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Cocktales: The ladies are sipping on Irish Mules this episode, as they talk "Bad Sex". Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Can you be with someone that doesn't satisfy you in the bedroom? Does size really matter? Kiaya, Ashley, Tasha, and Khadijah have a lot to say on this topic.   Another Round: The ladies are discussing interracial relationships and their opinions around the topic. They also speak their minds about how black men in interracial relationships, sometimes blame black women for their decision to be in an interracial relationship. You already know, its none of your business BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.   ​Chris LaRocca - Call Me Up (ft. vixu) Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Absolut Lime cocktails, as we open with this week’s #TalkTuesday topic. Do all men cheat? We explore each of the ladies perspectives. Kiaya is adamant that ALL men cheat! Do you agree all men HAVE cheated? The ladies give their take on the possibilities why a man may cheat and share their crazy past experiences. This conversation may make you rethink the questions you ask on your next #DateNight. V.I.P List: This week the ladies switched up the game! The special guest is Big Poppa aka Kiaya’s Dad, Mr. Eric. He stops by to drop some OG knowledge on us. He shares his experience being a single father to all girls – even the experience raising a child that was not his biologically yet he loves them all the same. The backstory gets deep as he shares his own unique upbringing, manhood and the fatal loss of a brother over $2. To sharing loving an addict and the impact it all had on his marriage and current dating life. The ladies get a deeper understanding of Kiaya and share some f

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some spiced sangria as they discuss dating and etiquette. They share stories of guys they have dated having horrible etiquette and what they feel their definition of home training is. They even share some embarrassing moments of their own where a date may have judged them for not knowing the proper manners. The conversation is hilarious!! What are your etiquette deal breakers??   Another Round: The topic for today is Toxic Relationships. How do you tell the difference between the usual growing pains, of a relationship, verses a relationship that is unhealthy? Kiaya, Tasha, Khadijah, and Ashley have the top 10 ways to tell if your relationship is toxic. They also discuss in detail their own experiences with toxic relationships. They discuss everything from, the lies they told themselves while in it, and the internal thoughts they had to tell themselves in order to get out of it. Like always, this is a party you don't want to miss! It is none of your business, BUT they are gonna ta

This episode Eriel Wicks comes through the party to share a very personal story about her life. This small town girl was faced with a BIG secret as a teen that not only changed her life from that point on, but has been a big reason for a lot of the choices she has made along the way. Eriel shares her story in hopes of bringing light to a situation that is more common in many families than most, people would believe. She hopes to help someone who has found themselves in her shoes to find understanding and peace within themselves. She also hopes that anyone who listens to her story and has faced the same situation, can feel relief in knowing that someone else has been through the same, and that you can come out on top, better and stronger. This is definitely a topic that is NONE of our business BUT we are going to talk about it anyway! Song: Song - Jay LaVita - E.T.A. (soon to be released)​ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter:

The ladies are finally BACK for season 2! In this episode, they are so excited to catch their listeners up on what they have been up to and all of the life changes that have taken place since last season. Season 2 will be LIT and they hope you are ready for what they have in store. So grab your drink and get ready for this all access pass!   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com   Song: Contact Me by K Forest Episode is sponsored by: Whiplashed by Lex Justbphotography Hush Collectionz

**Announcement** Private Party Podcast will be ending Season 1 after this episode. We will return in January with season 2! This episode Mar Mason, Co-founder of the CheckRock basketball league and clinic, has come to crash the party. He keeps it a 100 with the ladies and lets them know what is takes for a woman to be is VERY IMPORTANT PERSON. Mar talks about women nagging in relationships, along with what kind of women he finds to be the most clingy. They even get into some deeper issues with Mar around being a black man in society and how he feels he has been received by black women, in the workplace or even just walking down the street. Mar also comments on the topic from last episode on if a woman doesn't go out, does it make her more or less "Wifey Material". The conversation is candid, straightforward, eye opening, and of course hilarious. You already know...It's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__pri

The ladies answer some listener's questions this episode. One in particular concerns Ashley and her Celibacy update. Is she still holding on to her C card? This question somehow leads into a hilarious "For the D" challenge that will have you in tears from laughing so hard. The ladies also discuss the recent Dove controversy and their take on the whole ordeal. The main topic for this episode is "WOMEN VS WOMEN". As women we all have our insecurities and we all have found ourselves jealous or envious of another woman at some point. However, why is it always one group of women verse another group of women? Such as, the woman who is a homebody talking down to the woman who goes out with her friends on the weekend, Or the woman who's hair is natural talking down about a woman who wears a weave and so on and so forth. The ladies touch on their thoughts around this and Khadijah shares a recent Facebook incident that made her feel as though she was being talked down to, as a woman with a child. As usual, Its none of

