Synopsis
Questionable advice from a fellow work in progress. Hosted by Meghan Rienks.
Episodes
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Is This Racist?
10/04/2023 Duration: 01h19minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: A friend's drinking problem Moving guilt Trying to get back with your ex Microaggressions Don't Blame Them: Not wanting to go to med school Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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REPLAY: His Mom Came to Our Anniversary Dinner
06/04/2023 Duration: 53minOriginal Air Date: December 2, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Racism, Anti-Semitism, Homophobia Melisa is tired of the media not holding men accountable and Meghan reported a woman who threatened her. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Mom wanting access to her college child’s information Boyfriend inviting his mom to his anniversary dinner If you should tell someone that their boyfriend non-consensually touched you A colleague with an “attitude” They also discuss Judge Bruce Schroeder and Dave Portnoy Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: http
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REPLAY - Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex
03/04/2023 Duration: 01h12minOriginal Airdate: January 6th, 2020 Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about selling feet pics, and confronting your boyfriend about his addiction to porn. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their own advice on constant UTI and cuming one way. Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup You must answer all questions correctly to be approved! Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @jessismiles__ https://twitter.com/jessismiles__ @dontblameme https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com … with a
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We're Struggling
28/03/2023 Duration: 40minMeghan and Melisa are having a rough few days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Dad Asked Me to Sign Immigration Paperwork
27/03/2023 Duration: 01h05minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: White person asking a Black classmate about white racism Apologizing to a friend that didn't understand boundaries Dad reappearing in your life Going on a trip with a cousin who may not be boosted Don't Blame Them: Telling your parents you aren't religious Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Just Gabbing
24/03/2023 Duration: 35minSince there wasn't a new episode of But Am I Wrong, we're just using this time to discuss: our love of Tabitha Brown, weird hair growth, Scandal, and milking nuts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me
23/03/2023 Duration: 01h15minBut Am I Wrong: Meghan - Blind items are fucked Melisa - Sharing Kate Campbell's thoughts on how we track violence But Are You Wrong: Brother's girlfriend who always makes snarky responses to your instagram If you should block your friend Being left in a club Love vs. In Love But Are They Wrong: The Weeknd and Sam Levinson Principal/Coach Philip Koons Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diam
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Do We Have a Mole?
21/03/2023 Duration: 28minMelisa took a 24 hour trip to Las Vegas and separately met a new cool friend. Meghan has mouth sores, spent some quality time with her nephew, and is starting a new house project. They then discuss Law Roach retiring, and have a slightly delusional conversation about influence, Tony Goldwyn, and of course, Scandal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Not Wanting to be a Mean Girl
20/03/2023 Duration: 01h26minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trio Friendships Maneuvering a relationship with a transphobic friend Update Ex lying to sleep with someone (3.6.2023) Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex (+Scandoval Pt 2)
17/03/2023 Duration: 38minMeghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex and then discuss more Vanderpump Rules even though they've never seen an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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REPLAY: My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Try to Have Sex Again
16/03/2023 Duration: 01h07minOriginal Air Day Feb 17, 2022 Meghan believes that the upper middle class is worse than the rich. Melisa is over the commercialization of Valentine's Day, looking at you Build-A-Bear After Dark. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Strangers obsessing over your dog Not including a friend in your bridal shower Anti-vaxx classmate's mother's death Bad sex with long distance boyfriend And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss filming unsheltered people and posting on Tiktok and Matt Walsh Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.
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Wakanda Forever
14/03/2023 Duration: 48minMeghan and Melisa discuss Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Guilt Over a Mutual Break Up
13/03/2023 Duration: 01h05minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Telling your parents you aren't religious anymore Found out your boyfriend physically and emotionally cheated Losing your best friend/ex Don't Blame Them: Standing up to a parent, communicating with your partner, postpartum depression Becoming a Sugar Baby Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong Results: F Off, Partner (Plus Scandoval Chat)
10/03/2023 Duration: 47minMeghan and Melisa share the results of BAIW: F Off Partner. The also recap the Scandoval... but have never watched Vanderpump Rules. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex
09/03/2023 Duration: 01h16minFor But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks that jobs should have built in maintenance/admin day Melisa believes that God is a cis man - based on period pains In But Am You Wrong: Boyfriend wants you to recreate his ex's sexy phot Sister's new boyfriend wants to attend your grandmothers' tombstone unveiling Reporting a teacher for being racist Boyfriend hanging out with his friends after being deployed And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: TERF Ruby Sampson Melisa: Culture Vulture Rachel "Raquel Evita" Saraswati Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow
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LA Weather Woes + What We're Watching
07/03/2023 Duration: 40minMeghan and Melisa discuss the stress the LA weather is putting them through, then chat about the TV shows they're watching: Scandal Poker Face Meredith's Exist From Grey's Anatomy Treason Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Pressured to Make Decisions
06/03/2023 Duration: 54minThis week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Friends rely on me too much Living with an awful couple Moving to a new country Ex lying to sleep with someone Don't Blame Them: Husband doesn't finish Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong Results: Boob Tape (+Sophia Bush/Rachel Bilson Mistaken Identity)
03/03/2023 Duration: 24minMeghan and Melisa read the results from Boob Tape But Am I Wrong? episode. Then discuss Love Island. And for some reason Melisa thought Rachel Bilson went to the NAACP Image Awards. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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F Off, Partner
02/03/2023 Duration: 01h09minFor But Am I Wrong Melisa is annoyed by "Passport Bros" Meghan doesn't believe that some businesses should have social media In But Am You Wrong: Reporting everyone who is racist towards you Tenant not closing the garage Friend and family who won't get fully vaccinated A partner who can't make their own breakfast And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Packers Sanitation Services Meghan: Kelly Family Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions http
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Melisa's Birthday Present
28/02/2023 Duration: 33minMelisa shares the details of her birthday weekend and opens her gift from Meghan and Meghan has finally met her neighbors. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices