love herself. She’s concerned because she knows she needs to love herself before someone else can, but isn’t sure where to start. Like most of my coaching calls, we go to the unexpected, and specifically, asking the question: DO you have to love yourself first? How does she know she doesn’t love herself? If loving yourself isn’t the important important thing to find love, what is? We talk about all this and more. Tune in! https://veronicagrant.com/episode159 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I love a good pun, and when I came across Lynn Marie’s work, Quit Happens, I knew I had to introduce you to her. All things quit is scary AF. The stories we have around it, the unknown, the financial pieces, and more. But according to Lynn Marie, the more you can quit, the closer and closer you can get to your purpose and what makes you happy in life. https://veronicagrant.com/quit-happens/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Talking about your problems or having awareness as to why you attract partners you don’t want to attract often isn’t enough. In fact, awareness is only phase two of the 5 phases of personal growth… so if that’s all you do in therapy or talking things out with your friends, it’s easy to see why you haven’t seen the changes you want! In my call with Gina, we dive into concrete action steps she can take to start to shift the unconscious mind to create new patterns in her life. https://veronicagrant.com/episode157 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s solo episode, I address a comment I received on my Facebook page. The comment was about how she was tired of people telling her women needed to change, and that shouldn’t men be doing this work too? I totally get the sentiment, because the truth is – the patriarchy is real! There IS a system in our society that tells women they have to look, act, or be a certain way to be palatable to a man. So… is the burden on women to this work? Where are the men who do this work? I answer all this and more in today’s episode. https://veronicagrant.com/episode156 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.