Cocktales: Tasha, Kiaya, and Khadijah sip on some sparkling while talking SEX BLOOPERS. Have you ever been having sex and things did NOT go as planned or something really embarrassing happened? The ladies tell some of there hilarious sex bloopers. This convo will have you in tears from laughing!   Another Round: First round topic is around going "Ghost" on a friend of the opposite sex, once you are in a relationship. Does your friend of the opposite sex deserve an explanation, before you go missing or before you end the friendship? Should you even end the friendship at all? The ladies will discuss this question from all angles.   Second round topic, we are still discussing friends of the opposite sex. The ladies discuss how they feel about their partner having a best friend or friends of the opposite sex. This topic is sensitive for some of the ladies and the dialogue around this is not only relatable but hilarious. Listen to Khadijah, Tasha, and Kiaya share their own personal experiences around this topic. Y

Happy Hour: The ladies are sipping on a Strawberry Sparkletini as they catch up. Ashley had a family Emergency and could not join the party. Kiaya, Tasha, and Khadijah discuss a recent episode from Being Mary Jane and how it touched on their Mad Black Woman episode. Tash has an exciting announcement to make!   Another Round: The ladies have a brand NEW segment! During the Another Round segment the ladies discuss multiple topics.   Topic 1 is entitled "Autumn Leaves". Kiaya brings up how the transition into the fall season makes her reflect on the next phase in life. The ladies talk about how they decipher what relationships, friendships, habits, etc. to move forward with and what should be left behind. Khadijah and Tasha each share their own personal experiences with letting go of friendships and being the friend who was actually dismissed.   Topic 2 is entitled "soft as teddy bear but hard as a rock". When us women give our men our ass to kiss why do we expect him to look past the attitude, and still show us

It’s 5 o’clock somewhere; the ladies are back catching up on life. Sparkling wine in the cutest, “light weight” champagne flutes set the mood for a discussion about, letting go of that attractive man or woman that’s no good for you. This leads to a larger discussion about insecurity and how your partner’s issues can weigh you down. They also get into biggest turn offs and turn ons when it comes to the opposite sex. Side eyeing a B WORD that laughs a little too hard at your man and more hilarious dialogue related to these topics.   Jeff is back again, filling in for Tasha as he holds in his laughs waiting for the cue to speak. Khadijah shares a real life issue about taking on other peoples baggage, especially when it comes to siblings or extended family. Resentment, jealousy and unresolved childhood issues always seem to create a divide. Ashley and Kiaya weigh in with their perspective and realize that Jay-z said it best, “nobody wins when the family feuds”. We know somebody can relate! Let's get this party st

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some bubbly. They discuss everything from Hurricane Irma leaving Ashley stuck in Puerto Rico to Kevin Hart’s epic fail cheating and extortion. Spinderella aka Jeff adds a male perspective to the conversation, while Tasha attends her church anniversary celebration.   The main Happy Hour topic this episode surrounds the question "How do you define Black Love?” The ladies get in depth about their opinions on the meaning, as well as share their experiences staying true to themselves in relationships. We all agreed the Cosby Show personified “Black Love” and we can’t forget Martin and Gina. Let's get this party started! You already know...   It is none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Song: Confetti by YMTK

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Makers and Gingerale. They talk about keeping the spark in your relationship. Khadijah and Tasha talk about something they recommend all ladies try in their relationship to keep the fire going. They also talk about sending nudes. When does a guy become worthy of receiving a nude?   The larger Happy Hour topic this episode surrounds the question "When is it ok to be selfish" The ladies get in depth about their opinions on this topic as well as share some experiences they have had when they realized they needed to be selfish. Let's get this party started! You already know...It is none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some tequila and lemonade this Happy Hour. They discuss Kevin Hart, his current wife, and his ex wife. The debate is, was his current wife a side chick before they were married? The discussion around this is hilarious!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Brianna Phoenix (@Brii_tatted) came through the party this week. Brii is an alternative tattoo model as well as a creative director. The ladies speak with Brii, this week, about a taboo topic that happens often in the military. She tells the ladies all the details about this traumatic experience and how it was life altering for her and took her to the brink of suicide. Kiaya, Khadijah, Tasha, and Ashley are hoping this interview with Brii will shed awareness and give a voice to other military women who have been through a similar experience. You already know...It's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway!   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: During this happy hour the ladies enjoy some Jameson and Ginger beer while catching up. They also talk about the Floyd VS McGregor fight as well as some of the recent protest taking place in Charlottesville. STAY WOKE!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Anique Oliver (@aniquesahara), blogger and creative director, swings by the party to discuss her 5 year fight with infertility. Amongst the 7.3 million women in the United States, approximately 7% of white women experience infertility compared to 11.5% of African American women. Many women suffer in silence when it comes to dealing with infertility. The ladies hope that by having Anique be transparent and open about her experience it will help other women feel they are not alone. Anique gives some really good advice and resources to women who are still fighting infertility, as well as motivation to keep fighting. As usual, it's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Anique's Announcement Video: HERE Song: Alayna - High Off You is the song

