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I used to talk to God like He was my friend or therapist, then I got freaked out that I was being inappropriate. How should I approach Him? (12:02-26:15) Matt talks to Sarah Eekhoff Zylstra, Senior writer at The Gospel Coalition and coauthor of Gospelbound about the stories in her new book, where the American church goes from here, and dealing with deconstruction. (28:22-42:48) The Bible says Jesus went through all the things we go through. Does that mean He was ever unsure about His purpose? (43:09-57:38) Closing Song: 1 John 4:19 (The Poolhouse Guru) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

My mom has been repeating horrible, offensive things she hears on her preferred news channel and I am struggling to deal with it. What should I do? (12:38- 30:41) Someone told me I have a fear of success. What does that mean and what would I do about it? (30:47-45:58) Philippians 1:27 says to "conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ." So, how do I do that? (46:03-59:42) Closing Song: Oh The Deep Deep Love of Jesus (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) The action figure described in emergency: https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10209022821527431&type=3

What does spiritual growth actually mean? How do I know if I am growing? (10:04-24:43) Matt talks to Ben Kirby of instagram sensation PreachersNSneakers about his new book looking at Christian celebrity pastor culture. (25:25-44:11) I met someone I like, but we have very religious beliefs. Should I end things before we get too attached? (44:37-59:59) Closing Song: Always, Always, Always (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) Get the book- PreachersNSneakers: Authenticity in an Age of For-Profit Faith and (Wannabe) Celebrities: https://preachersnsneakers.com/ Check PreachersNSneakers out on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preachersnsneakers/

I struggle with grief and loss. What is the healthy way to grieve? (14:08-29:43) There are a lot of rules in my life. How do I deal with my impatience for a time when I can really get to live my life? (29:47-44:25) I have been reading about gnostic gospels and how the people who chose the biblical canon intentionally reduced women's voices. That resonated with my experiences of misogyny in church. Is there anything to it? (44:30-1:05:12) Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I have a relative who needs help but clearly doesn't want it from me. How can I help? (13:11-29:30) I left the faith I grew up in and have encountered some ideas and experiences that freak me out since. I don't know what to think. (29:36-46:21) I made changes and life got better. But now I need to make another set of changes and I am worried that will unsettle my life. How do I know which changes are good? (46:24-1:00:28) Closing Song: Jesus Loves Me (The Bridge Loud ft Harley Smalley) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (anonymous)

Our full chat with Vicar Derek Kubilus of the Cross Over Q Podcast. Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask Us A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

I have been alone most of my life and have started getting to know people. But when they don't have time for me, I feel like acting out or spouting negativity. What should I do? (18:12-32:16) Matt talks with Vicar Derek Kubilus from the Cross Over Q podcast about QAnon, its effects on christian communities, and how Christians and church leaders can help people caught up in it. (33:23-48:00) I have big dreams and thinking about them brings me joy, but I am worried that they might be bad for me or ungodly. How do I know what's going on? (48:57-1:03:44) Closing Song: Come Ye Disconsolate (Eric Peters) Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

*Note* We have a few audio hiccups in the intro. Everything is back to normal about 2 minutes in. I recently heard someone say the church should reject Critical Race Theory because it is "divisive". What do you guys think? (17:23-33:34) In 1 Peter 5, it talks about suffering. But Christians seem to glorify and wallow in suffering. How should we see suffering? (33:38-50:04) We discuss the article- Four Defining Moments for Young Marriages (50:13-1:07:13) Closing Song: Just As I Am (The Bridge Loud) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I am having impure thoughts overtime. I do good, but I feel like I am condemning myself. (12:43-30:12) You guys talk about not owing anyone an argument. Is there a caveat in there for calling people out for acting like jerks? (30:20-49:22) When someone turns down my help or advice I feel worthless. How do I process that? (49:27-1:03:56) Closing Song: Micah 6:8 (The Poolhouse Guru) Bible Florida Man Stories: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/mqq25v/what_bible_story_would_qualify_as_a_florida_man/

