Synopsis
Questionable advice from a fellow work in progress. Hosted by Meghan Rienks.
Episodes
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Boyfriend Came Out as Poly
22/08/2022 Duration: 01h20minAfter discussing Brandy and Whitney's "Cinderella" (again) and the "Never Have I Ever" Season Premiere... Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend's chemistry with another friend Unvaccinated friend coming around during chemo treatment Co-worker who brings up Trump Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend getting his high school degree Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do
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Banned From Parents' Home
15/08/2022 Duration: 01h09minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Life after being cut from dance squad Talking to some a guy of a guy you previously dated Telling a friend you aren't going to their wedding in Hawaii Parents being upset over something seemingly small Don't Blame Them: Returning to working in an office Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words
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Boyfriend Won't Get High School Diploma
08/08/2022 Duration: 01h50minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Returning to working in an office Friend not supporting your move Mental health and hybrid working Supporting your boyfriend who hasn't finished high school Don't Blame Them: Compulsory Heterosexuality Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your pare
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Compulsory Heterosexuality
01/08/2022 Duration: 01h40minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Write-In Update: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him move If you're being love bombed Boyfriend won't claim his independence from his parents Wondering if you're in love with your partner Telling a friend they're too touchy Don't Blame Them: My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible un
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Girlfriend Broke Up With Me On Facetime While In Italy
25/07/2022 Duration: 01h18minAfter discussing weddings, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him move Girlfriend broke up with me while she was in Italy Friend didn’t show up to bridal shower DBT: Working with an assistant who acts like your superior DBT: Not having your ideal job after graduating college Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes!
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My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me
18/07/2022 Duration: 01h36minAfter discussing Love Island, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: They give advice on: Update: Peeing Bride - Part II Working with an assistant who acts like your superior Not having your ideal job after graduating college Friend dramatizing their pain Offered $200 for sex with your friend's dad Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend feels entitled to your body Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible u
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How to Date Your Ex
11/07/2022 Duration: 01h10minAfter discussing Wikifeet and their net worths, Meghan and Melisa then read a write-in update from the person whose boyfriend's friends wrote a slur on his birthday cake. They give advice on: Being good houseguests Having a new relationship with your ex Setting boundaries Boyfriend not driving you to the airport Don't Blame Them: Independence of moving to a new city without a relationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.
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Boyfriend Feels Entitled to My Body
04/07/2022 Duration: 01h24minMeghan and Melisa are back together, in person, celebrating their 10th season of Don't Blame Me! The give advice on: Update: Crushing on your grad school cohort Moving in with your boyfriend but feeling behind your other friends that are in relationships Having a strained relationship with your mother Friend keeps dating creeps Boyfriend's touch is overwhelming Don't Blame Them: Wanting your partner to uproot their life because of a work opportunity Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-097
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"Good Guys" Coming Off Wrong
27/06/2022 Duration: 01h35minMeghan and Melisa have a rousing conversation about Dora The Explorer, Gracie's Corner, Blippi and Freaky Friday before giving advice on Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Being more invested in a friendship than your friend is Boyfriend making excuses for his friends that use homophobic slurs A fuckboy claiming you gave him chlamydia Your 21 year old friend hanging out with a 35 years man Don't Blame Them: Traveling to Hawaii and being frustrated with your boyfriend who has a fear of flying, plus a Write-In Update from the original caller Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyur
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My Boyfriend Is Researching Escorts
20/06/2022 Duration: 01h26minUpdate: Sparks in a relationship Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Working on yourself while keeping 2 guys on hold Unblocking and re-following an ex on social media Waiting to get in a fight with your partner Catching your boyfriend googling sex workers Don't Blame Them: FOMO Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wis
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He Dumped Me But Still Wants to Hook Up
13/06/2022 Duration: 01h36minUpdate: Breaking while still on a lease Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Boyfriend refuses to move out of the country Needing a terrible job for graduate school Traveling with a boyfriend that doesn't like flying Breaking up after a long distance relationship Don't Blame Them: Wedding tips Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderf
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My Sister Abandoned Her 3 Kids
06/06/2022 Duration: 01h35minWe’ve been gone for two weeks, but we’re back and very chatty, so this is a long one. Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Moving on from a long term relationship How to be an actor Family not dealing with familial issues Don't Blame Them: Dealing with an overbearing “mentor” Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom.
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REPLAY: He Cheated with a Witch
30/05/2022 Duration: 01h20minOriginal Air Date 11/2/2022 This week we're sharing advice on: Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go to stitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME,' PLUS exclusive bonus episodes. Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I'll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice
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REPLAY: M&M July - Numb Mouth After Sucking the D
23/05/2022 Duration: 01h10minOriginal Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Check out our Patreon Community - https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permissio
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Friend Thinks I Slept With Her Ex
16/05/2022 Duration: 01h20minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Crushing on a coworker FOMO Boyfriend's mother being judgmental Accusations from a former friend Don't Blame Them: Spark in a relationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only,
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Sparks When Dating
09/05/2022 Duration: 01h08minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Overstepping mentor Inconsiderate roommate Chemistry in relationships Helping a friend in a terrible relationship Don't Blame Them: Dealing with nosey parents Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertai
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MLM Predators
02/05/2022 Duration: 01h11minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Racist/House Stealing/Succubus Cheater Friend constantly canceling plans Warning a client about MLMs Going to a music festival with someone who hates music festivals Shopping Addiction Don't Blame Them: Converting religions for a partner Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of
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Unwanted Spiritual Texts
25/04/2022 Duration: 01h49minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: The Bride Peed on Me Brother-In-Laws's girlfriend doesn't like me Not wanting to work anymore Texts from former Fellowship of Christian Athletes leader Not going to friend's wedding Don't Blame Them: Possible misgendering Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you'
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The Bride Peed On Me
18/04/2022 Duration: 01h15minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationship Converting to your partner's religion Fear and anxiety from medical trauma Not living up to the bride's expectations Don't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottom Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your
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Keeping A Secret From Your Boyfriend
11/04/2022 Duration: 01h13minMeghan and Melisa give advice on: Dealing with your controlling parents Developing feeling for someone who just wants a physical relationship Communicating with a friend that has been unresponsive Researching your sister-in-law's counselor Don't Blame Them: Getting over being dumped Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891 Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom