Loa Recon With The Good Vibe Coach

Dating a conscious creator? Partnered with an LOA savvy manifestor? Here are ten things that are helpful to know about how we do relationships different than the average bear.  

After discovering an issue with a website, I used my best manifesting skills to attract a perfect tech support person. The only problem was that that wasn't what I really wanted.  It's a common practice - but certainly not best practice - to focus on how we think we'll get what we want, rather than just tuning into what we actually want.

A weird thing sometimes happens after we use the law of attraction to manifest what we want … Not always, but sometimes, we stop being conscious with our creations. We forget the LOA habits that got us there in the first place, and we start muggling our way through life. Here's how to change that routine and keep your magic engaged for more future success.  

When you're tempted to dismiss a cool manifestation because the factors that brought it about were already in play long before you called it in, let's just remember how this actually works ... Yes, you did that. Your creation powers play outside the conventionally understood limits of space and time.

If you've got a dream or desire that hasn't happened yet, I'm going to first ask you how you know that. And then I'm going to ask you to please stop knowing that. Knowing it hasn't happened is what blocks it. We're conscious creators - we can know better than that!

Some people might be born happy and spend their whole lives that way, but the rest of us who practice conscious creation know that feeling better is a discipline. It's not something that comes from manifesting the perfect circumstances. Rather, it's something we choose over and over again, regardless of our situation. We don’t wait for the stars to line up. It's not a gene we hope to have inherited. We don't cross our fingers until the mood strikes.  Rather, feeling better is the practice of finding one improved thought after another.  And that is a discipline.

When you find yourself wanting something from another – whether it’s attention, time, acknowledgment, respect, etc. – give it to yourself first.  Learning how to give yourself what you want from someone else is a powerful way to align to it. It's not just empowering, but also puts you in vibrational integrity to receive what you want from the world. 

What have you manifested lately? That's what I was recently asked, and this was my answer. It's a look at how conscious creation can be part of our every day life - not just reserved for the big dreams and desires we hold near and dear ...

You've got questions; I've got opinions!  Oh, the strong opinions! lol How to manifest a hundred thousand dollar windfall? Is it cool to put a spell on the new guy so he sees me as sexy? What's the best way to uplevel an already good life? These are the questions fielded in this episode!   

The name of the game in conscious creation is learning how not to rely on external circumstances to feel better. That includes finding ways to feel better before anything changes. But it’s easier than we make it out to be. Here are seven reliable ways to feel better before anything else changes ...

What if you didn’t have to figure out how to draw the money in, but instead all you had to do was get a proper outflow going? This is an invitation to let your “money out” be the catalyst for “money in.” Next time you’re feeling cautious about spending a large sum of money or trying to figure out how to get more in, just check your outflow. Are you exhaling properly, or are you doing it with fear and lack? Are you hanging on because you don’t trust there will be more? Are you trying to breathe more in without addressing what you’ve already got? Letting the money out fully (with trust and confidence) inspires the return of it abundantly, and that’s what it does when we stop making it harder than that. That’s all it takes. It’s automatic.

Conscious creators don’t operate from rules, but just for fun – if there were ten commandments of creating reality, I imagine they might go something like this ...  

Whatever we strongly don't want, we're a magnet for. What we push against, we lock into our experience. That's why it's worth making friends with your debt instead of trying to get rid of it.  While it's a common approach to think of debt as a negative thing to avoid at all costs, that's not a vibration that liberates from it. A friendlier perspective will serve you (and your bank account) well!

There's a thought virus many of us are exposed to that can cause lack and shortage when we let it take over our focus. That thought is: “There isn't enough money.” If you’re not paying good attention, it’s easy to succumb to and begin thinking in terms of lack since so many others are thinking it, too!  Here's how to vaccinate for this money thought virus ...

It doesn't always happen this way, but sometimes things get worse before they get better after you engage your manifesting power to create what you want. Don't throw in the towel! It could very well be a sign of a strong start and good reason to expect fabulous results as you continue your manifesting practice.    

For creators who have their manifesting practice on hold while  determining the best way to engage it, this is a reminder that getting it 100% right doesn't matter as much as it does that you just start! Don't get hung up on trying to get it right. Start with what you know and tweak as you go.

It was like a bad experience of deja vu when my favorite cat went awol right before Christmas ... Which gave me yet another opportunity to be the vibrational leader of what I wanted rather than respond to unwanted circumstances in reality. Tune in for a short recap of how I finally gleaned the lessons my loved ones have been trying to teach me all year ...

Next time you wonder whether it's possible to manifest what you want, just remember it's already happening. Everything is. Right now.  The only question to consider is how you'll become a vibrational match to what you want ...

When you find yourself tempted to figure out a resolution to a problem or issue, pause and engage your manifesting superpowers first! Feel it out instead of just figuring it out. The actions you're inspired to after activating the vibration of what you want will serve way better than just operating from muggle mode.

Sometime we don't realize that our big manifesting obstacle in creating what we want is knowing how to let life be that good to us. That's what allowing is all about - being willing to live the good life (whatever that means for us each.) That's why having the skills to receive what you want is worth practicing!