I had a tough conversation with someone. It went pretty well, but I don't think it ends with us being like best friends. It feels weird. Is that okay? (15:58-30:34) I am struggling with loneliness. How can I deal with this? (30:42-45:37) I have a problem with anger. I don't realize I am angry until it's too far along. What can I do? (45:47-1:04:52) Closing Song: It Is Well (Pete and Tasha Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask Yahoo Finance Article about $300 Bible

I had a bad experience with ministry leadership. How do I approach a new opportunity? (13:17-31:39) I want a divorce. I know I shouldn't want that, but I do. What do I do? (31:46-54:13) How do I keep patience going? (54:16-1:08:36) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I know Jesus doesn't condemn me for my past, but it is really easy to judge myself for it. How do I stop that? (16:19-31:56) Every morning I wake up and am immediately mad at the world. What does God want me to do? (32:01-49:50) As the world starts to reopen, how should we pace ourselves with social engagements and deal with things like a desire to cancel plans? (49:54-1:05:52) Closing Song: I Must Tell Jesus Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) The Gunslinger Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVkJ4GRzyV0

Should I date someone who doesn't want to go to church because of bad past experiences? (17:10-32:12) A lot of people are linking the Atlanta area shooter to purity culture. I grew up in that type of environment and it is kind of freaking me out. What's your take on that? (32:16-50:28) I recently joined my church's council, but I feel like I am having trouble getting used to how it works. Any tips? (50:31-1:11:39) Closing Song: Old Rugged Cross (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question:  saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) Links to things we discuss in the Emergency: Tomb Toy-Filled Easter Eggs Governor Noem's Tweet Air CFAS

What does it mean to "walk by the spirit"? (15:42-29:53) I got a new job and am having a lot of anxiety about proving myself to new people. Any advice? (29:56-48:29) I really don't like change. How can I better with it? (48:33-1:02:36) Closing Song: Fatherless (The Bridge Loud ft Lins Honeyman) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumble.com/ask

How do I know who I can trust? (14:41-31:46) What are Christians supposed to make of "cancel culture"? (31:50-53:02) I feel like the last year has messed with my idea of joy, how do I reset it? (53:07-1:11:14) Closing Song: Though The Mountains (The Yearwoods) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

1 Corinthians 13:11 says to put off childish things, but Jesus said to come to him like a child. What am I missing? (16:44-31:07) Why do I have trouble concentrating when I pray? (31:12-46:36) I have a friend who has experienced trauma around church and religion. How do I speak about my faith with them without hurting them? (46:40-1:01:48) Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division) The picture we discuss in the emergency: https://twitter.com/mattkinger/status/1369436223538888706?s=20 Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

What is the purpose of marriage, practically? (16:30-31:19) A relative created a situation that got me in trouble with my landlord, now the whole thing is a big mess. How do I deal with all the freak out this is causing me? (31:24-49:34) How to you proceed when you mean well but still fall short? (49:39-1:04:06) Closing Song: Deuteronomy 31:6 (The Poolhouse Guru)  Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

God gave me a great job. How do I make sure I am not overworking? (14:42-27:47) My boyfriend isn't gentle with me, and that bothers me. Is it a big problem? (27:52-43:46) What does 2 Thessalonians 1:11 mean "make you worthy of his calling"? (42:50-57:50) Closing Song: He Giveth More Grace (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

How do I balance being a good partner with making sure I'm doing self-care? (18:09-27:06) I feel like every time my life gets better, I mess it up. How does got want me to handle this? (27:11-38:08) What are Christians supposed to do about friends and family who believe in QAnon? (38:13-1:00:00) Closing Song: Four Good Reasons (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I love people I really, really disagree with? (17:52-32:17) How can you make or maintain friendships with people you don't see regularly? (32:22-46:10) The Bible says I am "free" from sin. But I am going to be always be a sinner. So what does that mean? (46:15-1:01:58) Closing Song: I Am Free (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)