Loa Recon With The Good Vibe Coach

Sometimes conscious creators expect the reality to change before our thoughts and feelings do. That’s not how it works! If you’re using law of attraction to manifest a job change, or a new romance, or weight loss, or more money (or anything at all) so that you can feel better, you’ll want to rethink your approach. We can only get what we already feel, so if you’re counting on external life changes in order to feel better, you’re stuck in limbo.

It seems obvious that we’d know how to say yes to what we want when it shows up, but sometimes it’s more challenging than you’d guess … Having what you want takes alignment, and sometimes that takes practice!  

If you've ever adopted unhelpful beliefs because of something you read about a study that was conducted or research that was published, let's remember this about things proven to be "true" ... Anything can be proven true when someone puts enough attention on it.  That's where reality comes from. So don't take those results too seriously unless they help support the reality you prefer.  

It wasn't pretty and I'm not particularly proud of it, but this is the story of what happened when I stopped resisting the low feelings. If you haven't kept your angry skills up to date, this may inspire you to embrace them with more gusto next time the bounce back isn't bouncing.

Current events got you down? You're not alone. Here's a thought that might offer solace in dark times ...

Sometimes it seems impossible to ignore the reality right in front of us. But many of us have more skills than we admit when it comes to pretending ... Ignoring what's so is a manifesting skill we use in lots of other everyday ways that we can bring to bear in our LOA game, too. 

This is the story of the day a muggle love interest had to LOA coach me into dropping thoughts that blocked possibilities for a love relationship. Even I, who knows that anything is possible, lost sight of that in the face of a contrary reality ...

It's a new year and it seems like everyone's got an inspiring message telling us to get out there and carpe diem. They want us to hustle and slay and get busy on those goals, because dreams don't come true while we sit on the couch. Oh, contraire. This is my response to the reader who "knows" he needs to hit the gym in order to hit his fitness goals ...

No LOA lessons or manifesting insights here ... Just a simple activation of joy, appreciation and love as I tell the story of one of my favorite things: Harvey. This is what vibration management is all about: reveling in reasons and excuses to feel good!

A fellow creator said she's tired of feeling angry with her kids' behavior and asked how to use law of attraction to make them behave. This is my take on how to break the cycle and lead the way to positive change. (Hint: it's not about changing their behavior.) I've got my own challenge underway on this same topic, except mine is with cats, not kids. 

As I was inspired to upgrade and eliminate some key relationships this new year, I remembered that no matter how much I focus on "out there," nothing can be any different until I'm feeling it "in here."

When I told a friend about how I was excited to start manifesting easy money in the new year, he pointed out the easy money I already had and was overlooking all along. Getting a new perspective on the current situation is often all that's needed to create alignment that allows more of what we want to manifest.

Who's deciding what you're having? When someone else is delivering what you don't want, remember who's in charge here. It's you - always you. Don't abdicate your choosing power to others who seem to have authority. You're the creative expert in the house.

Before proceeding into tricky territory, do yourself a favor and check your vibration before taking action … A couple seconds to make sure you’re not rolling with contrary energy makes all the difference as to what happens next. It works much better when we pause to clear out any challenging energy before proceeding …

This is what I learned after picking the brain of a muggle friend who was a regular winner at the rodeo for many years. His answers could have come straight from the LOA playbook. Tune in for tips about how to amp up your own next win ...

For those who are new to conscious creation, here’s a quick summary of how to engage your manifesting power. LOA-savvy pros already know this stuff, but it’s a good reminder for those who sometimes make it more complicated than it needs to be. The quick summary of how to manifest what you want using your powers of focus: See it. Feel it. Let guidance reveal it. Tune in for a review of these three elements ... Read at the blog.

My cautionary tale of what to expect when you strongly don't want something to happen ... No matter how many actions you take to prevent it, a vibration of "don't want this" requires it's coming like a freight train!

We know how to spot unhelpful influences in lots of other ways in our life ... Let's get good at spotting those gremlin thoughts, too!

Next time you're tempted to solve a problem by throwing money at it, let's throw some alignment at it instead. That's the only reliable way to get the results we want!

The art of knowing what to downplay and what to play up ... You do this in regular daily life more often than you realize, and it's worth bringing to your manifesting game more than you already are!