Can A Playa Play?

IF I'VE CHEATED  MORE THAN ONCE OR TWICE AND YOU KEEP TAKING ME BACK ,WHEN DO YOU GET SOME OF THE BLAME , IF IM SO BAD FOR YOU WHY DO YOU KEEP TAKING  ME BACK ? SERIOUSLY THIS IS WHO I AM ,SO STOP FRONTIN FOR YOUR FRIENDS , WE'RE PLAYING DEVILS ADVOCATE !

IT IS ONE OF THE MOST UNDERAPPRECIATED ROLES MEN CAN PLAY BUT IT COMES WITH A HEFTY PRICE TAG EMOTIONALLY ,FINANCIALLY,AND SPIRITUALLY. WE'RE EXPECTED TO STAND TALL ALL THE TIME BUT WE'RE NEVER GIVEN A HANDBOOK ,THIS YOUR DAY GENTLEMEN

WHAT THE HELLLLL ? CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IS WRONG WITH US ? BY SAYING US I MEAN "BROTHERS' HAVE WE BUMPED OUR HEADS,OR ARE WE UNDER SOME KIND OF SPELL THAT WE CAN'T EVEN ATTEMPT TO FIND A BETTER SET OF WOMEN TO ATTATCH TO OUR HIPS WHEN WE BALLIN CLIMBING UP THE SOCIAL LADDER ,SERIOUSLY! ITS TIME FOR "PLAYAOLOGY " TO BE IN FULL EFFECT.

WE'RE BACK IN THE BUILDING ! KDIDDY AND PRETTY TONY  ARE  BACK STIRRING CONVERSATION UP , AND OFFERING THEIR CRAZY COLORFUL POINT OF VIEW ON THIS TOPIC, THEY WILL BE JOINED BY AUTHOR MJ DUFFY WHOSE BOOK "LOST LOVE '" OFFERS UP A DIFFERENT TWIST ON THE SUBJECT,, YOU KNOW WE ROLL ,SO BUCKLE UP ,AND TUNE IN YOU MIGHT LEARN SOMETHING OR WE JUST MAY OFFEND YOU ,EITHER WAY WE COOL WITH IT.

THEY COME IN VAROUS SIZES AND AGE GROUPS AND RELATIONS, YOU THINK THIS PERSON IS ON MY TEAM BUT LO AND BEHOLD THE TRUTH REVEALS ITSELF , AND DAMN YOU JUST CANT BELIEVE.. WHO THE F#@# KNEW ... 

ARGUING ABOUT STUPID THINGS,NITPICKING,LETTING LIFE JUST PAST YOU BY,UNTIL SOMETHING CRITICAL OR TRAGIC SNAPS YOU BACK TO REALITY

I GOT ISSUES ,BUT I'M WORKING ON ME ,WHAT ARE YOU DOING? ITS ALWAYS SOMETHING ,DRAMA,DRAMA ISSUES ,ISSUES,YOU'RE TRAPPED IN THAT NEGATIVE MIND STATE

WHAT MANNER OF MADNESS IS THIS ? DEALING WITH YOU IS LIKE A CONSTANT ROLLER COASTER RIDE ,AND I'M NEVER SURE WHAT TO EXPECT!

PEOPLE SEE AND BELIEVE WHAT THEY WANT TO,FROM THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN WE SEE ONE THING BUT FROM THE INSIDE LOOKING OUT "THEY" SAY ITS ANOTHER,,,SO THAT BEGS THE QUESTION WHAT RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU IN???

HOW IS IT THAT OUR LIVES AND THOUGHTS ARE DOMINATED BY THE TIP OF OUR DICKS AND THE THROB OF THE CLITORIS .THE ILLOGICAL DECISIONS, AND CRAP THAT WE PUT UP WITH,,, AND TUNE IN FOR THE NEXT LEVEL OF 21ST CENTURY SEX....

WE'VE BEEN PROGRAMMED SINCE BIRTH AND BEYOND TO GROW UP CONFORM ,BLEND IN , HOW CAN THIS BE FREEDOM . IMAGES BEING PROGRAMMED IN OUR HEADS,WHAT ARE OUR RIGHTS?  WHERE DO WE TRULY STAND?

AT WHAT POINT ARE WE GOING TO TRULY AWAKE FROM THIS SLUMBER , WHAT HAVE  WE TRULY GIVEN UP OR LET SLIP AWAY FROM US AS A NATION ,AS A RACE . IS ANY BODY LISTENING TO THE CRIES OF THE AVERAGE PERSON?

SOMEWHERE ,SOMEHOW ,WE'VE BEEN MISLED,WE'VE TAKEN THE HUMANITY OUT OF OUR SOCIAL STRUCTURE AND REPLACED IT WITH BIAS ,GREED OVER CHARITY ,IDIOTIC IDEOLOGY,AND LEADERSHIP THAT IS SEVERELY LACKING. JUSTICE SEEMS TO BE A MYTHICAL TALE IF YOU'RE NOT OF A CERTAIN CLASS

THAT BROTHER AIN'T ISH , HE DON'T EVEN HELP ME WITH THE BABY ,I'M TAKING HIM TO COURT, BUT SOMETIMRES THERE IS TWO SIDES TO THIS STORY, AND THE BROTHERS SIDE IS OFTEN DISREGARDED BUT WE HERE TO REPRESENT FOR THE BROTHERS,

HOW YOU WANT "RESPECT'' WHEN YOU DONT EVEN RESPECT YOURSELF ? YOUR ACTIONS DO NOT WARRANT MY GOOD NATURE AND KINDNESS, MY HARDWORK IS NOT YOUR MEALTICKET. OHHHH THIS ONE IS BURNER!

YOU MUST BE A GLUTTON FOR PUNISHMENT OR SOMETHING, YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE WHO JUST DISHES OUT VERBAL OR PHYSICAL ABUSE, EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND YOU JUST KEEP RIGHT ON ROLLING THEY TELL YOU "I DONT CARE IF YOU STAY OR LEAVE!' DOOR MAT DANNY ,THIS SHOW IS FOR YOU  P.L.A.Y.A.O.L.O.G.Y

YOU TELL ME I AINT S@# I TELL YOU THAT I NEED A BETTER WOMAN, BACK AND FORTH ,WE GO TRYING TO ESTABLISH DOMINANCE, THIS HEADACHE CONTINUES ,BUT WE'RE STILL TOGETHER

STRONG WOMAN ,,huH! OR IS IT THAT SHE HITCHED ON TO THE GRAVY TRAIN EARLY TO REAP THE REWARDS . OR DID SHE REALLY MOLD THIS MAN INTO A WINNER WITH HER GUIDANCE . LETS TALK ABOUT THIS AND DECIDE ,,

ITS BLACK HISTORY MONTH AGAIN AND AS ITS OUR ANNUAL ROUTINE TO ENSURE THAT WE EXAMINE OUR STRUGGLE ON THIS SHOW WE'RE DISCUSSING ,HOW THERE IS AN OVERIDING FEELING OF ISOLATION BY URBAN DWELLERS MORE SPECIFICALLY THE BLACK URBAN MALE.

SINCE LANGUAGE WAS DEVELOPED MEN AND WOMEN HAVE BEEN RUNNING GAME ON EACH OTHER ,EACH GENDER BLAMES THE OTHER,WOMEN SAY MEN ARE LIARS AND DOGS MEN SAY WOMEN CANNOT BE TRUSTED ,AND THEY STARTED THE GAME,GOING BACK TO THE GARDEN OF EDEN, LAST WEEK THE SHOW GOT REAL HEATED,AND WE'RE GONNA KEEP THE MADNESS GOING .