Say That

I struggle with grief and loss. What is the healthy way to grieve? (14:08-29:43) There are a lot of rules in my life. How do I deal with my impatience for a time when I can really get to live my life? (29:47-44:25) I have been reading about gnostic gospels and how the people who chose the biblical canon intentionally reduced women's voices. That resonated with my experiences of misogyny in church. Is there anything to it? (44:30-1:05:12) Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I have a relative who needs help but clearly doesn't want it from me. How can I help? (13:11-29:30) I left the faith I grew up in and have encountered some ideas and experiences that freak me out since. I don't know what to think. (29:36-46:21) I made changes and life got better. But now I need to make another set of changes and I am worried that will unsettle my life. How do I know which changes are good? (46:24-1:00:28) Closing Song: Jesus Loves Me (The Bridge Loud ft Harley Smalley) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (anonymous)

Our full chat with Vicar Derek Kubilus of the Cross Over Q Podcast. Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask Us A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

I have been alone most of my life and have started getting to know people. But when they don't have time for me, I feel like acting out or spouting negativity. What should I do? (18:12-32:16) Matt talks with Vicar Derek Kubilus from the Cross Over Q podcast about QAnon, its effects on christian communities, and how Christians and church leaders can help people caught up in it. (33:23-48:00) I have big dreams and thinking about them brings me joy, but I am worried that they might be bad for me or ungodly. How do I know what's going on? (48:57-1:03:44) Closing Song: Come Ye Disconsolate (Eric Peters) Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

*Note* We have a few audio hiccups in the intro. Everything is back to normal about 2 minutes in. I recently heard someone say the church should reject Critical Race Theory because it is "divisive". What do you guys think? (17:23-33:34) In 1 Peter 5, it talks about suffering. But Christians seem to glorify and wallow in suffering. How should we see suffering? (33:38-50:04) We discuss the article- Four Defining Moments for Young Marriages (50:13-1:07:13) Closing Song: Just As I Am (The Bridge Loud) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I am having impure thoughts overtime. I do good, but I feel like I am condemning myself. (12:43-30:12) You guys talk about not owing anyone an argument. Is there a caveat in there for calling people out for acting like jerks? (30:20-49:22) When someone turns down my help or advice I feel worthless. How do I process that? (49:27-1:03:56) Closing Song: Micah 6:8 (The Poolhouse Guru) Bible Florida Man Stories: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/mqq25v/what_bible_story_would_qualify_as_a_florida_man/

I had a tough conversation with someone. It went pretty well, but I don't think it ends with us being like best friends. It feels weird. Is that okay? (15:58-30:34) I am struggling with loneliness. How can I deal with this? (30:42-45:37) I have a problem with anger. I don't realize I am angry until it's too far along. What can I do? (45:47-1:04:52) Closing Song: It Is Well (Pete and Tasha Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask Yahoo Finance Article about $300 Bible

I had a bad experience with ministry leadership. How do I approach a new opportunity? (13:17-31:39) I want a divorce. I know I shouldn't want that, but I do. What do I do? (31:46-54:13) How do I keep patience going? (54:16-1:08:36) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I know Jesus doesn't condemn me for my past, but it is really easy to judge myself for it. How do I stop that? (16:19-31:56) Every morning I wake up and am immediately mad at the world. What does God want me to do? (32:01-49:50) As the world starts to reopen, how should we pace ourselves with social engagements and deal with things like a desire to cancel plans? (49:54-1:05:52) Closing Song: I Must Tell Jesus Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) The Gunslinger Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVkJ4GRzyV0

Should I date someone who doesn't want to go to church because of bad past experiences? (17:10-32:12) A lot of people are linking the Atlanta area shooter to purity culture. I grew up in that type of environment and it is kind of freaking me out. What's your take on that? (32:16-50:28) I recently joined my church's council, but I feel like I am having trouble getting used to how it works. Any tips? (50:31-1:11:39) Closing Song: Old Rugged Cross (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question:  saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) Links to things we discuss in the Emergency: Tomb Toy-Filled Easter Eggs Governor Noem's Tweet Air CFAS

What does it mean to "walk by the spirit"? (15:42-29:53) I got a new job and am having a lot of anxiety about proving myself to new people. Any advice? (29:56-48:29) I really don't like change. How can I better with it? (48:33-1:02:36) Closing Song: Fatherless (The Bridge Loud ft Lins Honeyman) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumble.com/ask

How do I know who I can trust? (14:41-31:46) What are Christians supposed to make of "cancel culture"? (31:50-53:02) I feel like the last year has messed with my idea of joy, how do I reset it? (53:07-1:11:14) Closing Song: Though The Mountains (The Yearwoods) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

1 Corinthians 13:11 says to put off childish things, but Jesus said to come to him like a child. What am I missing? (16:44-31:07) Why do I have trouble concentrating when I pray? (31:12-46:36) I have a friend who has experienced trauma around church and religion. How do I speak about my faith with them without hurting them? (46:40-1:01:48) Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division) The picture we discuss in the emergency: https://twitter.com/mattkinger/status/1369436223538888706?s=20 Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

What is the purpose of marriage, practically? (16:30-31:19) A relative created a situation that got me in trouble with my landlord, now the whole thing is a big mess. How do I deal with all the freak out this is causing me? (31:24-49:34) How to you proceed when you mean well but still fall short? (49:39-1:04:06) Closing Song: Deuteronomy 31:6 (The Poolhouse Guru)  Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

God gave me a great job. How do I make sure I am not overworking? (14:42-27:47) My boyfriend isn't gentle with me, and that bothers me. Is it a big problem? (27:52-43:46) What does 2 Thessalonians 1:11 mean "make you worthy of his calling"? (42:50-57:50) Closing Song: He Giveth More Grace (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

How do I balance being a good partner with making sure I'm doing self-care? (18:09-27:06) I feel like every time my life gets better, I mess it up. How does got want me to handle this? (27:11-38:08) What are Christians supposed to do about friends and family who believe in QAnon? (38:13-1:00:00) Closing Song: Four Good Reasons (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I love people I really, really disagree with? (17:52-32:17) How can you make or maintain friendships with people you don't see regularly? (32:22-46:10) The Bible says I am "free" from sin. But I am going to be always be a sinner. So what does that mean? (46:15-1:01:58) Closing Song: I Am Free (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I don't know how to feel about my parents. They were always there for me, but there was also a lot of violence and screaming. My friends tell me that is abuse, but my parents say it's just our culture. How do I know who to believe? (18:36-38:01) How do you make and maintain friendships when there is regular context (church, school, etc) to meet up? (38:19-53:11) I know someone who is going back and forth in life. I want to be there for them, but I also get mad at them. How does God want me to handle this? (53:16-1:07:21) Closing Song: Rooted (Kyle Sigmon) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I involve God in setting my goals? (13:40-29:54) I have tried to keep my politics and faith separate, but that seems to be getting harder. What interaction should politics and faith have? (30:02-51:11) Why does Jesus call the disciples "you of little faith"? (51:15-1:09:28) Closing Song: Before The Throne (Fire Down) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I am struggling with the physical aspect of my marriage. What do I do? (13:44-33:30) I have been learning about church history and how much conflict and division there has been. What does that mean for us today? (33:35-54:13) How do keep going when the abyss seems to be closing in? (54:19-1:12:47) Closing Song: Little Light (Deacons Division) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)