Happy Hour: The ladies are missing Ashley this episode as they sip on some Rose' Mimosas. They discuss being "Old and Tired" and how partying in your late twenties is so much different than your early twenties.   Shaken NOT Stirred: We have all come to a point in our lives where we feel STUCK. You may find yourself in a financial bind that seems never ending. Or you are feeling stuck at a certain job or in a certain career. You may even have experienced being in a relationship that made you feel stuck, where walking away was not easy. Kiaya, Khadijah, and Tasha touch on all of these scenarios this episode. They will share their own personal experiences around feeling stuck. They will share what they did to get themselves out and give some motivation for listeners who may find themselves in the same predicaments. You already know. It is none of your business BUT, we gonna talk about it anyway!   Song at end of show: Title- Vices Artist- Sy Ari Da Kid Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodc

Happy Hour: The ladies catch up over vodka and tonics. Tasha talks about her close call with a shooting, while Khadijah tells the girls all about her first therapy session. They also discuss the talk Tuesday topic of "Is it ok for a woman to propose to her man?" Ashley, Tasha, Kiaya, and Khadijah all seem to have the same opinion around this question.   Shaken NOT Stirred: This week's special guest is author, writer, and public speaker Elona Washington. Elona has an Amazon best selling book "From Ivy League to Stripper Life". The ladies explore the topic of Promiscuity with Elona. Many women go through a "Hoe Phase" or a promiscuous time in their lives. Elona shares her story and her own experience with being promiscuous. The ladies want to get a deeper look into promiscuity. So many are quick to call a woman a hoe or "slut shame" but overlook what she has gone through in her life that may have caused her to become promiscuous. As always, it is none of your business BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway!   Fac

We sincerely apologize for the sound quality this episode. We did not realize the quality was shakey until after the episode was recorded. However, we could not bear to skip a week! So please bear with us.     Happy Hour: This episode starts off a little rocky. Khadijah and Tasha have a disagreement while Ashley and Kiaya awkwardly try to introduce the happy hour topic.   This happy hour the ladies talk Excuses VS Execution. Most of us have life goals that we all dream of making a reality some day, but what are we doing to get there? The host discuss taking baby steps as well as why we talk ourselves out of executing our plans. The question this episode is...How do we get out of our own way? Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Happy Hour: The ladies are welcoming you back to the party! This week the ladies catch up on the latest events in their lives.   Shaken not Stirred: This week the ladies are discussing INSECURITIES. From childhood to womanhood, we’ve all experienced a lack of confidence or self- assurance about our looks, careers or relationships. Each host acknowledges their own battle with the little voice inside that attempts to shatter confidence. They also discuss how they’ve overcome and found happiness in the midst of it all. As always, it’s none of your business but we’re gonna talk about it anyway! Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Happy Hour: Sometimes not committing goes left! The ladies are back and the drink of choice is whiskey sours. Catching up on this weeks #Adulting and excitement for the very FIRST Private Party Podcast Brunch on Aug. 13 . The ladies dive into situationships, a few listeners asked so we delivered! Kiaya shares her take on situationships and how sometimes there’s more pro’s vs. cons. Listen in as opinions differ and Ash tries to get away with not sharing! It’s none of your business but we’re gonna talk about it anyway!   Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/private-party- podcast-brunch- tickets- 36085857772 Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Cocktales: The ladies did away with Happy Hour this episode and decided to discuss a Cocktale that is a SHOCKER! Tune in for dets!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Where exactly does the "Mad Black Woman" stigma come from? Many times black women are stereotyped as being angry, difficult, combative, and none submissive. However, when people are making these stereo types, they never think to look deeper into why black women are angry, or why they seem to have that stereotype. Tasha, Ashley, Khadijah and Kiaya open up about some deep rooted issues that have affected their actions and attitude, perceiving them as "Mad Black Women" to the men they encounter. This episode we look beyond the label and into the soul of these four women and the heartache behind the anger. YOU CAN’T HEAL WHAT YOU DON'T REVEAL. Emotions run high, this episode, and the transparency is real and honest. The ladies hope being open about the root cause to their pain, women everywhere, will relate. They hope this will shine some light on the stigma and